How to Make Your Girlfriend Fall In Love With You All Over Again
You may be in a relationship with this girl who you love like crazy. But you realize she no longer loves you, or her love for you is waning. What can you do to make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again? How can you prevent her from losing her love for you totally?
1. Solve the Root Problem
You must deal with the reason why your girlfriend lost her love for you, if you want to make your girlfriend love you all over again.
There are a variety of reasons why a woman would fall out of love with her boyfriend:
- She may feel you are not romantic enough.
- She may be bored in the relationship and need some more excitement.
- You may not be giving her the kind of attention she needs.
- Respect is one essential ingredient which makes a love relationship work. It is possible you may not be giving her the respect she requires.
These, among other reasons, may cause your girlfriend to lose her love for you. Have an honest discussion with her and find out why she thinks she has lost her feelings of love for you.
2. Talk to Guys Who Have Been Through It Before
Find some guys whose girlfriends have lost love for them before, and find out from them what they did to make their girlfriends fall in love with them all over again. Implement their tips and strategies for making your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again. Some of the tips may be peculiar to their particular circumstances and situation. But some of the tips they give you may work for your particular situation. The important thing is to experiment, to do a little trial and error and see what works for you.
3. Become a New Person
One thing you can do to make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again is to involve God in your relationship and ask Him to make you a new person. There will be a radical change in your life and character when you place God at the center of your relationship.
Becoming a new person is a mighty spiritual change which can be brought about only by the intervention of God. He can cause an inner moral transformation in you that will lead to an outward change in your way of living, and this will make you treat your girlfriend better, and that could cause her to renew her love for you.
You can involve God in your relationship and seek His help to become a new person by praying something such as, “Dear God, I want you to help me become a new person. Please transform me and help me to change radically internally. Make my heart your home and help me to become a better lover.” God will put a new love for your fellow human beings, including your girlfriend, into your heart. You will treat her with greater love, and because when love is given it is received in even greater quantities, your girlfriend will start loving you again when you show her the love which God will teach you to use.
4. Spring Surprises on Her
When you see that your girlfriend is losing her love for you and you want to make her fall in love with you all over again, one good way to do that is to do fresh things in the relationship which will show that you love her. These acts will put fresh excitement in the relationship, and may induce fresh feelings in her. For example, if you have been eating out at a particular restaurant, start taking her to a different restaurant which offers the same quality of service you were receiving at the old restaurant.
Or, take her on a ride in your car(if you have one). Just ride around the city with no destination in mind. Drive around, and observe how people are going about their day’s work. When she asks you where you are going, tell her nowhere. Just tell her you just want her to be near you. This will be a break from the routine of meeting at your place, or seeing her at her place. Tell her to enjoy the scenes she observes. She may see a couple walking hand-in-hand, or see a boyfriend and girlfriend kissing, and these things may cause her to think about love again. Or, when you see street children, pass a comment such as, “Look at those kids. They have no one to love them in the world, except their God. Hmmm! When you have someone to love you in this world, it is a great privilege which you must cherish. It is also a great privilege and honor to have somebody to love.” Do not look at her face when you say this. Let the words sink into her consciousness, and let her chew on those words. She may see that she is depriving herself of happiness by not loving you anymore. It may make her rethink about her feelings for you, see that she is throwing away something worthwhile, and she may start refreshing her feelings for you.
5. Date Her All Over Again
Both of you can decide to pretend you have never met each other before in this life, and start dating her again as if you are new lovers.
- Instead of going out to a restaurant, or to a comedy show, or to the theater, plan to have dates at your home , or her home, so that you can save some money.
- When you met at first and started falling in love, most of your conversations may have been about you as a person, or your girlfriend, and your families and friends, because you wanted to get to know her better. This time, have conversations about things you have never talked about before. Read about some of the famous soccer stars and talk about them and their families. Talk about some stranger you met at school, or a client you are dealing with.
- Instead of eating the foods you are used to eating every time, learn how to prepare a meal from Africa. Prepare it when you have your dates at home, and enjoy it together.
- Draw your girlfriend, and let her draw you too. Compare your drawings and see which one resembles the true likeness of the person you tried to draw. It will be fun, and as you do it and laugh at the caricatures you create, you can start repairing the bond of love which was broken , and springs of love can spring up in your girlfriend’s heart again when she starts having fun again.
- Say your favorite childhood rhymes to each other. Become children again, make her laugh, and you could make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again.
- Sing her favorite love song to her. Sing it with emotion in your heart. Try to remember how much you love your girlfriend as you sing it. If possible cry to show you deeply you love her. It will work wonders on her emotions and make her emotional too, which will increase your chances of making her fall in love with you all over again.
- Read a romance novel to her. Look in her eyes as you read. Let her see you adore her.
- Record personal messages of love and send them to her so that she can play them often. When she focuses her mind on your love for her, by listening to your messages, and they remind her often that you still love her, she will cast her mind back to how great you have made her feel in times past, and that could make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again.
- Watch a recorded video of both of you together, in which you were both having fun and displaying affection for each other. This could move her, and work on her emotions so that she will want that kind of relationship again. It could make her fall in love with you all over again.
Dating your girlfriend again can make her refresh her love for you, and make her fall in love with you all over again.
6. Change Her Environment
If you have the money to take her to another city, or country, then do so. Take her out of the setting she is so used to, and away from people she meets every day.
Try to meet other couples who are also struggling to maintain the love in their relationship. Let them tell you how they managed to get back in love again. This will give your girlfriend fresh romantic energy and make her see that she is not the only girlfriend who is losing her love for her boyfriend, and it will also tell her that when you lose your love for your boyfriend, you can fall back in love with him again. This may motivate her to work on herself so that she will fall in love with you all over again.
7. Make Her Feel She is a Part of You
One thing that can make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again is to make her see that she contributes a lot to your life.
- Make her see that she has deposited valuable things in you, that you are grateful, and you want her to continue depositing love and warm feelings in you.
- You can say something such as, “Adwoa, I can never forget how you make me feel when you are affectionate. The feelings you invoke in me are deep and wonderful. I feel you are a part of me. I think I can be the best I can be with only you by my side. Adwoa, I want you to consider your feelings again. I don’t think this is something you cannot deal with. All you may need is some space and time to reconsider and find your bearings again. I need you, darling, and I know you will be happy if you continue in this relationship. I don’t think you will find the happiness we shared in this relationship, in another relationship with another guy. I need you, Adwoa. And deep down in my heart, I know you need me. I need you to continue loving me, encouraging me in rough times, showing me affection in times when I feel like no one in the world loves me. I need your conversation, your voice, your advice again. Please reconsider. Don’t let this beautiful baby we created just die.”
8. Give Her Promises
Give her specific promises as an incentive to make her fall in love with you all over again. Also, point to promises you have kept in the past to make her know you are capable of keeping your promises.
For example, if she has lost her love for you because you were not spending enough time with her, promise her you will spend thirty minutes with her every day, i.e. time in her presence physically, and also virtually through the phone or computer, but end up spending forty five minutes with her each day. When she sees that you are giving her more than you offered, for example spending forty minutes instead of the thirty minutes you promised, it will make her feel you are very caring now, and it could make her fall in love with you all over again.
9. Make Yourself Attractive to Her Again
When you are having conversations with her, say things to show you are enjoying your life.
- Talk about all the great plans you have and the exciting prospects you see for your life.
- If you make it look appealing enough, she may want to become a part of that life and vision. She will see you are an ambitious guy with big dreams, and a bright future, and she will want to be a part of that future prosperity. This could make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again.
These are some of the ways you can make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again. Keep on showing her love, and continue to make her feel special, and from time to time renew and refresh your love for each other, and it will all help to make her want to continue with the relationship.
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