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How to Start a Conversation with a Woman

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How to Start a Conversation with a Woman

It can be hard to start a conversation with a woman, especially when you are a shy guy, when you don’t know the woman, or when you like the women. That is why some guys ask, “How do you start a conversation with a woman?”

In this article, I want to show you how you can start a conversation with an attractive woman for the first time, or how you can start a conversation with any woman, whether it is an unknown woman, a black woman, a woman on the internet, a woman on a dating site, or a woman at the gym.

Let us look at what you should do.

1.    Make Sure You Approach the Woman at the Right Time

If you want to have a fruitful conversation with a woman you are interested in or to whom you are attracted, ensure that you approach her when she is in a relaxed state. Avoid making your move when she is busy doing something important or when she is preoccupied.

Study the situation around her and look at her body language. If you see that she looks relaxed and comfortable and there is no one around her, make your move. Take in a deep breathe, wish yourself luck, and advance towards her.

2.    Introduce Yourself

The most important thing you must do when you want to start a conversation with a woman is to smile as you approach her. Let her see that you are a warm, friendly guy whom she has nothing to fear from. Approaching her with a serious look may make her misjudge you and , consequently, she may not want to talk to you.

Look confident by standing straight. Moreover, look into her eyes as you approach her. You can then say something such as, “Good afternoon. I am Isaac Nunoofio. I have been seeing you around. There is something about you I like. I just don’t know what it is. But, I want to find out. I want to get to know you. May I know your name?” This is how to start a conversation with a woman you just met.

3.    Shake Her Hand

Try to get her to shake hands with you. A study has shown that shaking the hands of people can make you feel happy. When you shake her hand and feel happy, you will approach the conversation in a positive mood. Therefore, you are more likely to sound interesting and that will make the woman enjoy her time with you better.

4.     Talk About What is Happening Around You

Use what is happening where you are to start a conversation with a woman.

  • If you are indoors, you may comment about the way the room has been painted. You may say something such as, “I really like the color that was used to paint this room. You know, I love cream. It’s my favorite color. What is your favorite color?” Ask a question at the end of your comment so that you can draw the woman into the conversation.
  • You may choose to comment about the people you see in the room. You may say something such as, “The guys and gals here are nice people. That is why I always come to this shopping mall. The service here is incredible. I have seen you here a number of times. Tell me, why do you come here?”
  • If you are outdoors, you may choose to comment about the weather and life. You may say something such as, “Today is a beautiful day and I want to meet beautiful people. The sunshine reminds me that I should be grateful I am alive. Don’t you love the weather?”
  • If you are in public transport, a train, or in an aeroplane, you may say something such as, “I get so bored when I have to travel. I am always wrapped up in my thoughts. It can feel really lonely at times. Do you feel the same way when you are travelling?” This is how to have a conversation with a woman you just met.

5.    Compliment Her

One thing you can do to start a conversation with a woman is to compliment her. Many women like to be appreciated  and will respond with delight when you compliment them.

You may say something such as, “I think you are a great team player. Your colleagues in the office talk a  lot about you and I am honored to meet you,” or “That was a great speech. You were concise, articulate, and very professional. I could learn a few things from you. Tell me, how do you do it?”

When you compliment the woman, you may make her more willing to open up and talk to you. Therefore, try to see how much you can notice about a woman , and then use one of those observations to start a conversation with a woman.

6.    Ask Her a Question

Asking a woman a question is a great way to start a conversation with a woman. Start your questions using the words “Who?”, “What?”, “When?”, “Why?”, “Where?” and “How?” Questions which start with these words make the respondent give some detail when he is responding.

Therefore, the woman will carry on with the conversation. Furthermore, you will get information from which you can ask her further questions so that you can prolong the conversation.

Here are some questions to start a conversation with a woman.

  1. What do you think of your supervisor?
  2. Who is your favorite female work colleague? Why do you like her so much?
  3. When do you hope to get married?
  4. I see you wearing blue dresses most of the time. Why do you like the color blue?
  5. Where do you hope to be in 20 years’ time?
  6. How do you think your future will shape up at the office?

 

7.    Talk About Her Interests

One of the ways to start a conversation with a woman is to use her hobbies to your advantage. Therefore, before you approach the woman, find out about her interests, hobbies, and passions. Then, when you start conversing with her, shift the conversation in the direction of her interests. This is how to keep a conversation with a woman.

For example, if you find out that she loves talking about fashion, learn what you can about clothes. After your initial remarks, start talking about clothes. This will make her find the conversation more engaging and she will be more willing to participate in the conversation with more liveliness. This will make it easier for you to invite her to have another conversation with you at another time.

8.    Ask Her About Her Family

Let the woman feel that you care about her by asking her about her brothers, sisters, and parents. Ask her if they are doing well. Then, talk about your family and share something about yourself. This is how to have a conversation with a woman you like. This is how to open up a conversation with a woman.

However, do not give away everything about yourself. Just say enough just to arouse her curiosity so that she will be willing to have another conversation with you at another time to get to know you better.

9.    Ask the Woman About Her Job

Find out about the kind of job she does, her responsibilities at work, her relationship with her work colleagues, and the frustrations she goes through every day at work. Sympathize with her and share similar frustrations you also go through at your workplace. Showing such solidarity will help you to bond with her and it may motivate her to share more about her life with you for she will see you both face similar struggles. This is how to start and hold a conversation with a woman.

10.Tell Her an Interesting Story

Women like to hear stories and that is why they love watching soap operas. Telling the woman a story will help you to grab her attention from the start so that you can engage her and keep the conversation going. This is how to have a fun conversation with a woman.

You may choose to tell her about something that happened to you or a funny story about how a guy and a woman met for the first time or some silly thing a guy did when he met a woman for the first time. Make the story as funny as possible so that you can make her laugh. It will make the woman see that you are an interesting guy and she would love to converse with you. Furthermore, you may choose to tell her about a funny movie you watched with her.

11.    Comment About Current Events

One great way to start a conversation with a woman is to talk about issues that are trending in your town or country. It is likely she may also know about these events and that will make it easier for the two of you to contribute to the conversation.

11. Talk About Things You Love

At certain times in the conversation, shift the discussion to things you are passionate about. For example, if you love soccer, talk about your favorite soccer team or about your favorite soccer star. This will fire you up and make you look lively which will make you look exciting. You may then ask the woman if she likes your passion and tell her about it if she doesn’t.

12. Talk About How That Particular Day Has Gone So Far

You may start a conversation with a woman by making general comments about how your day has treated you so far. For example, you may say, “I woke up today hoping to have a great day. You know, Thursday is the day on which I was born and so I love Thursdays. However, the day has been terrible so far. My cat scratched me when I wanted to give it a hug. I kicked a stone when I came out of the house in the morning. And my boss has been so demanding today. What about you? How has your day gone so far?”

13. Build on What She Says

When the woman answers one question, ask her another question based on the answer she gives you. Keep doing this so that you can prolong the conversation. Concentrate on what she says to you and make comments related to what she shares with you. Sigh when you have to, laugh at the right time, grunt convivially, and give encouraging remark such as, “Really? I never knew that!” or “Amazing! You are really incredible!” This is how to prolong a conversation with a woman.

14. Stay Focused

Keep your mind on the conversation and try to be curious about her life. In subtle ways, try to find out about her personality, the kind of women she moves with, the kind of men she likes going out with, her visions and plans for her life, how she spends her annual leave and so on. This will give you information which you can use to start subsequent conversations with her.

15. Use Pauses

Talk for periods of time, then give her an opportunity to contribute to the conversation too. Then break for a few seconds so that you can think about follow up questions, or so that you can strategize as to the direction in which to take the conversation.

For example, if you have been talking about her hobbies for about 5 minutes, pause, decide to shift the conversation to your hobbies, think about what you want to say about your hobbies, and then re-start the conversation, this time talking about the things you love.

End the Conversation on a Good Note

Inform the woman that you enjoyed the time you spent talking to her and getting to know her. Hint that you would love to have subsequent conversations with her to see if she also feels the way you do. Ask for her number and promise to call. Then wish her a good day, smile at her, and leave.

Conclusion

To start a conversation with a woman, you must try to make the approach great. If you do that and entertain her well, you may have the opportunity to date her. When you see that she loves you, and you show her you love her, you can make her fall in love with you, and keep her forever.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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9 Smart Ways to Make Your Girlfriend Fall in Love With You All Over Again

How to Make Your Girlfriend Fall In Love With You All Over Again

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You may be in a relationship with this girl who you love like crazy. But you realize she no longer loves you, or her love for you is waning. What can you do to make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again? How can you prevent her from losing her love for you totally?

1.     Solve the Root Problem

You must deal with the reason why your girlfriend lost her love for you, if you want to make your girlfriend love you all over again.

There are a variety of reasons why a woman would fall out of love with her boyfriend:

  1. She may feel you are not romantic enough.
  2. She may be bored in the relationship and need some more excitement.
  3. You may not be giving her the kind of attention she needs.
  4. Respect is one essential ingredient which makes a love relationship work. It is possible you may not be giving her the respect she requires.

These, among other reasons, may cause your girlfriend to lose her love for you. Have an honest discussion with her and find out why she thinks she has lost her feelings of love for you.

2.     Talk to Guys Who Have Been Through It Before

Find some guys whose girlfriends have lost love for them before, and find out from them what they did to make their girlfriends fall in love with them all over again. Implement their tips and strategies for making your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again. Some of the tips may be peculiar to their particular circumstances and situation. But some of the tips they give you may work for your particular situation. The important thing is to experiment, to do a little trial and error and see what works for you.

3.     Become a New Person

One thing you can do to make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again is to involve God in your relationship and ask Him to make you a new person. There will be a radical change in your life and character when you place God at the center of your relationship.

Becoming a new person is a mighty spiritual change which can be brought about only by the intervention of God. He can cause an inner moral transformation in you that will lead to an outward change in your way of living, and this will make you treat your girlfriend better, and that could cause her to renew her love for you.

You can involve God in your relationship and seek His help to become a new person by praying something such as, “Dear God, I want you to help me become a new person. Please transform me and help me to change radically internally. Make my heart your home and help me to become a better lover.” God will put a new love for your fellow human beings, including your girlfriend, into your heart. You will treat her with greater love, and because when love is given it is received in even greater quantities, your girlfriend will start loving you again when you show her the love which God will teach you to use.

4.     Spring Surprises on Her

When you see that your girlfriend is losing her love for you and you want to make her fall in love with you all over again, one good way to do that is to do fresh things in the relationship which will show that you love her. These acts will put fresh excitement in the relationship, and may induce fresh feelings in her. For example, if you have been eating out at a particular restaurant, start taking her to a different restaurant which offers the same quality of service you were receiving at the old restaurant.

Or, take her on a ride in your car(if you have one). Just ride around the city with no destination in mind. Drive around, and observe how people are going about their day’s work. When she asks you where you are going, tell her nowhere. Just tell her you just want her to be near you. This will be a break from the routine of meeting at your place, or seeing her at her place. Tell her to enjoy the scenes she observes. She may see a couple walking hand-in-hand, or see a boyfriend and girlfriend kissing, and these things may cause her to think about love again. Or, when you see street children, pass a comment such as, “Look at those kids. They have no one to love them in the world, except their God. Hmmm! When you have someone to love you in this world, it is a great privilege which you must cherish. It is also a great privilege and honor to have somebody to love.” Do not look at her face when you say this. Let the words sink into her consciousness, and let her chew on those words. She may see that she is depriving herself of happiness by not loving you anymore. It may make her rethink about her feelings for you, see that she is throwing away something worthwhile, and she may start refreshing her feelings for you.

5.     Date Her All Over Again

Both of you can decide to pretend you have never met each other before in this life, and start dating her again as if you are new lovers.

  • Instead of going out to a restaurant, or to a comedy show, or to the theater, plan to have dates at your home , or her home, so that you can save some money.
  • When you met at first and started falling in love, most of your conversations may have been about you as a person, or your girlfriend, and your families and friends, because you wanted to get to know her better. This time, have conversations about things you have never talked about before. Read about some of the famous soccer stars and talk about them and their families. Talk about some stranger you met at school, or a client you are dealing with.
  • Instead of eating the foods you are used to eating every time, learn how to prepare a meal from Africa. Prepare it when you have your dates at home, and enjoy it together.
  • Draw your girlfriend, and let her draw you too. Compare your drawings and see which one resembles the true likeness of the person you tried to draw. It will be fun, and as you do it and laugh at the caricatures you create, you can start repairing the bond of love which was broken , and springs of love can spring up in your girlfriend’s heart again when she starts having fun again.
  • Say your favorite childhood rhymes to each other. Become children again, make her laugh, and you could make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again.
  • Sing her favorite love song to her. Sing it with emotion in your heart. Try to remember how much you love your girlfriend as you sing it. If possible cry to show you deeply you love her. It will work wonders on her emotions and make her emotional too, which will increase your chances of making her fall in love with you all over again.
  • Read a romance novel to her. Look in her eyes as you read. Let her see you adore her.
  • Record personal messages of love and send them to her so that she can play them often. When she focuses her mind on your love for her, by listening to your messages, and they remind her often that you still love her, she will cast her mind back to how great you have made her feel in times past, and that could make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again.
  • Watch a recorded video of both of you together, in which you were both having fun and displaying affection for each other. This could move her, and work on her emotions so that she will want that kind of relationship again. It could make her fall in love with you all over again.

Dating your girlfriend again can make her refresh her love for you, and make her fall in love with you all over again.

6.     Change Her Environment

If you have the money to take her to another city, or country, then do so. Take her out of the setting she is so used to, and away from people she meets every day.

Try to meet other couples who are also struggling to maintain the love in their relationship. Let them tell you how they managed to get back in love again. This will give your girlfriend fresh romantic energy and make her see that she is not the only girlfriend who is losing her love for her boyfriend, and it will also tell her that when you lose your love for your boyfriend, you can fall back in love with him again. This may motivate her to work on herself so that she will fall in love with you all over again.

7.     Make Her Feel She is a Part of You

One thing that can make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again is to make her see that she contributes a lot to your life.

  • Make her see that she has deposited valuable things in you, that you are grateful, and you want her to continue depositing love and warm feelings in you.
  • You can say something such as, “Adwoa, I can never forget how you make me feel when you are affectionate. The feelings you invoke in me are deep and wonderful. I feel you are a part of me. I think I can be the best I can be with only you by my side. Adwoa, I want you to consider your feelings again. I don’t think this is something you cannot deal with. All you may need is some space and time to reconsider and find your bearings again. I need you, darling, and I know you will be happy if you continue in this relationship. I don’t think you will find the happiness we shared in this relationship, in another relationship with another guy. I need you, Adwoa. And deep down in my heart, I know you need me. I need you to continue loving me, encouraging me in rough times, showing me affection in times when I feel like no one in the world loves me. I need your conversation, your voice, your advice again. Please reconsider. Don’t let this beautiful baby we created just die.”

8.     Give Her Promises

Give her specific promises as an incentive to make her fall in love with you all over again. Also, point to promises you have kept in the past to make her know you are capable of keeping your promises.

For example, if she has lost her love for you because you were not spending enough time with her, promise her you will spend thirty minutes with her every day, i.e. time in her presence physically, and also virtually through the phone or computer, but end up spending forty five minutes with her each day. When she sees that you are giving her more than you offered, for example spending forty minutes instead of the thirty minutes you promised, it will make her feel you are very caring now, and it could make her fall in love with you all over again.

9.     Make Yourself Attractive to Her Again

When you are having conversations with her, say things to show you are enjoying your life.

  • Talk about all the great plans you have and the exciting prospects you see for your life.
  • If you make it look appealing enough, she may want to become a part of that life and vision. She will see you are an ambitious guy with big dreams, and a bright future, and she will want to be a part of that future prosperity. This could make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again.

Conclusion

These are some of the ways you can make your girlfriend fall in love with you all over again. Keep on showing her love, and continue to make her feel special, and from time to time renew and refresh your love for each other, and it will all help to make her want to continue with the relationship.

Are there any other ways you think a guy can make his girlfriend fall in love with him all over again? Share it with the world by leaving a comment. Thank you.