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8 Great Ways to Make Your Relationship Last Forever

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How can you make your relationship last? What are some things you must do if you want to make a relationship with your girlfriend last a lifetime? What are some strategies you can use to make a relationship last until marriage? And what are some ways to help your relationship to grow so that you can love each other better?

In this article, I will show you how to make your relationship last forever so that you can enjoy your girlfriend until you marry and, subsequently, until death parts you.

Now, make your relationship last with these 8 tips.

1.    Assume You Are Starting Your Relationship Afresh At The Beginning Of Every Month

At the end of every month, see your relationship as one that has expired and which needs renewal. Assume that in the next month you will be starting afresh with your girlfriend. Make plans to relate to her as though you had just met her by coming up with plans to keep the relationship exciting.

When you adopt this attitude, you will endeavor to keep the relationship interesting and intriguing every month. Consequently, your relationship will never become stale—you will be able to keep it exciting and entertaining always and that will make your girlfriend happy and she will be content to stay with you.

 

2.    Think Good Thoughts About Your Girlfriend Often

One of the secrets behind relationships that last is that the partners in those relationships focus on the good points of their partners.

So, do your best to focus on the positive qualities of your girlfriend, and the good things she does for you. When you do this, love feelings will come into your heart, you will always feel tender and affectionate towards her, which will help you to maintain the good will you have for her. As a result, the relationship bond will continue to be strong.

On the other hand, when you focus on the weaknesses and faults of your girlfriend, ill feelings will come into your heart, you may easily get irritated with her when she does something you don’t understand or when you have disagreements, and that can corrode the love between the two of you.

 

3.    Do Challenging Activities With Her Often

One exciting way of making your love last is to do things that will build your capacity to work as a co-operative couple. To do this, at the end of every week or once a month, engage in an activity that will test your endurance as a couple, as well as help you to work as a team.

For example, run together for a distance of 10 miles, go hiking over rough terrain in a forest, climb rocks together, or swim together. As you spend time with each other, you will get to understand your girlfriend better, you will understand how you can make her love you better and how to influence her to please you, and you will also get to know how to show her strong love and that can help you to relate to her in loving ways which will make her happy.

Furthermore, you will learn how to co-operate to solve problems and that will help you to resolve conflicts in your relationship better so that the stability of the relationship can be maintained. Additionally, it will give you time to interact, which will help you to strengthen your emotional bond. Consequently, your love for your girlfriend will grow.

 

4.    Have A Passion For Life

Men who live every day as though it is the last day of their life, who enjoy a day with enthusiasm, passion, and liveliness tend to carry that same passion and zest into their love lives.

When you enjoy each day and show that you are happy to be alive to see that day, it will fill you with positive energy, which will put you in a positive mood that can make you to relate to your girlfriend in loving ways. Consequently, you will be able to create a loving environment in which your girlfriend will feel content and appreciated and she will be happy to remain in the relationship.

 

5.    Maintain Positive Illusions About Your Girlfriend

According to a study conducted by the University of Geneva, when you continue to maintain positive illusions about your partner—when you continue to remind yourself every day that your girlfriend is the most beautiful girl in the world, when you remind yourself often that you think she is intelligent, when you remember that she is loving, caring, understanding and a great companion—you will continue to be happy with her, you will always feel good when you see her, and that can help you to continue feeling connected to her.

 

6.    Do New Things With Her Often

Boredom is one thing that kills relationships—when you don’t entertain your girlfriend well, or when you allow the relationship to get to the point where she will feel bored, she can get apathetic and seek excitement with another guy and that can spell doom for your relationship.

However, when you try new activities with her often, when you take her to places she has never visited before, when you do things with her which will help you to see another perspective of your relationship, when you engage in activities which will make her reveal sides to her personality you never knew, you will appreciate her better and that will make you treat her like a queen always.

Additionally, such activities will help to reignite the passion and love in the relationship again to keep it exciting.

 

7.    Maintain Trust And Honesty

One thing that destroys romantic relationships is the failure of some men to maintain the trust in a relationship—they do not communicate openly with their girlfriends, which leads to mistrust and disharmony.

Additionally, some men undermine a relationship with too many lies and they also fail to fulfill and honor promises they make to their girlfriends.

However, when you ensure that the channels of communication are always open, when you do your best to tell your girlfriend the truth always, when you keep your promises to your girlfriend, when you are worthy of trust, she will give you all the love in her heart, she will be willing to please you all the time and that can make your relationship grow stronger.

 

8.    Maintain Good Communication With Her

Spend at least 10 minutes each day discussing personal and emotional issues so that you can connect on a deeper emotional level, which will make your love for your girlfriend grow.

Furthermore, avoid keeping maltreatments by your girlfriend to yourself because it can breed resentment and discontent, which can weaken the stability of the relationship. Rather, talk to her openly about your concerns, and let her know when you are disappointed with her so that she can work on her weaknesses.

Use these strategies, and these techniques too, to maintain good communication to ensure there are no misunderstandings which can breed mistrust and resentment.

 

Conclusion

To make your relationship last forever, enter each month as though you are starting your relationship afresh, focus on the positive character of your girlfriend, do activities together that will help you to think as a team, be enthusiastic about life every day, do exciting things from time to time, and maintain  good communication always.

 

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Cute Things to Do With Your Girlfriend

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What are some cute things to do with your girlfriend to spice up your relationship? What are some of the things you can do to entertain your girlfriend so that she will feel happy in the relationship?

1.    Cook Together

Cooking together is one of the cute things to do with your girlfriend. Cooking with your girlfriend will help both of you to feel very connected as you talk whilst putting the meal together.

Furthermore, it will give you a chance to interact in a relaxed atmosphere which will go a long way to deepen the camaraderie in the relationship, as well as strengthen the rapport between both of you. Additionally, as you co-operate, as you agree to use this ingredient or that ingredient, as you agree to disagree, as you make compromises, you will both learn how to put your differences aside to focus on doing something together which will help you to communicate better in the relationship.

So, cook an exotic meal together with her. It will give both of you an opportunity to learn something new, which will breathe vitality and freshness into your relationship. Or, let your girlfriend cook a meal she loves but which you do not really enjoy so that you will learn how to compromise for the sake of your girlfriend.

 

2.    Create Your Own Love Song

Use some of the memorable events of your relationship or memorable things you have done for each other to create love songs. For example, you may use how you met each other, wonderful moments you have spent at exciting places or something your lover did to get you from trouble in the past to compose an emotional song that both of you will both love listening to time and time again. Play the musical instrument and let your girlfriend sing the lyrics when you are creating the song.

 

3.    Read Literature Together

Some studies suggest that reading literature can help you to understand other people better. Additionally, reading literature can help you to better empathize with people. Moreover, when you read, you can understand other people’s point of view better.

When you understand your girlfriend better, you will find it easier to compromise when there are disagreements so that you can maintain peace between the two of you.

Additionally, when you find it easier to empathize with her, you are more likely to treat her with love and tenderness, which will help to strengthen the bond of love between the two of you.

Furthermore, when you are able to see things from her point of view sometimes, it will help both of you to resolve conflicts amicably so that you can maintain the harmony and stability of your relationship.

So, make time to read love novels together. Put your smartphones off, cut yourself off from all distractions, and read to each other, analyze what you read together, reflect on what you read and remind yourselves of how you can use that knowledge to improve your relationship so that you can create intimacy between your girlfriend and yourself.

 

4.    Listen To Upbeat Music Together

Listening to cheery music together can help both of you to boost your moods. When you are happy and your lover is also happy, you will relate in loving, tender, caring ways to your partner and that can enhance peace, love, and harmony in your relationship.

Furthermore, it will infuse excitement and happiness into your relationship, which will increase the chances that your relationship may succeed.

 

5.    Exercise Together Frequently

Research suggests that partners feel excited about their relationship, and feel more affectionate towards their partner, when they exercise together.

Exercising together will help both of you to synchronize your feelings. Furthermore, it will encourage a spirit of co-operation in the relationship. Additionally, it will help both of you to aim towards having common goals, which can enhance unity in the relationship.

  • Therefore, join hands and go for a brisk walk for one hour.
  • Or, if your girlfriend is cute and lightweight, carry her on your back and walk around as she whispers sweet nothings into your ears.
  • Or, jog for 30 minutes through serene woods, settle down for a picnic, and talk about the future of your relationship.
  • Alternatively, throw tennis balls at your lover and let her try to catch it.

 

6.    Focus On The Good Qualities Of Your Lover

  • Write down 50 things you like about your partner and let her do likewise.
  • Exchange your lists and memorize the good things your girlfriend wrote about you.
  • Then quiz each other about some of the memorable things you have done to make each other happy in the past.

By doing this, you will focus on the positive sides of each other and that will help you to have positive thoughts about your lover.

Focusing on the positive this way will help you to magnify even the small, adorable traits of your lover which will help to deepen the goodwill you have for your partner and that will help you to maintain a healthy relationship.

 

7.    Watch A Foreign Movie

Rent a movie made on another continent or about another culture, settle in each other’s arms, and enjoy it together. It will afford you an opportunity to learn about other people and other cultures, which will broaden your horizon and help you to look at life and your relationship from a different perspective. Furthermore, you will learn about ways people of other cultures manage to sustain strong relationships, which will empower you with knowledge you can use to improve your relationship.

 

8.    Watch A Soccer Game Together

Dress in the jerseys of your favorite soccer teams and watch them on TV over bottles of smoothies and popcorn or whilst you eat your favorite meal together. On the other hand, buy tickets and go and watch a live game of the teams you love.

 

9.    Watch Humorous YouTube Videos

Go to YouTube and search for the funniest YouTube videos on that site. Compile a list of between 30 and 50 funny videos. Then, regularly, watch these videos together and laugh. It will induce positive feelings in both of you which will help to make you positively predisposed towards your partner—you will find it easier to forgive petty mistakes by your partner and you will relate to your partner with happiness in your heart.

 

10.                      Dance Together

Play a hot tune, grab the hand of your girlfriend, and dance with passion to the exciting rhythms. Tickle her as you dance, tease her, and create excitement to make it fun. You may choose to learn dances from other countries so that you can introduce novelty and fun into your dance sessions.

 

Conclusion

Some cute things you can do  with your girlfriend are to cook together, to create a memorable love song together, to read, listen to upbeat music or exercise together, or to watch funny videos so that you can always feel happy.

 

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How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You Again: 7 Ways to Capture Her Heart Once More

How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You Again: Make Her Feel She Belongs to You

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You may have had a fight with your girlfriend, or cheated on her, or broken up with her for another reason. This may have led her to lose her love for you. But you realize you are still in love with her and want her back. How can you make your girlfriend love you again and renew her relationship with you?

Below, I share with you things you need to do to make your girlfriend fall in love with you again.

1.     Consider How You Acted in the Past

If you want to make your girlfriend fall in love you again, take one whole day and ruminate on what caused you to behave the way you did, if you are responsible for the breakup, or what you could have done to act differently so that both of you would not have parted ways, if she was responsible for the separation.

  • Find a quiet spot or place, such as an empty school classroom, or your own room(if you will not be disturbed), or an isolated park, where you can really think without any distractions keeping you from considering all the important points you need to think about.
  • Sit with a pen and writing pad.
  • Try to remember the issues that caused your relationship to come to a halt. For example, if you remember that it was your cheating on your girlfriend which caused the relationship to breakup, note it as point 1 in your writing pad.
  • Write down how you, as a person, contributed to making the cheating happen. For example, if you cheated because you just felt like having fun with another girl, note it down. If you cheated because you saw this gorgeous girl who swept you off your feet, and who looked extremely alluring and tempting, and who gave you so much attention that you forgot about your girlfriend and succumbed to her temptation, write it down. Similarly, write down all the ways in which you contributed to making the breakup happen.
  • Write down what your girlfriend did which pushed you to do what you did. For example, if you cheated because she was nagging too much, or she was too demanding, or she was not giving you enough attention, write them down.
  • Think about, and write down, the ways in which you think you can deal with the things that caused you to do what made the breakup come about. For example if you cheated, you can write that you will be careful how you associate with other girls other than your girlfriend from now on, or you will make sure you communicate more effectively with your girlfriend, or you will learn to resolve issues better when conflicts come up so that you will not find comfort in another girl, or you resolve now to be determined to remain faithful to your girlfriend from now on.
  • Write down what you think your girlfriend should do so that you will be satisfied and comfortable in the relationship, so that you will never try to seek that comfort with another girl ever again.
  • Think about how the breakup has cost you, what it has done to you emotionally and psychologically, for example the minutes of love or companionship from your girlfriend which you have missed. Also, think about how the issue has affected your girlfriend, and the ways it has made her suffer. Let these thoughts make you feel sorry about what you did, and make the thoughts help you to resolve never to repeat the mistake again.
  • Identify how you can improve your character as a person, and what you can do to become a better lover. For example, if you identify that being inconsiderate was the reason why your girlfriend left, what do you think you can do to become more considerate of her? If you broke up with her because she was self-centered, what are the ways you can help her to become a more selfless girl?
  • Make three copies of what you wrote down, and keep one copy.
  • Work on your inner man and your attitude to life. There is no better book in the world to help you do this than the Bible. It is the roadmap for life and you will find a lot of useful advice in it which can help shape your spirit, and your soul, and this shaping will help you to relate to your girlfriend better. The books of Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Songs of Solomon, and the Psalms hold nuggets of wisdom which can help you to shape up your life better. Read your Bible every day, and pray to God to make you a better person, and you will see a transformation in your life which will impact positively on your relationship.
  • Learn all about loving a woman again and be committed to applying the knowledge you pick up to make her feel truly loved in the future.

Looking to the past so that you can make changes to your attitude is the first step you must take when you want to make your girlfriend love you again.

2.      Let Her See What She Is Missing

If you want to make your girlfriend love you again, you need to add value to yourself so that she will see she is missing something, and that she is the one losing and not you, so that she will find you attractive again and want to be in a relationship with you again, and that may instigate her to love you again.

Therefore, if you are in school, endeavor to work very hard at your books so that you can better your grades and achieve academic excellence. When you get excellent grades, let everybody know about it, and make sure the news gets to her. If you are a worker, double your efforts at work so that you may be considered for promotion, or even be promoted.

Adding value to yourself can act as a pull factor to draw your girlfriend back to you because she will feel she is missing out on being with this great guy.

Make sure you look even more attractive by dressing even better now than when you were with her. Look even more confident, smile as you walk about, and let everyone around you see that you are at peace with yourself, and with the world.

When you meet her in public, smile into her face and greet her civilly. Ask her how she is faring, and tell her about how your life is prospering since you left her, or since she left you. This is one way to make your girlfriend fall back in love with you again.

3.     Make the Move

When you feel you are over what caused the breakup, and you think you have assessed yourself thoroughly and you want to go forward and reunite with her, then make efforts to contact your girlfriend.

  • You may decide to contact her yourself, if the nature off the breakup was not acrimonious.
  • You may use her close friends or her relatives to drop hints that you want to meet her and have an honest discussion with her.
  • Invite her over to your place for a drink, or to watch a movie together, if she will be willing to oblige you. As the man, you must take the initiative to solve relationship problems, and that is what you demonstrate when you invite her to your place, and not vice versa. It shows leadership, and will help you establish your authority over her again if the relationship works out again.
  • On the day you are going to have the discussion with her at your place, create a romantic atmosphere for both of you. This is very crucial if you want to make your girlfriend love you again. Play her favorite love songs in the room where you will hold the discussions, place a picture of both of you at an advantageous place where she will see it immediately she comes to the place. The music will touch her emotions and make her sentimental, whilst the picture will remind her of the wonderful times you had in the past, and these two things may bring back fresh, love memories into her mind. The memories may influence her and make her have fresh love feelings for you if, subsequently, you say the right things.

4.     Remind Her You Are Human

You have to use the argument of your humanness to make your girlfriend fall in love with you again. Take the opportunity of the meeting to remind her that you are only human, and so would make mistakes.

  • Apologize sincerely for your contribution to what led to her losing her love for you.
  • Tell her you have reflected deeply on what happened, and you have seen you erred greatly. Let her know because of your humanness, you succumbed to the weakness, but just as there are many humans who have messed up terribly in life and have bounced back, you also feel you will bounce back and love her even more than you used to love her if she will just give you another chance.
  • You can use the stories of Peter, or David, or the gentleman in Judges 19 in the Bible to support your case. Read how these two men messed up, and how they came back to redeem themselves, and use the lessons you learn from these two stories to convince her that it is possible for a person to mess up terribly, but to become even better than he was later, when he is forgiven and given a second chance.
  • Show what you have written down to her to make her know that you are serious about tackling your weaknesses and improving your attitude. Give her one copy of what you wrote down, and give her a third copy to be given to a person of her choice who will act as an “overseer” and see to it that you act by what you have written down. This can influence her and make her fall in love with you again because she will see you are bent on really loving her, and this may make her more willing to give you her heart again.
  • Show you have changed when you are having this discussion. If you used to speak to her in harsh tones, speak in a slow, measured way. If you were unromantic before, use romantic words as you speak to her. Call her “honey,” or “love,” or “sugar,” as you speak to her. You must say things, or do something whilst you are with her to make her see that you have changed. This will influence her to want to renew her feelings for you again. This can make your girlfriend love you again.

5.     Remind Her of Her Humanness

You can point out a woman’s faults to her and let her see that what happened to you can also happen to her, if you want to make your woman fall in love with you again.

  • Make your girlfriend remember that she has also done things to hurt you in the past. Remind her of specific things she did to hurt you when you were together. For example, if there was an occasion on which she neglected you, or if she insulted you once, or if she got angry because you were not in a position to buy her a smartphone in the past, remind her of how her reaction hurt you, and the way you decided to let go because you loved her and wanted the relationship to progress. And tell her that just as you forgave, she should find it in her heart to forgive you.
  • Point out the specific things she did to make you lose your love for her, that is her contribution to the breakup or fight. Let her see she also has to carry some of the blame. Then discuss what you can do to make compromises so that you can renew your love again.
  • Give her a copy of what you wrote down as evidence that you will do things differently now.

6.     Tell Her the Rewards You Will Give Her

  • If you want to make a girl love you more again, then tell her you are still capable of loving her, and you want to show her even greater love. Assure her of your love for her. Give her evidence by showing her all the information on loving a woman again which you have gathered. This will tell her that you mean business, and it may influence her to throw down the wall which she may have built in her heart, and give you full access to her heart again.
  • Tell her the kind of love you will use to love her this time, which will be consistent, stable, undying, everlasting love.
  • When you renew your relationship, do even more than you told her you would do. Shower so much love on her that she will even beg you to reduce the amount of love you are giving her! It will make your girlfriend fall madly in love with you again.

7.     Make Her Feel She Belongs to a Relationship With You

If you want to make a girl fall in love with you again, you must make her see that you were a great couple, and she can become an important part of your life again and make you a better person if she comes back.

  • Let her know how she impacted on your life, and how important she is to you. For example, you can say something like, “I had low self-esteem until I met you and you made me feel I was the greatest guy in the whole world,” or “I never knew love until you taught me how to love.” This will make her know she is important to you, and it will make her feel she has an unfinished job to do, which is to love you and help make you a better person. It may influence her to love you again.
  • Let her know you need her presence, and make her feel she’s needed by your side. You can say something such as, “I really miss you, Ama. A hole has been created in my heart since you left. I remember the delicious recipes you used to prepare for me? I remember the words of love you used to share with me. We were so good together. Hmmm! Ama, I need you. I want you back in my life. Please consider giving your heart to me again.”

Conclusion

If you want to make your girlfriend love you again, do the things mentioned above in addition to making your girlfriend feel very important, showing her you care, making sure you keep things exciting in the relationship, and trying to get her to refresh her feelings for you, and you will keep her forever.

How did you make your girlfriend love you again? What was the magic formula you used? Let the world know by leaving a comment. Thank you.

How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You: 5 Smart Ways to Achieve It

How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You:Learn How to Maintain Peace

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How can you make your girlfriend love you so that your relationship will get stronger and better? What are some of the things you can do to make your girlfriend love you forever?

Below, I show you how to make your girlfriend love you so that you can enjoy her companionship better.

1.     Learn How to Maintain Peace

One of the biggest sources of stress in romantic relationships has to do with lack of peace in the relationship. Getting along well with your girlfriend, who was brought up in a different home under different circumstances, requires effort on your part, especially when she does things to irritate you.

When you are at peace with yourself, you do not become restless and frightened for your relationship, and you are better able to treat your girlfriend right. When you treat her right, there is a greater chance she will love you.

If you want to make your girlfriend love you, you must learn how to live at peace with yourself, and with her. This will ensure that the right atmosphere is created between the two of you for the love you have for each other to flourish.

If you do not maintain the peace in the relationship, and you are always finding fault with what she does, or you look down on her, or you allow jealous feelings to invade your heart when you see she is friendly with other guys, or you are abusive, or you are unfaithful, or you are self-centered, then she cannot feel motivated to love you.

What are some of the things you can do to live at peace with your girlfriend, create harmony in the relationship, and strengthen your love bond?

  1. Make up your mind that you are going to cultivate a humble spirit, and maintain a humble attitude even if your girlfriend decides to be beastly, cantankerous, and mean.
  2. Try to see your spouse’s point of view when you have disagreements. Do not expect your girlfriend to be your carbon copy. Do not expect her to behave just like you do. Recognize that the way she thinks may be different from the way you think. Her likes may be different from your likes. For example, she may like her food bland, whilst you may like your food spicy. In such a situation, you can make peace when you decide to compromise so that each will learn how to adopt to the taste of the other, or you may decide to eat what you like, and allow your girlfriend to also eat what she wants. To make peace, you have to understand each other.
  3. Be careful the way you use your tongue. Gossiping about your girlfriend to your friends, slandering her, and exaggerating things and blowing them out of proportion (the minor irritations that occur in the relationship) are all things that can destroy peace in the relationship.
  4. Learn how to communicate charitably. Do not lose your temper, raise your voice, or bang doors when you are angry with your girlfriend. Try to control yourself. Honestly try to approach your girlfriend and make efforts to become reconciled. You can say something such as, “We need to resolve our issues. I think we messed up, darling, and we must clean up the mess by discussing this issue,” instead of saying, “I am very upset with you. It is all your fault. If you had listened to me, all this would not have come up.” Using “we” instead of “you” or “I” shows you feel you are also a part of the problem, and prevents shifting all the blame onto your girlfriend. When you shift the blame onto her, she will be forced to become defensive, and that may mean she may attack you to defend her integrity.

 

2.     Learn How to Be Patient

You must learn to develop the quality of self-restraint which does not quickly retaliate even when the provocation is of a magnitude that is difficult to take, if you want to make your girlfriend love you even more.

When you are patient, it will prevent fights, and so your girlfriend’s emotions will not be ruffled, and this will make her continue to love you.

You must therefore develop the ability to absorb irritating things, such as your girlfriend nagging often, without becoming emotionally and psychologically paralyzed(to refuse to do things you must do just because your girlfriend has hurt your feelings, such as spending time with her, or showing her affection).

  • Try to control your temper. Anger has destroyed many relationships, and caused regret in a lot of relationships.
  • See patience as postponing your anger to a later date, or indefinitely.
  • Say something such as, “I will get angry tomorrow,” or “I will get angry next week,” when you are very angry that. Keep postponing your anger every time and with time you will realize that you are better able to control your temper, and your anger. After all what would it cost you if you decide to postpone your anger for a day, a week, a month, or indefinitely? You will lose absolutely nothing because anger is not an asset!

    3. Show You Love Her

If you want to make your girlfriend love you like crazy, then you need to show her that you really love you.

One way you can show you love her is to practice constant forgiveness towards her. As the Bible says in Matthew 6 : 12, “Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.”  You have sinned against God many times, and God has forgiven you a lot of times. Therefore, He requires that you should also learn to forgive any person who wrongs you, including your girlfriend.

Forgiving your girlfriend when she wrongs you can be hard at times because as humans, we have our egos hurt when we suffer at the hands of our loved ones, and that makes us want to pay back.

If you carry an unforgiving heart, you are more likely to pick up quarrels with your girlfriend because you will make a big issue out of every little thing. This is bound to disturb your girlfriend emotionally, to cause her psychological trauma, and it may make her love for you wane.

How can you practice constant forgiveness towards your girlfriend so that you can make her love you?

  • You must learn to understand her. There is always a reason why a person does something. If she becomes cross-tempered, maybe she is having her menses and is disturbed emotionally and psychologically. If she treats you with suspicion and picks up quarrels with you often, maybe she misunderstands your motives, or she has been misunderstood about something you said or did. Maybe she is the victim of her environment or her own heredity—She was brought up in a home where her mother was always quarrelling with her father. Maybe her temperament is such that life is difficult, and human relations is a problem for her—She may be a choleric or sanguine extroverted person. When you understand her better, forgiving her would be easier for you. So, remember her past. Let it inform you and make you calm down when you are upset with her.
  • You must learn to forget. So long as you remember what she does to you, and allow the wrong things she does or says to you to remain strongly in your mind, and brood upon the slights and injuries she causes you, the likelihood that you will forgive her and let it go is drastically reduced. You may say, “I can’t forget what Yaa did to me,” or “I will never forget how Ama treated me in Lovers Restaurant!” These kinds of sayings are very dangerous, because they can make it extremely difficult, or maybe humanly impossible, for you to forget. When you say things like these, it can make you print the memory of what your girlfriend did to you indelibly on your mind. To forgive is the sign of a great lover, and to forget is sublime. Therefore, try to think about her positive sides, the good things she has done for you in the past, when you are tempted to remind yourself of the bad things she has done to you.
  • You must pray. Nothing but the cleansing spirit of Jesus can take the memories of the bad things your girlfriend does to you out of your mind, and remove the bitterness from your heart. Therefore, pray to God to help you forgive your girlfriend. You can pray something like, “Dear God, Yaa has done something to hurt me deeply. She called me a toad when we were quarrelling. This remark hurt me a lot. I want to forgive her, but I find it difficult to do so. I keep remembering that remark every time I see her big head, and it always gives me bitter feelings. Please help me to forget that remark.” If you are sincere, God will help you to let go of the hurt, and He will erase the memory from your mind. It is true that even if you forgive and forget those memories will come to your mind sometimes, but it will not have a hold over you, and cause you to be bitter towards her.

Showing love to her is one way to make your girlfriend love you.

4. Make Her Feel Special

One way you can make your girlfriend love you is to make her feel special.

  • Upload her picture onto Facebook and write fifty things you feel are great about her, and fifty ways in which you think she is special. Share this post with your friends, and the public, and tag her. When she sees the post, it will make her know you value her as a person by virtue of the fact that you are extolling her qualities in front of the whole world. She will appreciate it, and she will appreciate you more and fall in love with you even more.
  • Say romantic things to her. You can say something like, “My love for you is the air I breath, darling, and I know there will never be an end to this air, “ or “Some get addicted to alcohol. Some get addicted to drugs. Some get addicted to sleazy material, but I am addicted to the most pleasurable thing in the world, which is you, my sweetheart,” or “Your love is more precious to me than the most expensive gold or diamond in this world.” Come up with more of such romantic words. Use your creativity and say words that will make her feel she is the best girlfriend in the world.

    5. Give Love

The Bible says in Luke 6:38 that, “Give, and it will be given to you; good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For the measure you give will be the measure you get back.”

You must give if you want to receive. When you give love to your girlfriend, you will receive love from her. The more you love her, the more she will also love you.

Therefore, if you want to make your girlfriend love you, you must love her and show that you are a considerate, caring, loyal, compassionate, and an adoring and empathetic boyfriend who feels she is one of the best things to happen to this world, and one of the best things to happen to your life. This will encourage her to reciprocate your love, and she will also treat you like you are the most wonderful boyfriend in the world.

 

Conclusion

If you will diligently do these things, and also date her often, and keep her happy, you can make your girlfriend love you, and you will be able to keep her  forever.

 

 

What are some of the things you do to make your girlfriend love you? Please share them with the world by leaving a comment. Thank you.

How to Keep Your Girlfriend Happy: 21 Incredible Ways to Do It

How to Keep Your Girlfriend Happy: Make Time for Her

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How can you keep your girlfriend happy? How can you keep your girlfriend in love with you forever? What can you do to keep your girlfriend attracted to you so that she will never leave you?

1.     Make Time for Her

Girls like to share their joys and successes with their boyfriends, and also regularly want to ask advice from their guys, and share their pain and heartaches with the men in their lives. To be able to do this for your girlfriend, you need to make time just to be with her so that she can unload her heart’s desires, and her inner feelings to you. It will give her great joy when you go around often and listen to her.

To keep your girlfriend interested in you and in the relationship, plan meetings with her into your busy schedule.

 

2.     Be Attentive

If you want to keep your girlfriend in love with you, learn to be attentive to what she says. When a girl wants to pass across some information, she wants you to stop whatever you are doing and give her hundred percent attention. Girls do not like it when they are saying something to you, or telling you something, and you give them divided attention.

If you want to keep your girlfriend happy, pay attention to what she says to you.

 

3.     Let Her Feel Special

You must make a conscious effort to make your girlfriend feel as if she is the most important girl in the world, and that you see her as the Queen of your heart, if you want to keep your girlfriend loyal to you.

  • You can do this by sometimes just keeping quiet when you are having a conversation, just looking at her, admiring her beauty, and then you can say something like, “Sarah, I think you are the most beautiful and most wonderful girl in the whole wide world!”
  • Akua, a student said, “I’ll be in the middle of saying something to my boyfriend and I’m suddenly aware he is looking at me in a strange way. And then he tells me he loves me. It blows my mind away and makes me see that I am a special girl. I love it. It makes me feel good inside.”
  • Another way you can make your girlfriend feel special is to send her surprise love text messages from time to time. It will let her know she is always on your mind.

 

4.     Show You Care

  • When a girl spends time with her girlfriends and she meets you the next time, she wants you to ask her how things went.
  • When a girl visits you at the end of the schooling or working day, she wants you to ask her how her day went.
  • When a girl wears new clothes, or does a new hairstyle, she wants you to comment about it.
  • If you want to keep your girlfriend happy, make it a habit to inquire about how things are going in her life, and how she is getting along with her friends and family. When you keep doing these things, she will see you care about her, and she will continue to be happy.

Showing her you care will help you keep your girlfriend from cheating on you because she will have no motivation whatsoever to leave you.

 

5.     Be Generous

Show generosity to her occasionally. A small gift today, a little gift tomorrow will let her know you adore her. This is how to keep your girlfriend!

It does not mean you have to necessarily buy her gifts every time, although it is a good idea if you have the money to spare, but you can show generosity in a variety of ways:

  1. Get her a basket of fruits and vegetables so she can cook a delectable meal for herself.
  2. Buy phone credit for her so that she can recharge her phone and use it to tell you how much she loves you.
  3. Help her out financially when you can, if she is facing financially difficulties.

 

 

6.     Be Faithful to Her

A girl wants to know her boyfriend belongs to her and her alone.

When she knows that your whole heart is devoted to her alone, it makes her happy.

This does not mean that you should not have female friends. You should have other female friends, but let your girlfriend know that they are just platonic friends. Introduce them to your girlfriend so that she will know you are not cheating with them. When you are so open with her, and she sees that you are not romantically involved with these other girls, her mind will be at rest and she will be happy.

Being loyal to your girlfriend is one way to keep your girlfriend happy.

 

7.     Respect Her

If you want to keep your girlfriend attracted to you, you must show maximum respect to her.

One way you can show respect to your girlfriend is to show gratitude for the little things she does for you:

  1. Thank her when she cooks a nice meal for you.
  2. Let her know you appreciate the time she spends with you.
  3. Show appreciation for the pieces of advice she gives you.
  4. Say only character building and motivational words which will encourage her, to her. Avoid insulting her physical build and her intelligence.

 

8.     Be Romantic

  • Let your girlfriend see that you find her a desirable girl by saying romantic words to her often to show you think she is the best. You can say things like, “I think about you from morning to night, baby,” or “You are worth seeing every day, darling.” Come up with other creative words to tell her how wonderful you think she is.
  • Give her surprise dates. It does not necessarily have to be in an expensive restaurant, or at a hotel. You can get a bottle or two of fruit juice, a few meat pies or sandwiches, and have a romantic picnic in a park. Alternately, you can have these dates at your house or her house so that you can save money.
  • Take her to exotic and exciting places she tells you she would love to go as a treat. She will love it, and love you more.

Being a romantic guy is the best way to keep your girlfriend always happy.

 

9.     Be Playful

If you want to keep your girlfriend from getting bored in the relationship, and from seeking excitement from another guy, you should be playful. Try to be playful when you are with her:

  1. Tickle her.
  2. Tease her.
  3. Make jokes so that she can laugh away her stress.
  4. Try to let her lighten up and enjoy life.

Taking life too seriously can put a damper on your relationship and make it boring. Injecting such fun can add to the excitement of the relationship and make her happy. It is a way to keep your girlfriend away from other guys who may also be interested in her.

Keep your girlfriend entertained and she will be happy and stick to you.

 

10.  Flatter Her Often

Intentionally say things about her anatomy to make her feel extra good about her body and her figure. Put her on a pedestal, and let her feel she is no ordinary girl.

  • For example, you can say something like, “Girl, you have the most beautiful lips in the world.”
  • You can say, “Honey, I think your legs are the greatest in the universe.”
  • Another way you can flatter her is to say, “I know your shape is the most wonderful on this side of creation.”

It will make her know that you really cherish her, and she will feel excited and extremely good about herself. It will also help you to get your girlfriend’s attention.

 

11. Show You Are Proud of Her in Public

When you are in public, or when you go to visit friends and family, show signs of affection for your girlfriend in front of them. It will keep your girlfriend excited about the relationship.

  • Sit or stand close by her and put your arm around her.
  • Hold hands with her often.
  • From time to time look into her face for about a minute and just smile at her without uttering a word.
  • Put your arm around her neck and tell everybody there how much you love her.

 

This will show her that you are not ashamed to let others see that you love her, and this will make her happy. It will keep your girlfriend chasing you, and she will never break up with you.

 

12. Give Her Freedom Sometimes

It is true you love her a lot and you want to spend every waking moment with her, but you should also learn to give her some freedom sometimes so that she can miss you. Giving her freedom will also not make her feel you are intruding too much into her life.

Therefore, from time to time, set aside certain days on which you will not go to her place, so that she can reflect on herself and the relationship, and have time to do things she has not been able to do because she has to spend a lot of time trying to please you. It will let her know you are concerned about her as a person, and she will be happy with you for that. It will keep your girlfriend crazy about you and she will never even think of leaving you.

 

13. Inspire Her

If you have been exposed to more in life than her, give her dreams and let her see there is a greater life she can aspire to, and that you feel she has the potential to do even greater things than she is doing in her life now. It will give her something to think about, and make her know that she has potential she can tap into as a person, and it will help you to keep your girlfriend close. It will boost her self-confidence. A person who is always looking forward to something greater, with self-confidence, is generally happier.

 

14. Be Patient When She Messes Up

If you want to keep your girlfriend happy, then treat her with patience when she disrespects you or does something which cuts your heart into two. When you decide to be patient, you will be able to tell her in a civil manner how you are hurt, and this will give her an opportunity to ask for forgiveness in a peaceful manner. Becoming impatient may turn the ant-hill into a mountain, blow up the disagreement, and you may have a major fight.

Being patient and handling conflicts in a mature manner will keep your girlfriend from dumping you because she will see your value as a peaceful guy.

 

15. Maintain Your Commitment to the Relationship

If you want to keep your girlfriend happy, you need to sustain your interest in the relationship by letting her know, by word of mouth, that you are committed to the relationship, and that you will do your best to make the relationship work. This will let her know that she has a stable relationship to look forward to, and this will make her very happy. It will keep your girlfriend wanting you.

 

16.Try to Fulfill Her Expectations

It is true that you cannot fulfill every expectation your girlfriend wants you to fulfill, but you must be able to fulfill a great number of them. Do your best to meet her expectations, or at least meet her half-way, and she will be a happy girlfriend:

  1. Sit down with her regularly and discuss what she expects from you.
  2. Ask her if you are fulfilling them.
  3. If you are not, then try to do better. Ask her to help you meet her expectations. For example, if she expects you to be more romantic, ask her what you can do which she will consider as being romantic. Then do it for her. If she thinks you are not showing enough love, inquire from her why she feels that way, and then implement whatever suggestions she gives you.

If you are able to fulfill most of her expectations, it will keep your girlfriend from leaving you for another guy.

 

17. Never Abuse Her Verbally or Physically

When a guy abuses a girl, it speaks poorly of him and casts a slur on her character. It is not a sign of love, and it is despicable.

Therefore, do your best never to abuse your girlfriend verbally, or by beating her up. Never extend your hands to hit her. Try to talk through problems and make an effort to resolve them amicably. This will get your girlfriend so emotionally attached to you that she will never consider leaving you.

If you cannot thrash out all issues between yourselves, seek the counsel and help of more experienced people than you.

If you think you are not happy with the behavior of your girlfriend, the best thing you have to do is to part ways.

 

18.  Create Future Visions With Her

If you want to keep your girlfriend to be happy, create future dreams and visions with her. Make plans about the future together. This will let her know that you are a guy with a vision, and it will keep her looking forward to something good in the future. This will lift her spirit and make her feel happy because she knows you take the relationship very seriously. It will keep your girlfriend faithful to you, and keep her from leaving.

 

19.  Be a Thoughtful Boyfriend

You must be able to read your girlfriend, and to do the right thing at the right time always.

Therefore, get to know her personality well, her mood changes, the times when she feels like talking, and the times when she wants to be left alone, if you want to keep your girlfriend from losing interest.

When you are able to respond to her changing desires accurately, it will lead to less tension in the relationship, and both of you will feel more comfortable with each other.

 

20. Keep Past Mistakes in the Past

When she does something you hate, and you tell her, and the issue is resolved, try not to bring it into the present again. Bringing it up again will cause healed wounds to be opened afresh, and it will make her unhappy.

Let your girlfriend’s mistakes die with the past, if you want to keep your girlfriend happy and interested in you.

 

21. Don’t Look Down on Her

Treat your girlfriend as a human being with desires, intelligence, aspirations, and abilities which can rival your own, if you want to keep your girlfriend happy. Let her feel she is also a capable person, and it will make her feel great about herself and her abilities. It will keep your girlfriend interested in you forever.

 

Conclusion

If you are able to keep your girlfriend happy, and you show love to her, it will prevent a break up with its consequences. You will not need to go through the trouble of trying to make the relationship work again.

 

 

Do you have a girlfriend? What are you doing to make her stick with you? Share it by leaving a comment. Thank you.

How to Tell if She Loves You: 13 Signs That Will Make You Know

How to Tell if She Loves You: She Will Show You Signs of Affection

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How do you tell if a girl loves you? Below, I want to show you how to tell if she loves you so that you can make an informed choice whether to give you heart back to her.

1.     She Will Want to Be with You Often

How can you tell if she loves you? One way you can tell if she loves you is the amount of time she spends with you. A girl who loves you will have the desire to see you often. Therefore, any least opportunity she gets, she will come to wherever you are because she wants to be close to you and to feel an emotional connection with you.

When she has not seen you for some hours, it will make her feel uncomfortable, and so she will try her best to see you because she has feelings for you. So for example, even if you are in the same class, after you close from class for the day, she will come to your hostel, or come to your house so that she can spend some more time in your presence, because she will experience happiness when she is near you.

On the other hand, if a girl does not want to spend time with you, always makes excuses because she is busy and does not have time for you, then even if she says she loves you, you should not believe her. This is how to tell if she doesn’t love you.

 

2.     She Shares Her Secrets with You

When someone loves you, they trust you a lot, and are not afraid to share things they would otherwise not tell other people with you.

When a girl loves you, she takes you into her confidence and feels comfortable sharing her innermost worries and fears, her thoughts, and desires with you. She does this because she feels she can trust you, and knows you are a guy who will not spill the beans.

If a girl is able to tell you even embarrassing things that happened to her, or terrible things she has done, it means she feels comfortable being in your presence, has no emotional inhibitions, and it is a sign to tell you she loves you. She will even tell you about guys who are proposing to her because she wants to get a response from you, such as you telling her you love her, so that she can confidently ward off those guys by telling them she has a boyfriend.

How to tell if she loves you is to see whether she feels comfortable enough to share her secrets with you.

 

3.     Looks at You and Smiles

A girl who loves you will take delight in looking at you. Whenever she sees you, or if you are doing something together in the same place, such as if you are both in the library reading, or you are both at a friend’s party, you may notice her looking at you. She will look at you for long periods of time and when you also look in her direction and your eyes meet, she will either smile at you because she is happy you are looking at her, or she will avert her eyes, especially if she is a shy girl.

She will look at you for long periods because she admires you, has feelings for you, and cannot have enough of you and so looks at your to satisfy her desire to see you.

How to tell if she loves you is to look for these body language signs, and to be on the look-out for them.

 

4.     She Shows Interest in Your Life

When a person loves you, they want to know what you are going through, whether all is well with you and your family, whether school is going well, and whether you are having issues with your parents or siblings.

When a girl shows a great interest in your life, and always wants to find out what is going on with you, it should tell you she loves you. This is how to see if she loves you.

She will ask you about how life is treating you when she sees you are not looking cheerful. She may ask something like, “Ike, I have not seen you in a while. I have been so busy catching up with my own homework, but I have not forgotten about you. How are you doing? Is everything fine with you?” She will say it with a look of concern on her face. You will see and feel that she is really concerned about you. This is one way to tell if she loves you truly.

She may also say, “Of late you have been very quiet. This is most unlike you. Is everything alright? Are you having some problems? If you are, let me know. I want to help.”

When you love someone, you care about them and what they are going through, and that is why she will show this concern for you.

 

5.     Shows You Signs of Affection

One way to tell if she loves you is when she expresses her love for you by showing you signs of affection when she is around you. She will want to get close to you and depending on your level of friendship, she may put her arms around your waist, or sometimes, she may put her arms on your shoulders, to make you know she really loves you. This is all because of the feelings she has for you. It gives her the desire to want to touch you physically.

Also, you may find her brush your cheeks with the back of her hands sometimes in a playful manner. She will do this because she wants to get your attention and make you know that she wants you to be more than just a friend.

Sometimes too, she may hug you out of the blue, and hold onto you for a long time. On the other hand, she may ask you to hug her when she is feeling emotional, because she wants to feel close to you, which is a sign she loves you. This is how to know she loves you deeply.

 

6.     She Gets Jealous Constantly

If a girl show signs of jealousy every time she sees you with another girl, it should tell you she loves you. This is how to tell if she actually loves you.

  • If every time a girl sees you walking with another girl, she walks up to you and tries to break up your walk with this other girl by taking hold of your hand and trying to take your attention from the girl by turning your face towards her, it means she wants you all to herself, which is a sign she loves you and wants to be the only girl in your life. This should let you know she loves you for real.
  • Sometimes too, you may be sitting down in a corner talking to one of your female friends. She will walk up to where you are sitting and join the conversation uninvited because she may feel that this girl is getting too close to you.
  • When you tell her you came from seeing this girl, or you are going to see that girl, you will see signs of irritation on her face, such as a frown, or if she is smiling before you give her this news, she will stop smiling and assume a serious face. She may try to prevent you from going by saying something to discourage you, such as, “Why don’t you go to her place another time. I want to spend time with you now.” When you insist on going, she will get angry with you and threaten not to speak to you if you go.

 

7. She Will Constantly Get Nervous Around You

How to tell if she is falling in love with you is whether or not she acts in a nervous manner when she is around you.

  1. If a girl loves you, she easily gets nervous whenever she is in your presence. When you speak to her, you will feel the nervousness in her voice, which will show as a shaking, quavering voice.
  2. When you ask her to take something for you, you will notice her hands shaking visibly.
  3. For a girl who sweats a lot, she will sweat more than usual and you will notice her mopping up the sweat which collects on her face often with her handkerchief.

When you notice these signs every time a girl is around you, it must tell you she loves you.

 

8.     Introduces You to Her Family

If a girl loves you, she will want you to know her parents and her siblings. This is to show that she accepts you and wants you to become a part of her family. When someone loves you, they care about you getting to know their family because they are anxious to show you off to their family, and to let their family accept you.

How to tell if a girl is in love with you is when she has the desire to make you meet her family.

 

9.     She Will Want to Know Your Family

A girl who loves you will want your family to know her so that they can give her legitimacy which she can get when she is accepted into the family. If she loves you, she wants your family too to love her, and so she will do her best to get you to introduce her to your family.

How to know if she loves you is to notice her pestering you to introduce her to your family.

 

10. She Will Be Extremely Patient With You

If a girl is extremely patient with you, over and above the ordinary, it should tell you she loves you. When you do something that normally would get any girl annoyed, she will be calm and take it coolly because she loves you and does not want to have a fight with you.

When you hurt her emotionally, she will be patient and give you another chance because her feelings for you are deep. This is how to tell if she loves you or not.

If a girl behaves this way towards you, it must tell you she loves you, and you must not take advantage of her feelings for you, and continue to hurt her.

 

11. She is Particularly Kind to You

A girl who loves you will go out of her way to show special kindness to you. She will treat you in a special way she may not treat even her family members or close friends and associates. For example, she may buy expensive gifts for you, gifts which will make you wonder how she got the money to buy them for you. That will tell you how highly she esteems you, and how precious she thinks you are to her.

She may cook your favorite meals for you and present them to you as a present, or ask you ways she can be of help to you. If she does these things often, she loves you, cares about you, and wants to help you. This is how to know whether she loves you or not.

 

12. She Comes to Like What You Like

One sure thing that can give you an indication that  a girl loves you is when she aligns her interests with your interests. She does this because she wants both of you to have a common ground of interest, and also because she wants to please you. So, for example, if she hated reading, and you like reading, you will notice that she will develop an interest in reading because she knows when she does so, you will like her more, and also you will have a lot more things to talk about when you meet since you will now have identical interests.

How to know she loves you or not is to see if she tries to like what you like, which she does in an effort to impress you and win your favor.

 

13. She Will Include You in Her Decisions

When a girl loves you, she will trust you and your judgments, which will make her seek your opinion when she is making critical decisions that have serious implications for her life, such as travelling out of the country because she wants to go to school overseas, or if she wants to change course in school, or she wants to change schools. By valuing your input into her decision making, she is telling you that your opinion matters to her. When your opinion matters to a person, there is a possibility that person loves you.

How to know if she loves you is to checkout whether she seeks your opinions when she is making decisions.

 

Conclusion

When you can tell if she loves you, then if you want to have a relationship with her, reciprocate that love and make her fall for you. And when you treat her exceptionally, you can be sure that your relationship will last for a long time.

 

 

Do you have a girlfriend? How could you tell she loved you? Please let me know by leaving a comment. Thank you.

 

 

How to Keep Your Girlfriend: 16 Smart Ways to Go About It

How to Keep Your Girlfriend: Acknowledge Her

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How can you keep your girlfriend attracted to you, and in love with you till you can make the commitment to marry her?

 

1. Be a True Companion

We usually enter a relationship because we feel lonely, or do not want to spend our life alone but with someone who will share our space and be a friend we can always count on.

 A girl wants a true companion she can share her life with. Some guys are in relationships but are not companions; they do not offer time for the girl to share her intimate heart’s feelings and emotions with them.

If you want to keep your girlfriend interested, then be a true companion. Keep your girlfriend company. Devote time to her for her to share ideas with you in a peaceful and enjoyable atmosphere.

 

2. Comfort Her

Every girl has weaknesses and faces trials and temptations. A girl wants a guy who will have the patience to understand her weaknesses, trials, temptations, her low level of moral endurance, and who will, even when she messes up, carefully speak words of healing which will correct her and make her a stronger woman.

Girls also want guys who will be loving and do affectionate acts that will bring joy and peace to the relationship.

If you want to keep your girlfriend, be patient with her and try to understand her weaknesses, and help her to overcome them—this is how to keep your girlfriend in love. Comfort your girlfriend, speak words of healing when she makes mistakes, try to help her to overcome her weaknesses, be loving and affectionate, and you will be able to keep your girlfriend close and she will love you forever.

 

3. How to Keep Your Girlfriend From Other Guys—Protect  Her

A girl wants to feel safe when she is with a guy. You do not need to fight or exchange blows with another man, but at least you must demonstrate with your words to your girlfriend that she is secure when she is around you, and tell other guys to stay away from her because she belongs to you.

You can do this by making guys know that they cannot mess around with your girl, and that you will stand up to be counted and defend her to the best of your ability. Say it with all confidence, look fierce and bold, and guys will not want to come near your girlfriend.

 

4. Keep Her From Danger

One way you can protect her is to see beyond the present, look into the future, and give her advice, cautions, and assistance  which will help her  jump over some hurdles in life, or prevent danger and trouble in her life. For example, if she wants to start a business and you can do research and give her useful advice, she will cherish you for that. Also, if you see her developing a friendship which is likely to cause her problems in the future and you tell her honestly, stating the consequences of  that association clearly to her, and she sees reason, you will get your girlfriend’s attention and she will love you more when she sees you are doing it because you want to keep her safe.

 

5. Offer Her Security

When you give your girlfriend a comforting sense of belonging, if she feels you belong to her alone and she knows she is not sharing you with any other girl, it gives her peace of mind, and helps her to devote all her energy to the relationship, and it also makes her more willing to want to stay with you. This is one way to keep your girlfriend loyal, and to keep her happy.

If she knows you like jumping from girl to girl, she will not feel she has a future with you, and she may leave.

 

6. Do Not Only Hear Her, But Listen to Her

Women like to talk, and like to be listened to. It makes them feel very wanted when their guys hear, and also listen to them.

Hearing is to know that her voice is audible, and she is saying something. Listening is stopping whatever you are doing, giving her your full attention, looking into her face, and taking in whatever she wants to tell you, even if you don’t care about what she is saying.

When you do not listen to her, it gives her the feeling that you do not care about her inner thoughts, and this could make her unhappy with the relationship. But when you listen you show her you care a lot about what she has to say, and she will be happy about the relationship and want to continue being with you; this is a way to keep your girlfriend from breaking up with you.

 

7. Be Faithful

Let your girlfriend be the only girl you are seeing. Let her be more precious to you than anyone, apart from Jehovah, and let her know she holds a special place in your heart. This is one way to get your girlfriend comfortable, and to make her want to continue the relationship.

Some guys treat their friends and family with more respect, and give more attention and time to them, than they give to their girlfriends. Also, they place their love for their work, or other friendships, pastimes, or recreations  ahead of their relationship with their girlfriends.

If you want to keep your girlfriend, continue to have your close friends, and times of recreation, but devote more time to her than to the other things. It will keep your girlfriend calm and satisfied in the relationship.

 

8. Resolve Conflicts Amicably

You will most definitely have arguments, but you should not see your arguments as a challenge of your authority as the man, or as a boxing fight which must definitely be won by you. If you do that, you may tear down the relationship just to show that you can fight, and she may leave when she thinks she is being treated unfairly.

Instead, cooperate with her to fight the cause of the quarrels. Both of you should attack the problem, not the consequences of the problem.

 

9. Acknowledge Her

Make up your mind that your girlfriend does not owe you anything. Think that she owes you nothing, so that when she does anything for you, you will acknowledge it and see it as a precious gift she is giving to you. This will cause you to value her more, and she will be happier with you when she knows she is valued, it will keep your girlfriend crazy about you.

 

10. Make Sure You Are Great Fun

Your girlfriend will never leave you when you can make her happy always. How do you keep your girlfriend happy always? You can keep your girlfriend happy by  being great fun.

Some relationships break up because one partner is starved of fun by the other partner.

If you want to keep your girlfriend, then you will have to become a child again and make the relationship lively. Have a sense of playfulness, and a spirit of jollity and merriment. If you can adopt this attitude, and find ways to make even tough times great fun for her, you will keep her forever.

One good way to be great fun is to develop your sense of humor. Try and build up a catalogue of jokes, rehearse them often, practice them, and release them when you are together with her. Make her laugh and forget some of her stress, and she will always love your company, and want to be in a relationship with you.

Keep your girlfriend entertained and she will not want to leave you. It is also one way to keep your girlfriend from cheating on you.

 

11. Be Alert When You Are Around Her

Girls pay attention to detail, and sometimes think guys  also pay attention to detail. A girl wants you to notice it when she changes her lipstick, or when she starts doing her hair differently, or when she does manicure, or changes the color of her eye shadow, or when she wears a new shoe.

Keep your eyes open and notice changes you see in her, and tell her how beautiful it makes her look, or else you are in trouble. She will think you do not care about her when you do not notice these things.

Always remember that for some girls talking about how they look is a measure of your care and love for her. Therefore if you do not do it, they assume you do not love them, and that could cause a break up.

 

12. Don’t Be Manipulative

Manipulative people sometimes use shallow flattery as a ploy to get what they want.

If you are in the habit of flattering your girlfriend, and your girlfriend sees that you use it just to get her to do things for you, to take advantage of her, and she points it out to you but sees you are not willing to change, you will lose her trust, and she will fall out of love with you.

When you want her to do something for you, just negotiate with her. Let her know your needs, and her reward when she does something for you. This is more likely to motivate her, and to make her want to keep the relationship with you.

13. Don’t Be Proud

Pride takes many forms and sometimes shows itself  through an arrogant manner rooted in security. Proud people refuse to listen and face facts, refuse to admit wrongs when they make mistakes, vow never to say “I am sorry,” and refuse to negotiate.

If you want to keep your girlfriend, then you must not show pride in the relationship. If you are feeling insecure, work on your self-esteem and build up your confidence.

When you make mistakes, be humble enough to admit that you are a human and will make mistakes, and your girlfriend will be happy to stay with you. You do not lose anything when you apologize to a woman. It does not make you less of a man, and does not make your height reduce by an inch!

When  you have disagreements, resolve to negotiate so that there will be peace.

 

14. Make Her Feel Special

If you want to keep your girlfriend, you must make her feel that she is the most cherished girl on earth by the way you treat her and set her apart in your heart.

 

15. Date Her Often

Many girls want to be courted regularly. They want their men to rekindle the fire that was lit when they first met. They want to be wined and dined. When you become so busy that you do not have time to date her again, she can feel emotionally neglected, and seek that emotional connection with another man. Some girls have left their guys, or had affairs behind the back of their boyfriends because their boyfriends stopped being romantic.

Therefore, date her. Rekindle your love from time to time.

 

16. Manage Her Expectations

Many girls enter relationships with wild dreams, most of which are unattainable. It is your duty as the guy to  know your girlfriend’s expectations and fantasies, and to manage them so that she does not end up feeling you do not love her, which can make her break up with you.

For example, if she thinks that a boyfriend should always be buying expensive gifts for his girlfriend, and you do not make her understand that she must learn to adapt to the economic strength of her boyfriend and be satisfied with the little he can do for her, she will become dissatisfied with what you can do for her, look for a man who can buy her those expensive gifts, and leave you.

 

Conclusion

Women need attention, and it must be your resolve to give her the utmost attention you can give her. If you do that, she will not break up with you, and you can enjoy your relationship to the fullest.

 

Are there any other ways you think you can keep your girlfriend? Let the world know by leaving a comment. Thank you.