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How to Get a Girl to Fall in Love With You: 9 Cool Ways to Do It

How to Get a Girl to Fall in Love With You: Be a Real Man

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How can you get a girl to fall in love with you if you think she is a great girl, and you have admired her for a long time, and you are dying to have a relationship with her so that you can show her how much you love her? What are some of the smart things you can do to make this dream come true?

1.     Be a Teacher

If you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, you must demonstrate to her that you know a lot more about the world than she knows, and you must also let her know you are very knowledgeable about some of the things that interest women most, such as fashion, beauty, skin care, and the like. When you are able to let her know that you have an interest in these things, and you even give her tips on how to dress well, foods and the lifestyle you should live if you want to look beautiful, and she applies this knowledge and sees it is working, her admiration for you will soar, and her attraction for you will become stronger, and this attraction may eventually lead her to fall in love with you.

Therefore, decide to school yourself in fashion, beauty, skin care, the right perfumes that are suitable for different kinds of girls, makeup, good hair care etc. Read wide on these topics so that you can drop some of these tips when you are having conversations with her. When she sees your knowledge in these areas, she will die for more of your time, and as you spend more time together, love can develop.

How can you get a girl to fall in love with you? Become knowledgeable in the things that interest women.

2.     Learn How to Write Great Love Poems

One thing that girls love a lot is to hear love words that extol their virtues, and also to hear romantic words. These things touch their hearts and make them sentimental.

If you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, then learn how you can write customized love poems for her.

  • The Songs of Solomon, in the Bible, is a good place to start. Learn some of the techniques which Solomon, who was a great lover, used to get about one thousand women to fall in love with him.
  • Also, there are many websites that teach how to write good poems.
  • Just Google “How to write a romantic poem for a girl,” or “How to write a love poem for a girl you love.” Choose one or two of those websites and study how you can write a poem that is specifically targeted at the girl you are interested in. this means you will include her specific physical and character attributes in the poem.
  • On weekends, or on days when the two of you have some leisure time, and the moon is smiling down on the Earth, and there are millions of stars in the sky shining down on you, take her to a romantic spot, such as a lakeside, or a botanical garden, or a quiet forest, or the beach. Let her sit at your feet, and then read the poem you have written for her, to her. Make it personal by making sure her name appears in the poem. Smile into her face and read it in a mellow, romantic, smooth voice, whilst looking into her eyes.
  • This act of romance you show can work wonders on her emotions and make her see you are a very romantic guy, and that can cause her to fall in love with you because girls like guys who are very romantic.

So, if you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, learn the art of writing good love poems, and excite her heart to love by reading these poems to her once in a while.

3.     Learn to Sing

One thing you can do to get a girl to fall in love with you is to sing love ballads to her. When a girl hears you singing love words, in the form of a song, to her, it will stimulate romantic feelings in her, and she may fall in love with you because of that.

  • If you are worried about the fact that you do not have a good voice, you should not worry because you can improve your voice if you practice singing every day. Sing when you are going to the bathroom, when you are alone in your room, and when you are alone in the house.
  • You must also remind yourself that you do not necessarily have to sing like a professional musician before your singing can achieve the purpose for which you are singing. The important thing is to put together a group of words that will show that you can pass romantic energy on to a girl to influence her to think that you are a romantic guy, so that she will want to be with you often.
  • It will be to your advantage to also learn how to play the guitar, or how to play a piano, or keyboards, so that you can put together great love songs for her.
  • Then, find special times when you can be alone with her, and sing whilst you play the piano or guitar. She will be touched, and it may influence her to fall in love with you.
  • Organize a small party for her. Invite about five or ten of your close friends, and about ten of her close friends. Sing a song you have specially written for her. It will increase her affection for you because you think she is so special as to deserve a song written specially for her. She will fall in love with you because of this.

Singing to a girl is one way to get a girl to fall in love with you fast.

4.     Learn How to Cook

One thing that girls find very sexy is a guy who knows how to cook. It makes you look extraordinary and special, and girls like guys who are not like every other guy.

So, ask her about her favorite meals. Then, spend time to learn how to prepare those meals so that you can surprise her on a special occasion, such as her birthday, or a day when she achieves something great, such as academic success, or she gets a promotion at work. Invite her to your place and cook the meal for her. She will be so impressed, and her admiration for you will go high, and that can make her develop a strong affection for you.

Learning how to cook, and impressing the girl with your cooking skills, is one way to get a girl to fall in love with you.

5.     Try to Become Popular

Girls are attracted to guys who are popular, and who a lot of people talk about. Therefore, if you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, harness your potential, and sharpen your talents which can make you become popular:

  1. If you have good soccer skills, develop that talent by practicing constantly so that you can make it to the school team and represent your school.
  2. If you are good in acting, perfect your talent so that you can get roles for plays performed by the school drama group.
  3. If you know how to play a musical instrument, keep practicing at it so that you can join the school band.
  4. If you are good at designing clothes, or painting, or reading, whatever talent you have, aim for excellence. Excellence will open up opportunities to you, you will become famous, and that will attract many girls to you. You can then look for the a girl you feel attracted to from among the lot, and develop a relationship with her so that she can fall in love with you.
  5. If you are a worker, work hard so that you can earn a promotion, and when a girl sees that you are earning more money, she will be attracted to you, and fall in love with you.
  6. Strive for academic excellence, if you are in school, and that excellence will propel your name all around school, making you popular, which will make girls get attracted to you. You can then take advantage of their attraction to date one you like.

6.     Tell Her Romance Stories

One thing you can do to get a girl to fall in love with you is to tell her romance stories. Girls like to hear stories. When you are a guy and you can develop the skill of storytelling, especially telling a girl romance stories, you can get the girl to fall in love with you.

There is this female friend of mine who told me she was attracted to, and fell in love with her present boyfriend, because he was good at telling stories. And I am sure there are many girls like her who will develop affection for a guy when he can tell them good romance stories.

So, master the art of telling good stories. When you watch romance movies and you love them, or when you read romance novels and you love the stories, practice saying the story all over again to yourself, or to your siblings. Also, when you meet your male friends, repeat it to them. When you are eating as a family in the evening, say a summary of the story to the whole family. All these practices will help you to improve your storytelling skills.

Then, later, when you meet the girl, tell her some of these stories, or romance stories you create yourself. She will ask for more if you tell them well, and this can strengthen your friendship, and cause romantic feelings to grow between the two of you.

7.     Be a Real Man

A girl wants a guy who is a real guy, that is, a guy who is bold, confident, courageous, and someone she will be proud to go out with.

So, if you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, you must exhibit these qualities:

  1. You must treat girls with respect.
  2. You must be a helpful person.
  3. You must be a leader who takes the initiative to solve problems, and who shows courage in dangerous situations.
  4. You must have a vision and purpose for your life.

Exhibiting these qualities will make you attractive to a girl, and she will want so much to have a relationship with you.

So, if you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, be a man who exhibits the qualities enumerated above.

8.     Be Playful

One way to get a girl to fall in love with you is to exhibit a playful, childish character when you are around her. This will tell her that you are great fun to be with, and that she will have fun-filled days when she associates herself romantically with you. This could influence her to fall in love with you.

  • Therefore, try to shed a bit of your “I am a mature man,” or “I must be serious because I am old” attitude.
  • Relax and have fun.
  • Tickle her, tease her, get her to play soccer, or basketball, or dance with you. Become a child again, and you could get a girl to fall in love with you.

9.     Be Extremely Caring

One of the surest ways you can get a girl to fall in love with you is to exhibit a very caring nature which shows tenderness.

  • One way to do this is to write an article about the girl, in which you state how wonderful she is as a person.
  • Then, upload this article onto a free blogging site such as com or Blogger.com.
  • Post it together with a picture of the girl you are interested in.
  • Then, alert her to what you have done and let her read it.

When she thinks about the fact that she means so much to you, as to influence you to spend time, money, and energy to let the whole world  know about her great personality, she will see how you care about her, and she can develop affectionate feelings for you, and fall in love with you.

Conclusion

In addition to the tips mentioned above, if you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, approach her well, make her feel special, learn how to date her well, show her love,  and learn how you can make her attracted to you.

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How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You Again: 7 Ways to Capture Her Heart Once More

How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You Again: Make Her Feel She Belongs to You

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You may have had a fight with your girlfriend, or cheated on her, or broken up with her for another reason. This may have led her to lose her love for you. But you realize you are still in love with her and want her back. How can you make your girlfriend love you again and renew her relationship with you?

Below, I share with you things you need to do to make your girlfriend fall in love with you again.

1.     Consider How You Acted in the Past

If you want to make your girlfriend fall in love you again, take one whole day and ruminate on what caused you to behave the way you did, if you are responsible for the breakup, or what you could have done to act differently so that both of you would not have parted ways, if she was responsible for the separation.

  • Find a quiet spot or place, such as an empty school classroom, or your own room(if you will not be disturbed), or an isolated park, where you can really think without any distractions keeping you from considering all the important points you need to think about.
  • Sit with a pen and writing pad.
  • Try to remember the issues that caused your relationship to come to a halt. For example, if you remember that it was your cheating on your girlfriend which caused the relationship to breakup, note it as point 1 in your writing pad.
  • Write down how you, as a person, contributed to making the cheating happen. For example, if you cheated because you just felt like having fun with another girl, note it down. If you cheated because you saw this gorgeous girl who swept you off your feet, and who looked extremely alluring and tempting, and who gave you so much attention that you forgot about your girlfriend and succumbed to her temptation, write it down. Similarly, write down all the ways in which you contributed to making the breakup happen.
  • Write down what your girlfriend did which pushed you to do what you did. For example, if you cheated because she was nagging too much, or she was too demanding, or she was not giving you enough attention, write them down.
  • Think about, and write down, the ways in which you think you can deal with the things that caused you to do what made the breakup come about. For example if you cheated, you can write that you will be careful how you associate with other girls other than your girlfriend from now on, or you will make sure you communicate more effectively with your girlfriend, or you will learn to resolve issues better when conflicts come up so that you will not find comfort in another girl, or you resolve now to be determined to remain faithful to your girlfriend from now on.
  • Write down what you think your girlfriend should do so that you will be satisfied and comfortable in the relationship, so that you will never try to seek that comfort with another girl ever again.
  • Think about how the breakup has cost you, what it has done to you emotionally and psychologically, for example the minutes of love or companionship from your girlfriend which you have missed. Also, think about how the issue has affected your girlfriend, and the ways it has made her suffer. Let these thoughts make you feel sorry about what you did, and make the thoughts help you to resolve never to repeat the mistake again.
  • Identify how you can improve your character as a person, and what you can do to become a better lover. For example, if you identify that being inconsiderate was the reason why your girlfriend left, what do you think you can do to become more considerate of her? If you broke up with her because she was self-centered, what are the ways you can help her to become a more selfless girl?
  • Make three copies of what you wrote down, and keep one copy.
  • Work on your inner man and your attitude to life. There is no better book in the world to help you do this than the Bible. It is the roadmap for life and you will find a lot of useful advice in it which can help shape your spirit, and your soul, and this shaping will help you to relate to your girlfriend better. The books of Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Songs of Solomon, and the Psalms hold nuggets of wisdom which can help you to shape up your life better. Read your Bible every day, and pray to God to make you a better person, and you will see a transformation in your life which will impact positively on your relationship.
  • Learn all about loving a woman again and be committed to applying the knowledge you pick up to make her feel truly loved in the future.

Looking to the past so that you can make changes to your attitude is the first step you must take when you want to make your girlfriend love you again.

2.      Let Her See What She Is Missing

If you want to make your girlfriend love you again, you need to add value to yourself so that she will see she is missing something, and that she is the one losing and not you, so that she will find you attractive again and want to be in a relationship with you again, and that may instigate her to love you again.

Therefore, if you are in school, endeavor to work very hard at your books so that you can better your grades and achieve academic excellence. When you get excellent grades, let everybody know about it, and make sure the news gets to her. If you are a worker, double your efforts at work so that you may be considered for promotion, or even be promoted.

Adding value to yourself can act as a pull factor to draw your girlfriend back to you because she will feel she is missing out on being with this great guy.

Make sure you look even more attractive by dressing even better now than when you were with her. Look even more confident, smile as you walk about, and let everyone around you see that you are at peace with yourself, and with the world.

When you meet her in public, smile into her face and greet her civilly. Ask her how she is faring, and tell her about how your life is prospering since you left her, or since she left you. This is one way to make your girlfriend fall back in love with you again.

3.     Make the Move

When you feel you are over what caused the breakup, and you think you have assessed yourself thoroughly and you want to go forward and reunite with her, then make efforts to contact your girlfriend.

  • You may decide to contact her yourself, if the nature off the breakup was not acrimonious.
  • You may use her close friends or her relatives to drop hints that you want to meet her and have an honest discussion with her.
  • Invite her over to your place for a drink, or to watch a movie together, if she will be willing to oblige you. As the man, you must take the initiative to solve relationship problems, and that is what you demonstrate when you invite her to your place, and not vice versa. It shows leadership, and will help you establish your authority over her again if the relationship works out again.
  • On the day you are going to have the discussion with her at your place, create a romantic atmosphere for both of you. This is very crucial if you want to make your girlfriend love you again. Play her favorite love songs in the room where you will hold the discussions, place a picture of both of you at an advantageous place where she will see it immediately she comes to the place. The music will touch her emotions and make her sentimental, whilst the picture will remind her of the wonderful times you had in the past, and these two things may bring back fresh, love memories into her mind. The memories may influence her and make her have fresh love feelings for you if, subsequently, you say the right things.

4.     Remind Her You Are Human

You have to use the argument of your humanness to make your girlfriend fall in love with you again. Take the opportunity of the meeting to remind her that you are only human, and so would make mistakes.

  • Apologize sincerely for your contribution to what led to her losing her love for you.
  • Tell her you have reflected deeply on what happened, and you have seen you erred greatly. Let her know because of your humanness, you succumbed to the weakness, but just as there are many humans who have messed up terribly in life and have bounced back, you also feel you will bounce back and love her even more than you used to love her if she will just give you another chance.
  • You can use the stories of Peter, or David, or the gentleman in Judges 19 in the Bible to support your case. Read how these two men messed up, and how they came back to redeem themselves, and use the lessons you learn from these two stories to convince her that it is possible for a person to mess up terribly, but to become even better than he was later, when he is forgiven and given a second chance.
  • Show what you have written down to her to make her know that you are serious about tackling your weaknesses and improving your attitude. Give her one copy of what you wrote down, and give her a third copy to be given to a person of her choice who will act as an “overseer” and see to it that you act by what you have written down. This can influence her and make her fall in love with you again because she will see you are bent on really loving her, and this may make her more willing to give you her heart again.
  • Show you have changed when you are having this discussion. If you used to speak to her in harsh tones, speak in a slow, measured way. If you were unromantic before, use romantic words as you speak to her. Call her “honey,” or “love,” or “sugar,” as you speak to her. You must say things, or do something whilst you are with her to make her see that you have changed. This will influence her to want to renew her feelings for you again. This can make your girlfriend love you again.

5.     Remind Her of Her Humanness

You can point out a woman’s faults to her and let her see that what happened to you can also happen to her, if you want to make your woman fall in love with you again.

  • Make your girlfriend remember that she has also done things to hurt you in the past. Remind her of specific things she did to hurt you when you were together. For example, if there was an occasion on which she neglected you, or if she insulted you once, or if she got angry because you were not in a position to buy her a smartphone in the past, remind her of how her reaction hurt you, and the way you decided to let go because you loved her and wanted the relationship to progress. And tell her that just as you forgave, she should find it in her heart to forgive you.
  • Point out the specific things she did to make you lose your love for her, that is her contribution to the breakup or fight. Let her see she also has to carry some of the blame. Then discuss what you can do to make compromises so that you can renew your love again.
  • Give her a copy of what you wrote down as evidence that you will do things differently now.

6.     Tell Her the Rewards You Will Give Her

  • If you want to make a girl love you more again, then tell her you are still capable of loving her, and you want to show her even greater love. Assure her of your love for her. Give her evidence by showing her all the information on loving a woman again which you have gathered. This will tell her that you mean business, and it may influence her to throw down the wall which she may have built in her heart, and give you full access to her heart again.
  • Tell her the kind of love you will use to love her this time, which will be consistent, stable, undying, everlasting love.
  • When you renew your relationship, do even more than you told her you would do. Shower so much love on her that she will even beg you to reduce the amount of love you are giving her! It will make your girlfriend fall madly in love with you again.

7.     Make Her Feel She Belongs to a Relationship With You

If you want to make a girl fall in love with you again, you must make her see that you were a great couple, and she can become an important part of your life again and make you a better person if she comes back.

  • Let her know how she impacted on your life, and how important she is to you. For example, you can say something like, “I had low self-esteem until I met you and you made me feel I was the greatest guy in the whole world,” or “I never knew love until you taught me how to love.” This will make her know she is important to you, and it will make her feel she has an unfinished job to do, which is to love you and help make you a better person. It may influence her to love you again.
  • Let her know you need her presence, and make her feel she’s needed by your side. You can say something such as, “I really miss you, Ama. A hole has been created in my heart since you left. I remember the delicious recipes you used to prepare for me? I remember the words of love you used to share with me. We were so good together. Hmmm! Ama, I need you. I want you back in my life. Please consider giving your heart to me again.”

Conclusion

If you want to make your girlfriend love you again, do the things mentioned above in addition to making your girlfriend feel very important, showing her you care, making sure you keep things exciting in the relationship, and trying to get her to refresh her feelings for you, and you will keep her forever.

How did you make your girlfriend love you again? What was the magic formula you used? Let the world know by leaving a comment. Thank you.

How to Attract Girl: 11 Incredible Ways to Make Her Your Girl

How to Attract a Girl: Look Attractive and She Will Love You

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How can you attract a girl towards you for love so that you can date her and make her your girlfriend? In this article, I want to give you tips of  how to attract a girl.

So, what are some of the things you can do?

1. Look Attractive

Studies have shown that guys with broad shoulders look attractive to girls.

If you are in a condition to exercise, then there are certain exercises which you can do to help you to develop broad shoulders so that  you will be attractive to a girl. Here are a few of them:

Exercise 1

Stand in a doorway, midway between the two door jambs. Place one hand against each jamb, about shoulder high. Push hard against both jambs

Exercise 2

Whilst standing, extend both arms forward and clasp your hands together. Press hard, both hands trying to push each other “away,” with as much force as possible.

Exercise 3

For this exercise you need dumbbells.

  1. Begin the exercise with a 10 pound dumbbell in each hand, weights held at shoulder level. Your feet should be about 12 inches apart and your body comfortably well balanced.
  2. Raise one dumbbell overhead, breathing in as the weight is pressed up.
  3. Lower the dumbbell back to your shoulder , breathing out as you return the weight to the starting position.
  4. Repeat the exercise 10 times with your other arm.
  5. You can also decide to perform the exercise with two dumbbells raised simultaneously.

These exercises will put you in great shape and make you look sexy and appealing to the girl, and help you to attract a girl. This is how to attract a girl by looks!

2. Look Bold

Walk about with your chest pulled out, with a straight back, and with your head looking up. This will tell everybody, including the girl you like and want to attract, that you are sure of yourself, and that you have the courage to face the challenges you will meet in this life. A guy walking about like that looks attractive. It is one way to attract a girl without talking.

Walking in this manner also  tells a girl that you can protect her when she needs protection, and it can influence her to be attracted to you.

3. Have the Right Perspective

You cannot treat something with care if you do not value it. In the same way, you cannot treat  girls with care and make them feel good if you do not value them.

Some guys see girls as objects to be used to fulfill sexual desires, and then to be dumped after you have used them for your pleasure.

If you want to be able to attract a girl for love, then you must value girls. When you value girls, you see a relationship with a girl as a privilege that must not be exploited negatively, but as a relationship that must be well cherished and nurtured with extreme care and love. Such a mentality will make you want to treat any girl you are attracted to with love.

Treat the girls in your class and your female friends with dignity.

When the girl you are interested in and want to attract sees that you treat all girls well, she will feel comfortable with your attitude and want to date you.

On the other hand when she sees, or gets to know that you do not value girls, she will feel she will also get this same kind of treatment when she dates you, and she will not be attracted to you

4. Treat Your Female Relatives Well

If you have a sister, treat her with delicate care and let the girl see that you love her very much. Hug her in public, hold hands with her, kiss her on her cheek, tell her you love her to show to the girl the kind of affection she is missing by not being in a relationship with you, and to show her the kind of love you will show to her if she decides to become your girlfriend.

If you do not have a sister, show this affection to your female cousins or nieces.

This action will make you attract a girl mentally. She will start to think about the way you treat your female relatives, and think that you are a wonderful guy. She will want to know you more, and she may strike up a friendship with you so that she can get to know you better.

5. Be Charming

Be nice to her and make her feel that you are a nice guy to have around as a friend. Use “Please”  a lot when you are conversing with her. For example “Please give me that pen,” or “Please help me with this Science problem.” This will tell her that you are a polite guy. Girls like to go out with polite guys who act like gentlemen, and who treat girls with respect.

Say nice things to her regularly about her hairstyle, her dress, her shoes, her figure, or some other part of her body which you think is beautiful, and she will adore you for it. Girls like to hear sweet things said to them, and when you can muster the courage to say nice things to her regularly, she will be attracted to you and like you because you think she is a beautiful and great girl. This is a way to attract a girl romantically using words.

Also, share things with her. When you buy an ice cream and she is around, buy one for her. When you are going to grab a bottle of Coke and meat pie for lunch, buy  some for her. You do not need to do this every day, but once in a while let her see that you are not a selfish guy but an altruistic guy who likes to share, even if you  only have a little to share.

Compliment Yourself  Too

You cannot give what you do not have. You cannot think she is a nice girl if you do not think you are a great guy. So first of all, compliment yourself. When you put on clothes and you think you look great in them, say to yourself, “Johnny Wascaracha, you look great in your pants and shirt today!” or you can say, “Johnny Wascaracha your haircut is superb!” when you have a new haircut. With time, this will become your second nature, so it will not be difficult for you to say it to a girl to make her feel attracted to you.

6. Understand Girls

Some guys look down on girls and treat them as inferior beings who do not deserve to be given any kind of respect by a guy because they feel guys are superior to girls.

If you want to attract a girl, you should not have this mentality, and you should not display open disrespect for girls. It will only make you unattractive to girls, and no girl will want to date you.

Girls like talking a lot. Sometimes when they talk they don’t want you to say anything, but just to listen. You must know this so that you will not try to give her solutions to problems every time she comes complaining to you about one thing or another.  Understanding a girl and responding appropriately to her changing moods will please her , and she will grow to like you more.

You must also understand that girls can become complex at certain times of the month; sometimes they become easily irritated, moody, or can seem unfriendly. Understanding this and being patient, even if she behaves strangely, will make you “score more points in her eyes,” and make her like you even better because she will see you as a  caring guy.

7.  Respect Her

Don’t treat her ideas as if you think she has no brain in her cranial space. Give her some credit which will show that you know she is also an intelligent human being created by God. Respect her ideas and opinions concerning issues you will discuss.

She is more likely to like you if you value her thoughts on issues.

Do not brush aside her views and comments, treat them with disdain, and say things like “What do women know?” or “Girls are too emotional. You think too little, and react to everything with your heart.” She is bound to be hurt when she knows this is how you feel about the members of her gender. She will dislike you and find you repulsive, and there is no way you will get her to date her.

8. Show That You Are a Great Guy

Girls are attracted to famous guys, and to guys who do great deeds. If you want to attract a  girl you love, show that you are a great guy and do something great!

One way you can show you are great is to serve the people around you. Do kind things for orphans, or the elderly, or the physically challenged in your community. Also, do kind acts for your friends, and for her friends as well. Word will surely get to her about how chivalrous you are , and it will make her admire you and want to become close to you

9. Be Funny

If you want to attract a girl you like, and make her love you, then make her laugh. Having  a good sense of humor, and exhibiting it, makes a guy exciting, interesting, and fun to be with. It also makes a guy attractive to a girl.

Therefore, try to be as funny as you can be. Practice being funny with your sisters or brothers, and also try to make your close friends laugh. Once you build this reputation and develop this habit, you will find it easier to make your dream girl laugh her heart out when you are in her company.

10. Don’t  Be Jealous

Do not feel threatened when you see her going out with other guys, or when you see her talking with other guys. Let her see that you feel secure about yourself, and you feel confident enough to give her  room to develop her association with other guys. Let her see those guys, but show to her by your attitude and your actions that she will be far better off dating you than any of those other guys, and she will choose you above them. Just continue to work on her heart by saying good things to her and showing her you care, and she will be attracted to you and date you with time. This is how to attract a girl to fall in love.

11. Tell Her Stories

A female friend told me once that girls like to hear stories. That particular girl said she was attracted to her boyfriend because he tells such interesting stories. She thought it was so romantic.

I am sure there are more girls like her. This is one method you can use to attract a girl to love you! Therefore master this art and use it to your advantage. Tell her some interesting things that have happened to you in your life, such as an embarrassing situation you went through, or your worst day on Earth, or stories about the girls you have liked in the past, or something funny that happened between you and your sister. It will make you look more interesting to her, you will become closer friends, and you will gain her trust when you share personal stories like these.  When a girl trusts a guy, she feels comfortable with him, and is more likely to like him and to be attracted to him, than when she does not trust him.

Conclusion

If you learn how to attract a girl, and adopt the right approach, you can get an opportunity to date her, develop  a close relationship with her, and make her love you. The important thing is to make her feel special always, show her love, and you will be able to keep her till you marry her one day.

How to Keep Your Girlfriend: 16 Smart Ways to Go About It

How to Keep Your Girlfriend: Acknowledge Her

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How can you keep your girlfriend attracted to you, and in love with you till you can make the commitment to marry her?

 

1. Be a True Companion

We usually enter a relationship because we feel lonely, or do not want to spend our life alone but with someone who will share our space and be a friend we can always count on.

 A girl wants a true companion she can share her life with. Some guys are in relationships but are not companions; they do not offer time for the girl to share her intimate heart’s feelings and emotions with them.

If you want to keep your girlfriend interested, then be a true companion. Keep your girlfriend company. Devote time to her for her to share ideas with you in a peaceful and enjoyable atmosphere.

 

2. Comfort Her

Every girl has weaknesses and faces trials and temptations. A girl wants a guy who will have the patience to understand her weaknesses, trials, temptations, her low level of moral endurance, and who will, even when she messes up, carefully speak words of healing which will correct her and make her a stronger woman.

Girls also want guys who will be loving and do affectionate acts that will bring joy and peace to the relationship.

If you want to keep your girlfriend, be patient with her and try to understand her weaknesses, and help her to overcome them—this is how to keep your girlfriend in love. Comfort your girlfriend, speak words of healing when she makes mistakes, try to help her to overcome her weaknesses, be loving and affectionate, and you will be able to keep your girlfriend close and she will love you forever.

 

3. How to Keep Your Girlfriend From Other Guys—Protect  Her

A girl wants to feel safe when she is with a guy. You do not need to fight or exchange blows with another man, but at least you must demonstrate with your words to your girlfriend that she is secure when she is around you, and tell other guys to stay away from her because she belongs to you.

You can do this by making guys know that they cannot mess around with your girl, and that you will stand up to be counted and defend her to the best of your ability. Say it with all confidence, look fierce and bold, and guys will not want to come near your girlfriend.

 

4. Keep Her From Danger

One way you can protect her is to see beyond the present, look into the future, and give her advice, cautions, and assistance  which will help her  jump over some hurdles in life, or prevent danger and trouble in her life. For example, if she wants to start a business and you can do research and give her useful advice, she will cherish you for that. Also, if you see her developing a friendship which is likely to cause her problems in the future and you tell her honestly, stating the consequences of  that association clearly to her, and she sees reason, you will get your girlfriend’s attention and she will love you more when she sees you are doing it because you want to keep her safe.

 

5. Offer Her Security

When you give your girlfriend a comforting sense of belonging, if she feels you belong to her alone and she knows she is not sharing you with any other girl, it gives her peace of mind, and helps her to devote all her energy to the relationship, and it also makes her more willing to want to stay with you. This is one way to keep your girlfriend loyal, and to keep her happy.

If she knows you like jumping from girl to girl, she will not feel she has a future with you, and she may leave.

 

6. Do Not Only Hear Her, But Listen to Her

Women like to talk, and like to be listened to. It makes them feel very wanted when their guys hear, and also listen to them.

Hearing is to know that her voice is audible, and she is saying something. Listening is stopping whatever you are doing, giving her your full attention, looking into her face, and taking in whatever she wants to tell you, even if you don’t care about what she is saying.

When you do not listen to her, it gives her the feeling that you do not care about her inner thoughts, and this could make her unhappy with the relationship. But when you listen you show her you care a lot about what she has to say, and she will be happy about the relationship and want to continue being with you; this is a way to keep your girlfriend from breaking up with you.

 

7. Be Faithful

Let your girlfriend be the only girl you are seeing. Let her be more precious to you than anyone, apart from Jehovah, and let her know she holds a special place in your heart. This is one way to get your girlfriend comfortable, and to make her want to continue the relationship.

Some guys treat their friends and family with more respect, and give more attention and time to them, than they give to their girlfriends. Also, they place their love for their work, or other friendships, pastimes, or recreations  ahead of their relationship with their girlfriends.

If you want to keep your girlfriend, continue to have your close friends, and times of recreation, but devote more time to her than to the other things. It will keep your girlfriend calm and satisfied in the relationship.

 

8. Resolve Conflicts Amicably

You will most definitely have arguments, but you should not see your arguments as a challenge of your authority as the man, or as a boxing fight which must definitely be won by you. If you do that, you may tear down the relationship just to show that you can fight, and she may leave when she thinks she is being treated unfairly.

Instead, cooperate with her to fight the cause of the quarrels. Both of you should attack the problem, not the consequences of the problem.

 

9. Acknowledge Her

Make up your mind that your girlfriend does not owe you anything. Think that she owes you nothing, so that when she does anything for you, you will acknowledge it and see it as a precious gift she is giving to you. This will cause you to value her more, and she will be happier with you when she knows she is valued, it will keep your girlfriend crazy about you.

 

10. Make Sure You Are Great Fun

Your girlfriend will never leave you when you can make her happy always. How do you keep your girlfriend happy always? You can keep your girlfriend happy by  being great fun.

Some relationships break up because one partner is starved of fun by the other partner.

If you want to keep your girlfriend, then you will have to become a child again and make the relationship lively. Have a sense of playfulness, and a spirit of jollity and merriment. If you can adopt this attitude, and find ways to make even tough times great fun for her, you will keep her forever.

One good way to be great fun is to develop your sense of humor. Try and build up a catalogue of jokes, rehearse them often, practice them, and release them when you are together with her. Make her laugh and forget some of her stress, and she will always love your company, and want to be in a relationship with you.

Keep your girlfriend entertained and she will not want to leave you. It is also one way to keep your girlfriend from cheating on you.

 

11. Be Alert When You Are Around Her

Girls pay attention to detail, and sometimes think guys  also pay attention to detail. A girl wants you to notice it when she changes her lipstick, or when she starts doing her hair differently, or when she does manicure, or changes the color of her eye shadow, or when she wears a new shoe.

Keep your eyes open and notice changes you see in her, and tell her how beautiful it makes her look, or else you are in trouble. She will think you do not care about her when you do not notice these things.

Always remember that for some girls talking about how they look is a measure of your care and love for her. Therefore if you do not do it, they assume you do not love them, and that could cause a break up.

 

12. Don’t Be Manipulative

Manipulative people sometimes use shallow flattery as a ploy to get what they want.

If you are in the habit of flattering your girlfriend, and your girlfriend sees that you use it just to get her to do things for you, to take advantage of her, and she points it out to you but sees you are not willing to change, you will lose her trust, and she will fall out of love with you.

When you want her to do something for you, just negotiate with her. Let her know your needs, and her reward when she does something for you. This is more likely to motivate her, and to make her want to keep the relationship with you.

13. Don’t Be Proud

Pride takes many forms and sometimes shows itself  through an arrogant manner rooted in security. Proud people refuse to listen and face facts, refuse to admit wrongs when they make mistakes, vow never to say “I am sorry,” and refuse to negotiate.

If you want to keep your girlfriend, then you must not show pride in the relationship. If you are feeling insecure, work on your self-esteem and build up your confidence.

When you make mistakes, be humble enough to admit that you are a human and will make mistakes, and your girlfriend will be happy to stay with you. You do not lose anything when you apologize to a woman. It does not make you less of a man, and does not make your height reduce by an inch!

When  you have disagreements, resolve to negotiate so that there will be peace.

 

14. Make Her Feel Special

If you want to keep your girlfriend, you must make her feel that she is the most cherished girl on earth by the way you treat her and set her apart in your heart.

 

15. Date Her Often

Many girls want to be courted regularly. They want their men to rekindle the fire that was lit when they first met. They want to be wined and dined. When you become so busy that you do not have time to date her again, she can feel emotionally neglected, and seek that emotional connection with another man. Some girls have left their guys, or had affairs behind the back of their boyfriends because their boyfriends stopped being romantic.

Therefore, date her. Rekindle your love from time to time.

 

16. Manage Her Expectations

Many girls enter relationships with wild dreams, most of which are unattainable. It is your duty as the guy to  know your girlfriend’s expectations and fantasies, and to manage them so that she does not end up feeling you do not love her, which can make her break up with you.

For example, if she thinks that a boyfriend should always be buying expensive gifts for his girlfriend, and you do not make her understand that she must learn to adapt to the economic strength of her boyfriend and be satisfied with the little he can do for her, she will become dissatisfied with what you can do for her, look for a man who can buy her those expensive gifts, and leave you.

 

Conclusion

Women need attention, and it must be your resolve to give her the utmost attention you can give her. If you do that, she will not break up with you, and you can enjoy your relationship to the fullest.

 

Are there any other ways you think you can keep your girlfriend? Let the world know by leaving a comment. Thank you.

How to Show a Girl You Love Her: 7 Great Ways to Let Her Know

How to Show a Girl You Love Her: Say Words of Love to Her

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How do you show a girl you love her? What are some of the things you can do to show a girl you adore and treasure her?

1. Do Not Pressure Her For Sex

God made sex for a purpose. He made sex so that married people will use it to strengthen the marriage bond, and  to get more tender feelings for their spouse. He  knew it could  lead to the birth of a child which would need the loving care of both  a father and a mother, that is why He said it is married people, who can take care of that responsibility, who should have sex.

Unfortunately in today’s world, many guys do not see anything wrong with sleeping with a girl when you are not married to her. But God sees everything wrong with it, and punishes people who engage in pre-marital sex.

God takes a very serious view of  having sex when you are not married. In the Bible days, God killed 23,000 people in one day because of  immorality. That is how serious He takes it! And immorality will be one of the reasons why some people will end up in hell, because it is a sin God hates.

If you want to show a girl, especially a Christian girl, that you love her, then you would definitely not want her to incur God’s wrath, which she can do if she sleeps with you out of wedlock. Therefore, you will not pressurize her to do something that will have devastating consequences for her. You will not ask her to sleep with you and sin, because you care so much about her and her soul. When you love someone, you care about the whole of that person, including the soul and eternal destination of the person you love.

If you want to show a girl you love her, then you will control your sexual urge, not force her or worry her to have sex with you and do the wrong thing, but wait till you can marry her before you sleep with her. This shows you respect her as a person, respect her body, and also that you respect her right to have control over her own body. This is one way to show  a girl you love her without saying it.

2. Say Words of Love to Her

If you want to show a girl you care and love her, you will say words of love to her often. Girls like  to hear nice and sweet words said to them. Therefore, if you want to show a girl you love her, or make a girl fall for you, say sweet, beautiful words to her often.

“I love you,” are words that most guys say often. But you can take it a step further by saying these words in creative ways to make it more appealing and romantic, since girls hear “I love you” all the time.

  • You can say something like, “My heart is an unending well that produces fresh feelings for you every time I see you, darling, and this well will never cease to continue pouring out tender feelings of adoration for you.”
  • You can say, “Honey, I felt so incomplete I think I was a half-person before I met you. You have brought the other half and made me whole and complete.”
  • You can say, “I know angels go with me wherever I go, but I don’t see them. But you are the angel that I see.”
  • This is another way you can put it: “My heart is a kingdom and you are the queen who looks after my kingdom, and you will rule in this kingdom forever.”
  • “You are so perfect, darling, and I am so into you that I don’t think I could ever have enough of you. If you were food, I know I would eat lots of you and still not be satisfied because I would want more and more of you,” is another way you can put it.
  • You can decide to put it this way too: “You deserve to own the world, and I know it does not belong to you. I really wish I could give you the whole world, but I will give you something which comes close to this world—my world.”
  • “Life without you is like the summer without the sun,” is another interesting way you can express your love for her.
  • You can also decide to take her hand, look deep into her eyes, and say in a low voice, “Darling, every time I see you, my love for you grows bigger, stronger, and sometimes it feels like my love for you is a bomb on the inside which can explode at any time.”

When you are able to put it more creatively, it will not sound like she has heard it before, she will not be bored, and will always look forward to the next time you will say something different in her ears, which will put more excitement into the relationship and add diversity and variety.

This is also how to show a girl you love her without spending money because you do not need to spend anything before giving her words of love.

3. Never Compare Her to Other Girls

Some guys are fond of comparing their girls to other girls. “I wish you had a more beautiful nose than you have,” or “I like the way Jennifer treats her boyfriend. I wish you would also treat me that way,”  are some of the ways some guys compare their girls to other girls.

If you are a guy who compares your girlfriend to other girls, you will dampen her spirit and make her feel she is in competition with another girl. This does not show love.

Instead, treat her as a unique girl, and make her feel special. Let her feel  that you are proud of her, but that there is always room for improvement.

If there is something you don’t like about her, find a nice way to tell her to improve and become a better girlfriend. For example, if you think she is not romantic enough, you can say something like, “Darling, you know you are a great girl. You mean so much to me, I adore you, and will adore you even more if you try to be more affectionate. I can assure you my love for you will become even heavier.” This is how to show a girl you love her more than anything, and because she wants you to love her more, she will try to be more romantic so that she can make you happy. Do not say something like, “Jennifer is always holding Mike’s hands . I think that is very romantic. She is great when it comes to the affection she shows to her boyfriend. I do not think you are doing well in that area. You should try to be more like her.”

Not comparing a girl to other girls is how to show a girl you really love her.

4. Watch Your Tongue

The tongue is a small organ, but it can cause great havoc, and destroy relationships when it is not controlled well. It is shut up inside the mouth by a barricade of teeth, and then by the door of the lips, and still it gets loose and sometimes can be full of deadly poison and stir up a relationship in the wrong way.

The tongue is also a poisonous drug. A poisonous drug does not need to be taken in large doses in order to be effective; a drop or two will usually be enough. Just so, the tongue does not need to utter long speeches in order to be poisonous. Boyfriends and girlfriends lash, rail, and accuse each other with the tongue.

The tongue is also a fire. Fire, when it is under control, is a great blessing to man: it can be used to cook, to drive the chill out of our homes, and also to warm our bodies. But when fire is out of control, it destroys and leaves a path of desolation and destruction.

When you use your tongue wrongly by disparaging your girlfriend, or criticizing her destructively too often, it does not show a girl that you love her, and can lead to quarrels, making the whole of your relationship like a blazing hell. Using your tongue wrongly is how to show a girl you do not love her anymore.

If you want to show a  girl you love her, then restrain your tongue from spewing out a lot of destructive criticisms; she will do things you do not like, but find nice ways to tell her without sounding unnecessarily condemnatory. If you do not do this, she can leave you and give you a headache.

Another way not to show a girl you love her is to lie about her. Poisonous lies from the tongue have destroyed many relationships because a guy told a lie or destroyed the reputation of a girl.

Your tongue is a concealed and dangerous weapon. It is in a wet place and likely to slip. You must constantly guard against using it to lie and gossip about a girl if you want to show her you love her.

Try to keep secrets she shares with you, and make sure you do not harm her reputation by telling others about certain bad habits she may show in private when she is alone with you.

Also, if you want to show a girl you love her, you should not have an inconsistent tongue which says words of love to her at one moment, and then at another time criticizes destructively, mocks, lies, and defames her. When you have a consistent tongue that says only words of love and criticizes constructively, you show a girl you love her a lot.

5. Appreciate Her

There is nothing more painful in this world than to give your heart to someone or to show love to someone and expect to be appreciated, only for that person to take you for granted.

If you want to show a girl you love her, appreciate her. Appreciation  can work wonders in your relationship if you do it often. It shows a girl you love her very much and  willing to do her best to love you in return.

If she cooks a meal for you, you can say something like, “You are a fantastic cook!”

If you and your partner are rusty with appreciations, giving them will feel a bit awkward at first.  But as long as you are sincere, you will be delighted by the new level of goodwill that will begin to spring up in your relationship like trees growing new leaves, when you appreciate her often.

Start with small things you may have been taking for granted for so long, like her beautiful nose, her nice legs, the way she encourages you when you are down, how she makes you laugh because of her sense of humor, kindness she shows to your siblings etc.

When you don’t appreciate a girl, it makes her feel you don’t love her anymore, and she may have second thoughts about the relationship.

6. Give Her a Gift She Will Never Forget

Carefully write down the story of how you met her, what you felt when you first saw her, how you used to think about her when you were developing feelings for her, some of the thoughts that came into your mind when you realized you loved her, and how she has impacted on you as a person and influenced you to become a better guy. Get it printed and bound, and present it to her as a gift to show her the change she has brought to your life. Alternately, you can have the words imprinted on a wooden plaque, which she can keep in her room to always remind herself of how much you cherish her. This is how to show a girl you love her with actions.

Whenever she looks at it and reads the words, she will feel proud that she has at least influenced the way one person in the world feels. It will also make her feel she is so important to you that you cherish the story of your love so much as to want to immortalize it. This is something precious she will treasure forever. This is how to show a girlfriend you love her so much.

7. Criticize Her Constructively When She is Doing the Wrong Thing

When you love someone, you punish that person in love to correct them when they are going off the right path.

If your girl is doing something detrimental to the survival of your relationship, punish her by confronting her and giving constructive criticism: Turn on the heat in wisdom and in love when it is required. This is how to show a girl you love her without telling her. If she is drifting from the relationship, for example if she is losing focus and not giving you the attention you desire, tell her in the face. And then tenderly bring her back into the relationship by telling her what you expect of her, and that your heart is still open to her.

Some guys think that when they criticize their girls, it will make them leave. Not criticizing her at all is how to show a girl you don’t  love her, because it shows you do not care about making her a better person. Criticizing her to make her a better lover will make her know you care about her and the relationship a lot, and make her love you even more if she is a thoughtful  and wise girl.

 

Conclusion

These are some of the ways you can show a girl you love her. If you practice them consistently, you will have a beautiful relationship.

How to Date a Girl: 8 Things You Need to Do If You Want to Get Her

How to Date a Girl: Show Her You Will Be a Good Lover

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How do you go about asking a girl for a date? What should you do? Below I show you how to date a girl you like, or who you know likes you.

 

1. Show Her You Will Be A Good Lover

A good lover pays attention to detail. A good lover cares about what impression people will have of him, and how that impression will also rub- off on his girl. A good lover pays attention to his appearance and always wants to look good for his woman.

It is very important for you to make sure you always look sharp, decent, and attractive if you want to date a girl you like. This will give you a reputation for always looking good, people may notice it including the girl you want to date, or her friends, they make talk about, or she will talk about it and like you even before you make the approach. This will make you more attractive, and she may even be attracted to you before you approach her, which will make your job easier.

Therefore, make sure you take personal care of your body, and how you dress very seriously. Ensure your hair is cut regularly, cut your nails to prevent them overgrowing, shave all hair that needs to be shaved, keep good oral hygiene, eat lots of fruits and vegetables, and drink a lot of water every day, so that you will good and fresh breath. This is one of the tips for how to date a girl.

2. Develop Your Confidence

No soldier goes to war believing he may win the war, or that he will lose the war. No soccer player goes into a crucial match thinking he will lose the game; he goes into the game believing that he has what it takes to help his team win the game.

In that same vein, you need to work on yourself and believe that you can win the girl you want to date. There are many guys who cannot date the girls they are interested in because they do not have the courage to approach the girl and tell her they like her. Gathering courage and confidence to approach the girl is a crucial step you must take to date a girl for free and make her your own.

Therefore, believe in yourself. Know that you can do it, know it in your heart, and then decide to approach her.

3. Decide the Method

If you already have a girl in mind, you need to make up your mind how exactly you are going to approach her. If you approach her the wrong way, even if she likes you, she may have second thoughts. For example,  some guys like to let a girl know they like her by first texting, as a way of testing the waters, and then when they meet the girl next time, they see how she took it so that they will know whether they have a chance. Some girls have turned down such guys and refused to date them.

Some guys prefer to tell a girl over the phone that they like them and want to go out with them.

Choosing to meet her in person, and to say it to her face-to-face is the best option. It shows you have the confidence to approach a woman, and it also gives her the impression that you are bold, one quality girls admire in guys, which will also make her have a good estimation of your manliness.

4. Decide the Setting

Make up your mind where exactly you will tell her you want to go out with her. If you say it in the wrong place, even if she likes you, she may feel apprehensive, or say no. For example, if  you say it in class when there are other guys or girls around, she may say no if she is a shy girl.

The best place to say to a girl that you want to date her  is where there is no one else there. If you want to date a girl who is already your best friend, or a girl in your class, then tell her you have something special to say to her, and tell her exactly where you want to meet her, and  at what time. It must be somewhere both of you will feel comfortable, and where you can express yourself confidently. It could be a park, an empty classroom, her hostel room when her roommates are not around, your hostel room when you know you will be the only one there, your home, or her home.

If you want to date a girl you barely know, then you will have to monitor her and know where she likes going a lot. Choose a time when you see her alone in one of these places, and approach her.

5. Choose the Right Time

A person’s mood is affected by what he or she is going through: if she is going through sad times, the likelihood that she will respond well to a date request will be slim. If she is going through  great times, she is happy, she is more likely to accept a date proposal.

Do your research and find out what the girl is going through. If your intelligence tells you she has heard some bad news recently, then you may have to postpone your proposal to a time when she will become more relaxed, and is more likely to have a better disposition.

The best time to approach a  girl you want to date is when she has heard some good news. This will increase the chances that she will accept your request and give you a favorable response.

6. Approach Her

Meet her at the right place. Walk confidently to her, smile broadly, look cheerful and lively, look her straight in the eyes and greet her. Compliment her on her dressing, or hairstyle, or on some part of her body you like. For example you can say, “Hello, I saw you from that corner there where I was. I must say I like your dress and your hairstyle. The color combination is just great. I thought I would like to know the girl in such a beautiful dress. Where did you get such a dress? By the way, I am…” Introduce yourself, and try to engage her in a conversation.

Alternately, you can go up to her, greet her, introduce yourself, and share a joke to calm your nerves, and to lighten the atmosphere so that you can start a friendly conversation with her.

7. Engage Her In a Lively Conversation

If she is not in a mood to talk, apologize nicely and say it was great for you to meet, and that you hope the two of you will meet again somewhere. And then, be patient, remain calm, and hope circumstances throw both of you together at another time.

If she is responsive to talking, then use the opportunity to get to know her better. Ask her questions about her life, and try to extract from her whether she has a boyfriend or not, or whether she has  dated  before. It will give you an indication as to her dating experience, and whether she is interested in dating anyone at the moment, for it is possible she may  be a girl who doesn’t want a relationship at the time that you want to date her.

If she is a girl who can date, and wants to date, drop hints (through jokes) that you like her. You can say something like, “I have always dreamt of dating a girl like you.” See if she likes that comment.

If she gets your hints and understands, get her phone number and call her later. Have about two or three more conversations so that she can get to know how likeable you are and trust you more, and then tell her you want to go out with her.

You can say, “Rebecca, I like you. I like your intelligence when we have conversations, the wit and humor you exhibit, and I like your personality. I think you are a great girl and I want to have closer relationship with you. Would you like to go out with me?”

If she accepts your request, then make dating plans.

When You Go Out

  • Make sure you look good, especially for your first date.Be interesting and lively. Share a lot of jokes and make her laugh. Avoid being too quiet, and don’t monopolize the conversations. Properly balance talking a little with listening to what she also has to say.
  • Do not ramble on and on about yourself. It irritates a lot of girls. The date is not about you, but is giving you an opportunity to get to know each other.
  • Do not want to know everything about the girl right away. It is overwhelming and makes a girl feel like running in the opposite direction.
  • Do not isolate yourselves when you have a date. When young people who are attracted to each other isolate themselves, as is common in dating, sexual desire can build up until it causes you to want to have sex.
  • Avoid kissing and touching sensitive parts of your bodies, which might lead you to have sex. Many young men’s lives have been destroyed by contracting sexually transmitted infections, or by impregnating a girl and taking on a responsibility they were not prepared for, and thereby destroying their future. Do not think it cannot happen to you, that you can kiss and hold hands, and be able to control yourself and not go all the way, as many youths think. Kissing and cuddling can cause a buildup in your emotions and make you do something you may regret later.
  • Do not date a girl secretly. You rob yourself of the protection that you can have when your relationship is known by your family.
  • Don’t date a girl without her parents knowing. When her parents know you, they are more likely to give you respect and think you are a responsible guy. They will like you for that, and they will agree to make you date her. If you intend to have a long-term relationship with her, this will go a long way to help you since her parents will give you the needed support.
  • Make your relationship open, and let your parents and your older siblings know. Because of their experience, they are aware of the possible dangers involved in dating, and can offer you helpful direction. Do not think your parents will be too restrictive and rob you of fun. Talk to them honestly, win their trust, and ask them for advice. They will be glad to help you.

 

If You Do Not Have a Girl In Mind

If you are not friendly with any girl, or you are a shy guy and wondering how you can get a girl to date, here a few things you can do:

  • Invite friends who are extroverts to your house regularly, or make friends with extroverts, go to social occasions with them to help build your confidence, and learn some lessons from how they socialize and make friends with girls.
  • Make your approach one step at a time. Go to places where you can share your passions and you are likely to meet a girl there who likes the things you care about.
  • When you see a girl you like, make  a gradual introduction of yourself. Just say “Hi” the first time, and get to know more about her on subsequent occasions.
  • Make friends with girls online. Say hi to girls on Facebook, Twitter, Hi5, and find out if they are dating. If they are not, interact more with them and build your confidence till you can meet them in person.
  • If you are not confident to talk so much, listen to her a lot when you make an acquaintance. Sometimes, girls just want someone who listens, for they have a lot to say.
  • Share your fears with her. That is one great way to gain a girl’s trust and make her like you. She will see she is not the only one with vulnerabilities, and she will also open up to you.

Conclusion

These are a few steps you can take to date a girl. If you approach her well, it is likely you will get to date her. Make her feel special during your period of dating, and you can get her to love you and have a long-term relationship.

11 Smart Things You Can Do to Make A Girl Fall In Love With You

How to Make a Girl Fall in Love With You: Show Brotherly Affection

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How do you make a girl fall in love with you? I want to show you ways you can make a girl fall madly and deeply in love with you and have a romantic relationship with you.

So, how do you make a girl want you?

1. Show Brotherly Affection

If you want to make a girl  fall in love with you fast, see yourself as the girl’s brother and show her the same kind of love you show to your sisters (if you have sisters), or the love you show to your nieces, or female cousins. Treat her the same way you would treat her if she were your sister, and it will make a girl fall in love with you madly.

Love  her as you would love yourself. You cherish  and nourish yourself. In that same way, cherish and nourish her. Treat her the same way you want to be treated by her. She is more likely to fall in love with you and to reciprocate your love when you show her this kind of love because she will feel a security in your love, knowing you will cherish her when she agrees to give you her heart.

2. Give Her Gifts

One strategy you can use to make a girl fall in love with you is to give her thoughtful gifts from time to time.

Why do we present gifts to people? Some of the reasons may include appreciation, to enhance your romantic relationship (to show a girl you love her), to show the girl that the relationship you have with her is important to you, or to congratulate her for something she may have done for you, or to wish her well. It always advisable that you should be careful when you are choosing a gift for a girl you are interested in.

Many men have presented gifts which have turned out to be grossly inappropriate and have led to tension in their romantic relationships. Routine, careless, or improper gift-giving could harm your chances of entering into a romantic relationship with a girl, or inducing a girl to fall in love with you.

What Gift Should I Give Her?

Sometimes difficulties arise when you have to choose a gift for a girl you are interested in and want to have a relationship with. If you give a girl a gift she appreciates, she can like you because she will feel you care about her, and those feelings can later grow and develop into romantic feelings for you.

But how do you get to know the kind of gift that the girl you are interested in will appreciate? You have to do some work. You have to do a little research. You also have to do some planning. In most cases, you have to take the girl’s interests, hobbies and other personal information that may come through the conversations you have with her into consideration. A person’s surroundings, such as her office, home, or room may give you an indication of what she likes and does not like.

To buy the gift for the girl to show your love:

  1. Take into account your affection for her.
  2. Consider your pocket.

What is it that will show her that you care about her, and that you are interested in having a relationship with her? Remember that normally cards with love messages or  teddy bears with love messages are appreciated.

You can also give her other every day gifts bearing in mind how close you are to her, and how personal your relationship with her is. The type of gift you will give to her on her birthday, for example, is largely dependent on how close you are to her. Giving her a card with the right wording will always give a girl great pleasure. Sending her a card is simply telling her that you care about her and are thinking about her.

The Type Of Gift

The gift does not have to be too expensive or the girl may think you are not prudent when it comes to the managing of finances. It must also not be too personal, for example buying her a set of female underwear may give her wrong ideas about what you want from her. A guy who has not so much as sat down to have a drink with the girl is presenting an inappropriate gift if he gives her underwear. The gift you give her should not have sexual or bribery connotations.

Flowers

Flowers are also good gifts to give to a girl to show her that you are interested in her. Flowers always brighten a person’s day. Wrap it up attractively to give her the impression that you are a diligent, responsible, and caring man who pays attention to detail, because women pay attention to detail and love men who do the same.

Gift giving should be pleasurable both to you and to the girl; it can make a way for you into her heart, or cement the relationship if you are friends already. The only warning is that what you give her should not be offensive to her. Therefore you must be careful in your choice. A well thought out, well timed, and well researched gift, well wrapped in attractive wrapping paper, and presented with a small gift card will induce the girl to improve her appreciation of you, have more regard for you, and induce feelings for you, which may grow into love.

Remember that love never calculates; love never thinks how little it can decently give; love’s one desire is to give to the uttermost limits, and when it has given all it has to give, still think the gift is too little; let this principle guide you when you are giving her gifts.

 3. Warm Yourself Into Her Heart

A wonderful way to get a girl to fall in love with you is to gradually become closer to her. You can get close to her when you get to know her personality. Then after that, appreciate her personality. For  example if you get to know she has a good sense of humor, after she cracks a funny joke, tell her how funny the joke is. Tell her how you like the joke, and how you like her for being so funny.

When you learn her personality and appreciate it, she will appreciate your interest in her personality, she will also grow to like you, and her affection for may grow when she sees that you enjoy her personality. This affection can develop into love with time if you maintain constant contact. This is one way to please a girl and make her fall in love with you.

4. Open Your Ears to Her

The ability to suspend activities you may be engaging in, or to sacrifice some of your time to listen to the concerns of  a girl, is a great tool you can use to make a girl fall in love with you. Every girl has issues and wants a sympathetic ear; a person who will give her most of his time and attention  so that she can pour her fears, dreams, and hopes into that person.

When you are willing to listen to a girl’s concerns, which show her that you care about her, she will grow to appreciate your caring attitude. If you can keep doing this, she will know you genuinely care about her, will make the girl want you, and this may induce love feelings for you in her heart.

5. Use Flattery  Communication

The kinds of words you use on a woman can influence her to like you, and make a girl fall in love with you.

One smart way you can do this is to flatter the girl, and make her feel special. Sincerely tell her how attractive you find her, and how attractive she is. Do not focus on how sexy she is, but how attractive she is or else she would think that you are not really interested in her, but just want to get her into bed with you.

Genuinely, from your heart, compliment her on specific parts of her body you think are great to look at, and which add to her general beauty. Intentionally let her know by your words that you respect and revere her body. Let it be sincere, by using a steady, confident, consistent voice; do not say it in  a playful tone or else she will know you are not serious.

For example, if you think she has nice-looking legs, you can say something like, “Sue, I think you have great legs. To be frank, I have seen many legs of girls, and I must say your legs are fantastic, superb, and incredibly wonderful!”

If you think her nose looks great, you can say something like, “Wow! You have a great nose! It’s so beautiful! Exquisite! I wish I had a nose like yours! It’s really magnificent!”  Be creative with the words you use—if you know any big words, use them and they will also impress her that you are knowledgeable and well-read, and this will also make you score more points with her.

Using flattery this way can make a woman fall in love with you madly.

However, never flatter a girl about her buttocks, or breasts. This is likely to scare her because she may think you are flattering her just because you want to sleep with her, and make her ignore you, lose her respect for you, or become defensive, which will all not make her favorably disposed to you. Therefore, avoid talking about those parts of her body.

6. Be Charming

Every girl wants a guy who will treat her with respect, and who shows he is a gentleman. Therefore, show her that you think she is a special girl who deserves to receive the most gentlemanly of behavior. Treat the girl nicely and she will like you, and it will also make a woman fall in love with you fast; if you meet her carrying a load on her way to her house, offer to hold it to her door; when you meet her in public, greet her nicely and respectfully; let your general disposition towards her be one of  a man who is friendly.

Another way you can look charming is to smile a lot. When you smile, it gives a person the impression that you are a nice person to have around, someone who has a likeable personality. A smile on your face makes you look attractive and will give her the impression that you  may be a happy-go-lucky guy with a positive approach to life; she will think that you are a less aggressive person, less hostile and less dominant, and a more agreeable person to be with; she will feel you will be a comfortable person to have a relationship with, and is more likely to want to get into a relationship with you—this is how to make a woman want you!

When you go about  always with a frowning face, she will think you are an aggressive, unfriendly person who is not fun to be with, and she may feel that it will be difficult to have a relationship with, and so she will find it difficult falling in love with you.

7. Be Unpredictable

When a person is predictable, when you can easily know how a person will behave, it removes  mystery (which makes something seem exciting) surrounding a person and makes him look ordinary in your eyes.

When there is some mystery surrounding  person, when it is difficult to tell what the next move of a person will be, it makes that person appear mysterious and more interesting.

So, try your best to be as unpredictable as you can be; reveal sides of your character and personality she may have never seen. For example if you a fun-loving  extrovert, you can decide to stay indoors and read for a period, just to let her know that you are a complex person who has things up his sleeves when she enters into a relationship with you. She will know that you can spring surprises on her when she gives her heart to you, which will make your relationship more exciting; this can influence the girl to commit and want only you, and to fall in love with you.

8. Exhibit a Good Sense of  Humor

One of the ways to make a girl fall in love with you is to use a good sense of humor to mesmerize her into liking you. In a 2005 study conducted by Eric Bressler of McMaster University, he found out that, “a woman is attracted to a man who makes her laugh.”

Therefore it will be to your advantage if you develop your sense of humor so that you can make the girl laugh often.

To do this effectively, you must develop your capacity to produce jokes for her to laugh at:

  • Keep in mind the jokes you hear people say and reproduce them when you are with her.
  • Read a lot of jokes and try to commit as many of the ones you think are very funny to your memory.
  • Visit websites that offer jokes, download some of the jokes, and rehearse them.

When you meet your friends, or when you are with your siblings, tell them or act out some of these jokes to see their reaction. If they find them funny, it is likely the girl will also find them funny.

When you meet her and you are having conversations, tell her some of these jokes, or act them, and make her laugh.  She will  like you more and more when you can make her laugh and forget some of her problems, when she can feel relaxed in your presence, and when you keep doing this over time  she will know that you are great fun, and it may make her feel attracted to you, and make the girl fall in love with you.

9. Show You Can Be a “Father”

A father inspires courage and fortitude when we are in the troubled hours of life, and brings comfort and peace.

When you can show her that you are a courageous man, a man who has fears but is not afraid to confront his fears, a man who can protect her when she is in danger, the girl will fall in love with you.

In addition, if you show that you can comfort her in times when she is going through struggle and pain, and offer her words of peace, she will know she has a shoulder to lean on in times of trouble, and it may make the girl love you.

10. Show You Can Be a “Mother”

A mother is a precious person, and a mother’s attitude toward her child is one of gentleness; it is to the mother that a child usually runs when there are tears to be kissed away. A fretful child will often soon fall asleep upon the tender pillow of a mother’s breast.

A man is supposed to be hard, tough, rough, robust, and to be unfeeling. However, if you want to make a girl fall in love with you, then you also have to show to her that you have a feminine side, that is you can be tender, loving, caring, and understanding, like a mother, because every woman wants to be treated tenderly.

When you treat a girl tenderly and with gentleness, like a mother treats her child, when you can wipe away her tears when she is sorrowing, when you are able to soothe her worries and anxieties, you can make the girl  fall in love with you.

11. Take Good Care of Your Appearance

Always make sure you go the extra mile to look as attractive as you can. You may consider wearing orange-colored clothes  a lot; orange sends across a signal that you are friendly, relaxing, and an ambitious person, qualities which women find attractive in men.

When you dress well, it can act as a magnet which will pull her towards you because girls like to go out with guys who look very presentable, she will want to get close to know you more, you can become friends, and it may help you to get a date with her. And when you play your cards right, show you are loving and caring, she may learn to love you too.

 

Conclusion

If your approach is right and you diligently do the things outlined above, you may make a girl fall in love with you. Things may not happen quickly, but if you exercise patience and persevere in you r attempts, she will respond to you and give you your heart’s desire. Continue reading 11 Smart Things You Can Do to Make A Girl Fall In Love With You