How do you get the girl you love in middle school to like you so that you can start a friendship? How can you get the girl you love in high school to love you back? How can you get the girl you are in love with, but who does not love you yet, to develop feelings of love for you? How can you make a girl love you at school?
In this article, I want to show you how to get the girl you love so that you can develop a close friendship with her.
So, what are the strategies you can use?
1. Be Kind And Generous To Her
If you want to get a girl to love you more, or if you want her to love you forever, let her see that you are a kind guy. Research suggests that women like men who show kindness and who are generous to them. When you act kindly towards a woman, it will make her feel that you will treat her with tenderness and love when she agrees to be your girlfriend and that can sway her emotions and make her develop a liking for you.
Additionally, when you are generous to her, it will tell her that you will be a responsible lover who will do his best to provide her material needs.
So, buy gifts for her from time to time. It does not have to be something expensive but just something that will show her that you are a thoughtful guy. Furthermore, sacrifice your time and energy to help her do her homework, do cleaning at her house, and also pay some of her bills for her when she is hard up and she will adore you.
2. Emphasize The Interests And Values That Both Of You Share
To make a girl love you at high school, let her see that you share something in common which can serve as a focal point to help you bond. According to one study, people tend to like others who share the values they share or who have love some of the things they love.
When you highlight your similarities, the girl will feel that both of you can have interesting, engaging conversations which can help both of you to bond better.
Additionally, she will feel that you will understand each other perfectly and so you are less likely to hurt her because you will think as she thinks (which will enhance the quality of your relationship—you will relate to each other better). Therefore, she is more likely to open up her heart to you.
So, for example, if she likes music and you also like music, discuss your favorite musicians whenever you meet. Or, if she likes fashion and you also like fashion, let your conversations center around clothes, shoes, accessories and so on.
3. Let Her Talk About Herself When You Have Conversations
Research shows that when you encourage someone to talk about himself or herself, it gives that person pleasure and it also makes that person develop a liking for you.
When you encourage her to bare her heart out to you, when you encourage her to share her problems, heartaches, emotional pain, fears, worries, anxieties, dreams, and visions with you , she will feel that you care about her welfare and she will draw close to you as a result.
Additionally, she will share secrets and personal, emotional information with you. As she continues doing this, and as you listen and offer suggestions, advice and so on, she will grow to feel emotionally connected to you.
4. Tell Her Interesting Stories Often
Some studies carried out at the University of North Carolina suggest that women find men who can tell them stories very attractive as long-term partners than men who are just decent storytellers.
Girls like having conversations and so when you can tell her exciting, interesting, captivating, compelling stories that can capture her imagination, she will feel that you will be a good conversationalist who will entertain her when she agrees to have a long-term relationship with you.
Additionally, she will die to spend some quality, fun-filled time together with you so that you can charm her with some of those stories.
5. Exhibit A Sense Of Humor
Research shows that women are attracted to guys who can make them laugh. When you can lighten up a woman’s day, when you can help her to de-stress, when you can help her to forget about some of her worries and burdens, she will see that you are a very smart guy who can make her happy, and women like to associate with men who are intelligent.
So, crack jokes when you chat with her. Tell her about some of the funny things that happened when you were a child and when you were in school. Additionally, sometimes, tickle her and tease her and it will make her like your company.
6. Let Her Know That You Like Her
If you want a girl you love to love you back, be bold and let her know how you feel about her. A study conducted by psychologist Dr. Aron has revealed that when you make someone know that you like him or her, that person also develops a liking for you, and he or she starts to develop feelings for you.
So, tell her verbally that you like her and you want to be her friend. It will make her think about you and she will also start liking you.
To avoid looking needy, let the girl see that you are a very valuable guy with a wonderful personality and with a great character, but you like her specifically. It will make her find you irresistible and she will like to have a close romantic relationship with you.
To get the girl you love, be kind and generous to her, highlight the values that both of you share, let her talk about herself and her life often, entertain her with compelling stories whenever you are together, let her see that you have a good sense of humor, and tell her that you like her and it will help you to stir her emotions so that she will also start developing feelings of love for you.
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