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Incorporate Me Deeper Into Your Heart: Awesome Ways to Create a Great Relationship

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Yaw Manu has been in a relationship with Yaa Amponsah for six months now and Yaa feels that their relationship is not strong enough. “Yaa has been saying to me often, ‘Incorporate me deeper into your life so that we can have a fantastic relationship.’ I love Yaa very much and she loves me too and we want this relationship to continue until we marry.  I know that there are areas we can improve upon and we have begun working on those areas. However, I need more ideas to help us have a strong relationship. I want to know things I can do so that my girlfriend can also incorporate me deeper into her heart. I would be happy if you could help me in this regard,” Yaw requests.

If you also feel that there is a lot of room for improvement in your romantic relationship, then here are some things you can do to create a great relationship.

 

1.     Remind Yourself Of The Early Days Of The Relationship Often

Talk about what you used to do when you first started dating, and how you related to each other then, and some of the things you did that helped to maintain the love in your relationship. Then, start doing some of those things again. It will help to rejuvenate the love you feel for each other and you will bond better and stronger.

 

2.     Show Gratitude To Your Girlfriend Every Day

A study has revealed that when lovers show gratitude, it can make the lovers feel strongly bonded to each other. Additionally, appreciating your partner will make him or her feel satisfied to be in the relationship.

So, when you appreciate the sacrifices that your girlfriend makes to make you happy, it will make her feel happy and she will be willing to do more to enhance the quality of the relationship.

Furthermore, when you let her know that what she is doing for you touches your heart and makes you have stronger feelings for her, she will see that you care about her and she is more likely to also develop deeper affection for you.

So, thank her when sacrifices her credit to call you. Thank her when she spends quality time with you engaging you in exciting conversation. Thank her when she nurses you during sickness, and let her know that you appreciate it when she tells you she loves you.

 

3.     Practice Active Listening

Good communication is essential for the stability of any romantic relationship: when you can express yourself well and get your girlfriend to understand the messages that you want to convey, you will find it easier to address differences and resolve conflicts and that will help both of you to maintain the stability of your relationship.

One aspect of communication you must take seriously is active listening. How do you do that?

  • Do your best to be sensitive to what she says to you, instead of ignoring her concerns and the issues she may have about the way you are treating her, or instead of ignoring the changes she wants you to make in the way you relate to her so that the relationship can become stronger.
  • Additionally, when you have conversations, let your girlfriend know that you are following what she is saying by asking her to clarify certain points, asking her questions based on what she said to you, looking into her face, nodding when she says something you appreciate, and shaking your head when she says something that you disagree with.

Listening to her actively will make her feel that you value her opinions and her concerns and that can help her maintain the love she has for you.

 

4.     Be Kind To Your Partner

When you show kindness to your girlfriend, she will feel wanted and that will make her feel happy, which will increase the likelihood that she will be emotionally stable. When her emotions are in a state of equilibrium, she is more likely to relate to you lovingly and that can help to enhance the connection between the two of you.

So, avoid criticizing her unfairly or condemning her when she makes mistakes. Rather, focus on her positives, remind yourself of the things she does right in the relationship, and let that help you to treat her with respect and honor.

 

5.     Show Humility At All Times

A study has revealed that humility can help to make a relationship last for a long time. When you choose to be humble, you will find it easier to say to your girlfriend, “What you did hurt me, but because I love you so much, and for the sake of our relationship, I forgive you.”

Additionally, when you choose to be humble, you are more likely to sacrifice your comfort to make her feel happy in the relationship. Consequently, she is more likely to be pleased with the way you treat her, she may reciprocate by treating you with respect and honor, and that can help to solidify your relationship.

So, show humility. How can you do that?

  • Remind yourself often that there are things she can do better than you. Moreover, remind yourself often that there are things which you need her to do for you. When you remind yourself of your limitations this way, you will be more willing to learn from her and that will make it easier for you to control your ego.
  • Admit your mistakes when you make them. And learn to apologize to her when you see that you have erred.
  • Learn not to take things she does which you are not comfortable with too seriously all the time. Learn to laugh at yourself and some of her goofs sometimes because it will help you to control your pride, as well as help you to resist the urge to retaliate when she says or does something you dislike.

 

6.     Be Quick To Forgive Your Girlfriend When She Hurts You

When you forgive your girlfriend, when you choose to release bitterness, you will find it easier to relate to her with respect and that can help both of you to resolve conflicts amicably. Resolving differences in a peaceful manner will help to maintain the stability and integrity of the relationship.

Additionally, when you learn to forgive, you will not engage in shouting matches with her when you have disagreements. Consequently,  tempers may not rise to the point where both of you will feel very bitter towards each other, and that will make it easier  for you to discuss your differences and solve them in a spirit of understanding.

 

 

Conclusion

Your partner may say to you sometimes, “Incorporate me deeper into your life so that we can have a great relationship.” To do that, remind each other of the early days of your relationship and try to relive those days, thank your girlfriend for what she does for you, listen to her concerns with an empathetic ear, show kindness to her, do your best to be humble, and forgive her from your heart when she wrongs you.

 

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7 Intelligent Ways to Make a Girl Fall in Love With You

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How can you make a girl fall in love with you? What are some strategies you can use to make a girl fall madly in love with you? What are things you can do to make a girl fall in love with you fast? And what are some foolproof ways to make a girl fall in love with you?

In this article, I want to share with you some simple steps and tricks that will make a girl fall deeply in love with you so that you can have a great relationship.

Now, what should you do?

 

1.     Look Into Her Eyes Often

One of the strategies that you can use to make a girl fall in love with you in school is to look into her eyes often. Whenever you are around her, or when you bump into her in the library or in class, ensure that you make eye contact with her. Then smile sweetly into her face.

When you do that, you will tell her that you like her a lot and that can make her start liking you too because she will feel that you are a friendly guy who will enrich her life when she associates with you. Additionally, research shows that we tend to grow to like people who like us. And when she starts liking you, those feelings can develop into love when you entertain her and make her feel happy.

 

2.     Let Her Know That You Exist

If you want to make her fall in love with you, show her that you care about people. Studies show that women like guys who are compassionate and friendly. So, do something that will make the girl feel that you are a unique, exciting, loving guy with a great personality.

Let her see you doing things that show that you care a lot about people. It will give her the message that you are a tender, loving, caring guy who will treat her like a queen when she becomes your friend or when she gets to know you better, or if she  gives her heart to you and that may make her develop feelings for you.

Therefore, let her see that there is far more to you than what she knows and she will be intrigued and desire to know you more. Moreover, it will impress her and she will want to find out what else is in that good heart of yours, which will make her draw close to you and you will have the opportunity to show love and care to her which can induce affection for you in her.

 

3.     Exhibit A Sense Of Humor

Research shows that women are attracted to guys who can make them laugh. When you are able to make her split her sides with laughter, when you can help her to smile and laugh when she is down, she will reckon that you are great fun and a friend indeed.

Moreover, as you make her laugh, you will strengthen the camaraderie and rapport between the two of you, you will feel a strong connection as time goes on, you will bond better, and she can develop deep love feelings for you as a result.

Additionally, exhibiting a good sense of humor will make her feel that you are a very intelligent guy—girls like to have relationships with guys who they feel are smart.

 

4.     Emphasize Your Similarities

People tend to fall in love with others who have the same characteristics that they have. When you let the girl see that you share similar characteristics, she will feel that she will be compatible with you when she develops a closer relationship with you.

Additionally, she will feel that she is more likely to feel satisfied in the relationship if she gives her heart to you.

Furthermore, she will think that she is likely to be happy with you because you will understand each other which will help both of you to bond well, and that can make her more willing to open up her heart to you without reservation.

So, for example, if she is very God- fearing and you also love God, direct conversations you have with her in the direction of religion and spirituality and that will make her feel that you share something in common which will bind both of you together so that you can have a long, lasting relationship, and it will make her feel comfortable to be with you.

Or, if she loves soccer and you also love watching soccer, invite her to play soccer with you sometimes, take her to see soccer games, or buy the jersey of her favorite soccer team for her and she will feel a connection, which may cause her to develop affectionate feelings for you.

 

5.     Let Her See That You Can Meet Her Needs

When a girl is looking for a partner, she looks for a guy who has the opposite of her weaknesses so that he can complement her and make her feel whole when she is with him.

For example, if a girl is not so smart, she may look for a guy who is smart and who can help her with her studies. Or, if she is a diffident girl, she is likely to fall for a guy who is very confident and who can serve as her “backbone when she starts a relationship with him.

So, if the girl lacks self-esteem, show extreme self- confidence and it can help to induce feelings of love for you in her because she will feel that you will protect her from guys and she will also feel that you will support her emotionally and give her direction to help her succeed in life—it will make her see that you have what she needs to make her a complete person and she will fall for you because of that.

 

6.     Listen To Her

Studies carried out by the University of Nevada and the University of Washington has revealed that listening to someone can make the person fall in love with you.

When you listen with rapt attention whilst she is talking to you, when you listen with a sympathetic ear when she is telling you her problems, it will make her see that you care deeply about her. Additionally, it will make her feel  that you want the best for her and that can induce feelings of gratitude in her, which can grow later and become feelings of love.

 

7.     Pray About It

God is the God of love. It is He who instituted relationships. And He wants you to involve Him in your romantic relationships so that He can teach you to love the way He loves us with steadfast love.

So, pray about it. You may pray a prayer such as this one: “Dear God, please be merciful to me a sinner. I accept my faults and my sins and I ask for forgiveness. LORD, I worship You and praise You that You have given me life to see this day. Glory be to Holy Name for Your mercies and Your grace. LORD, You tell us to love one another because love comes from You. I am attracted to Yaa and I want her to fall in love with me so that we can have  a relationship, so that we can get to know ourselves better. Please touch her heart and let her develop feelings for me just as Michal fell in love with David in the Bible. You turn the king’s heart in Your favor, LORD. Please stir her emotions and her spirit and let her develop feelings for me. Amen.”

 

Conclusion

To make a girl fall in love with you, make sure that you make eye contact with her every time you meet her, let her see that you are a caring guy who will treat her as a special girl when she develops a close relationship with you, make her laugh often, let her see that you share similarities which will help you to bond as a couple, let her see that you have what she lacks, and listen to her when she communicates with you.

 

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8 Great Ways to Make Your Relationship Last Forever

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How can you make your relationship last? What are some things you must do if you want to make a relationship with your girlfriend last a lifetime? What are some strategies you can use to make a relationship last until marriage? And what are some ways to help your relationship to grow so that you can love each other better?

In this article, I will show you how to make your relationship last forever so that you can enjoy your girlfriend until you marry and, subsequently, until death parts you.

Now, make your relationship last with these 8 tips.

1.    Assume You Are Starting Your Relationship Afresh At The Beginning Of Every Month

At the end of every month, see your relationship as one that has expired and which needs renewal. Assume that in the next month you will be starting afresh with your girlfriend. Make plans to relate to her as though you had just met her by coming up with plans to keep the relationship exciting.

When you adopt this attitude, you will endeavor to keep the relationship interesting and intriguing every month. Consequently, your relationship will never become stale—you will be able to keep it exciting and entertaining always and that will make your girlfriend happy and she will be content to stay with you.

 

2.    Think Good Thoughts About Your Girlfriend Often

One of the secrets behind relationships that last is that the partners in those relationships focus on the good points of their partners.

So, do your best to focus on the positive qualities of your girlfriend, and the good things she does for you. When you do this, love feelings will come into your heart, you will always feel tender and affectionate towards her, which will help you to maintain the good will you have for her. As a result, the relationship bond will continue to be strong.

On the other hand, when you focus on the weaknesses and faults of your girlfriend, ill feelings will come into your heart, you may easily get irritated with her when she does something you don’t understand or when you have disagreements, and that can corrode the love between the two of you.

 

3.    Do Challenging Activities With Her Often

One exciting way of making your love last is to do things that will build your capacity to work as a co-operative couple. To do this, at the end of every week or once a month, engage in an activity that will test your endurance as a couple, as well as help you to work as a team.

For example, run together for a distance of 10 miles, go hiking over rough terrain in a forest, climb rocks together, or swim together. As you spend time with each other, you will get to understand your girlfriend better, you will understand how you can make her love you better and how to influence her to please you, and you will also get to know how to show her strong love and that can help you to relate to her in loving ways which will make her happy.

Furthermore, you will learn how to co-operate to solve problems and that will help you to resolve conflicts in your relationship better so that the stability of the relationship can be maintained. Additionally, it will give you time to interact, which will help you to strengthen your emotional bond. Consequently, your love for your girlfriend will grow.

 

4.    Have A Passion For Life

Men who live every day as though it is the last day of their life, who enjoy a day with enthusiasm, passion, and liveliness tend to carry that same passion and zest into their love lives.

When you enjoy each day and show that you are happy to be alive to see that day, it will fill you with positive energy, which will put you in a positive mood that can make you to relate to your girlfriend in loving ways. Consequently, you will be able to create a loving environment in which your girlfriend will feel content and appreciated and she will be happy to remain in the relationship.

 

5.    Maintain Positive Illusions About Your Girlfriend

According to a study conducted by the University of Geneva, when you continue to maintain positive illusions about your partner—when you continue to remind yourself every day that your girlfriend is the most beautiful girl in the world, when you remind yourself often that you think she is intelligent, when you remember that she is loving, caring, understanding and a great companion—you will continue to be happy with her, you will always feel good when you see her, and that can help you to continue feeling connected to her.

 

6.    Do New Things With Her Often

Boredom is one thing that kills relationships—when you don’t entertain your girlfriend well, or when you allow the relationship to get to the point where she will feel bored, she can get apathetic and seek excitement with another guy and that can spell doom for your relationship.

However, when you try new activities with her often, when you take her to places she has never visited before, when you do things with her which will help you to see another perspective of your relationship, when you engage in activities which will make her reveal sides to her personality you never knew, you will appreciate her better and that will make you treat her like a queen always.

Additionally, such activities will help to reignite the passion and love in the relationship again to keep it exciting.

 

7.    Maintain Trust And Honesty

One thing that destroys romantic relationships is the failure of some men to maintain the trust in a relationship—they do not communicate openly with their girlfriends, which leads to mistrust and disharmony.

Additionally, some men undermine a relationship with too many lies and they also fail to fulfill and honor promises they make to their girlfriends.

However, when you ensure that the channels of communication are always open, when you do your best to tell your girlfriend the truth always, when you keep your promises to your girlfriend, when you are worthy of trust, she will give you all the love in her heart, she will be willing to please you all the time and that can make your relationship grow stronger.

 

8.    Maintain Good Communication With Her

Spend at least 10 minutes each day discussing personal and emotional issues so that you can connect on a deeper emotional level, which will make your love for your girlfriend grow.

Furthermore, avoid keeping maltreatments by your girlfriend to yourself because it can breed resentment and discontent, which can weaken the stability of the relationship. Rather, talk to her openly about your concerns, and let her know when you are disappointed with her so that she can work on her weaknesses.

Use these strategies, and these techniques too, to maintain good communication to ensure there are no misunderstandings which can breed mistrust and resentment.

 

Conclusion

To make your relationship last forever, enter each month as though you are starting your relationship afresh, focus on the positive character of your girlfriend, do activities together that will help you to think as a team, be enthusiastic about life every day, do exciting things from time to time, and maintain  good communication always.

 

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Cute Things to Do With Your Girlfriend

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What are some cute things to do with your girlfriend to spice up your relationship? What are some of the things you can do to entertain your girlfriend so that she will feel happy in the relationship?

1.    Cook Together

Cooking together is one of the cute things to do with your girlfriend. Cooking with your girlfriend will help both of you to feel very connected as you talk whilst putting the meal together.

Furthermore, it will give you a chance to interact in a relaxed atmosphere which will go a long way to deepen the camaraderie in the relationship, as well as strengthen the rapport between both of you. Additionally, as you co-operate, as you agree to use this ingredient or that ingredient, as you agree to disagree, as you make compromises, you will both learn how to put your differences aside to focus on doing something together which will help you to communicate better in the relationship.

So, cook an exotic meal together with her. It will give both of you an opportunity to learn something new, which will breathe vitality and freshness into your relationship. Or, let your girlfriend cook a meal she loves but which you do not really enjoy so that you will learn how to compromise for the sake of your girlfriend.

 

2.    Create Your Own Love Song

Use some of the memorable events of your relationship or memorable things you have done for each other to create love songs. For example, you may use how you met each other, wonderful moments you have spent at exciting places or something your lover did to get you from trouble in the past to compose an emotional song that both of you will both love listening to time and time again. Play the musical instrument and let your girlfriend sing the lyrics when you are creating the song.

 

3.    Read Literature Together

Some studies suggest that reading literature can help you to understand other people better. Additionally, reading literature can help you to better empathize with people. Moreover, when you read, you can understand other people’s point of view better.

When you understand your girlfriend better, you will find it easier to compromise when there are disagreements so that you can maintain peace between the two of you.

Additionally, when you find it easier to empathize with her, you are more likely to treat her with love and tenderness, which will help to strengthen the bond of love between the two of you.

Furthermore, when you are able to see things from her point of view sometimes, it will help both of you to resolve conflicts amicably so that you can maintain the harmony and stability of your relationship.

So, make time to read love novels together. Put your smartphones off, cut yourself off from all distractions, and read to each other, analyze what you read together, reflect on what you read and remind yourselves of how you can use that knowledge to improve your relationship so that you can create intimacy between your girlfriend and yourself.

 

4.    Listen To Upbeat Music Together

Listening to cheery music together can help both of you to boost your moods. When you are happy and your lover is also happy, you will relate in loving, tender, caring ways to your partner and that can enhance peace, love, and harmony in your relationship.

Furthermore, it will infuse excitement and happiness into your relationship, which will increase the chances that your relationship may succeed.

 

5.    Exercise Together Frequently

Research suggests that partners feel excited about their relationship, and feel more affectionate towards their partner, when they exercise together.

Exercising together will help both of you to synchronize your feelings. Furthermore, it will encourage a spirit of co-operation in the relationship. Additionally, it will help both of you to aim towards having common goals, which can enhance unity in the relationship.

  • Therefore, join hands and go for a brisk walk for one hour.
  • Or, if your girlfriend is cute and lightweight, carry her on your back and walk around as she whispers sweet nothings into your ears.
  • Or, jog for 30 minutes through serene woods, settle down for a picnic, and talk about the future of your relationship.
  • Alternatively, throw tennis balls at your lover and let her try to catch it.

 

6.    Focus On The Good Qualities Of Your Lover

  • Write down 50 things you like about your partner and let her do likewise.
  • Exchange your lists and memorize the good things your girlfriend wrote about you.
  • Then quiz each other about some of the memorable things you have done to make each other happy in the past.

By doing this, you will focus on the positive sides of each other and that will help you to have positive thoughts about your lover.

Focusing on the positive this way will help you to magnify even the small, adorable traits of your lover which will help to deepen the goodwill you have for your partner and that will help you to maintain a healthy relationship.

 

7.    Watch A Foreign Movie

Rent a movie made on another continent or about another culture, settle in each other’s arms, and enjoy it together. It will afford you an opportunity to learn about other people and other cultures, which will broaden your horizon and help you to look at life and your relationship from a different perspective. Furthermore, you will learn about ways people of other cultures manage to sustain strong relationships, which will empower you with knowledge you can use to improve your relationship.

 

8.    Watch A Soccer Game Together

Dress in the jerseys of your favorite soccer teams and watch them on TV over bottles of smoothies and popcorn or whilst you eat your favorite meal together. On the other hand, buy tickets and go and watch a live game of the teams you love.

 

9.    Watch Humorous YouTube Videos

Go to YouTube and search for the funniest YouTube videos on that site. Compile a list of between 30 and 50 funny videos. Then, regularly, watch these videos together and laugh. It will induce positive feelings in both of you which will help to make you positively predisposed towards your partner—you will find it easier to forgive petty mistakes by your partner and you will relate to your partner with happiness in your heart.

 

10.                      Dance Together

Play a hot tune, grab the hand of your girlfriend, and dance with passion to the exciting rhythms. Tickle her as you dance, tease her, and create excitement to make it fun. You may choose to learn dances from other countries so that you can introduce novelty and fun into your dance sessions.

 

Conclusion

Some cute things you can do  with your girlfriend are to cook together, to create a memorable love song together, to read, listen to upbeat music or exercise together, or to watch funny videos so that you can always feel happy.

 

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How to Start a Conversation with a Woman

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It can be hard to start a conversation with a woman, especially when you are a shy guy, when you don’t know the woman, or when you like the women. That is why some guys ask, “How do you start a conversation with a woman?”

In this article, I want to show you how you can start a conversation with an attractive woman for the first time, or how you can start a conversation with any woman, whether it is an unknown woman, a black woman, a woman on the internet, a woman on a dating site, or a woman at the gym.

Let us look at what you should do.

1.    Make Sure You Approach the Woman at the Right Time

If you want to have a fruitful conversation with a woman you are interested in or to whom you are attracted, ensure that you approach her when she is in a relaxed state. Avoid making your move when she is busy doing something important or when she is preoccupied.

Study the situation around her and look at her body language. If you see that she looks relaxed and comfortable and there is no one around her, make your move. Take in a deep breathe, wish yourself luck, and advance towards her.

2.    Introduce Yourself

The most important thing you must do when you want to start a conversation with a woman is to smile as you approach her. Let her see that you are a warm, friendly guy whom she has nothing to fear from. Approaching her with a serious look may make her misjudge you and , consequently, she may not want to talk to you.

Look confident by standing straight. Moreover, look into her eyes as you approach her. You can then say something such as, “Good afternoon. I am Isaac Nunoofio. I have been seeing you around. There is something about you I like. I just don’t know what it is. But, I want to find out. I want to get to know you. May I know your name?” This is how to start a conversation with a woman you just met.

3.    Shake Her Hand

Try to get her to shake hands with you. A study has shown that shaking the hands of people can make you feel happy. When you shake her hand and feel happy, you will approach the conversation in a positive mood. Therefore, you are more likely to sound interesting and that will make the woman enjoy her time with you better.

4.     Talk About What is Happening Around You

Use what is happening where you are to start a conversation with a woman.

  • If you are indoors, you may comment about the way the room has been painted. You may say something such as, “I really like the color that was used to paint this room. You know, I love cream. It’s my favorite color. What is your favorite color?” Ask a question at the end of your comment so that you can draw the woman into the conversation.
  • You may choose to comment about the people you see in the room. You may say something such as, “The guys and gals here are nice people. That is why I always come to this shopping mall. The service here is incredible. I have seen you here a number of times. Tell me, why do you come here?”
  • If you are outdoors, you may choose to comment about the weather and life. You may say something such as, “Today is a beautiful day and I want to meet beautiful people. The sunshine reminds me that I should be grateful I am alive. Don’t you love the weather?”
  • If you are in public transport, a train, or in an aeroplane, you may say something such as, “I get so bored when I have to travel. I am always wrapped up in my thoughts. It can feel really lonely at times. Do you feel the same way when you are travelling?” This is how to have a conversation with a woman you just met.

5.    Compliment Her

One thing you can do to start a conversation with a woman is to compliment her. Many women like to be appreciated  and will respond with delight when you compliment them.

You may say something such as, “I think you are a great team player. Your colleagues in the office talk a  lot about you and I am honored to meet you,” or “That was a great speech. You were concise, articulate, and very professional. I could learn a few things from you. Tell me, how do you do it?”

When you compliment the woman, you may make her more willing to open up and talk to you. Therefore, try to see how much you can notice about a woman , and then use one of those observations to start a conversation with a woman.

6.    Ask Her a Question

Asking a woman a question is a great way to start a conversation with a woman. Start your questions using the words “Who?”, “What?”, “When?”, “Why?”, “Where?” and “How?” Questions which start with these words make the respondent give some detail when he is responding.

Therefore, the woman will carry on with the conversation. Furthermore, you will get information from which you can ask her further questions so that you can prolong the conversation.

Here are some questions to start a conversation with a woman.

  1. What do you think of your supervisor?
  2. Who is your favorite female work colleague? Why do you like her so much?
  3. When do you hope to get married?
  4. I see you wearing blue dresses most of the time. Why do you like the color blue?
  5. Where do you hope to be in 20 years’ time?
  6. How do you think your future will shape up at the office?

 

7.    Talk About Her Interests

One of the ways to start a conversation with a woman is to use her hobbies to your advantage. Therefore, before you approach the woman, find out about her interests, hobbies, and passions. Then, when you start conversing with her, shift the conversation in the direction of her interests. This is how to keep a conversation with a woman.

For example, if you find out that she loves talking about fashion, learn what you can about clothes. After your initial remarks, start talking about clothes. This will make her find the conversation more engaging and she will be more willing to participate in the conversation with more liveliness. This will make it easier for you to invite her to have another conversation with you at another time.

8.    Ask Her About Her Family

Let the woman feel that you care about her by asking her about her brothers, sisters, and parents. Ask her if they are doing well. Then, talk about your family and share something about yourself. This is how to have a conversation with a woman you like. This is how to open up a conversation with a woman.

However, do not give away everything about yourself. Just say enough just to arouse her curiosity so that she will be willing to have another conversation with you at another time to get to know you better.

9.    Ask the Woman About Her Job

Find out about the kind of job she does, her responsibilities at work, her relationship with her work colleagues, and the frustrations she goes through every day at work. Sympathize with her and share similar frustrations you also go through at your workplace. Showing such solidarity will help you to bond with her and it may motivate her to share more about her life with you for she will see you both face similar struggles. This is how to start and hold a conversation with a woman.

10.Tell Her an Interesting Story

Women like to hear stories and that is why they love watching soap operas. Telling the woman a story will help you to grab her attention from the start so that you can engage her and keep the conversation going. This is how to have a fun conversation with a woman.

You may choose to tell her about something that happened to you or a funny story about how a guy and a woman met for the first time or some silly thing a guy did when he met a woman for the first time. Make the story as funny as possible so that you can make her laugh. It will make the woman see that you are an interesting guy and she would love to converse with you. Furthermore, you may choose to tell her about a funny movie you watched with her.

11.    Comment About Current Events

One great way to start a conversation with a woman is to talk about issues that are trending in your town or country. It is likely she may also know about these events and that will make it easier for the two of you to contribute to the conversation.

11. Talk About Things You Love

At certain times in the conversation, shift the discussion to things you are passionate about. For example, if you love soccer, talk about your favorite soccer team or about your favorite soccer star. This will fire you up and make you look lively which will make you look exciting. You may then ask the woman if she likes your passion and tell her about it if she doesn’t.

12. Talk About How That Particular Day Has Gone So Far

You may start a conversation with a woman by making general comments about how your day has treated you so far. For example, you may say, “I woke up today hoping to have a great day. You know, Thursday is the day on which I was born and so I love Thursdays. However, the day has been terrible so far. My cat scratched me when I wanted to give it a hug. I kicked a stone when I came out of the house in the morning. And my boss has been so demanding today. What about you? How has your day gone so far?”

13. Build on What She Says

When the woman answers one question, ask her another question based on the answer she gives you. Keep doing this so that you can prolong the conversation. Concentrate on what she says to you and make comments related to what she shares with you. Sigh when you have to, laugh at the right time, grunt convivially, and give encouraging remark such as, “Really? I never knew that!” or “Amazing! You are really incredible!” This is how to prolong a conversation with a woman.

14. Stay Focused

Keep your mind on the conversation and try to be curious about her life. In subtle ways, try to find out about her personality, the kind of women she moves with, the kind of men she likes going out with, her visions and plans for her life, how she spends her annual leave and so on. This will give you information which you can use to start subsequent conversations with her.

15. Use Pauses

Talk for periods of time, then give her an opportunity to contribute to the conversation too. Then break for a few seconds so that you can think about follow up questions, or so that you can strategize as to the direction in which to take the conversation.

For example, if you have been talking about her hobbies for about 5 minutes, pause, decide to shift the conversation to your hobbies, think about what you want to say about your hobbies, and then re-start the conversation, this time talking about the things you love.

End the Conversation on a Good Note

Inform the woman that you enjoyed the time you spent talking to her and getting to know her. Hint that you would love to have subsequent conversations with her to see if she also feels the way you do. Ask for her number and promise to call. Then wish her a good day, smile at her, and leave.

Conclusion

To start a conversation with a woman, you must try to make the approach great. If you do that and entertain her well, you may have the opportunity to date her. When you see that she loves you, and you show her you love her, you can make her fall in love with you, and keep her forever.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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9 Smart Ways to Make Your Girlfriend Fall in Love With You All Over Again

How to Make Your Girlfriend Fall In Love With You All Over Again

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You may be in a relationship with this girl who you love like crazy. But you realize she no longer loves you, or her love for you is waning. What can you do to make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again? How can you prevent her from losing her love for you totally?

1.     Solve the Root Problem

You must deal with the reason why your girlfriend lost her love for you, if you want to make your girlfriend love you all over again.

There are a variety of reasons why a woman would fall out of love with her boyfriend:

  1. She may feel you are not romantic enough.
  2. She may be bored in the relationship and need some more excitement.
  3. You may not be giving her the kind of attention she needs.
  4. Respect is one essential ingredient which makes a love relationship work. It is possible you may not be giving her the respect she requires.

These, among other reasons, may cause your girlfriend to lose her love for you. Have an honest discussion with her and find out why she thinks she has lost her feelings of love for you.

2.     Talk to Guys Who Have Been Through It Before

Find some guys whose girlfriends have lost love for them before, and find out from them what they did to make their girlfriends fall in love with them all over again. Implement their tips and strategies for making your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again. Some of the tips may be peculiar to their particular circumstances and situation. But some of the tips they give you may work for your particular situation. The important thing is to experiment, to do a little trial and error and see what works for you.

3.     Become a New Person

One thing you can do to make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again is to involve God in your relationship and ask Him to make you a new person. There will be a radical change in your life and character when you place God at the center of your relationship.

Becoming a new person is a mighty spiritual change which can be brought about only by the intervention of God. He can cause an inner moral transformation in you that will lead to an outward change in your way of living, and this will make you treat your girlfriend better, and that could cause her to renew her love for you.

You can involve God in your relationship and seek His help to become a new person by praying something such as, “Dear God, I want you to help me become a new person. Please transform me and help me to change radically internally. Make my heart your home and help me to become a better lover.” God will put a new love for your fellow human beings, including your girlfriend, into your heart. You will treat her with greater love, and because when love is given it is received in even greater quantities, your girlfriend will start loving you again when you show her the love which God will teach you to use.

4.     Spring Surprises on Her

When you see that your girlfriend is losing her love for you and you want to make her fall in love with you all over again, one good way to do that is to do fresh things in the relationship which will show that you love her. These acts will put fresh excitement in the relationship, and may induce fresh feelings in her. For example, if you have been eating out at a particular restaurant, start taking her to a different restaurant which offers the same quality of service you were receiving at the old restaurant.

Or, take her on a ride in your car(if you have one). Just ride around the city with no destination in mind. Drive around, and observe how people are going about their day’s work. When she asks you where you are going, tell her nowhere. Just tell her you just want her to be near you. This will be a break from the routine of meeting at your place, or seeing her at her place. Tell her to enjoy the scenes she observes. She may see a couple walking hand-in-hand, or see a boyfriend and girlfriend kissing, and these things may cause her to think about love again. Or, when you see street children, pass a comment such as, “Look at those kids. They have no one to love them in the world, except their God. Hmmm! When you have someone to love you in this world, it is a great privilege which you must cherish. It is also a great privilege and honor to have somebody to love.” Do not look at her face when you say this. Let the words sink into her consciousness, and let her chew on those words. She may see that she is depriving herself of happiness by not loving you anymore. It may make her rethink about her feelings for you, see that she is throwing away something worthwhile, and she may start refreshing her feelings for you.

5.     Date Her All Over Again

Both of you can decide to pretend you have never met each other before in this life, and start dating her again as if you are new lovers.

  • Instead of going out to a restaurant, or to a comedy show, or to the theater, plan to have dates at your home , or her home, so that you can save some money.
  • When you met at first and started falling in love, most of your conversations may have been about you as a person, or your girlfriend, and your families and friends, because you wanted to get to know her better. This time, have conversations about things you have never talked about before. Read about some of the famous soccer stars and talk about them and their families. Talk about some stranger you met at school, or a client you are dealing with.
  • Instead of eating the foods you are used to eating every time, learn how to prepare a meal from Africa. Prepare it when you have your dates at home, and enjoy it together.
  • Draw your girlfriend, and let her draw you too. Compare your drawings and see which one resembles the true likeness of the person you tried to draw. It will be fun, and as you do it and laugh at the caricatures you create, you can start repairing the bond of love which was broken , and springs of love can spring up in your girlfriend’s heart again when she starts having fun again.
  • Say your favorite childhood rhymes to each other. Become children again, make her laugh, and you could make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again.
  • Sing her favorite love song to her. Sing it with emotion in your heart. Try to remember how much you love your girlfriend as you sing it. If possible cry to show you deeply you love her. It will work wonders on her emotions and make her emotional too, which will increase your chances of making her fall in love with you all over again.
  • Read a romance novel to her. Look in her eyes as you read. Let her see you adore her.
  • Record personal messages of love and send them to her so that she can play them often. When she focuses her mind on your love for her, by listening to your messages, and they remind her often that you still love her, she will cast her mind back to how great you have made her feel in times past, and that could make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again.
  • Watch a recorded video of both of you together, in which you were both having fun and displaying affection for each other. This could move her, and work on her emotions so that she will want that kind of relationship again. It could make her fall in love with you all over again.

Dating your girlfriend again can make her refresh her love for you, and make her fall in love with you all over again.

6.     Change Her Environment

If you have the money to take her to another city, or country, then do so. Take her out of the setting she is so used to, and away from people she meets every day.

Try to meet other couples who are also struggling to maintain the love in their relationship. Let them tell you how they managed to get back in love again. This will give your girlfriend fresh romantic energy and make her see that she is not the only girlfriend who is losing her love for her boyfriend, and it will also tell her that when you lose your love for your boyfriend, you can fall back in love with him again. This may motivate her to work on herself so that she will fall in love with you all over again.

7.     Make Her Feel She is a Part of You

One thing that can make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again is to make her see that she contributes a lot to your life.

  • Make her see that she has deposited valuable things in you, that you are grateful, and you want her to continue depositing love and warm feelings in you.
  • You can say something such as, “Adwoa, I can never forget how you make me feel when you are affectionate. The feelings you invoke in me are deep and wonderful. I feel you are a part of me. I think I can be the best I can be with only you by my side. Adwoa, I want you to consider your feelings again. I don’t think this is something you cannot deal with. All you may need is some space and time to reconsider and find your bearings again. I need you, darling, and I know you will be happy if you continue in this relationship. I don’t think you will find the happiness we shared in this relationship, in another relationship with another guy. I need you, Adwoa. And deep down in my heart, I know you need me. I need you to continue loving me, encouraging me in rough times, showing me affection in times when I feel like no one in the world loves me. I need your conversation, your voice, your advice again. Please reconsider. Don’t let this beautiful baby we created just die.”

8.     Give Her Promises

Give her specific promises as an incentive to make her fall in love with you all over again. Also, point to promises you have kept in the past to make her know you are capable of keeping your promises.

For example, if she has lost her love for you because you were not spending enough time with her, promise her you will spend thirty minutes with her every day, i.e. time in her presence physically, and also virtually through the phone or computer, but end up spending forty five minutes with her each day. When she sees that you are giving her more than you offered, for example spending forty minutes instead of the thirty minutes you promised, it will make her feel you are very caring now, and it could make her fall in love with you all over again.

9.     Make Yourself Attractive to Her Again

When you are having conversations with her, say things to show you are enjoying your life.

  • Talk about all the great plans you have and the exciting prospects you see for your life.
  • If you make it look appealing enough, she may want to become a part of that life and vision. She will see you are an ambitious guy with big dreams, and a bright future, and she will want to be a part of that future prosperity. This could make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again.

Conclusion

These are some of the ways you can make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again. Keep on showing her love, and continue to make her feel special, and from time to time renew and refresh your love for each other, and it will all help to make her want to continue with the relationship.

Are there any other ways you think a guy can make his girlfriend fall in love with him all over again? Share it with the world by leaving a comment. Thank you.

How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You Again: 7 Ways to Capture Her Heart Once More

How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You Again: Make Her Feel She Belongs to You

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You may have had a fight with your girlfriend, or cheated on her, or broken up with her for another reason. This may have led her to lose her love for you. But you realize you are still in love with her and want her back. How can you make your girlfriend love you again and renew her relationship with you?

Below, I share with you things you need to do to make your girlfriend fall in love with you again.

1.     Consider How You Acted in the Past

If you want to make your girlfriend fall in love you again, take one whole day and ruminate on what caused you to behave the way you did, if you are responsible for the breakup, or what you could have done to act differently so that both of you would not have parted ways, if she was responsible for the separation.

  • Find a quiet spot or place, such as an empty school classroom, or your own room(if you will not be disturbed), or an isolated park, where you can really think without any distractions keeping you from considering all the important points you need to think about.
  • Sit with a pen and writing pad.
  • Try to remember the issues that caused your relationship to come to a halt. For example, if you remember that it was your cheating on your girlfriend which caused the relationship to breakup, note it as point 1 in your writing pad.
  • Write down how you, as a person, contributed to making the cheating happen. For example, if you cheated because you just felt like having fun with another girl, note it down. If you cheated because you saw this gorgeous girl who swept you off your feet, and who looked extremely alluring and tempting, and who gave you so much attention that you forgot about your girlfriend and succumbed to her temptation, write it down. Similarly, write down all the ways in which you contributed to making the breakup happen.
  • Write down what your girlfriend did which pushed you to do what you did. For example, if you cheated because she was nagging too much, or she was too demanding, or she was not giving you enough attention, write them down.
  • Think about, and write down, the ways in which you think you can deal with the things that caused you to do what made the breakup come about. For example if you cheated, you can write that you will be careful how you associate with other girls other than your girlfriend from now on, or you will make sure you communicate more effectively with your girlfriend, or you will learn to resolve issues better when conflicts come up so that you will not find comfort in another girl, or you resolve now to be determined to remain faithful to your girlfriend from now on.
  • Write down what you think your girlfriend should do so that you will be satisfied and comfortable in the relationship, so that you will never try to seek that comfort with another girl ever again.
  • Think about how the breakup has cost you, what it has done to you emotionally and psychologically, for example the minutes of love or companionship from your girlfriend which you have missed. Also, think about how the issue has affected your girlfriend, and the ways it has made her suffer. Let these thoughts make you feel sorry about what you did, and make the thoughts help you to resolve never to repeat the mistake again.
  • Identify how you can improve your character as a person, and what you can do to become a better lover. For example, if you identify that being inconsiderate was the reason why your girlfriend left, what do you think you can do to become more considerate of her? If you broke up with her because she was self-centered, what are the ways you can help her to become a more selfless girl?
  • Make three copies of what you wrote down, and keep one copy.
  • Work on your inner man and your attitude to life. There is no better book in the world to help you do this than the Bible. It is the roadmap for life and you will find a lot of useful advice in it which can help shape your spirit, and your soul, and this shaping will help you to relate to your girlfriend better. The books of Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Songs of Solomon, and the Psalms hold nuggets of wisdom which can help you to shape up your life better. Read your Bible every day, and pray to God to make you a better person, and you will see a transformation in your life which will impact positively on your relationship.
  • Learn all about loving a woman again and be committed to applying the knowledge you pick up to make her feel truly loved in the future.

Looking to the past so that you can make changes to your attitude is the first step you must take when you want to make your girlfriend love you again.

2.      Let Her See What She Is Missing

If you want to make your girlfriend love you again, you need to add value to yourself so that she will see she is missing something, and that she is the one losing and not you, so that she will find you attractive again and want to be in a relationship with you again, and that may instigate her to love you again.

Therefore, if you are in school, endeavor to work very hard at your books so that you can better your grades and achieve academic excellence. When you get excellent grades, let everybody know about it, and make sure the news gets to her. If you are a worker, double your efforts at work so that you may be considered for promotion, or even be promoted.

Adding value to yourself can act as a pull factor to draw your girlfriend back to you because she will feel she is missing out on being with this great guy.

Make sure you look even more attractive by dressing even better now than when you were with her. Look even more confident, smile as you walk about, and let everyone around you see that you are at peace with yourself, and with the world.

When you meet her in public, smile into her face and greet her civilly. Ask her how she is faring, and tell her about how your life is prospering since you left her, or since she left you. This is one way to make your girlfriend fall back in love with you again.

3.     Make the Move

When you feel you are over what caused the breakup, and you think you have assessed yourself thoroughly and you want to go forward and reunite with her, then make efforts to contact your girlfriend.

  • You may decide to contact her yourself, if the nature off the breakup was not acrimonious.
  • You may use her close friends or her relatives to drop hints that you want to meet her and have an honest discussion with her.
  • Invite her over to your place for a drink, or to watch a movie together, if she will be willing to oblige you. As the man, you must take the initiative to solve relationship problems, and that is what you demonstrate when you invite her to your place, and not vice versa. It shows leadership, and will help you establish your authority over her again if the relationship works out again.
  • On the day you are going to have the discussion with her at your place, create a romantic atmosphere for both of you. This is very crucial if you want to make your girlfriend love you again. Play her favorite love songs in the room where you will hold the discussions, place a picture of both of you at an advantageous place where she will see it immediately she comes to the place. The music will touch her emotions and make her sentimental, whilst the picture will remind her of the wonderful times you had in the past, and these two things may bring back fresh, love memories into her mind. The memories may influence her and make her have fresh love feelings for you if, subsequently, you say the right things.

4.     Remind Her You Are Human

You have to use the argument of your humanness to make your girlfriend fall in love with you again. Take the opportunity of the meeting to remind her that you are only human, and so would make mistakes.

  • Apologize sincerely for your contribution to what led to her losing her love for you.
  • Tell her you have reflected deeply on what happened, and you have seen you erred greatly. Let her know because of your humanness, you succumbed to the weakness, but just as there are many humans who have messed up terribly in life and have bounced back, you also feel you will bounce back and love her even more than you used to love her if she will just give you another chance.
  • You can use the stories of Peter, or David, or the gentleman in Judges 19 in the Bible to support your case. Read how these two men messed up, and how they came back to redeem themselves, and use the lessons you learn from these two stories to convince her that it is possible for a person to mess up terribly, but to become even better than he was later, when he is forgiven and given a second chance.
  • Show what you have written down to her to make her know that you are serious about tackling your weaknesses and improving your attitude. Give her one copy of what you wrote down, and give her a third copy to be given to a person of her choice who will act as an “overseer” and see to it that you act by what you have written down. This can influence her and make her fall in love with you again because she will see you are bent on really loving her, and this may make her more willing to give you her heart again.
  • Show you have changed when you are having this discussion. If you used to speak to her in harsh tones, speak in a slow, measured way. If you were unromantic before, use romantic words as you speak to her. Call her “honey,” or “love,” or “sugar,” as you speak to her. You must say things, or do something whilst you are with her to make her see that you have changed. This will influence her to want to renew her feelings for you again. This can make your girlfriend love you again.

5.     Remind Her of Her Humanness

You can point out a woman’s faults to her and let her see that what happened to you can also happen to her, if you want to make your woman fall in love with you again.

  • Make your girlfriend remember that she has also done things to hurt you in the past. Remind her of specific things she did to hurt you when you were together. For example, if there was an occasion on which she neglected you, or if she insulted you once, or if she got angry because you were not in a position to buy her a smartphone in the past, remind her of how her reaction hurt you, and the way you decided to let go because you loved her and wanted the relationship to progress. And tell her that just as you forgave, she should find it in her heart to forgive you.
  • Point out the specific things she did to make you lose your love for her, that is her contribution to the breakup or fight. Let her see she also has to carry some of the blame. Then discuss what you can do to make compromises so that you can renew your love again.
  • Give her a copy of what you wrote down as evidence that you will do things differently now.

6.     Tell Her the Rewards You Will Give Her

  • If you want to make a girl love you more again, then tell her you are still capable of loving her, and you want to show her even greater love. Assure her of your love for her. Give her evidence by showing her all the information on loving a woman again which you have gathered. This will tell her that you mean business, and it may influence her to throw down the wall which she may have built in her heart, and give you full access to her heart again.
  • Tell her the kind of love you will use to love her this time, which will be consistent, stable, undying, everlasting love.
  • When you renew your relationship, do even more than you told her you would do. Shower so much love on her that she will even beg you to reduce the amount of love you are giving her! It will make your girlfriend fall madly in love with you again.

7.     Make Her Feel She Belongs to a Relationship With You

If you want to make a girl fall in love with you again, you must make her see that you were a great couple, and she can become an important part of your life again and make you a better person if she comes back.

  • Let her know how she impacted on your life, and how important she is to you. For example, you can say something like, “I had low self-esteem until I met you and you made me feel I was the greatest guy in the whole world,” or “I never knew love until you taught me how to love.” This will make her know she is important to you, and it will make her feel she has an unfinished job to do, which is to love you and help make you a better person. It may influence her to love you again.
  • Let her know you need her presence, and make her feel she’s needed by your side. You can say something such as, “I really miss you, Ama. A hole has been created in my heart since you left. I remember the delicious recipes you used to prepare for me? I remember the words of love you used to share with me. We were so good together. Hmmm! Ama, I need you. I want you back in my life. Please consider giving your heart to me again.”

Conclusion

If you want to make your girlfriend love you again, do the things mentioned above in addition to making your girlfriend feel very important, showing her you care, making sure you keep things exciting in the relationship, and trying to get her to refresh her feelings for you, and you will keep her forever.

How did you make your girlfriend love you again? What was the magic formula you used? Let the world know by leaving a comment. Thank you.