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15 Cute Things to Do With Your Girlfriend

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15 Cute Things to Do With Your Girlfriend


A relationship can get boring sometimes, right?

You just ran out of ideas about what to keep the relationship exciting…

You rack your brain and rack it but…

It is as though you have come to the end of your creativity.

But…don’t worry! I have lots of ideas and being the selfish (?) guy that I am, I want to share a few cute things to do with your girlfriend with you to help you have a great relationship.

Related: 10 Cute Things to Do With Your Girlfriend

1.    Bake Together

You love eating cakes, right? And you also love eating pastries, bread, meat pies, biscuits and the like, right?

Instead of just being a consumer of these goodies, why don’t you become a producer?

That’s right! One of the cute things to do with your girlfriend on a date is to bake!

Produce all these delicious “eatables” with your girlfriend! Dress like clowns, or dress like genies or gnomes or whatever imaginary beings tickle your fancy. And as you beat eggs, mix flour, regulate an oven and so on at her house, converse and listen to your favorite music intermittently.

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2.    Watch The Sun Set

One of the cute things to do with your girlfriend on valentine’s day is to watch the sun retire for the day.

Settle with your girlfriend under palm trees, or at the  park. Snuggle up to your girlfriend with a bottle of lemonade and vegetable pies, or a yogurt and banana cakes.

Put your arm around her and observe as the sun glows, throws an orange ball in the sky, and goes “home” to sleep. Enjoy every moment of the spectacle.

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3.    Build Castles In The Sand At The Beach

You loved to build castles in the sand when you were a little boy, right? And you miss those days, right?

So, why don’t you relive those exciting times again?

No, no, don’t shake your head. You are not too old to do that again. You can!

This is what you should do:

Keep it a surprise…

  • go to your girlfriend’s house one Saturday morning;
  • inform her that you have a surprise for her;
  • respectfully ask her to put on casual clothes; and then
  • drive her to the nearest beach;
  • settle in the sand together, brainstorm about the kind of house you would like to live in together when you get married. Then, together, try to create a “sand version” of your dream house.
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4.    Tramp Through Woods

Grab Susie, Amy, Ava, Yaa, or Adwoa’s (or whatever your girlfriend’s name is)hand. Leave the house. And take a stroll through serene woods.

Challenge each other to “walking matches”—set a distance you must both walk and try to outdo each other over that distance.

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5.    Have A Picnic On A Lake

Pack a basket with raspberries, cranberries, bananas, pineapples, or papaya, as well as doughnuts, some fried fish, and whole meal bread. Plus, take along any musical instrument that you can play well.

Hire a canoe or a kayak. When you get to the lake, row off the shore and stop in the middle of the lake. Unpack the food and enjoy it over a conversation about what direction you want your relationship to take.

After the meal, create a love song together and sing it to each another.

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6.    Learn How To Speak A New Language

Learn French, German, Norwegian, Swedish, Dutch, Twi, Ga, Ewe, Swahili, Hausa, Arabic or any other exotic language that you may have heard of.

And after you master it, use it to confuse your friends and relations. Or, use it to create your own “imaginary world” where only both of you can understand each other.

Want to know more interesting things to do with her…

Keep reading…

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7.    Show Love To Disadvantaged Children

One of the cute things to do with your girlfriend on her birthday is to be charitable. Buy exercise books, pens, and pencils. Then, visit an orphanage and distribute these items to the children.

Alternatively, identify homeless or street children and give the items to them. Follow this up by inspiring them to aspire to get an education.

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8.    Teach A Parrot How To Mention Your Names

You get thrilled when you hear a parrot “speaking”, right? And you wonder how those birds manage to imitate humans, right?

So, solve the mystery! Together with your girlfriend, learn how to train a parrot to speak. And then buy a parrot for your girlfriend on her next birthday. Subsequently, teach the bird how to mention your names.

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9.    Write Love Poems

Recount all the amazing times you have shared together as boyfriend and girlfriend. Let those memories inspire you and guide you to express yourselves to each in poems. Then, grab her hand, look deep into her eyes, and let her know the depth of the love you have for her.

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10. Ride A Horse

Borrow the horse of a farmer or horse owner in your town. Settle on the horse together and go on an adventure: ride the animal to outlying parts of the town and hurdle over obstacles.

Alternatively, get a horse each and race each other on a track and field park or on a soccer field.

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11. Go To A Ghanaian Festival

Ghanaians in the US and Europe organize festivals from time to time. During these festivals, they showcase Ghana’s rich culture.

Inquire about when the next Ghanaian festival will be held in your area. And then go there with your girlfriend.

Learn what you can about Ghanaian culture. Learn about the Ghanaian way of dressing. Learn how to dance some traditional Ghanaian dances. And learn how to cook some Ghanaian foods.

After the festival, dress like Ghanaians sometimes, cook Ghanaian foods for each other, and entertain yourselves with Ghanaian music and Ghanaian dances.

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12. Camp In The Yard Of  Your House

When your girlfriend comes over one day, set up a tent on the lawn of your house one warm evening. Decorate the tent with flowers and play love songs to create a romantic ambience. Settle in two chairs facing each other, hold hands, and talk about your hopes and dreams for the future.

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13. Role Play

You enjoy watching your favorite movie stars on screen, right? And you enjoy the excitement the movies bring you, right?

Then, why not create your own excitement yourselves! Pretend you are your favorite film stars and enact some of your favorite scenes from their movies which you love the most.

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14. Guess The Names Of Flowers

Set the stakes for a “knowing flowers” excursion. For example, you may decide that when your girlfriend hits a certain score, you will give her a special treat: for a whole week, you will take her to her favorite restaurant for lunch.

And you may decide that if she does not make that score, she will buy you a gift of your choice on your next birthday.

Then go to a botanical garden with a botany book. Let your girlfriend try to identify some flowers and give her a score.

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15. Listen To Radio For A Whole Day

Settle by your radio and listen to different discussions and different programs. Listen to a range of programs ranging from entertainment to politics, sports, fashion, science, wealth creation, cars, women’s issues, health, and holidays and celebrations. Then, pick 5 of the issues that interested you the most and debate each other on those topics.

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Points To Remember

Wrapping it all up, remember that some of the cute things to do with your girlfriend are:

  • baking in the house;
  • tramping through woods;
  • caring for disadvantaged children; and
  • attending a Ghanaian festival.
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Now It’s Your Turn!

I am sure that you also have many ideas about some cute things lover can do.

Share some of them with the world! Let the world know by telling me about them in the comments section below.

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6 Smart and Easy Ways to Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend

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6 Smart Ways to Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend

Do you want to know the best ways to get back your ex-girlfriend? Have you tried several times but failed?

Are you frustrated and thinking of giving up?


In this article, I will show you what you can do to make it happen.


Then continue reading…

Related: How to Get Your Ex Back

1.     Your Mindset

No soldier goes to war thinking that he will lose the war, right? And no soccer player goes onto the field hoping that his side will lose the game, right?

In that same vein, make up your mind that only the best can happen when you make efforts to get back your ex-girlfriend.

Why You Must Be Positive

It will give you the vim and confidence you need to persevere even when she proves stubborn.

Exhibiting an unrelenting spirit can make her see how serious you are about her and it can help her change her mind about trying to work things out.

And here’s the big one…

2.     Excel At Something

Are you living a mediocre life? Are you just another member of the crowd? Do you live an ordinary life?

If your answer to all these questions is yes, then there is nothing special about you that may make your ex-girlfriend feel that she is losing someone great and valuable.

And that is why she does not bat an eyelid lid when you tell her you want her back.

So how can you change the situation?

Wow Her!

If you want to get back your ex-girlfriend, do something extraordinary.

  • If you are in school, work very hard, I mean extra, extra hard, and make good grades so that you can become the talk of the school.
  • Learn a new skill such as playing the guitar or drumming, record a love song, and promote the song on social media.
  • Do a brave deed in school—do advocacy work for poor students who are finding it hard to pay their school fees, advocate for a female student who is undergoing abuse at home, champion student’s rights on campus and so on.
  • If you are a worker, fight for a cause with zeal and passion. Set up an NGO to take care of street children, contact people and influence them to help the homeless, do charitable acts every week, set up an NGO to fight for women’s rights in your community and so on.

You may be asking yourself, “Right. Do this and do that and go to the moon and dance calypso and…and so what! How can this help me to get back my ex-girlfriend?”

How Excelling At Something Can Help You To “Score Points”

Have you ever watched the President giving a soldier a medal for bravery at the war front?

And then when you read the newspaper the next day, this soldier’s picture was in it?

And then when you tuned in to watch Oprah you saw his face…

You get the point?

Here’s the deal…

Guys who do brave deeds become popular and win the hearts of people.

When you leave your “comfort zone” and you “get your hands dirty” and become popular, your ex-girlfriend is bound to see what you are doing and how you are helping disadvantaged people.

Want to know the best part?

Ladies like to be associated with popular and famous guys.


  • when she reads the rave reviews that you are getting all over the place;
  • when she hears the comments people pass about how you are contributing to make the lives of others better;
  • when she sees how people respect you because of your new status

she may want to have a piece of the “cake” too—she may want to get back into your social circle again so that she can enjoy some of the attention too.

And when she renews her friendship with you, BINGO!

You can cajole her with sweet words and promises of doing things differently this time. And you can give promises that you will treat her differently.

Those sweet words can tip the scales and make her give your dead relationship life again.

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And it gets even more interesting…

3.    Use “The Magnetizing Mood” Whenever You Meet Her

You remember days on which you have met ladies and their mood just makes you want to associate with the person, right?

It just makes you feel that, “I just want to spend more time with this lady,” right?

That is what I call “the magnetizing mood”—a mood that makes it hard for someone to leave you when you meet them.

How Can You Show This Magnetizing Mood?

  1. Avoid showing anxiety or looking needy. Take in deep breaths to help you feel relaxed and go with the flow.
  2. Don’t grumble or complain when you are with her.
  • Don’t talk about problems whilst you are with her, but solutions to problems.

How The Magnetizing Mood Can Help You To Get Back Your Ex-Girlfriend

Showing a magnetizing mood consistently whenever you meet your ex-girlfriend will

  • make you leave an indelible impression on her mind;
  • this impression may make her see you in a new light;
  • the change in her perspective may help stir her affection for you again; and
  • so, she may miss you again, which can help rekindle feelings for you in her again and make her desire a comeback.

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4.     Ask Her About Her Love Life

If she tells you that she is still single and searching

  • show excitement and drop hints that you miss her and she is always welcome back whenever she decides to reconnect; and
  • subtly drop hints that you are also still single and searching.
  • For example, you may say something such as this, “I hope you find what you are looking for out there. But you know what, I…I miss the good times we had in the past. You know what, my doors are always open if you need a friend. You know I am always there for you, right?”

You can use that to make her mind work to accept that the relationship may not be over. That can pave the way for you to let her see why you should get back together again.

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5.     Use Her Closest Female Friends

Your very close male friends can sometimes influence you to change your mind, right?

Sometimes you are so angry with someone, but when a male friend you trust and love talks to you about the situation, it makes you change your attitude towards the person who hurt you, right?

You change your mind because you feel that the male friend understands the situation and cares about you so much that whatever he is suggesting will benefit you in the long run, right?

In just the same way, you can get back your ex-girlfriend by getting some of your girlfriend’s very close female friends to talk to her about getting back together with you.

Why This Will Work

Since your girlfriend knows that her close female friends want the best for her, she is likely to seriously consider a request they make on your behalf.

And when they keep reminding her and impressing upon her how the two of you will make a great couple, she may see truth in that and choose to give your relationship another chance.

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6.     Let Her Elder Sisters Help You

Another strategy you can use to get back your ex-girlfriend is to implore the help of her elder sisters, especially those who may have broken up with their boyfriends but reunited later.

Why their elder sisters?

Here’s The Deal:

Women trust the judgment of their elder sisters who have experiences in love matters.

They feel that because their “experienced” elder sisters are also women, they can spot a guy who can make a woman happy, or a guy who is good marriage material.

So, when her sister(s) talk to her and make her see that you are a good guy and she will be happy with you if she gives you another chance

  • she may ruminate upon all the good things you did for her whilst you were dating; and
  • she will remember the times you made her happy.

The happy feelings those nostalgic memories will induce can motivate her to choose to work things out again instead of taking the easy way out—quitting the relationship.

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Points To Remember

To get back your ex- girlfriend

  • be upbeat about the whole “project”;
  • do extraordinary things;
  • magnetize and mesmerize her whenever you meet her; and
  • let her female friends work on her mind.
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Now It’s Your Turn!

Do you like these tips? Are there any other tips that you think can help a guy get his ex-girlfriend back?

Share them with the world! Let the world know by leaving a comment.





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6 Excellent Ways to Start Talking to Someone On a Dating Site

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how to start talking to someone on a dating site


Kwabena Sakyi has recently completed his profile on one of the free online dating sites on the internet and he wants to know how he can engage a woman he wants to date. “I want to know how I can start talking to someone on a dating site: I have seen this gorgeous woman  and I don’t want to botch things up by saying  the wrong things or giving her a wrong impression of who I am. What should I say when I send her the first message? What should I write so that I can grab her attention?” Kwabena asks, with a smile on his face.

In this article, I want to show you some of the things you must say when you start talking to someone on a dating site so that he or she will become interested in you.

These are the secrets.

1.     Start With Something Very Simple

Start by sending the woman a very short message. In this message, ask her how she is doing so that she will reckon that you are a caring guy and that can increase the likelihood that she will want to be your friend.

So, you may write something such as, “Hello, sweetheart! How is life treating you?” or “Hi! What are you doing at the moment?” or “What’s up?” or “Want to chat?”: they are all good ways you can start talking to someone on a dating site.

Starting this way will help you to get rid of your nerves, if you feel nervous. Additionally, it will make it easy for her to read the message, as well as captivate her, and she may decide to find out who this guy is who gathered courage to send her a message.


2.     Let Her See That You Are An Intriguing Guy

After she responds, show her that you are a creative guy. It will make her feel that you can come up with different ideas to maintain fun and excitement in the friendship and that may motivate her to respond to your message so that she can have an enthralling life.

So, you may write something such as this, “Ever ridden on the back of crocodiles before? I imagine that is beyond your wildest dreams! But I have done it a number of times at the Paga crocodile pond. I sat on a crocodile for 5 minutes. And I can assure you it’s no joke! And that’s not all. I visited the Mole National Park and went hunting in the dead of the night. It was so eerie. And guess where I am off to next week?”


3.     Praise Her

Every woman wants to be praised by a man and you will receive a thumbs up from her if you say something nice about her profile photo, or if you say something nice about what she has written in her profile.

So, scrutinize her photo and say something that will make her feel that you like her. For example, if she uploads a picture in which she is sitting in her room, you may write something such as this, “I see your room is very well kept. I believe you are a very neat and organized woman. That is the kind of woman I like to hang out with. Keep it up.”

If you like the dress she is wearing, you may say something such as this, “That dress you were wearing when you took that picture is first class. And I must say it looks great on you. You should consider wearing it often for it really makes you look attractive.”


4.     Look  For Common Ground

Carefully browse the woman’s profile description and look for interests that both of you share. This can  help you to catch her attention quickly because you will be able to raise a topic for discussion that she may be passionate about. And when you send her a question that asks about something that she likes doing, she will feel that she is likely to engage in exciting conversations with you since both of you will find it easy to be on the same page: she will feel that you can build rapport quickly, and that may influence her to respond to your message.

So, for example, if after going through her profile you see that she loves soccer, and you also love soccer, you may ask her a question such as, “I have been arguing with guys about this: was Pele a better footballer than Maradona, or is Cristiano Ronaldo a better footballer than Lionel Messi? I want to know your views.” Asking her a question based on your common interests will start an interesting interaction which will help both of you to bond.

5.  Ask Her  A Personal Question

Studies have shown that when one makes people talk about themselves, it makes them like you. Therefore, if you can make the woman share something personal about her life with you, she will feel a connection and that can increase the chances that she may start a relationship with you.

So, you may ask her things such as, “What is the funniest thing you did when you were in junior high school?” or “Tell me about your brothers,” or “What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you since you were born?” or “What do you normally do when you close from work?” or “How do you spend your weekends?”


6.     Show That You Have A Sense Of Humor

Research has shown that women like guys who can make them laugh: when you exhibit a sense of humor, it will tell the woman that you can entertain her and make her forget about some of her worries and she will be curious to know more about to you.

So, craft a nice joke and deliver it to her and she will stop for a moment and say to herself, “This guy seems interesting. Let me see where this can lead to.”



This is how to start talking to someone on a dating site: keep it simple at first. And then try to come across as a fun-loving guy, praise her, elicit personal information from her, and let her see that you have a good sense of humor.


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Incorporate Me Deeper Into Your Heart: Awesome Ways to Create a Great Relationship

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Yaw Manu has been in a relationship with Yaa Amponsah for six months now and Yaa feels that their relationship is not strong enough. “Yaa has been saying to me often, ‘Incorporate me deeper into your life so that we can have a fantastic relationship.’ I love Yaa very much and she loves me too and we want this relationship to continue until we marry.  I know that there are areas we can improve upon and we have begun working on those areas. However, I need more ideas to help us have a strong relationship. I want to know things I can do so that my girlfriend can also incorporate me deeper into her heart. I would be happy if you could help me in this regard,” Yaw requests.

If you also feel that there is a lot of room for improvement in your romantic relationship, then here are some things you can do to create a great relationship.


1.     Remind Yourself Of The Early Days Of The Relationship Often

Talk about what you used to do when you first started dating, and how you related to each other then, and some of the things you did that helped to maintain the love in your relationship. Then, start doing some of those things again. It will help to rejuvenate the love you feel for each other and you will bond better and stronger.


2.     Show Gratitude To Your Girlfriend Every Day

A study has revealed that when lovers show gratitude, it can make the lovers feel strongly bonded to each other. Additionally, appreciating your partner will make him or her feel satisfied to be in the relationship.

So, when you appreciate the sacrifices that your girlfriend makes to make you happy, it will make her feel happy and she will be willing to do more to enhance the quality of the relationship.

Furthermore, when you let her know that what she is doing for you touches your heart and makes you have stronger feelings for her, she will see that you care about her and she is more likely to also develop deeper affection for you.

So, thank her when sacrifices her credit to call you. Thank her when she spends quality time with you engaging you in exciting conversation. Thank her when she nurses you during sickness, and let her know that you appreciate it when she tells you she loves you.


3.     Practice Active Listening

Good communication is essential for the stability of any romantic relationship: when you can express yourself well and get your girlfriend to understand the messages that you want to convey, you will find it easier to address differences and resolve conflicts and that will help both of you to maintain the stability of your relationship.

One aspect of communication you must take seriously is active listening. How do you do that?

  • Do your best to be sensitive to what she says to you, instead of ignoring her concerns and the issues she may have about the way you are treating her, or instead of ignoring the changes she wants you to make in the way you relate to her so that the relationship can become stronger.
  • Additionally, when you have conversations, let your girlfriend know that you are following what she is saying by asking her to clarify certain points, asking her questions based on what she said to you, looking into her face, nodding when she says something you appreciate, and shaking your head when she says something that you disagree with.

Listening to her actively will make her feel that you value her opinions and her concerns and that can help her maintain the love she has for you.


4.     Be Kind To Your Partner

When you show kindness to your girlfriend, she will feel wanted and that will make her feel happy, which will increase the likelihood that she will be emotionally stable. When her emotions are in a state of equilibrium, she is more likely to relate to you lovingly and that can help to enhance the connection between the two of you.

So, avoid criticizing her unfairly or condemning her when she makes mistakes. Rather, focus on her positives, remind yourself of the things she does right in the relationship, and let that help you to treat her with respect and honor.


5.     Show Humility At All Times

A study has revealed that humility can help to make a relationship last for a long time. When you choose to be humble, you will find it easier to say to your girlfriend, “What you did hurt me, but because I love you so much, and for the sake of our relationship, I forgive you.”

Additionally, when you choose to be humble, you are more likely to sacrifice your comfort to make her feel happy in the relationship. Consequently, she is more likely to be pleased with the way you treat her, she may reciprocate by treating you with respect and honor, and that can help to solidify your relationship.

So, show humility. How can you do that?

  • Remind yourself often that there are things she can do better than you. Moreover, remind yourself often that there are things which you need her to do for you. When you remind yourself of your limitations this way, you will be more willing to learn from her and that will make it easier for you to control your ego.
  • Admit your mistakes when you make them. And learn to apologize to her when you see that you have erred.
  • Learn not to take things she does which you are not comfortable with too seriously all the time. Learn to laugh at yourself and some of her goofs sometimes because it will help you to control your pride, as well as help you to resist the urge to retaliate when she says or does something you dislike.


6.     Be Quick To Forgive Your Girlfriend When She Hurts You

When you forgive your girlfriend, when you choose to release bitterness, you will find it easier to relate to her with respect and that can help both of you to resolve conflicts amicably. Resolving differences in a peaceful manner will help to maintain the stability and integrity of the relationship.

Additionally, when you learn to forgive, you will not engage in shouting matches with her when you have disagreements. Consequently,  tempers may not rise to the point where both of you will feel very bitter towards each other, and that will make it easier  for you to discuss your differences and solve them in a spirit of understanding.




Your partner may say to you sometimes, “Incorporate me deeper into your life so that we can have a great relationship.” To do that, remind each other of the early days of your relationship and try to relive those days, thank your girlfriend for what she does for you, listen to her concerns with an empathetic ear, show kindness to her, do your best to be humble, and forgive her from your heart when she wrongs you.


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First Date Tips for Men to Help You Meet A Wonderful Woman

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Kojo Antwi has been able to convince a girl to go out with him and he needs first date tips. “I have been attracted to Ama for several months now. She is smart, beautiful, witty, and she has great character: she is always willing to sacrifice her comfort to make a guy feel cool. It was not easy approaching her because when I observed her from afar, and I considered her great personality, I thought she would play hard to get. It took me days of rehearsing my lines before I finally said those words. And you should have been around when she said yes: I was on cloud nine. However, immediately after, I was filled with fear that I may not be able to make a good impression on her. I want her to have such a great first date that I will find it easy to make her go out with me again and again until we can have a relationship. What do I do during our date? What attitude should I adopt? How should I behave?” Kojo asks in a nervous voice.

In this article, I want to give you first date tips to help you make that night a wonderful one so that the woman will wish to go out with you again.


1.     Make Up Your Mind That You Will Enjoy Yourself

Psyche yourself and adopt a mindset that says that you will do your best to enjoy yourself and make your date have a rollicking time. This will help you not to feel so apprehensive about the adventure. Consequently, you will find it easier to be yourself during the date. And that can increase the likelihood that you will engage in stimulating conversation to make the woman happy.


2.     What To Wear

What you choose to wear should be informed by your motive for dating the woman. For example, if you want to have a long-term relationship with her, then choose to wear something red because research shows that women find men who wear clothes of that color appealing and irresistible. You may choose to wear a red long-sleeved shirt or red T-shirt, depending on where you will have the date. And you may choose to match that with a black pair of trousers or black pair of jeans.

If you have no intention to date her long-term, then you may wear a blue shirt or suit and match it with a blue pair of trousers or a black pair of trousers. Alternatively, wear a white shirt and match it with a black pair of trousers.

Make sure that the color of your belt matches the color of your shoes. For example, if you wear a brown belt, wear brown shoes. And if you wear a black belt, wear black shoes.


3.     Be Intriguing

Do not make it easy for her to figure you out. Do your best to hide some of your strong points and some of your idiosyncrasies so that you can have something with which to surprise her every time you meet, if you continue dating. So, say things that will put her in a suspenseful mood and make her wish to see you again.


4.     Make Sure You Communicate Properly

Use simple language and simple sentences to convey your thoughts and feelings and avoid trying to impress you date with flowery language and big vocabulary. This will help your date to understand you well so that you can establish a good and strong rapport.

On the other hand too, make sure you pay complete attention to what your date says and look for nonverbal cues that tell you that she is uncomfortable or feeling bored so that you can liven things up.

  • For example, if you ask her something and she frowns or she tries to dodge the question, it should alert you that she does not want to discuss that subject.
  • Or, if she keeps looking at her watch it means she is bored and she wants you to change the direction of the discussion.
  • If she looks down often, it should tell you that she is unhappy.
  • If she looks around often, it should tell you that you are not exciting enough and you should up your game.
  • If she drums her fingers on the table or on her body, she may be irritated with something you said.

Additionally, use these listening skills to enhance your communication with your date. Furthermore, ask interesting questions such as those here so that your date will enjoy the evening.


5.     Does She Like Me?

At the end of the date, you may wonder whether the lady likes you so that you can ask her to go out with you again. How can you know that? Check out if she mimics some of your gestures and if once in a  while she copies the way you speak: research suggests that when someone mimics you, it means there is a likelihood that the person likes you.

So, if you see that she mimics your accent during the conversation, copies the way you throw your hands about, or makes some of the facial expressions that you make, it is likely that she has enjoyed your company and you should feel confident to ask her to go out with you again.


6.     Make Sure That She Arrives At Home Safely

Let the woman see that you care about her welfare and about her safety by ensuring that she gets home without any hitches. So, drive her back home if you picked her up. If you don’t have a car, join the bus and go home with her, or join the taxi you hire for her and ensure that she enters her house before you go home.



Some first date tips you might like to implement are that make up your mind that “I’ll have fun and make sure she enjoys the time too,” wear something red, blue, or black to make you look attractive, speak in simple, clear language and listen attentively, and take her home after the date.


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7 Intelligent Ways to Make a Girl Fall in Love With You

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make a girl fall in love with you



How can you make a girl fall in love with you? What are some strategies you can use to make a girl fall madly in love with you? What are things you can do to make a girl fall in love with you fast? And what are some foolproof ways to make a girl fall in love with you?

In this article, I want to share with you some simple steps and tricks that will make a girl fall deeply in love with you so that you can have a great relationship.

Now, what should you do?


1.     Look Into Her Eyes Often

One of the strategies that you can use to make a girl fall in love with you in school is to look into her eyes often. Whenever you are around her, or when you bump into her in the library or in class, ensure that you make eye contact with her. Then smile sweetly into her face.

When you do that, you will tell her that you like her a lot and that can make her start liking you too because she will feel that you are a friendly guy who will enrich her life when she associates with you. Additionally, research shows that we tend to grow to like people who like us. And when she starts liking you, those feelings can develop into love when you entertain her and make her feel happy.


2.     Let Her Know That You Exist

If you want to make her fall in love with you, show her that you care about people. Studies show that women like guys who are compassionate and friendly. So, do something that will make the girl feel that you are a unique, exciting, loving guy with a great personality.

Let her see you doing things that show that you care a lot about people. It will give her the message that you are a tender, loving, caring guy who will treat her like a queen when she becomes your friend or when she gets to know you better, or if she  gives her heart to you and that may make her develop feelings for you.

Therefore, let her see that there is far more to you than what she knows and she will be intrigued and desire to know you more. Moreover, it will impress her and she will want to find out what else is in that good heart of yours, which will make her draw close to you and you will have the opportunity to show love and care to her which can induce affection for you in her.


3.     Exhibit A Sense Of Humor

Research shows that women are attracted to guys who can make them laugh. When you are able to make her split her sides with laughter, when you can help her to smile and laugh when she is down, she will reckon that you are great fun and a friend indeed.

Moreover, as you make her laugh, you will strengthen the camaraderie and rapport between the two of you, you will feel a strong connection as time goes on, you will bond better, and she can develop deep love feelings for you as a result.

Additionally, exhibiting a good sense of humor will make her feel that you are a very intelligent guy—girls like to have relationships with guys who they feel are smart.


4.     Emphasize Your Similarities

People tend to fall in love with others who have the same characteristics that they have. When you let the girl see that you share similar characteristics, she will feel that she will be compatible with you when she develops a closer relationship with you.

Additionally, she will feel that she is more likely to feel satisfied in the relationship if she gives her heart to you.

Furthermore, she will think that she is likely to be happy with you because you will understand each other which will help both of you to bond well, and that can make her more willing to open up her heart to you without reservation.

So, for example, if she is very God- fearing and you also love God, direct conversations you have with her in the direction of religion and spirituality and that will make her feel that you share something in common which will bind both of you together so that you can have a long, lasting relationship, and it will make her feel comfortable to be with you.

Or, if she loves soccer and you also love watching soccer, invite her to play soccer with you sometimes, take her to see soccer games, or buy the jersey of her favorite soccer team for her and she will feel a connection, which may cause her to develop affectionate feelings for you.


5.     Let Her See That You Can Meet Her Needs

When a girl is looking for a partner, she looks for a guy who has the opposite of her weaknesses so that he can complement her and make her feel whole when she is with him.

For example, if a girl is not so smart, she may look for a guy who is smart and who can help her with her studies. Or, if she is a diffident girl, she is likely to fall for a guy who is very confident and who can serve as her “backbone when she starts a relationship with him.

So, if the girl lacks self-esteem, show extreme self- confidence and it can help to induce feelings of love for you in her because she will feel that you will protect her from guys and she will also feel that you will support her emotionally and give her direction to help her succeed in life—it will make her see that you have what she needs to make her a complete person and she will fall for you because of that.


6.     Listen To Her

Studies carried out by the University of Nevada and the University of Washington has revealed that listening to someone can make the person fall in love with you.

When you listen with rapt attention whilst she is talking to you, when you listen with a sympathetic ear when she is telling you her problems, it will make her see that you care deeply about her. Additionally, it will make her feel  that you want the best for her and that can induce feelings of gratitude in her, which can grow later and become feelings of love.


7.     Pray About It

God is the God of love. It is He who instituted relationships. And He wants you to involve Him in your romantic relationships so that He can teach you to love the way He loves us with steadfast love.

So, pray about it. You may pray a prayer such as this one: “Dear God, please be merciful to me a sinner. I accept my faults and my sins and I ask for forgiveness. LORD, I worship You and praise You that You have given me life to see this day. Glory be to Holy Name for Your mercies and Your grace. LORD, You tell us to love one another because love comes from You. I am attracted to Yaa and I want her to fall in love with me so that we can have  a relationship, so that we can get to know ourselves better. Please touch her heart and let her develop feelings for me just as Michal fell in love with David in the Bible. You turn the king’s heart in Your favor, LORD. Please stir her emotions and her spirit and let her develop feelings for me. Amen.”



To make a girl fall in love with you, make sure that you make eye contact with her every time you meet her, let her see that you are a caring guy who will treat her as a special girl when she develops a close relationship with you, make her laugh often, let her see that you share similarities which will help you to bond as a couple, let her see that you have what she lacks, and listen to her when she communicates with you.


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5 Smart Ways to Start a Text Conversation With a Girl

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start a text conversation with a girl

How do you start a conversation with a girl you don’t know? How do you start a text conversation with a girl you just met? How do you start a conversation with a girl you know but whom you are not close to? How do you start a text conversation with a girl in high school? Or, what are some of the strategies you can use to start a text conversation with a girl you barely know?

In this article, I want to show you how to start a text conversation with a girl, and I am talking about the kind of conversation starters which will guarantee a response from her, so that you can start a friendship.

So, what strategies can you use?


1.     Ask Her An Open-Ended Question Instead Of Saying “Hi” Or “Hello”

One strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl you like is to ask her an open-ended question. Many girls have heard “hi” and “hello” so often that they are turned off when they see those two words. Therefore, to appear interesting and to increase the chances that she will respond to your text, ask her a probing question that she will find hard to reply to. That will help to build rapport so that you can kick-start a friendship.

For example, you may ask, “Beautiful, what are you doing at the moment?” or “What kind of sports do you like?” or “What type of music do you love listening to? Why?” or “You are very beautiful, but why do you avoid guys?” or “Who are you? I mean, I think you are a great girl and I want to know more about you…”

When she responds, ask her another open-ended question and continue with this strategy and the conversation will flow.


2.     Give Her A Compliment

Another strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl by text is to let her feel that you appreciate who she is.

You need to be creative when you are complimenting a girl through text message because she may have received a lot of compliments from other guys who may be interested in her.

How? A girl a guy approaches to compliment when they are in school or in class will feel special and flattered because it  is possible that no guy may have approached her to tell her that she is beautiful. However, when it comes to text messages, many guys, even shy guys who may be afraid of talking to her face-to-face, can easily gather courage to send text messages to girls. As a result, she may have received lots of compliments.

So, remind yourself of how she looks and any features or characteristics that set her apart from all other girls, such as her hair-color, her smile, the way she walks, the way she relates to others in her class and so on, and give her an original, unique compliment that no other guy can give to her apart from you.

You may say something such as, “Queen, I saw you walking from class to the library yesterday and I must say I loved the way you moved your body. I also think you have the best smile in the whole wide world—only you can produce that wonderful smile.”


3.     Let Her Know That You Have Interests In Common

Talk about some of the things which you love doing, and which you know she loves doing too. For example, if you love watching soccer, ask her about her impressions of an exciting match you watched recently. You may ask, “What do you think of Accra Great Olympics’ 2-0 win over Kumasi Asante Kotoko?” Or, if you love music, you may ask, “I listened to Don Moen’s latest album and I must say the songs on it are so soul-inspiring. What do you think about his latest album?”

When you let the girl know that you also love what she likes, she will know that you can have very interesting conversations in the future and that will give her a reason to respond—she may feel motivate to reply to your message.


4.     Use These Words In Your Early Texts

Using certain words can increase the chances that the girl will respond to your text. Words such as, “I am outgoing…”, “I am fun to be with…”, “I am an optimistic guy…”, “I am intelligent…”, “I am understanding…”, “I am caring…” will make the girl feel that she can have a loving and interesting relationship with you and that may make her more willing to respond to your text.


5.     Share A Joke With Her

One strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl is to send her something funny, share a funny story about yourself, or say something that will make her laugh.

Using this strategy will make her see that she will have a lot of fun with you if she replies to the message, or it may make her like you and that may motivate her to send you a message so that you can start a friendship.

Additionally, sharing a joke will rouse curiosity and make her feel that you are an intriguing guy, which is one of the things most ladies like about guys.



To start a text conversation with a girl, ask her an open-ended question which she will find irresistible to answer. Additionally, let her feel special, let her know that both of you share common interests, use certain words which will make her feel that she can have a loving friendship with you, and use humor to make her know that you can help to lighten her day when she is down and she will be more willing to respond to your text.




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