Online dating is helping people to find love and spouses. And one person who also wants to use this medium to find a mate is Kwame Oduro. Kwame is 30 years old, he has dated a number of women face- to- face, but all those relationships ended on rocks. He is desperate to settle down and start a family, but his busy schedule lately makes it difficult for him to go out nowadays to find women.
“Some friends have suggested that I use online dating to find a woman because it will afford me the opportunity to meet a lot more women than I could if I went around looking for a woman. I believe it will also make it easy for me to interact with women considering my tight schedules. I am a bit skeptical about online dating, but I will take the risk and give it a try. Some friends have indicated that tinder is a good place to start. I want to set up a great tinder profile to help me attract the kind of woman that I can have a good relationship with. I would be happy if you could give me some tinder profile tips to help me enable me to look appealing to women who will visit my profile,” Kwame says.
If you are also interested in dating on tinder, then here are some tips that will help you to get responses from women so that you can start a friendship and build it up until you both fall in love.
1. Upload A Picture In Which You Are Doing Something Exciting Such As Playing A Guitar
Research suggests that when a man uploads a profile picture in which he looks active, instead of showing one in which he is just standing in front of his house, sitting drinking, sleeping in his bed, sitting at his desk in the office, or standing with friends, he is more likely to get responses from women.
When you show a picture in which you are engaging in something interesting, women who visit your profile will reckon that you live an exciting, engaging life and that will make some of them contact you so that they can also experience that fun-filled life.
Additionally, you will make it easier for women who also love music and singing to contact you and start a conversation with you, or to have something to talk about when you send them a first message: it will facilitate communication and that can make both of you connect quickly.
So, if you have photos about when you were learning how to play the guitar, or about when you collected your friend’s guitar, showcase them on your profile. If you don’t have any such photos, get a guitar and take some pictures with it, or borrow a guitar and let your friend take photos of you playing it!
2. Let 70% Of Your Profile Be About Yourself
Some experts suggest that let 70% of the profile be about yourself and use the remaining 30% to tell women about the kind of person you think you will be compatible with, and that can increase your chances of finding love.
Doing this will help you to reveal yourself appropriately so that women who visit your profile will get to know your personality thoroughly and, as a result, you can attract women who will feel comfortable with your kind of personality.
So, for example, you may write something such as this, “Want to know how I am? Well, I stick needles into the butts of people in an effort to cure them of one disease or the other. Additionally, I diagnose what is wrong with people when they come to see me and…you get the picture? So, let’s play a little game. Guess who I am? Do you want to know what I am doing at the moment? I am sitting on a beach, drinking cool coconut water (boy oh boy , this coconut water tastes great!) and admiring beautiful women swimming in the Atlantic Ocean. Want to join me sometime? Well, this is what I normally do on weekends after hours of stress at the hospital. And later this evening, I will be at home cooking my favorite jollof rice, listening to something inspirational from Don Moen, and then I will watch an adventure movie with…Elsie. Oh no! Don’t get jealous! That is my dog, an adorable Alsatian! Okay, so that sums up the kind of guy I am. I want to meet an understanding woman who fears the Lord, but who is great fun to be with and who knows how to make a guy feel good about himself. If you are that kind of woman, send me a message and let’s connect. Who knows, we may end up as…your guess is as good as mine!”
Ensure that you make your personality stand out. Furthermore, make sure you include a number of jokes by sharing funny experiences that you have been involved in, or humorous scenes you have witnessed. Share it in the form of stories instead of just telling the jokes because research suggests that women like guys who tell them interesting stories. You may increase your attractiveness in the eyes of women when you share stories and one or two may contact you.
Some tinder profile tips you can use to increase the likelihood that you can attract a woman for a date are: showcase a picture in which you are holding a guitar. And when you are writing your profile, choose to write 70 % about yourself, or you may use an alternative strategy of writing 80% about yourself.
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