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6 Excellent Ways to Start Talking to Someone On a Dating Site

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Kwabena Sakyi has recently completed his profile on one of the free online dating sites on the internet and he wants to know how he can engage a woman he wants to date. “I want to know how I can start talking to someone on a dating site: I have seen this gorgeous woman  and I don’t want to botch things up by saying  the wrong things or giving her a wrong impression of who I am. What should I say when I send her the first message? What should I write so that I can grab her attention?” Kwabena asks, with a smile on his face.

In this article, I want to show you some of the things you must say when you start talking to someone on a dating site so that he or she will become interested in you.

These are the secrets.

1.     Start With Something Very Simple

Start by sending the woman a very short message. In this message, ask her how she is doing so that she will reckon that you are a caring guy and that can increase the likelihood that she will want to be your friend.

So, you may write something such as, “Hello, sweetheart! How is life treating you?” or “Hi! What are you doing at the moment?” or “What’s up?” or “Want to chat?”: they are all good ways you can start talking to someone on a dating site.

Starting this way will help you to get rid of your nerves, if you feel nervous. Additionally, it will make it easy for her to read the message, as well as captivate her, and she may decide to find out who this guy is who gathered courage to send her a message.

 

2.     Let Her See That You Are An Intriguing Guy

After she responds, show her that you are a creative guy. It will make her feel that you can come up with different ideas to maintain fun and excitement in the friendship and that may motivate her to respond to your message so that she can have an enthralling life.

So, you may write something such as this, “Ever ridden on the back of crocodiles before? I imagine that is beyond your wildest dreams! But I have done it a number of times at the Paga crocodile pond. I sat on a crocodile for 5 minutes. And I can assure you it’s no joke! And that’s not all. I visited the Mole National Park and went hunting in the dead of the night. It was so eerie. And guess where I am off to next week?”

 

3.     Praise Her

Every woman wants to be praised by a man and you will receive a thumbs up from her if you say something nice about her profile photo, or if you say something nice about what she has written in her profile.

So, scrutinize her photo and say something that will make her feel that you like her. For example, if she uploads a picture in which she is sitting in her room, you may write something such as this, “I see your room is very well kept. I believe you are a very neat and organized woman. That is the kind of woman I like to hang out with. Keep it up.”

If you like the dress she is wearing, you may say something such as this, “That dress you were wearing when you took that picture is first class. And I must say it looks great on you. You should consider wearing it often for it really makes you look attractive.”

 

4.     Look  For Common Ground

Carefully browse the woman’s profile description and look for interests that both of you share. This can  help you to catch her attention quickly because you will be able to raise a topic for discussion that she may be passionate about. And when you send her a question that asks about something that she likes doing, she will feel that she is likely to engage in exciting conversations with you since both of you will find it easy to be on the same page: she will feel that you can build rapport quickly, and that may influence her to respond to your message.

So, for example, if after going through her profile you see that she loves soccer, and you also love soccer, you may ask her a question such as, “I have been arguing with guys about this: was Pele a better footballer than Maradona, or is Cristiano Ronaldo a better footballer than Lionel Messi? I want to know your views.” Asking her a question based on your common interests will start an interesting interaction which will help both of you to bond.

5.  Ask Her  A Personal Question

Studies have shown that when one makes people talk about themselves, it makes them like you. Therefore, if you can make the woman share something personal about her life with you, she will feel a connection and that can increase the chances that she may start a relationship with you.

So, you may ask her things such as, “What is the funniest thing you did when you were in junior high school?” or “Tell me about your brothers,” or “What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you since you were born?” or “What do you normally do when you close from work?” or “How do you spend your weekends?”

 

6.     Show That You Have A Sense Of Humor

Research has shown that women like guys who can make them laugh: when you exhibit a sense of humor, it will tell the woman that you can entertain her and make her forget about some of her worries and she will be curious to know more about to you.

So, craft a nice joke and deliver it to her and she will stop for a moment and say to herself, “This guy seems interesting. Let me see where this can lead to.”

 

Conclusion

This is how to start talking to someone on a dating site: keep it simple at first. And then try to come across as a fun-loving guy, praise her, elicit personal information from her, and let her see that you have a good sense of humor.

 

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2 Great Tinder Profile Tips for Men to Help You Find Love

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Online dating is helping people to find love and spouses. And one person who also wants to use this medium to find a mate is Kwame Oduro. Kwame is 30 years old, he has dated a number of women face- to- face, but all those relationships ended on rocks. He is desperate to settle down and start a family, but his busy schedule lately makes it difficult for him to go out nowadays to find women.

“Some friends have suggested that I use online dating to find a woman because it will afford me the opportunity to meet a lot more women than I could if I went around looking for a woman. I believe it will also make it easy for me to interact with women considering my tight schedules. I am a bit skeptical about online dating, but I will take the risk and give it a try. Some friends have indicated that tinder is a good place to start. I want to set up a great tinder profile to help me attract the kind of woman that I can have a good relationship with. I would be happy if you could give me some tinder profile tips to help me enable me to look appealing to women who will visit my profile,” Kwame says.

If you are also interested in dating on tinder, then here are some tips that will help you to get responses from women so that you can start a friendship and build it up until you both fall in love.

 

1.     Upload A Picture In Which You Are Doing Something Exciting Such As Playing A Guitar

Research suggests that when a man uploads a profile picture in which he looks active, instead of showing one in which he is just standing in front of his house, sitting drinking, sleeping in his bed, sitting at his desk in the office, or standing with friends, he is more likely to get responses from women.

When you show a picture in which you are engaging in something interesting, women who visit your profile will reckon that you live an exciting, engaging life and that will make some of them contact you so that they can also experience that fun-filled life.

Additionally, you will make it easier for women who also love music and singing to contact you and start a conversation with you, or to have something to talk about when you send them a first message: it will facilitate communication and that can make both of you connect quickly.

So, if you have photos about when you were learning how to play the guitar, or about when you collected your friend’s guitar, showcase them on your profile. If you don’t have any such photos, get a guitar and take some pictures with it, or borrow a guitar and let your friend take photos of you playing it!

 

2.     Let 70% Of Your Profile Be About Yourself

Some experts suggest that let 70% of the profile be about yourself and use the remaining 30% to tell women about the kind of person you think you will be compatible with, and that can increase your chances of finding love.

Doing this will help you to reveal yourself appropriately so that women who visit your profile will get to know your personality thoroughly and, as a result, you can attract women who will feel comfortable with your kind of personality.

So, for example, you may write something such as this, “Want to know how I am? Well, I stick needles into the butts of people in an effort to cure them of one disease or the other. Additionally, I diagnose what is wrong with people when they come to see me and…you get the picture? So, let’s play a little game. Guess who I am? Do you want to know what I am doing at the moment? I am sitting on a beach, drinking cool coconut water (boy oh boy , this coconut water tastes great!) and admiring beautiful women swimming in the Atlantic Ocean. Want to join me sometime? Well, this is what I normally do on weekends after hours of stress at the hospital. And later this evening, I will be at home cooking my favorite jollof rice, listening to something inspirational from Don Moen, and then I will watch an adventure movie with…Elsie. Oh no! Don’t get jealous! That is my dog, an adorable Alsatian! Okay, so that sums up the kind of guy I am. I want to meet an understanding woman who fears the Lord, but who is great fun to be with and who knows how to make a guy feel good about himself. If you are that kind of woman, send me a message and let’s connect. Who knows, we may end up as…your guess is as good as mine!”

Ensure that you make your personality stand out. Furthermore, make sure you include a number of jokes by sharing funny experiences that you have been involved in, or humorous scenes you have witnessed. Share it in the form of stories instead of just telling the jokes because research suggests that women like guys who tell them interesting stories. You may increase your attractiveness in the eyes of women when you share stories and one or two may contact you.

 

Conclusion

Some tinder profile tips you can use to increase the likelihood that you can attract a woman for a date are:  showcase a picture in which you are holding a guitar. And when you are writing your profile, choose to write 70 % about yourself, or you may use an alternative strategy of writing 80% about yourself.

 

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7 Superb Online Dating Description Examples for Men to Help You Find Love

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Some people are skeptical about finding love if they get involved in online dating, but statistics show that some people find love, and even get married, by using online dating.

Your ability to attract a woman for a relationship depends on how many online dating description examples for men that you know: knowing a lot of varied descriptions can help you to write a great profile which women would love to read, and which will make them like you.

And so I want to give you some online dating description examples for men to help you attract and meet a wonderful lady who you can start a romantic relationship with.

Now, what tricks can you use to increase the chances of meeting your soul-mate?

1.     Show That You Can Be Trusted

There are a lot of scammers and cheats on the internet who pose as guys looking for a relationship, and who take advantage of women. So, some women are wary of certain male profiles and stay away from these profiles because when they read the online dating description of some guys, they feel they cannot trust him.

Additionally, research done by one Harvard Business School professor suggests that when people meet you for the first time, they judge you by asking themselves whether they can trust you or not, and also by whether they can respect you or not.

So, try to come across as a guy who can be trusted, and who ladies can respect. You may write something such as this, “Hello, I am Isaac, a graduate of the University for Development Studies. I am a cool guy. I don’t speak much, but I have a great sense of humor. I have three sisters and I am very close to them: I love them dearly. Just last week, I gave my youngest sister a smartphone which I had promised to buy for her six months ago. That’s the kind of guy I am! I always try to keep my word! Of course, I am human and so I get it wrong sometimes, but I try to be as honest as possible. I am a writer at Hubpages and you can check out some of my articles at http://Papeeebooks.hubpages.com

When you give a website or a place where women who visit your site can cross-check your credentials, and when they check it and see that you are who you say you are, you will earn their trust and they will contact you.

 

2.     Tell Stories In Your Profile

A series of studies  suggest that when a man can tell a woman an interesting, exciting, compelling story, it can help to increase the attractiveness of that man in the eyes of the woman who is listening to, or reading, the story.

When you include stories in your profile, ladies who visit your profile will feel that you will provide them with good entertainment if they date you, and that can influence them to send you messages. Additionally, it will make them feel that they will not spend boring moments when they are with you and that can increase the likelihood that one or two women will like to know you better.

So, instead of writing something such as, “Hey, all you beautiful women out there! I am Isaac and I love playing soccer every weekend. I also love watching movies and listening to music,” you may write something such as this: “Last Saturday, I was feeling bored in the house. Luckily I heard some guys playing soccer on the school field near my house  and so I decided to join them for the game. I played for 30 minutes and it was great fun. My dribbling was superb and most of my passes were accurate. In fact, I remember one incident in which I picked the ball in our own area, dribbled past two opponents, and gave a pinpoint pass to our striker, and then …bam! … GOAL! He scored a fantastic goal. Well, I do this often: it is one of my passions and I get excited and get this great feeling whenever I am on the soccer pitch. Hope you love soccer too. We can form a great team and ,perhaps, conquer the world together, if you do. Just drop that message and let’s see how far we can take our friendship!”

 

3.     Show That You Take Hunter-Gatherer Risks

A study has revealed that women are attracted to guys who take hunter-gatherer risks, such as handling fire, handling dangerous animals, living in caves, taking adventures in the wild and so on.

Women like guys who come across as adventurous because they feel such guys are confident and bold guys who can protect them and defend them when they are faced with risks and insurmountable challenges.

So, you may write something such as this to attract women: “Hello, beautiful and gorgeous ladies out there! I am humble Ike. Let me share this story with you. I went camping last month on Mountain Afadjato. I was sleeping in my tent one night when I heard a hissing sound outside my tent. Fear gripped my heart for a moment, but I knew I had to face whatever was out there. I got to my feet cautiously, tip-toed to the entrance of the tent, peeped outside and … to my horror, I saw a cobra looking for  a way to get into the tent. I froze for a second, but gathered my wits about me , dashed for a stick, and killed it. I also remember the last time I went to the Mole National Park, in the heart of the Savannah, with a group of guys. We were going on a walking safari once when, unexpectedly, we chanced upon a hyena. It stood there eyeing us for a second. I had read about hyenas and knew you could frighten them when you showed just a little courage. So, I jumped in front of the group, and starting shouting and throwing my arms and feet about as though I was crazy. I asked my friends to do the same. God being so good, the hyena got frightened , turned around, and trotted into a near-by woods. Phew, that was close! And later, when we were in our chalet and one of my friends said a hyena was approaching the chalet, I fainted! Just joking! That is who I am. I love to face risks and to overcome the challenges I face. So, drop me a message. Who knows, we could overcome some challenges together!”

 

4.     Show That You Have A Good Sense Of Humor

Research suggests that women are attracted to guys who can make them laugh. So, write something that can make the women who visit your profile see that you have the knack to make them laugh, which will make them feel that you can make them have great fun when they date you.

So, you may write something such as this, “I remember I was in class once and we were doing Bible Knowledge. Our teacher was talking about how the Israelites killed goats for sacrifices. This particular teacher had killed the goat of another teacher before. I found the lecture boring and so I put my head on the table and … whoosh … I was transported into dreamland. In my dream, I dated this gorgeous woman, I proposed marriage to her, she agreed, we set the wedding date, and when we got to the part of the wedding where the pastor says, ‘You may kiss the bride…’ I stretched out my neck in an attempt to kiss my new wife only for … well, I felt a tap on my shoulder. Guess who it was? My teacher! He looked angry, and he asked me, ‘Who killed the goat?” I was so confused because I had forgotten that a lecture was going on. The first thing that came to my mind when he mentioned goats was the incident in which he killed the goat of his fellow teacher. And so I answered, ‘Sir, you killed the goat!” My teacher got mad and … want to know what happened after that? Send me a message and I will tell you the full story. Waiting for your message…”

 

5.     Show That You Can Be Fun

Let female visitors to your online dating profile see that you can help them to forget their cares and worries, and also make them feel that you can help them to get rid of some of their stress.

So, you may write, “I work with passion from Monday to Friday. But during weekends, it is fun, fun, and fun! Sometimes, I play soccer with my friends. At other times, I go to Lake Bosomtwe for a swim, I go skydiving, I hold parties for my friends, I just go for a ride in my car, I dance to my favorite music, or I watch movies with friends. Want to join the fun? Then send me that message and let’s connect!”

 

6.     Show That You Are A Humble Guy

Research suggests that women are attracted to guys who they feel are humble. When you show that you are a humble guy, the ladies will feel that you are more likely to treat them with respect and honor when they date you.

So, you may write something such as, “I remember when I finished my Master’s degree and I first got a job. When I arrived at my office on the first day, the tables and chairs were dirty and so I grabbed a cleaner and started cleaning. It reminded me of my days in secondary school…”

 

7.     Show That You Are A Kind Guy

Research suggests that women like kind guys. When you show that you will treat her in a loving, tender, gentle, caring way, you are more likely to attract many women to your profile because they will feel that they can have a happy, enjoyable, stable relationship with you devoid of verbal and physical abuse.

 

Conclusion

In this online dating description examples for men article, I have shown you that you can attract women for a date if you make them feel that they can trust you, if you tell interesting stories, if you make them see that you are an adventurous guy, if you exhibit a sense of humor, and when you show them that you can entertain them, as well as if you show that you are the kind of guy who treats women with respect and dignity. When you do these things, some women will get curious and connect with you so that you can add value to their lives.

 

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6 Smart Ways to Get the Girl You Love To Like You

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How do you get the girl you love in middle school to like you so that you can start a friendship? How can  you get the girl you love in high school to love you back? How can you get the girl you are in love with, but who does not love you yet, to develop feelings of love for you? How can you make a girl love you at school?

In this article, I want to show you how to get the girl you love so that you can develop a close friendship with her.

So, what are the strategies you can use?

 

1.     Be Kind And Generous To Her

If you want to get a girl to love you more, or if you want her to love you forever, let her see that you are a kind guy. Research suggests that women like men who show kindness and who are generous to them. When you act kindly towards a woman, it will make her feel that you will treat her with tenderness and love when she agrees to be your girlfriend and that can sway her emotions and make her develop a liking for you.

Additionally, when you are generous to her, it will tell her that you will be a responsible lover who will do his best to provide her material needs.

So, buy gifts for her from time to time. It does not have to be something expensive but just something that will show her that you are a thoughtful guy. Furthermore, sacrifice your time and energy to help her do her homework, do cleaning at her house, and also pay some of her bills for her when she is hard up and she will adore you.

 

2.     Emphasize The Interests And Values That Both Of You Share

To make a girl love you at high school, let her see that you share something in common which can serve as a focal point to help you bond. According to one study, people tend to like others who share the values they share or who have love some of the things they love.

When you highlight your similarities, the girl will feel that both of you can have interesting, engaging conversations which can help both of you to bond better.

Additionally, she will feel that you will understand each other perfectly and so you are less likely to hurt her because you will think as she thinks (which will enhance the quality of your relationship—you will relate to each other better). Therefore, she is more likely to open up her heart to you.

So, for example, if she likes music and you also like music, discuss your favorite musicians whenever you meet. Or, if she likes fashion and you also like fashion, let your conversations center around clothes, shoes, accessories and so on.

 

3.     Let Her Talk About Herself When You Have Conversations

Research shows that when you encourage someone to talk about himself or herself, it gives that person pleasure and it also makes that person develop a liking for you.

When you encourage her to bare her heart out to you, when you encourage her to share her problems, heartaches, emotional pain, fears, worries, anxieties, dreams, and visions with you , she will feel that you care about her welfare and she will draw close to you as a result.

Additionally, she will share secrets and personal, emotional information with you. As she continues doing this, and as you listen and offer suggestions, advice and so on, she will grow to feel emotionally connected to you.

 

4.     Tell Her Interesting Stories Often

Some studies carried out at the University of North Carolina suggest that women find men who can tell them stories very attractive as long-term partners than men who are just decent storytellers.

Girls like having conversations and so when you can tell her exciting, interesting, captivating, compelling stories that can capture her imagination, she will feel that you will be a good conversationalist who will entertain her when she agrees to have a long-term relationship with you.

Additionally, she will die to spend some quality, fun-filled time together with you so that you can charm her with some of those stories.

 

5.     Exhibit A Sense Of Humor

Research shows that women are attracted to guys who can make them laugh. When you can lighten up a woman’s day, when you can help her to de-stress, when you can help her to forget about some of her worries and burdens, she will see that you are a very smart guy who can make her happy, and women like to associate with men who are intelligent.

So, crack jokes when you chat with her. Tell her about some of the funny things that happened when you were a child and when you were in school. Additionally, sometimes, tickle her and tease her and it will make her like your company.

 

6.     Let Her Know That You Like Her

If you want a girl you love to love you back, be bold and let her know how you feel about her. A study conducted by psychologist Dr. Aron has revealed that when you make someone know that you like him or her, that person also develops a liking for you, and he or she starts to develop feelings for you.

So, tell her verbally that you like her and you want to be her friend. It will make her think about you and she will also start liking you.

To avoid looking needy, let the girl see that you are a very valuable guy with a wonderful personality and with a great character, but you like her specifically. It will make her find you irresistible and she will like to have a close romantic relationship with you.

 

      Conclusion

To get the girl you love, be kind and generous to her, highlight the values that both of you share, let her talk about herself and her life often, entertain her with compelling stories whenever you are together, let her see that you have a good sense of humor, and tell her that you like her and it will help you to stir her emotions so that she will also start developing feelings of love for you.

 

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7 Intelligent Ways to Make a Girl Fall in Love With You

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How can you make a girl fall in love with you? What are some strategies you can use to make a girl fall madly in love with you? What are things you can do to make a girl fall in love with you fast? And what are some foolproof ways to make a girl fall in love with you?

In this article, I want to share with you some simple steps and tricks that will make a girl fall deeply in love with you so that you can have a great relationship.

Now, what should you do?

 

1.     Look Into Her Eyes Often

One of the strategies that you can use to make a girl fall in love with you in school is to look into her eyes often. Whenever you are around her, or when you bump into her in the library or in class, ensure that you make eye contact with her. Then smile sweetly into her face.

When you do that, you will tell her that you like her a lot and that can make her start liking you too because she will feel that you are a friendly guy who will enrich her life when she associates with you. Additionally, research shows that we tend to grow to like people who like us. And when she starts liking you, those feelings can develop into love when you entertain her and make her feel happy.

 

2.     Let Her Know That You Exist

If you want to make her fall in love with you, show her that you care about people. Studies show that women like guys who are compassionate and friendly. So, do something that will make the girl feel that you are a unique, exciting, loving guy with a great personality.

Let her see you doing things that show that you care a lot about people. It will give her the message that you are a tender, loving, caring guy who will treat her like a queen when she becomes your friend or when she gets to know you better, or if she  gives her heart to you and that may make her develop feelings for you.

Therefore, let her see that there is far more to you than what she knows and she will be intrigued and desire to know you more. Moreover, it will impress her and she will want to find out what else is in that good heart of yours, which will make her draw close to you and you will have the opportunity to show love and care to her which can induce affection for you in her.

 

3.     Exhibit A Sense Of Humor

Research shows that women are attracted to guys who can make them laugh. When you are able to make her split her sides with laughter, when you can help her to smile and laugh when she is down, she will reckon that you are great fun and a friend indeed.

Moreover, as you make her laugh, you will strengthen the camaraderie and rapport between the two of you, you will feel a strong connection as time goes on, you will bond better, and she can develop deep love feelings for you as a result.

Additionally, exhibiting a good sense of humor will make her feel that you are a very intelligent guy—girls like to have relationships with guys who they feel are smart.

 

4.     Emphasize Your Similarities

People tend to fall in love with others who have the same characteristics that they have. When you let the girl see that you share similar characteristics, she will feel that she will be compatible with you when she develops a closer relationship with you.

Additionally, she will feel that she is more likely to feel satisfied in the relationship if she gives her heart to you.

Furthermore, she will think that she is likely to be happy with you because you will understand each other which will help both of you to bond well, and that can make her more willing to open up her heart to you without reservation.

So, for example, if she is very God- fearing and you also love God, direct conversations you have with her in the direction of religion and spirituality and that will make her feel that you share something in common which will bind both of you together so that you can have a long, lasting relationship, and it will make her feel comfortable to be with you.

Or, if she loves soccer and you also love watching soccer, invite her to play soccer with you sometimes, take her to see soccer games, or buy the jersey of her favorite soccer team for her and she will feel a connection, which may cause her to develop affectionate feelings for you.

 

5.     Let Her See That You Can Meet Her Needs

When a girl is looking for a partner, she looks for a guy who has the opposite of her weaknesses so that he can complement her and make her feel whole when she is with him.

For example, if a girl is not so smart, she may look for a guy who is smart and who can help her with her studies. Or, if she is a diffident girl, she is likely to fall for a guy who is very confident and who can serve as her “backbone when she starts a relationship with him.

So, if the girl lacks self-esteem, show extreme self- confidence and it can help to induce feelings of love for you in her because she will feel that you will protect her from guys and she will also feel that you will support her emotionally and give her direction to help her succeed in life—it will make her see that you have what she needs to make her a complete person and she will fall for you because of that.

 

6.     Listen To Her

Studies carried out by the University of Nevada and the University of Washington has revealed that listening to someone can make the person fall in love with you.

When you listen with rapt attention whilst she is talking to you, when you listen with a sympathetic ear when she is telling you her problems, it will make her see that you care deeply about her. Additionally, it will make her feel  that you want the best for her and that can induce feelings of gratitude in her, which can grow later and become feelings of love.

 

7.     Pray About It

God is the God of love. It is He who instituted relationships. And He wants you to involve Him in your romantic relationships so that He can teach you to love the way He loves us with steadfast love.

So, pray about it. You may pray a prayer such as this one: “Dear God, please be merciful to me a sinner. I accept my faults and my sins and I ask for forgiveness. LORD, I worship You and praise You that You have given me life to see this day. Glory be to Holy Name for Your mercies and Your grace. LORD, You tell us to love one another because love comes from You. I am attracted to Yaa and I want her to fall in love with me so that we can have  a relationship, so that we can get to know ourselves better. Please touch her heart and let her develop feelings for me just as Michal fell in love with David in the Bible. You turn the king’s heart in Your favor, LORD. Please stir her emotions and her spirit and let her develop feelings for me. Amen.”

 

Conclusion

To make a girl fall in love with you, make sure that you make eye contact with her every time you meet her, let her see that you are a caring guy who will treat her as a special girl when she develops a close relationship with you, make her laugh often, let her see that you share similarities which will help you to bond as a couple, let her see that you have what she lacks, and listen to her when she communicates with you.

 

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5 Smart Ways to Start a Text Conversation With a Girl

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How do you start a conversation with a girl you don’t know? How do you start a text conversation with a girl you just met? How do you start a conversation with a girl you know but whom you are not close to? How do you start a text conversation with a girl in high school? Or, what are some of the strategies you can use to start a text conversation with a girl you barely know?

In this article, I want to show you how to start a text conversation with a girl, and I am talking about the kind of conversation starters which will guarantee a response from her, so that you can start a friendship.

So, what strategies can you use?

 

1.     Ask Her An Open-Ended Question Instead Of Saying “Hi” Or “Hello”

One strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl you like is to ask her an open-ended question. Many girls have heard “hi” and “hello” so often that they are turned off when they see those two words. Therefore, to appear interesting and to increase the chances that she will respond to your text, ask her a probing question that she will find hard to reply to. That will help to build rapport so that you can kick-start a friendship.

For example, you may ask, “Beautiful, what are you doing at the moment?” or “What kind of sports do you like?” or “What type of music do you love listening to? Why?” or “You are very beautiful, but why do you avoid guys?” or “Who are you? I mean, I think you are a great girl and I want to know more about you…”

When she responds, ask her another open-ended question and continue with this strategy and the conversation will flow.

 

2.     Give Her A Compliment

Another strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl by text is to let her feel that you appreciate who she is.

You need to be creative when you are complimenting a girl through text message because she may have received a lot of compliments from other guys who may be interested in her.

How? A girl a guy approaches to compliment when they are in school or in class will feel special and flattered because it  is possible that no guy may have approached her to tell her that she is beautiful. However, when it comes to text messages, many guys, even shy guys who may be afraid of talking to her face-to-face, can easily gather courage to send text messages to girls. As a result, she may have received lots of compliments.

So, remind yourself of how she looks and any features or characteristics that set her apart from all other girls, such as her hair-color, her smile, the way she walks, the way she relates to others in her class and so on, and give her an original, unique compliment that no other guy can give to her apart from you.

You may say something such as, “Queen, I saw you walking from class to the library yesterday and I must say I loved the way you moved your body. I also think you have the best smile in the whole wide world—only you can produce that wonderful smile.”

 

3.     Let Her Know That You Have Interests In Common

Talk about some of the things which you love doing, and which you know she loves doing too. For example, if you love watching soccer, ask her about her impressions of an exciting match you watched recently. You may ask, “What do you think of Accra Great Olympics’ 2-0 win over Kumasi Asante Kotoko?” Or, if you love music, you may ask, “I listened to Don Moen’s latest album and I must say the songs on it are so soul-inspiring. What do you think about his latest album?”

When you let the girl know that you also love what she likes, she will know that you can have very interesting conversations in the future and that will give her a reason to respond—she may feel motivate to reply to your message.

 

4.     Use These Words In Your Early Texts

Using certain words can increase the chances that the girl will respond to your text. Words such as, “I am outgoing…”, “I am fun to be with…”, “I am an optimistic guy…”, “I am intelligent…”, “I am understanding…”, “I am caring…” will make the girl feel that she can have a loving and interesting relationship with you and that may make her more willing to respond to your text.

 

5.     Share A Joke With Her

One strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl is to send her something funny, share a funny story about yourself, or say something that will make her laugh.

Using this strategy will make her see that she will have a lot of fun with you if she replies to the message, or it may make her like you and that may motivate her to send you a message so that you can start a friendship.

Additionally, sharing a joke will rouse curiosity and make her feel that you are an intriguing guy, which is one of the things most ladies like about guys.

 

Conclusion

To start a text conversation with a girl, ask her an open-ended question which she will find irresistible to answer. Additionally, let her feel special, let her know that both of you share common interests, use certain words which will make her feel that she can have a loving friendship with you, and use humor to make her know that you can help to lighten her day when she is down and she will be more willing to respond to your text.

 

 

 

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Cute Things to Do With Your Girlfriend

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What are some cute things to do with your girlfriend to spice up your relationship? What are some of the things you can do to entertain your girlfriend so that she will feel happy in the relationship?

1.    Cook Together

Cooking together is one of the cute things to do with your girlfriend. Cooking with your girlfriend will help both of you to feel very connected as you talk whilst putting the meal together.

Furthermore, it will give you a chance to interact in a relaxed atmosphere which will go a long way to deepen the camaraderie in the relationship, as well as strengthen the rapport between both of you. Additionally, as you co-operate, as you agree to use this ingredient or that ingredient, as you agree to disagree, as you make compromises, you will both learn how to put your differences aside to focus on doing something together which will help you to communicate better in the relationship.

So, cook an exotic meal together with her. It will give both of you an opportunity to learn something new, which will breathe vitality and freshness into your relationship. Or, let your girlfriend cook a meal she loves but which you do not really enjoy so that you will learn how to compromise for the sake of your girlfriend.

 

2.    Create Your Own Love Song

Use some of the memorable events of your relationship or memorable things you have done for each other to create love songs. For example, you may use how you met each other, wonderful moments you have spent at exciting places or something your lover did to get you from trouble in the past to compose an emotional song that both of you will both love listening to time and time again. Play the musical instrument and let your girlfriend sing the lyrics when you are creating the song.

 

3.    Read Literature Together

Some studies suggest that reading literature can help you to understand other people better. Additionally, reading literature can help you to better empathize with people. Moreover, when you read, you can understand other people’s point of view better.

When you understand your girlfriend better, you will find it easier to compromise when there are disagreements so that you can maintain peace between the two of you.

Additionally, when you find it easier to empathize with her, you are more likely to treat her with love and tenderness, which will help to strengthen the bond of love between the two of you.

Furthermore, when you are able to see things from her point of view sometimes, it will help both of you to resolve conflicts amicably so that you can maintain the harmony and stability of your relationship.

So, make time to read love novels together. Put your smartphones off, cut yourself off from all distractions, and read to each other, analyze what you read together, reflect on what you read and remind yourselves of how you can use that knowledge to improve your relationship so that you can create intimacy between your girlfriend and yourself.

 

4.    Listen To Upbeat Music Together

Listening to cheery music together can help both of you to boost your moods. When you are happy and your lover is also happy, you will relate in loving, tender, caring ways to your partner and that can enhance peace, love, and harmony in your relationship.

Furthermore, it will infuse excitement and happiness into your relationship, which will increase the chances that your relationship may succeed.

 

5.    Exercise Together Frequently

Research suggests that partners feel excited about their relationship, and feel more affectionate towards their partner, when they exercise together.

Exercising together will help both of you to synchronize your feelings. Furthermore, it will encourage a spirit of co-operation in the relationship. Additionally, it will help both of you to aim towards having common goals, which can enhance unity in the relationship.

  • Therefore, join hands and go for a brisk walk for one hour.
  • Or, if your girlfriend is cute and lightweight, carry her on your back and walk around as she whispers sweet nothings into your ears.
  • Or, jog for 30 minutes through serene woods, settle down for a picnic, and talk about the future of your relationship.
  • Alternatively, throw tennis balls at your lover and let her try to catch it.

 

6.    Focus On The Good Qualities Of Your Lover

  • Write down 50 things you like about your partner and let her do likewise.
  • Exchange your lists and memorize the good things your girlfriend wrote about you.
  • Then quiz each other about some of the memorable things you have done to make each other happy in the past.

By doing this, you will focus on the positive sides of each other and that will help you to have positive thoughts about your lover.

Focusing on the positive this way will help you to magnify even the small, adorable traits of your lover which will help to deepen the goodwill you have for your partner and that will help you to maintain a healthy relationship.

 

7.    Watch A Foreign Movie

Rent a movie made on another continent or about another culture, settle in each other’s arms, and enjoy it together. It will afford you an opportunity to learn about other people and other cultures, which will broaden your horizon and help you to look at life and your relationship from a different perspective. Furthermore, you will learn about ways people of other cultures manage to sustain strong relationships, which will empower you with knowledge you can use to improve your relationship.

 

8.    Watch A Soccer Game Together

Dress in the jerseys of your favorite soccer teams and watch them on TV over bottles of smoothies and popcorn or whilst you eat your favorite meal together. On the other hand, buy tickets and go and watch a live game of the teams you love.

 

9.    Watch Humorous YouTube Videos

Go to YouTube and search for the funniest YouTube videos on that site. Compile a list of between 30 and 50 funny videos. Then, regularly, watch these videos together and laugh. It will induce positive feelings in both of you which will help to make you positively predisposed towards your partner—you will find it easier to forgive petty mistakes by your partner and you will relate to your partner with happiness in your heart.

 

10.                      Dance Together

Play a hot tune, grab the hand of your girlfriend, and dance with passion to the exciting rhythms. Tickle her as you dance, tease her, and create excitement to make it fun. You may choose to learn dances from other countries so that you can introduce novelty and fun into your dance sessions.

 

Conclusion

Some cute things you can do  with your girlfriend are to cook together, to create a memorable love song together, to read, listen to upbeat music or exercise together, or to watch funny videos so that you can always feel happy.

 

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How to Start a Conversation with a Woman

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It can be hard to start a conversation with a woman, especially when you are a shy guy, when you don’t know the woman, or when you like the women. That is why some guys ask, “How do you start a conversation with a woman?”

In this article, I want to show you how you can start a conversation with an attractive woman for the first time, or how you can start a conversation with any woman, whether it is an unknown woman, a black woman, a woman on the internet, a woman on a dating site, or a woman at the gym.

Let us look at what you should do.

1.    Make Sure You Approach the Woman at the Right Time

If you want to have a fruitful conversation with a woman you are interested in or to whom you are attracted, ensure that you approach her when she is in a relaxed state. Avoid making your move when she is busy doing something important or when she is preoccupied.

Study the situation around her and look at her body language. If you see that she looks relaxed and comfortable and there is no one around her, make your move. Take in a deep breathe, wish yourself luck, and advance towards her.

2.    Introduce Yourself

The most important thing you must do when you want to start a conversation with a woman is to smile as you approach her. Let her see that you are a warm, friendly guy whom she has nothing to fear from. Approaching her with a serious look may make her misjudge you and , consequently, she may not want to talk to you.

Look confident by standing straight. Moreover, look into her eyes as you approach her. You can then say something such as, “Good afternoon. I am Isaac Nunoofio. I have been seeing you around. There is something about you I like. I just don’t know what it is. But, I want to find out. I want to get to know you. May I know your name?” This is how to start a conversation with a woman you just met.

3.    Shake Her Hand

Try to get her to shake hands with you. A study has shown that shaking the hands of people can make you feel happy. When you shake her hand and feel happy, you will approach the conversation in a positive mood. Therefore, you are more likely to sound interesting and that will make the woman enjoy her time with you better.

4.     Talk About What is Happening Around You

Use what is happening where you are to start a conversation with a woman.

  • If you are indoors, you may comment about the way the room has been painted. You may say something such as, “I really like the color that was used to paint this room. You know, I love cream. It’s my favorite color. What is your favorite color?” Ask a question at the end of your comment so that you can draw the woman into the conversation.
  • You may choose to comment about the people you see in the room. You may say something such as, “The guys and gals here are nice people. That is why I always come to this shopping mall. The service here is incredible. I have seen you here a number of times. Tell me, why do you come here?”
  • If you are outdoors, you may choose to comment about the weather and life. You may say something such as, “Today is a beautiful day and I want to meet beautiful people. The sunshine reminds me that I should be grateful I am alive. Don’t you love the weather?”
  • If you are in public transport, a train, or in an aeroplane, you may say something such as, “I get so bored when I have to travel. I am always wrapped up in my thoughts. It can feel really lonely at times. Do you feel the same way when you are travelling?” This is how to have a conversation with a woman you just met.

5.    Compliment Her

One thing you can do to start a conversation with a woman is to compliment her. Many women like to be appreciated  and will respond with delight when you compliment them.

You may say something such as, “I think you are a great team player. Your colleagues in the office talk a  lot about you and I am honored to meet you,” or “That was a great speech. You were concise, articulate, and very professional. I could learn a few things from you. Tell me, how do you do it?”

When you compliment the woman, you may make her more willing to open up and talk to you. Therefore, try to see how much you can notice about a woman , and then use one of those observations to start a conversation with a woman.

6.    Ask Her a Question

Asking a woman a question is a great way to start a conversation with a woman. Start your questions using the words “Who?”, “What?”, “When?”, “Why?”, “Where?” and “How?” Questions which start with these words make the respondent give some detail when he is responding.

Therefore, the woman will carry on with the conversation. Furthermore, you will get information from which you can ask her further questions so that you can prolong the conversation.

Here are some questions to start a conversation with a woman.

  1. What do you think of your supervisor?
  2. Who is your favorite female work colleague? Why do you like her so much?
  3. When do you hope to get married?
  4. I see you wearing blue dresses most of the time. Why do you like the color blue?
  5. Where do you hope to be in 20 years’ time?
  6. How do you think your future will shape up at the office?

 

7.    Talk About Her Interests

One of the ways to start a conversation with a woman is to use her hobbies to your advantage. Therefore, before you approach the woman, find out about her interests, hobbies, and passions. Then, when you start conversing with her, shift the conversation in the direction of her interests. This is how to keep a conversation with a woman.

For example, if you find out that she loves talking about fashion, learn what you can about clothes. After your initial remarks, start talking about clothes. This will make her find the conversation more engaging and she will be more willing to participate in the conversation with more liveliness. This will make it easier for you to invite her to have another conversation with you at another time.

8.    Ask Her About Her Family

Let the woman feel that you care about her by asking her about her brothers, sisters, and parents. Ask her if they are doing well. Then, talk about your family and share something about yourself. This is how to have a conversation with a woman you like. This is how to open up a conversation with a woman.

However, do not give away everything about yourself. Just say enough just to arouse her curiosity so that she will be willing to have another conversation with you at another time to get to know you better.

9.    Ask the Woman About Her Job

Find out about the kind of job she does, her responsibilities at work, her relationship with her work colleagues, and the frustrations she goes through every day at work. Sympathize with her and share similar frustrations you also go through at your workplace. Showing such solidarity will help you to bond with her and it may motivate her to share more about her life with you for she will see you both face similar struggles. This is how to start and hold a conversation with a woman.

10.Tell Her an Interesting Story

Women like to hear stories and that is why they love watching soap operas. Telling the woman a story will help you to grab her attention from the start so that you can engage her and keep the conversation going. This is how to have a fun conversation with a woman.

You may choose to tell her about something that happened to you or a funny story about how a guy and a woman met for the first time or some silly thing a guy did when he met a woman for the first time. Make the story as funny as possible so that you can make her laugh. It will make the woman see that you are an interesting guy and she would love to converse with you. Furthermore, you may choose to tell her about a funny movie you watched with her.

11.    Comment About Current Events

One great way to start a conversation with a woman is to talk about issues that are trending in your town or country. It is likely she may also know about these events and that will make it easier for the two of you to contribute to the conversation.

11. Talk About Things You Love

At certain times in the conversation, shift the discussion to things you are passionate about. For example, if you love soccer, talk about your favorite soccer team or about your favorite soccer star. This will fire you up and make you look lively which will make you look exciting. You may then ask the woman if she likes your passion and tell her about it if she doesn’t.

12. Talk About How That Particular Day Has Gone So Far

You may start a conversation with a woman by making general comments about how your day has treated you so far. For example, you may say, “I woke up today hoping to have a great day. You know, Thursday is the day on which I was born and so I love Thursdays. However, the day has been terrible so far. My cat scratched me when I wanted to give it a hug. I kicked a stone when I came out of the house in the morning. And my boss has been so demanding today. What about you? How has your day gone so far?”

13. Build on What She Says

When the woman answers one question, ask her another question based on the answer she gives you. Keep doing this so that you can prolong the conversation. Concentrate on what she says to you and make comments related to what she shares with you. Sigh when you have to, laugh at the right time, grunt convivially, and give encouraging remark such as, “Really? I never knew that!” or “Amazing! You are really incredible!” This is how to prolong a conversation with a woman.

14. Stay Focused

Keep your mind on the conversation and try to be curious about her life. In subtle ways, try to find out about her personality, the kind of women she moves with, the kind of men she likes going out with, her visions and plans for her life, how she spends her annual leave and so on. This will give you information which you can use to start subsequent conversations with her.

15. Use Pauses

Talk for periods of time, then give her an opportunity to contribute to the conversation too. Then break for a few seconds so that you can think about follow up questions, or so that you can strategize as to the direction in which to take the conversation.

For example, if you have been talking about her hobbies for about 5 minutes, pause, decide to shift the conversation to your hobbies, think about what you want to say about your hobbies, and then re-start the conversation, this time talking about the things you love.

End the Conversation on a Good Note

Inform the woman that you enjoyed the time you spent talking to her and getting to know her. Hint that you would love to have subsequent conversations with her to see if she also feels the way you do. Ask for her number and promise to call. Then wish her a good day, smile at her, and leave.

Conclusion

To start a conversation with a woman, you must try to make the approach great. If you do that and entertain her well, you may have the opportunity to date her. When you see that she loves you, and you show her you love her, you can make her fall in love with you, and keep her forever.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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How to Get a Girl to Fall in Love With You: 9 Cool Ways to Do It

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How can you get a girl to fall in love with you if you think she is a great girl, and you have admired her for a long time, and you are dying to have a relationship with her so that you can show her how much you love her? What are some of the smart things you can do to make this dream come true?

1.     Be a Teacher

If you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, you must demonstrate to her that you know a lot more about the world than she knows, and you must also let her know you are very knowledgeable about some of the things that interest women most, such as fashion, beauty, skin care, and the like. When you are able to let her know that you have an interest in these things, and you even give her tips on how to dress well, foods and the lifestyle you should live if you want to look beautiful, and she applies this knowledge and sees it is working, her admiration for you will soar, and her attraction for you will become stronger, and this attraction may eventually lead her to fall in love with you.

Therefore, decide to school yourself in fashion, beauty, skin care, the right perfumes that are suitable for different kinds of girls, makeup, good hair care etc. Read wide on these topics so that you can drop some of these tips when you are having conversations with her. When she sees your knowledge in these areas, she will die for more of your time, and as you spend more time together, love can develop.

How can you get a girl to fall in love with you? Become knowledgeable in the things that interest women.

2.     Learn How to Write Great Love Poems

One thing that girls love a lot is to hear love words that extol their virtues, and also to hear romantic words. These things touch their hearts and make them sentimental.

If you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, then learn how you can write customized love poems for her.

  • The Songs of Solomon, in the Bible, is a good place to start. Learn some of the techniques which Solomon, who was a great lover, used to get about one thousand women to fall in love with him.
  • Also, there are many websites that teach how to write good poems.
  • Just Google “How to write a romantic poem for a girl,” or “How to write a love poem for a girl you love.” Choose one or two of those websites and study how you can write a poem that is specifically targeted at the girl you are interested in. this means you will include her specific physical and character attributes in the poem.
  • On weekends, or on days when the two of you have some leisure time, and the moon is smiling down on the Earth, and there are millions of stars in the sky shining down on you, take her to a romantic spot, such as a lakeside, or a botanical garden, or a quiet forest, or the beach. Let her sit at your feet, and then read the poem you have written for her, to her. Make it personal by making sure her name appears in the poem. Smile into her face and read it in a mellow, romantic, smooth voice, whilst looking into her eyes.
  • This act of romance you show can work wonders on her emotions and make her see you are a very romantic guy, and that can cause her to fall in love with you because girls like guys who are very romantic.

So, if you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, learn the art of writing good love poems, and excite her heart to love by reading these poems to her once in a while.

3.     Learn to Sing

One thing you can do to get a girl to fall in love with you is to sing love ballads to her. When a girl hears you singing love words, in the form of a song, to her, it will stimulate romantic feelings in her, and she may fall in love with you because of that.

  • If you are worried about the fact that you do not have a good voice, you should not worry because you can improve your voice if you practice singing every day. Sing when you are going to the bathroom, when you are alone in your room, and when you are alone in the house.
  • You must also remind yourself that you do not necessarily have to sing like a professional musician before your singing can achieve the purpose for which you are singing. The important thing is to put together a group of words that will show that you can pass romantic energy on to a girl to influence her to think that you are a romantic guy, so that she will want to be with you often.
  • It will be to your advantage to also learn how to play the guitar, or how to play a piano, or keyboards, so that you can put together great love songs for her.
  • Then, find special times when you can be alone with her, and sing whilst you play the piano or guitar. She will be touched, and it may influence her to fall in love with you.
  • Organize a small party for her. Invite about five or ten of your close friends, and about ten of her close friends. Sing a song you have specially written for her. It will increase her affection for you because you think she is so special as to deserve a song written specially for her. She will fall in love with you because of this.

Singing to a girl is one way to get a girl to fall in love with you fast.

4.     Learn How to Cook

One thing that girls find very sexy is a guy who knows how to cook. It makes you look extraordinary and special, and girls like guys who are not like every other guy.

So, ask her about her favorite meals. Then, spend time to learn how to prepare those meals so that you can surprise her on a special occasion, such as her birthday, or a day when she achieves something great, such as academic success, or she gets a promotion at work. Invite her to your place and cook the meal for her. She will be so impressed, and her admiration for you will go high, and that can make her develop a strong affection for you.

Learning how to cook, and impressing the girl with your cooking skills, is one way to get a girl to fall in love with you.

5.     Try to Become Popular

Girls are attracted to guys who are popular, and who a lot of people talk about. Therefore, if you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, harness your potential, and sharpen your talents which can make you become popular:

  1. If you have good soccer skills, develop that talent by practicing constantly so that you can make it to the school team and represent your school.
  2. If you are good in acting, perfect your talent so that you can get roles for plays performed by the school drama group.
  3. If you know how to play a musical instrument, keep practicing at it so that you can join the school band.
  4. If you are good at designing clothes, or painting, or reading, whatever talent you have, aim for excellence. Excellence will open up opportunities to you, you will become famous, and that will attract many girls to you. You can then look for the a girl you feel attracted to from among the lot, and develop a relationship with her so that she can fall in love with you.
  5. If you are a worker, work hard so that you can earn a promotion, and when a girl sees that you are earning more money, she will be attracted to you, and fall in love with you.
  6. Strive for academic excellence, if you are in school, and that excellence will propel your name all around school, making you popular, which will make girls get attracted to you. You can then take advantage of their attraction to date one you like.

6.     Tell Her Romance Stories

One thing you can do to get a girl to fall in love with you is to tell her romance stories. Girls like to hear stories. When you are a guy and you can develop the skill of storytelling, especially telling a girl romance stories, you can get the girl to fall in love with you.

There is this female friend of mine who told me she was attracted to, and fell in love with her present boyfriend, because he was good at telling stories. And I am sure there are many girls like her who will develop affection for a guy when he can tell them good romance stories.

So, master the art of telling good stories. When you watch romance movies and you love them, or when you read romance novels and you love the stories, practice saying the story all over again to yourself, or to your siblings. Also, when you meet your male friends, repeat it to them. When you are eating as a family in the evening, say a summary of the story to the whole family. All these practices will help you to improve your storytelling skills.

Then, later, when you meet the girl, tell her some of these stories, or romance stories you create yourself. She will ask for more if you tell them well, and this can strengthen your friendship, and cause romantic feelings to grow between the two of you.

7.     Be a Real Man

A girl wants a guy who is a real guy, that is, a guy who is bold, confident, courageous, and someone she will be proud to go out with.

So, if you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, you must exhibit these qualities:

  1. You must treat girls with respect.
  2. You must be a helpful person.
  3. You must be a leader who takes the initiative to solve problems, and who shows courage in dangerous situations.
  4. You must have a vision and purpose for your life.

Exhibiting these qualities will make you attractive to a girl, and she will want so much to have a relationship with you.

So, if you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, be a man who exhibits the qualities enumerated above.

8.     Be Playful

One way to get a girl to fall in love with you is to exhibit a playful, childish character when you are around her. This will tell her that you are great fun to be with, and that she will have fun-filled days when she associates herself romantically with you. This could influence her to fall in love with you.

  • Therefore, try to shed a bit of your “I am a mature man,” or “I must be serious because I am old” attitude.
  • Relax and have fun.
  • Tickle her, tease her, get her to play soccer, or basketball, or dance with you. Become a child again, and you could get a girl to fall in love with you.

9.     Be Extremely Caring

One of the surest ways you can get a girl to fall in love with you is to exhibit a very caring nature which shows tenderness.

  • One way to do this is to write an article about the girl, in which you state how wonderful she is as a person.
  • Then, upload this article onto a free blogging site such as com or Blogger.com.
  • Post it together with a picture of the girl you are interested in.
  • Then, alert her to what you have done and let her read it.

When she thinks about the fact that she means so much to you, as to influence you to spend time, money, and energy to let the whole world  know about her great personality, she will see how you care about her, and she can develop affectionate feelings for you, and fall in love with you.

Conclusion

In addition to the tips mentioned above, if you want to get a girl to fall in love with you, approach her well, make her feel special, learn how to date her well, show her love,  and learn how you can make her attracted to you.

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How to Get a Girlfriend at School: 13 Incredibly Smart Ways to Do It

How to Get a Girlfriend at School: Be Bold and You Will Get a Beautiful Girl for a Relationship

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How can you get a girlfriend if you are in senior high school, or you have moved to a new school and are thinking of having a relationship with some of the girls there?

I want to share with you how you can get a girlfriend at school.

So, how do you get a girlfriend at school?

1.     Know What You Want

If you want to get a girlfriend at school, you must first of all sit down and make up your mind as to the kind of girl you want to be your girlfriend. Do you want a decent , religious girl to be your girlfriend? Do you want a girl who loves having fun and partying? Do you want a girl who will be loyal to you always?

You must be clear in your mind as to who you want to go out with. This will prevent you from just taking any girl who comes your way because you are desperate to show you have a girlfriend to your male friends, or because you do not want to be the odd one out in school.

Planning before you make the move helps if you want to get a girlfriend at school.

2.     Seek guidance

There are people in life who have been through what you are going through, and who can give you valuable advice so that you will not make mistakes you will regret later. Some of those people are your elder brothers, your parents, and older relatives.

Talk to some of them about your desire to make a girlfriend  in school. Ask them how you can tell which girl is right girl for you, and how you can approach a girl you are interested in , and what girls expect of a boyfriend. This will guide you to make a wise choice, and it will also give you information which will help your relationship to succeed.

Involving older, more experienced people will also help you later when you are able to get a girlfriend; you can fall on them to help you solve conflicts which will come up in the relationship.

3.     Be Bold

You need to believe in yourself before you can approach to a girl you like or are interested in. This is how to get a girlfriend from school.

Say something like this to yourself: “I am bold. I am confident I can win this girl. The other guys with girlfriends are not better than me in any way. I can also win any girl I want to date.” This will put you in the right frame of mind and make you feel you can win a girl and make her your girlfriend, and it will help you to get a girlfriend easily in school.

Also, banish thoughts of being rejected from your mind. Such negative thoughts will make it difficult for you to approach a girl, even when there are clear sign that she likes you and wants you to come forward. Positive thoughts about yourself will help you to get a girlfriend in high school fast.

4.     Avoid Bad Habits

If you want to get a girlfriend in high school for real, you must stay clear of habits which will give you a bad reputation. Most girls like to be seen going out with guys who are well respected on campus, guys who look decent, and who many people say nice things about. It makes them too feel good about themselves because some of the nice things said about such guys rubs off on them when they date such guys. This is how to get a girlfriend in school.

Generally, girls do not like to date guys who are generally hated on campus.

Therefore, try to be a good guy by avoiding the things that harm many young guys and destroy their reputation, such as drinking, smoking, insulting other people, and being disrespectful. When you do these things and develop a bad reputation, you will be shunned by girls.

5.     Make Friends With Lots of Girls

Some guys narrow their search to just a few girls in their class and do not look beyond the horizon to consider other girls in other classes. This is dangerous because you may have to face stiff competition from other guys in your class who may also be interested in those same girls.

Therefore, broaden your horizon, if you want to get a girlfriend in school. Try to also make friends with other girls in other classes. This will require you to be sociable, and to manage yourself properly so that you can have free time to go to different classes and try to engage in conversations with girls in other classes, or who may be pursuing other courses. This is how to find a girlfriend in school.

You must do this day after day if you want it to succeed. It is possible a few tries may not help you to establish any rapport with a girl. Consistency and perseverance will help you in the long run to establish a friendship with a particular girl who will tickle your fancy, and then you can develop a more stable relationship with her.

6.     Improve Your Academic Performance

Girls like guys who are popular in school because they are doing well academically and everybody is talking about them and admiring them. They also want to be associated with that success and so try to get close to such guys.

Therefore if you want to have a girlfriend in school, spend extra hours to study your notes so that you can improve your academic performance. If you are having problems with any courses, make friends with the guys or girls who are good in those courses, and let them help you. Solve a lot of past questions, become friends with your teachers so that they can help you, and seek the help of your relatives who have also done those same courses before.

A few girls will be attracted by your good academic grades and want to make friends with you. You can take advantage of that to get to know them better, and date the one you think you are attracted to most.

7.     Help Her Learn

If you identify girls you feel attracted to in school who are weak academically, help them to better their grades.

  • Take the initiative and make the approach if you really desire to have a relationship with her.
  • You can say something like, “Yaa, you know what, I know you have been having problems in Mathematics. I want to help you. I have a good understanding of the subject. I don’t know if it is okay with you, but I am prepared to sacrifice a bit of my time to help you. Which topics do you find difficult to master?”
  • This will help you start a conversation with her. You can then schedule a time for her, let’s say two hours on Saturday’s at your place, or at her place.
  • Take advantage of the time you spend with her to get to know more about her, and then when you have established a strong friendship, ask her to go out on a date with you.
  • Do not rush to tell her you want to date her otherwise she will feel you just want to help her because you want to take advantage of her. Let her see you care about her doing well in class first. It will tell her you really care about her, and will make her more willing to go out with you if you ask later.
  • Also spending time with her may even make her develop feelings for you and you never know, she may even ask to become your girlfriend.

8.     Stand for Leadership Positions

Girls like to be associated with guys with power and authority. Therefore, try to assume a leadership position in school which will give you authority and some amount of power, if you want to get a girlfriend at school. For example, when nominations for Class Prefect, or Compound Prefect, or any post comes up for grabs, contest. A lot more girls who do not know you will get to see you and some of them will feel attracted to you, and want to be your friend.

During your campaigns too, you will have to convince girls to vote for you. This will increase your contact with different girls, you will meet girls you may never have met in the school before, and it will open up new romantic possibilities to you because you will see girls you will feel attracted to, and you can make friends with them and date one later.

9.     Respect Girls

Some guys treat girls that come across their way with indignity and yet expect some girl to admire them and date them, or fall in love with them.

If you want to get a girlfriend at school, treat all the girls you meet in school with respect. Be polite to them, see them as human beings also created by the same God who created you, and compliment girls when you come across them on campus. This will give you a reputation among the girls as someone who will be nice to be with, and it will make you more attractive to some of the girls, making it easier for you to be able to approach a girl to propose, or for a girl to approach you for a friendship. This is how to make a girlfriend in school!

10.  Be Neat

Girls like to be neat always, and are attracted to guys who look neat, decent, and appealing because of the way they dress and look.

  • So, make sure your hair and nail s are always in top shape and look attractive.
  • Ensure your clothes look decent and fresh at all times.
  • Make sure you take proper care of your books, and keep them in great condition always. Your exercise books, and your textbooks must always look neat and clean, with no torn pages. Wash your hands before touching them so that you can keep them in a neat and clean condition always. If your books look dirty, it will convey the impression that you are a dirty guy, and most girls will not like to date you.
  • Wash your school bag regularly so that it will speak well of you and tell girls you are a neat guy.

Make it your aim therefore to look neat always if you want to get  a girlfriend at school.

11. Be Yourself

Most girls hate a guy who is a pretender, a guy who tries to imitate someone else, or who always wants to live in the shadow of other people. It makes you look spineless and fake, and tells the girl that you have no confidence in yourself.

Therefore if you want to get a girlfriend at school:

  1. Accept yourself the way you are.
  2. Believe in your abilities and talents.
  3. Think of yourself as being as good as the other guy. It will make you more attractive to girls, and increase your chances of getting a girl to date.

12. Be Humble

One thing girls hate most is a guy who thinks he is better than them. It tends to make them feel you will not respect them when they go out with you, and it will make it hard for you to get a girlfriend if you act this way.

Therefore, try to be humble, focused, and level-headed always, if your desire is to get a girlfriend at school. Be the kind of guy who accepts his faults when he does wrong, who sees himself as just another human being like everyone else, and who treats the people around him as people who deserve to be honored.

13. Don’t Be a Womanizer

If you have a reputation for being a guy who makes friends with girls, then use them and dump them without making any commitment, you will make it difficult for any girl to want to be your long-term girlfriend.

Therefore, if you want to get a girlfriend in school, learn to stick to a girl, and to maintain a relationship.

You can learn to have stable relationship by:

  • Understanding that conflicts are part of relationships. The fact that a conflict arises does not mean break up and find another girl.
  • Try to discuss conflicts and find solutions to them.
  • Treat girls the way you want to be treated by them.
  • Make up your mind to stick to a girl, and not to consider other girls.
  • Avoid situations that will make it easy for you to be unfaithful to your girlfriend.

Conclusion

In the process of trying to get a girlfriend at school, when you meet a girl you like, try to approach her the proper way, and you can make her fall in love with you and become your girlfriend. Then your job will be to make her happy. If you are able to do this, you can enjoy your relationship for a very long time.

 

How did you get your girlfriend? Was it easy or difficult? Tell me about it by leaving a comment. Thank you.