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8 Great Ways to Make a Woman Happy in a Relationship

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How to Make a Woman Happy in a Relationship

 

You can see it getting to that point…

… that point where things get so boring.

And you can feel it in her attitude towards you nowadays. She’s not happy in the relationship.

You rack your brain searching for ideas to improve the situation and … nothing seems to come up.

Oh boy, what do I do?

Relax. Everything’s going to be fine. I am here to help you solve this problem.

In this article, I will share secrets and tips that can help you make a woman happy in a relationship so that you can keep her until… well, until President Trump dances with the “Rocket Man!”

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1.     Communicate

One thing you can do to make a woman happy in a relationship is to learn to communicate effectively with her.

Most guys are brought up to refrain from expressing their emotions. As they grow up, they are taught that “a guy must not express his emotions when he is hurt.”

If you are still holding onto that kind of idea, then you must know that you will need to open up and communicate with your girlfriend.

How Communicating Will Make Her Happy

Let her know how you feel when she offends you or when she does something you disagree with. Keeping the lines of communication open, letting her know what is inside, will make her trust you even more. And that will make her feel a sense of intimacy.

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Furthermore, ensure that you listen to her when she wants to communicate. That is one thing women treasure a lot because they feel that you value them when you give such attention.

So, the next time your girlfriend walks into your room and wants to talk, switch off the laptop, or stop the text message you were about to send, look her in the eye and listen.

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2.     Don’t Ignore The Little Things

A female friend of mine told me once that, yes, women like to receive the big things like cars, shoes, clothes, jewelry and so on from men. However, most women treasure the little things a man does for them above these things. ClicktoTweet

So, if you want to make a woman happy in a relationship, place a great premium on doing the little things and giving her the little curtsies.

Still lost about what I am talking about?

  • Say, “please pass the cup to me” instead of “give me that cup!” when you are having a meal together;
  • when she buys a tie or shirt for you, say, “Darling, I thank you that you are so thoughtful. God bless you!” instead of just saying “great gift. Where did you get it?”;
  • when she does a new hairdo, say something such as this, “I love your new hairdo. It looks great on you. And it makes you look even more beautiful!” instead of ignoring it and thinking, “It’s just a hairdo. How important is it?”;
  • when she puts on makeup that makes her look attractive, or when she wears a dress that shows her great sense of color balance, tell her how you feel about the way she looks.

When you do some of these things consistently, her ego will swell and she will feel great about herself. And you can be sure you will be the beneficiary of those positive feelings!

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3. Trust Her

You loved it when your parents trusted you when you were growing up, right? You love it when your friends trust you, right? It makes you feel a great sense of worth, right?

In that same vein, your girlfriend will feel appreciated when you trust her and give her space sometimes to mingle and socialize with other guys.

How Trust Can Make Her Feel Great

When you give her that space to develop her sense of self, she will feel very respected. She will know that you feel she is honest and  mature, and that her loyalty to you cannot be questioned.

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4.     Be Predictably Unpredictable

You love watching movies that have lots of twists and turns that you never expected, right? You enjoy watching a basketball game or soccer game in which the underdog causes an upset, right?

Unpredictability makes the whole experience more exciting and enthralling, right?

How Unpredictability Can Help

Likewise, a guy who gives a relationship “twists and turns,” or who does things that a woman never expected him to do, finds it easier to sustain the interest and attention of a woman than a guy who is terribly predictable.

  • Unpredictability makes a woman look forward expectantly to what you might come up with next.
  • The suspense that creates will never make her feel bored.
  • On the other hand, predictability makes being in a relationship feel like climbing a mountain with a weight on the back.
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5.     Never Remind Her Of Her Flaws

You don’t like it when people harp on your flaws, do you? You accept that you will do your best to work on them, but the most important thing in life is not striving to be perfect but trying to make progress, right?

So, show that same kind of magnanimity to your girlfriend. Avoid making disparaging remarks and insulting her with her flaws especially when you feel angry. Rather, when her flaws get the better of her, encourage her by letting her know that you accept her imperfect as she is, and you love her just as she is.

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6.     Let Her Feel Special When She’s With Her Female Friends

Most women want other women to know that their boyfriends are treating them right. They feel a great sense of pride when other women know that their lovers treat them with care, dignity, respect, and affection. It gives them “bragging points” when they chat with their girlfriends.

  • So, from time to time, intentionally give her a special treat when she is socializing with her girlfriends. Compliment her on her beauty in front of them.
  • Tell them you feel she is the best female cook in the world.
  • Inform them that you know she is the greatest woman in the world.
  • Give her a precious gift whilst she is chatting with her friends.
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7.     Let Her Know You Value Her Opinions

You hate it when you pass a comment and your guys make you feel as though you’ve got no brains, right? It makes you feel disrespected, right?

And negative feelings such as anger come into your heart which make it difficult for you to relate lovingly to your friends, right?

Yes, that can happen to your girlfriend too if you treat her views and opinions with disrespect because you feel “she’s just a woman.”

Conversely, when you treasure her opinions, she will feel like an equal partner in the relationship and her spirit will swell so much she will feel on top of the world.

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8.     Make Sacrifices For Her

  • Once in a while, take her to see a fashion show instead of going to watch your favorite team in action; or, let her watch her favorite romance movie on your laptop instead of insisting that you want to watch a thriller;
  • or, let her listen to her kind of music on your iPod instead of choosing to do something different;
  • and please do these things with a smile!

When your girlfriend sees that you are happy about making sacrifices for her, she’ll know through and through that you really love her and she’ll cherish every waking moment she experiences with you.

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Points To Remember

If you want to make a woman happy in a relationship:

  • talk, talk, talk and let her know your thoughts and feelings;
  • continue to do the little things;
  • let her know that  you think she is an honorable woman; and
  • make compromises for her.

 

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10 Smart Ways to Know if Your Girlfriend is Cheating

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How to Know if Your Girlfriend is Cheating

 

Do you want to know if your girlfriend is cheating?

Do you need information about how to tell if she has cheated?

Do you want to know signs she cheated on you last night?

Then keep keeping because…

…I am going to show you all the secrets.

In this article, I will let you know how to tell if your girlfriend is cheating on you for sure signs.

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1.     She No Longer Shows Caring Behavior

  • Your girlfriend used to call or text three times a day, but does not do that anymore, right?
  • Or, she has stopped giving you gifts on special days, right?
  • And she no longer hugs you, rubs the back of your hand when you give her a gift, or checkouts how you are doing when you fall sick, right?

If your girlfriend used to care a lot about you, but starts showing indifference and apathy, she may be getting emotional satisfaction somewhere else and you need to investigate further.

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2.     She Starts Dressing- To- Kill Again

One of the physical signs that will tell you your girlfriend is cheating is when she starts dressing to attract attention.

Your girlfriend used to go to great lengths to “dress- to- kill you” whenever she was coming to visit you, right?

And then you became so used to each other and for some time she’s been coming around looking very casual, right?

But recently, she’s started dressing immaculately and elegantly whenever she is going to social functions where you cannot accompany her, right?

She may be dressing that way because she’s seen a guy she fancies and she wants to attract his attention.

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3.     She Starts Acting “Strange”

You know the kinds of clothes your girlfriend likes to wear, no doubt.

You know the kind of perfume she likes to put on, right? And you also know the way she pays attention to you when you are communicating with her, right?

However, you’ve noticed over the last few weeks that she’s started changing the types of clothes she likes, she wears different perfume, and she finds it hard to concentrate when you are chatting with her, right?

The Connection Between The Changes And Cheating

According to behavior experts

  • if she liked eating pizza and she suddenly starts to eat hamburgers;
  • if she used to smile a lot and she suddenly becomes pensive and easily irritable;
  • if she used to assertively challenge you often, but she’s becomes docile and very accommodating;
  • if she liked to go out on Saturday nights but she suddenly wants to stay at home

and so on, it’s because she’s acting deceptively and she is feeling nervous about it. And so probe further and go on the hunt and you will discover the truth.

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4.     She Turns “Dumb” When You Ask Her Probing Questions

  • Does your girlfriend just stare at you when she turns up late for an appointment and you ask her why? And for minutes she just cannot answer where she went, or who she was with?
  • Does your girlfriend become silent when you see her walking with a guy, and you accost her? Does she find it hard to talk when you ask her for further information about her relationship with the guy?

If your girlfriend develops an inability to speak in such situations, you will have to monitor her closely.

You’re probably thinking,

What’s the connection?

The Connection Between Such Behavior And Cheating

According to scientists, when one is feeling stressed as a result of behaving deceptively or cheating, the autonomic nervous system of that person kicks into action involuntarily in response to that stress and makes it hard for that person to speak when he/she is queried immediately after engaging in deceptive behavior. ClicktoTweet

5.     Your Girlfriend Becomes Defensive When Put On The Spot

When you check her out at her house and she’s not there, does she retort, “you have no right to ask me that!” when she comes back and you ask her where she went, without answering the question?

When she informs you she is going to a girls’ party, and you ask her whether there will be guys there, does she start throwing tantrums?

The Connection

  1. She’s getting hints that you suspect that something’s up and she feels uncomfortable about that and so she reacts angrily to make you feel guilty as a way to “throw you off the scent.”
  2. She’s afraid you are getting clues that she may be cheating and to give you the impression that you’re mistaken, she acts aggressively to create doubts in your mind so that you will give her the benefit of the doubt.

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6.     She Repeats Your Question

If you have intelligence she met another guy, or she’s been meeting another guy, and you ask a question such as, “Where were you last night?” and your girlfriend repeats, “Where were you last night? Where was I…? Where was I? I was … uhm … well l …” and then she racks her brain for a while before she answers? That is one sign that can make you know if a girlfriend is cheating.

The Connection

According to psychologist Edward Geiselman of the University of California, Los Angeles, when people show this kind of behavior it means they are lying.

If your girlfriend does this often, it is likely your girlfriend is living a deceptive life and you need to question whatever she tells you about her relationship with other guys.

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7.     She Avoids Talking About A Shared Future

You try to ask her about what the future holds for both of you, right? But every time you make the attempt, she either avoids the question, or changes the subject entirely, right?

Why She’s Avoiding Making A Commitment

If you see these signs, she may be in love with another guy, or developing feelings for him, and she feels that she may have a future with that other guy and so she does not feel that committing to you is such a good idea.

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8.     She Starts Demanding That You Respect Her Space

Does your girlfriend get angry when you try to go through her browsing history? Does she keep her phone on her when you go to visit?

Has she informed you that she does not want you to call her at certain times of the day? Has she demanded that you inform her before you go to visit her?

She may need the space and time to communicate with the other guy without fearing that you may “chance” on them.

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9.     She Starts Buying Things Beyond Her Means

If your girlfriend buys goods that you do not give her, and which her income cannot support, and which you know she did not receive from her relatives or friends, then she may be receiving financial help from her other boyfriend and you will have to dig deep into the matter and seek answers.

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10.  Ask An “Experienced” Close Female Friend…

Ask a female friend who knows her very well, and who understands cheating. This may be

  • a woman whose boyfriend has cheated on her before, or
  • a woman who has cheated on her boyfriend before.

She has the experience dealing with cheating and she can easily spot the signs of cheating.

Let her interact with your girlfriend, observe her, and monitor her movements for a week or two, and then give you the feedback.

… Or Ask A Stranger

I can already hear the doubts you are expressing.

How can someone who does not know my girlfriend know if my girlfriend is cheating on me? Sounds silly!

But, it’s not silly! And this strategy is backed by science.

A study by scientists at Brigham Young University suggests that people can give accurate judgments about the behavior of others after they study these people, or observe them, for only a short period of time.

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Points To Remember

If you want to know if your girlfriend is cheating:

  • watch out to see if she no longer cares about showing care to you;
  • observe to see whether she pays extra attention to her appearance again after slacking for a while; and
  • checkout if she gets defensive every time you ask her harmless questions that she should find easy to answer.

 

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(Secrets Revealed!) 6 Secrets to Help You Have a Happy Relationship With Your Girlfriend

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How to Have a Happy Relationship

Is your relationship great?

Do you want to have a happy relationship?

Need tips to help you have a happy, long-lasting relationship?

Want secrets that can help you have a healthy relationship that will stand the test of time?

Then you are at the right place!

In this article, I am going to give you tips and secrets that will make you enjoy your relationship.

Ready to discover those secrets?

Then read on…

1.     Respect  Her Always

You like it when your girlfriend treats you as though you are a king, right? You love it when she shows that she feels you are the leader in the relationship, right?

And you love it when she makes you feel that you are a great guy, right?

Then reciprocate!

  • Let her know that she means everything to you in this life;
  • honor her always, especially when you are in public;
  • avoid destructive criticisms; and
  • avoid disparaging remarks as a way of revenge when she hurts you.

How Respecting Your Girlfriend Can Make Your Relationship Great

Respecting your girlfriend always can make her feel that she is a valued partner in the association. Consequently, she is likely to continue to have strong affection for you, and to continue treating you with respect so that you can maintain the harmony in the relationship.

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2.     Practice “Empassion”

“Empassion” is a combination of empathy and compassion.

How do you practice it?

  • Before you say anything to her, ask yourself, “Would I feel happy if my girlfriend said these same words to me? Will what I am going to say help to make us feel closer to each other? Will it draw us apart? From what I know about her personality, will it hurt her?”
  • If you feel those words will enhance the relationship, then let them out!
  • If you feel that what you are going to say will not help to maintain the peace in the relationship, either modify it so that it will hurt her feelings less when you say them, or don’t say them at all.
  • And, regularly, put yourself in your girlfriend’s shoes and imagine how it must feel for her to cope with you: to stomach some of the hurtful things you say, and to make sacrifices to satisfy your demands.

How “Empassion” Can Help

Doing the above will help you to appreciate the efforts and sacrifices she is making to make you feel happy. Consequently, you will find it easier to keep your “devotion spirit” high and to continue treating her with care.

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3.     Develop “Camaraderie Strengthening Communication” Every Day

You know effective communication can help you to express your feelings and thoughts properly so that you can understand each other and co-operate better, right?

And it can help you to get rid of toxic feelings, and help you to settle differences, when you have disagreements, right?

But, would you say you are a good communicator? Nope? You find it hard to express your feelings when your girlfriend hurts you, right?

Importance of Good Communication for a Happy Relationship

Several studies have shown that the way you express your feelings to your lover, and the way you respond to concerns raised by your partner, can help to make both of you feel happy in a relationship. Great communication prevents misunderstandings and, hence, frequent fights.

“Camaraderie Strengthening Communication”

One type of communication you can practice daily to ensure you stick to each other is what I call “camaraderie strengthening communication.”

How do you develop  this type of communication?

  • Set aside 10 minutes each day to talk to each other in a quiet, attractive setting where you will not be disturbed. Talk about silly things you have done since you started going out. This activity will make you laugh, which will induce positive feelings in both of you and you will both feel closer to each other.
  • Every Saturday, write down ways in which you feel your girlfriend did not communicate effectively with you throughout the week. Additionally, write down how you think she can improve her communication. Let her do likewise.
  • At the end of the exercise, exchange your sheets, discuss what you can do to get your thoughts and feelings across better, and what your girlfriend can also do to communicate better with you.
  • Set aside 30 minutes each week to learn about each other’s body language signals so that you can avoid misunderstandings.

How This Type of Communication Will Help You as a Couple

Maintaining your friendship is what keeps couples together. Developing this type of communication will help you to stay strong as friends and help to maintain the “we” feeling so that you will continue to feel that you are a “team.”

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4.     Keep the Emotional Connection Strong Always

The feelings you had for your girlfriend were probably very strong at the beginning of the relationship, right? And you thought you would feel that way every day until you got married, right?

But, you’ve discovered that you have strong feelings for her sometimes, and you feel like leaving her at other times, right?

That is perfectly normal in any relationship. However, if you want to have a happy relationship, you must ensure that you renew the feelings of attraction whenever those feelings start to wane.

According to Sue Johnson, a clinical psychologist in Canada, making it a habit to fall in love with your partner over and over again can help to keep a relationship happy and strong. ClicktoTweet

So, what are some of the things you can do to make you fall in love with your girlfriend over and over again?

  • Spend some time just observing her and admiring her attractive physical features when she is with you.  It will help to induce fresh affection in your heart for your sweetheart.
  • Think about her positive qualities often. You may record yourself saying 20 of them on your smartphone and play them back to yourself every day. And when she hurts you, play them constantly to yourself to help you continue to have strong goodwill towards her.
  • Memorize quotes about love, and create your own, and say them to each other often.
  • Organize a “drawing closer to have a happy relationship quiz” every week. Ask each other questions about the relationship journey so far. It will help to rekindle fond memories that will make you feel intimate as a couple.

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5.     Do “Making You Feel Like A Queen” Days Regularly

You may be asking, “What on earth is that?”

It means setting aside days on which you will make her feel as though she is the queen of “lovedom,” as well as the queen of your heart.

How do you do that?

  • Take her on a drive to her favorite location in the city.
  • Act like her servant. Cook her favorite meal for her and serve her when you are having a meal.
  • Buy her a gift she will never forget in her life.
  • Compliment her for all the good things she has done for you.
  • Let her ask you three wishes and fulfill those wishes for her.

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6.     Go To Church Together

You believe in God, right? But how do spend your Sunday mornings? Do you go fishing? Do you watch movies with friends? Or do you sleep?

Well, you might want to reconsider those habits.

Why?

According to research carried out by Bradford Wilcox and Nicholas Wolfinger, couples who attend church regularly together have happier relationships than those who don’t.

How can going to church help your relationship?

How Going To Church Can Help You Have A Happy Relationship

The research revealed that going to church fills people with positive, happy feelings. When you feel positive most of the time, and your girlfriend also feels great, you are more likely to relate lovingly to each other. Hence, emotional intimacy can be maintained.

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Points To Remember

To have a happy relationship:

  • practice “empassion”: empathize with your girlfriend often, whilst at the same time having compassion on her;
  • develop “camaraderie strengthening communication”: improve ways you can strengthen your friendship; and
  • make her feel like she is a queen on some days

and you will both be happy forever.

 

          

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(Revealed!) 6 Smart Ways to Cope With a Breakup With Your Ex-Girlfriend

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How to Cope With a Breakup

          

Kofi Duku just broke up with Yaa Ampratwum.

“I just don’t know what to do. I think about her every day. I cannot focus on work. I have been queried by my supervisor because I am not giving my best to the job. I also dream about her every night. What can I do to cope with a breakup? I need to know before I am fired for poor performance,” Kofi says with a look of concern on his face.

Are you also dealing with a breakup? If you are, then here are some tips and secrets that can help you to handle a breakup with your ex-girlfriend effectively.

Related:  5 Smart Ways to Cope With a Breakup

1.     Magnify What You Hated About Her

There were many things about your ex- girlfriend that were not so great, right?

And there were many things she did that irritated you sometimes and made you feel like slapping her sometimes, right?

Well, maybe not slapping her, but walking out on the relationship, perhaps.

To help you cope with a breakup, play up her weak points and the things that were not so attractive about her.

Science Shows It Helps In Dealing With A Breakup

This is backed by science! A study published in the journal Cognition and Emotions has revealed that people who remind themselves of negative things about their ex immediately after the breakup are less likely to feel depressed after a breakup than people who do not.  ClicktoTweet

How It Can Help You

When you magnify your ex-girlfriend’s faults and weaknesses, when you remind yourself often that she was not perfect after all, it will make her look less attractive and appealing to you. Consequently, the affection you have for her will grow weaker and you will find it easier to move on.

How To Do It

Was she a bad cook? Remind yourself of this often and laugh over it. Did she slurp whilst drinking sodas?

Use it to tease the thoughts that come to your mind and make you feel that you are losing a woman without compere on this earth.

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2.     Think Positively By Using The “I See The Big Picture” Strategy

You feel as though you can’t live without her, right? You feel that you still need her by your side, right?

However, holding onto to such negative thought patterns can make you miss her even more and you will become depressed as a result.

Rather, look at the big picture.

How do you do that?

How To Use This Strategy

When a thought such as, “I can’t see how I can live without Yaa (or Sue)” comes into your mind, think something such as this, “Of course I can! I lived for 18 years without her before I met her, didn’t I? If I was able to survive all those years without her, I can do it again! I have my job. I have my loving friends. I will be fine.”

Placatory thoughts such as this one will make you feel that although you have lost someone, you have not lost everything, and so your life must not cease. That will make it easier for you to gather courage and keep hope alive.

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3.     Write Words Of Comfort To Yourself

All sorts of negative emotions are filling your body, right? And you feel confused about what is happening, right?

And thoughts such as, “Am I such a bad lover? What will women who know about this breakup think about me? Will I ever find love again? Will any other woman trust me enough again to have a relationship with me?” and other questions such as these come into your mind often, right?

And you feel that by burying your feelings and avoiding mourning over the loss, you’d be showing that you are a real tough guy, right?

However, one way to cope with a relationship breakup is to mourn by writing a letter of comfort to yourself.

Sounds crazy? It’s not!

How This Can Help You

When you view the loss of your lover as a sort of “death” and you console yourself by writing encouraging words, it will help you to put closure to that past relationship: it will help you to release the pain of the loss. As a result, the intensity of the pain you feel will reduce drastically.

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4.      Transform Your Pain Into A Teaching Experience

You’ve learned some valuable lessons about relationships, right? Lessons which will help you to mature as a lover so that you can handle your next lover better, right?

Instead of sitting at home moping and crying, find guys who have also experienced painful breakups and teach them what you’ve learned about coping with a breakup.

How Doing This Will Help You

As you share your experiences, and as you listen to their stories too, and you see the positive effect your words of motivation and encouragement have on their spirits, you will feel better yourself when you know that you are helping a fellow man solve a problem.

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5.     Write A Short Fiction Story Based On Your Experience

Have you starred in a play at school before? Have you ever acted in a movie before? How did you feel after the play when girls were praising you left, right, and center? You felt great, no doubt.

You can relive that experience by writing a short story of about 5000 words in which you are the lead character.

How To Write The Story

  • Let it be a fast-paced story filled with lots of action and exciting scenes so that whenever you read it, it will help capture your imagination and thrill you so much that you will not think about your former girlfriend.
  • Let the negative part of the story take up only a short part of the story. Let the story begin with the breakup. That scene should take up at most 500 words. This will give you enough space to write the positive change that occurs in the life of the protagonist after the breakup.
  • Additionally, let the story have a happy ending. Let the protagonist (that is you) meet a more beautiful, more intelligent, more loving and understanding woman than the woman he lost. And let them have a better relationship than the one that broke-up.

Subsequently, read the story very often. When you do this exercise, you will be sending subliminal messages to your subconscious that positive things can happen in your love life in the future and that can help you to change your mindset and look to the future with hope.

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6.     Prioritize Your Spiritual Relationship With God

God loves you so much He allowed Jesus to come to earth to die so that you could have eternal life. And even if your ex- girlfriend no longer loves you, God still loves you and He will comfort you if you turn to Him.

How To Do It

So, renew your friendship with the LORD.

  • Talk to Him often throughout each day.
  • Let Him talk to you too by reading your Bible often.
  • Go to church and sing and dance away your negative feelings.
  • And go on spiritual retreats where you can meditate about God’s goodness and build your spiritual strength again so that you can experience inner peace.
  • Additionally, socialize with Christina brothers and sisters and enjoy the encouragement and motivation they can give you.
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Points To Remember

To cope with a breakup:

  • remind yourself about what was not so great about her often;
  • teach guys who are also going through the same experience;
  • write a short story based on your story; and
  • let God love you.          

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15 Cute Things to Do With Your Girlfriend

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15 Cute Things to Do With Your Girlfriend

 

A relationship can get boring sometimes, right?

You just ran out of ideas about what to keep the relationship exciting…

You rack your brain and rack it but…

It is as though you have come to the end of your creativity.

But…don’t worry! I have lots of ideas and being the selfish (?) guy that I am, I want to share a few cute things to do with your girlfriend with you to help you have a great relationship.

Related: 10 Cute Things to Do With Your Girlfriend

1.    Bake Together

You love eating cakes, right? And you also love eating pastries, bread, meat pies, biscuits and the like, right?

Instead of just being a consumer of these goodies, why don’t you become a producer?

That’s right! One of the cute things to do with your girlfriend on a date is to bake!

Produce all these delicious “eatables” with your girlfriend! Dress like clowns, or dress like genies or gnomes or whatever imaginary beings tickle your fancy. And as you beat eggs, mix flour, regulate an oven and so on at her house, converse and listen to your favorite music intermittently.

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2.    Watch The Sun Set

One of the cute things to do with your girlfriend on valentine’s day is to watch the sun retire for the day.

Settle with your girlfriend under palm trees, or at the  park. Snuggle up to your girlfriend with a bottle of lemonade and vegetable pies, or a yogurt and banana cakes.

Put your arm around her and observe as the sun glows, throws an orange ball in the sky, and goes “home” to sleep. Enjoy every moment of the spectacle.

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3.    Build Castles In The Sand At The Beach

You loved to build castles in the sand when you were a little boy, right? And you miss those days, right?

So, why don’t you relive those exciting times again?

No, no, don’t shake your head. You are not too old to do that again. You can!

This is what you should do:

Keep it a surprise…

  • go to your girlfriend’s house one Saturday morning;
  • inform her that you have a surprise for her;
  • respectfully ask her to put on casual clothes; and then
  • drive her to the nearest beach;
  • settle in the sand together, brainstorm about the kind of house you would like to live in together when you get married. Then, together, try to create a “sand version” of your dream house.
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4.    Tramp Through Woods

Grab Susie, Amy, Ava, Yaa, or Adwoa’s (or whatever your girlfriend’s name is)hand. Leave the house. And take a stroll through serene woods.

Challenge each other to “walking matches”—set a distance you must both walk and try to outdo each other over that distance.

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5.    Have A Picnic On A Lake

Pack a basket with raspberries, cranberries, bananas, pineapples, or papaya, as well as doughnuts, some fried fish, and whole meal bread. Plus, take along any musical instrument that you can play well.

Hire a canoe or a kayak. When you get to the lake, row off the shore and stop in the middle of the lake. Unpack the food and enjoy it over a conversation about what direction you want your relationship to take.

After the meal, create a love song together and sing it to each another.

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6.    Learn How To Speak A New Language

Learn French, German, Norwegian, Swedish, Dutch, Twi, Ga, Ewe, Swahili, Hausa, Arabic or any other exotic language that you may have heard of.

And after you master it, use it to confuse your friends and relations. Or, use it to create your own “imaginary world” where only both of you can understand each other.

Want to know more interesting things to do with her…

Keep reading…

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7.    Show Love To Disadvantaged Children

One of the cute things to do with your girlfriend on her birthday is to be charitable. Buy exercise books, pens, and pencils. Then, visit an orphanage and distribute these items to the children.

Alternatively, identify homeless or street children and give the items to them. Follow this up by inspiring them to aspire to get an education.

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8.    Teach A Parrot How To Mention Your Names

You get thrilled when you hear a parrot “speaking”, right? And you wonder how those birds manage to imitate humans, right?

So, solve the mystery! Together with your girlfriend, learn how to train a parrot to speak. And then buy a parrot for your girlfriend on her next birthday. Subsequently, teach the bird how to mention your names.

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9.    Write Love Poems

Recount all the amazing times you have shared together as boyfriend and girlfriend. Let those memories inspire you and guide you to express yourselves to each in poems. Then, grab her hand, look deep into her eyes, and let her know the depth of the love you have for her.

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10. Ride A Horse

Borrow the horse of a farmer or horse owner in your town. Settle on the horse together and go on an adventure: ride the animal to outlying parts of the town and hurdle over obstacles.

Alternatively, get a horse each and race each other on a track and field park or on a soccer field.

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11. Go To A Ghanaian Festival

Ghanaians in the US and Europe organize festivals from time to time. During these festivals, they showcase Ghana’s rich culture.

Inquire about when the next Ghanaian festival will be held in your area. And then go there with your girlfriend.

Learn what you can about Ghanaian culture. Learn about the Ghanaian way of dressing. Learn how to dance some traditional Ghanaian dances. And learn how to cook some Ghanaian foods.

After the festival, dress like Ghanaians sometimes, cook Ghanaian foods for each other, and entertain yourselves with Ghanaian music and Ghanaian dances.

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12. Camp In The Yard Of  Your House

When your girlfriend comes over one day, set up a tent on the lawn of your house one warm evening. Decorate the tent with flowers and play love songs to create a romantic ambience. Settle in two chairs facing each other, hold hands, and talk about your hopes and dreams for the future.

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13. Role Play

You enjoy watching your favorite movie stars on screen, right? And you enjoy the excitement the movies bring you, right?

Then, why not create your own excitement yourselves! Pretend you are your favorite film stars and enact some of your favorite scenes from their movies which you love the most.

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14. Guess The Names Of Flowers

Set the stakes for a “knowing flowers” excursion. For example, you may decide that when your girlfriend hits a certain score, you will give her a special treat: for a whole week, you will take her to her favorite restaurant for lunch.

And you may decide that if she does not make that score, she will buy you a gift of your choice on your next birthday.

Then go to a botanical garden with a botany book. Let your girlfriend try to identify some flowers and give her a score.

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15. Listen To Radio For A Whole Day

Settle by your radio and listen to different discussions and different programs. Listen to a range of programs ranging from entertainment to politics, sports, fashion, science, wealth creation, cars, women’s issues, health, and holidays and celebrations. Then, pick 5 of the issues that interested you the most and debate each other on those topics.

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Points To Remember

Wrapping it all up, remember that some of the cute things to do with your girlfriend are:

  • baking in the house;
  • tramping through woods;
  • caring for disadvantaged children; and
  • attending a Ghanaian festival.
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Now It’s Your Turn!

I am sure that you also have many ideas about some cute things lover can do.

Share some of them with the world! Let the world know by telling me about them in the comments section below.

And Share this post with your friends and let them have great times with their girlfriends too!

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6 Smart and Easy Ways to Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend

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6 Smart and Easy Ways to Get Back Your Ex-Girlfriend

Do you want to know the best ways to get back your ex-girlfriend? Have you tried several times but failed?

Are you frustrated and thinking of giving up?

Don’t!

In this article, I will show you what you can do to make it happen.

Curious?

Then continue reading…

Related: How to Get Your Ex Back

1.     Your Mindset

No soldier goes to war thinking that he will lose the war, right? And no soccer player goes onto the field hoping that his side will lose the game, right?

In that same vein, make up your mind that only the best can happen when you make efforts to get back your ex-girlfriend.

Why You Must Be Positive

It will give you the vim and confidence you need to persevere even when she proves stubborn.

Exhibiting an unrelenting spirit can make her see how serious you are about her and it can help her change her mind about trying to work things out.

And here’s the big one…

2.     Excel At Something

Are you living a mediocre life? Are you just another member of the crowd? Do you live an ordinary life?

If your answer to all these questions is yes, then there is nothing special about you that may make your ex-girlfriend feel that she is losing someone great and valuable.

And that is why she does not bat an eyelid lid when you tell her you want her back.

So how can you change the situation?

Wow Her!

If you want to get back your ex-girlfriend, do something extraordinary.

  • If you are in school, work very hard, I mean extra, extra hard, and make good grades so that you can become the talk of the school.
  • Learn a new skill such as playing the guitar or drumming, record a love song, and promote the song on social media.
  • Do a brave deed in school—do advocacy work for poor students who are finding it hard to pay their school fees, advocate for a female student who is undergoing abuse at home, champion student’s rights on campus and so on.
  • If you are a worker, fight for a cause with zeal and passion. Set up an NGO to take care of street children, contact people and influence them to help the homeless, do charitable acts every week, set up an NGO to fight for women’s rights in your community and so on.

You may be asking yourself, “Right. Do this and do that and go to the moon and dance calypso and…and so what! How can this help me to get back my ex-girlfriend?”

How Excelling At Something Can Help You To “Score Points”

Have you ever watched the President giving a soldier a medal for bravery at the war front?

And then when you read the newspaper the next day, this soldier’s picture was in it?

And then when you tuned in to watch Oprah you saw his face…

You get the point?

Here’s the deal…

Guys who do brave deeds become popular and win the hearts of people.

When you leave your “comfort zone” and you “get your hands dirty” and become popular, your ex-girlfriend is bound to see what you are doing and how you are helping disadvantaged people.

Want to know the best part?

Ladies like to be associated with popular and famous guys.

So

  • when she reads the rave reviews that you are getting all over the place;
  • when she hears the comments people pass about how you are contributing to make the lives of others better;
  • when she sees how people respect you because of your new status

she may want to have a piece of the “cake” too—she may want to get back into your social circle again so that she can enjoy some of the attention too.

And when she renews her friendship with you, BINGO!

You can cajole her with sweet words and promises of doing things differently this time. And you can give promises that you will treat her differently.

Those sweet words can tip the scales and make her give your dead relationship life again.

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3.    Use “The Magnetizing Mood” Whenever You Meet Her

You remember days on which you have met ladies and their mood just makes you want to associate with the person, right?

It just makes you feel that, “I just want to spend more time with this lady,” right?

That is what I call “the magnetizing mood”—a mood that makes it hard for someone to leave you when you meet them.

How Can You Show This Magnetizing Mood?

  1. Avoid showing anxiety or looking needy. Take in deep breaths to help you feel relaxed and go with the flow.
  2. Don’t grumble or complain when you are with her.
  • Don’t talk about problems whilst you are with her, but solutions to problems.

How The Magnetizing Mood Can Help You To Get Back Your Ex-Girlfriend

Showing a magnetizing mood consistently whenever you meet your ex-girlfriend will

  • make you leave an indelible impression on her mind;
  • this impression may make her see you in a new light;
  • the change in her perspective may help stir her affection for you again; and
  • so, she may miss you again, which can help rekindle feelings for you in her again and make her desire a comeback.

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4.     Ask Her About Her Love Life

If she tells you that she is still single and searching

  • show excitement and drop hints that you miss her and she is always welcome back whenever she decides to reconnect; and
  • subtly drop hints that you are also still single and searching.
  • For example, you may say something such as this, “I hope you find what you are looking for out there. But you know what, I…I miss the good times we had in the past. You know what, my doors are always open if you need a friend. You know I am always there for you, right?”

You can use that to make her mind work to accept that the relationship may not be over. That can pave the way for you to let her see why you should get back together again.

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5.     Use Her Closest Female Friends

Your very close male friends can sometimes influence you to change your mind, right?

Sometimes you are so angry with someone, but when a male friend you trust and love talks to you about the situation, it makes you change your attitude towards the person who hurt you, right?

You change your mind because you feel that the male friend understands the situation and cares about you so much that whatever he is suggesting will benefit you in the long run, right?

In just the same way, you can get back your ex-girlfriend by getting some of your girlfriend’s very close female friends to talk to her about getting back together with you.

Why This Will Work

Since your girlfriend knows that her close female friends want the best for her, she is likely to seriously consider a request they make on your behalf.

And when they keep reminding her and impressing upon her how the two of you will make a great couple, she may see truth in that and choose to give your relationship another chance.

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6.     Let Her Elder Sisters Help You

Another strategy you can use to get back your ex-girlfriend is to implore the help of her elder sisters, especially those who may have broken up with their boyfriends but reunited later.

Why their elder sisters?

Here’s The Deal:

Women trust the judgment of their elder sisters who have experiences in love matters.

They feel that because their “experienced” elder sisters are also women, they can spot a guy who can make a woman happy, or a guy who is good marriage material.

So, when her sister(s) talk to her and make her see that you are a good guy and she will be happy with you if she gives you another chance

  • she may ruminate upon all the good things you did for her whilst you were dating; and
  • she will remember the times you made her happy.

The happy feelings those nostalgic memories will induce can motivate her to choose to work things out again instead of taking the easy way out—quitting the relationship.

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Points To Remember

To get back your ex- girlfriend

  • be upbeat about the whole “project”;
  • do extraordinary things;
  • magnetize and mesmerize her whenever you meet her; and
  • let her female friends work on her mind.
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Do you like these tips? Are there any other tips that you think can help a guy get his ex-girlfriend back?

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6 Excellent Ways to Start Talking to Someone On a Dating Site

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Kwabena Sakyi has recently completed his profile on one of the free online dating sites on the internet and he wants to know how he can engage a woman he wants to date. “I want to know how I can start talking to someone on a dating site: I have seen this gorgeous woman  and I don’t want to botch things up by saying  the wrong things or giving her a wrong impression of who I am. What should I say when I send her the first message? What should I write so that I can grab her attention?” Kwabena asks, with a smile on his face.

In this article, I want to show you some of the things you must say when you start talking to someone on a dating site so that he or she will become interested in you.

These are the secrets.

1.     Start With Something Very Simple

Start by sending the woman a very short message. In this message, ask her how she is doing so that she will reckon that you are a caring guy and that can increase the likelihood that she will want to be your friend.

So, you may write something such as, “Hello, sweetheart! How is life treating you?” or “Hi! What are you doing at the moment?” or “What’s up?” or “Want to chat?”: they are all good ways you can start talking to someone on a dating site.

Starting this way will help you to get rid of your nerves, if you feel nervous. Additionally, it will make it easy for her to read the message, as well as captivate her, and she may decide to find out who this guy is who gathered courage to send her a message.

 

2.     Let Her See That You Are An Intriguing Guy

After she responds, show her that you are a creative guy. It will make her feel that you can come up with different ideas to maintain fun and excitement in the friendship and that may motivate her to respond to your message so that she can have an enthralling life.

So, you may write something such as this, “Ever ridden on the back of crocodiles before? I imagine that is beyond your wildest dreams! But I have done it a number of times at the Paga crocodile pond. I sat on a crocodile for 5 minutes. And I can assure you it’s no joke! And that’s not all. I visited the Mole National Park and went hunting in the dead of the night. It was so eerie. And guess where I am off to next week?”

 

3.     Praise Her

Every woman wants to be praised by a man and you will receive a thumbs up from her if you say something nice about her profile photo, or if you say something nice about what she has written in her profile.

So, scrutinize her photo and say something that will make her feel that you like her. For example, if she uploads a picture in which she is sitting in her room, you may write something such as this, “I see your room is very well kept. I believe you are a very neat and organized woman. That is the kind of woman I like to hang out with. Keep it up.”

If you like the dress she is wearing, you may say something such as this, “That dress you were wearing when you took that picture is first class. And I must say it looks great on you. You should consider wearing it often for it really makes you look attractive.”

 

4.     Look  For Common Ground

Carefully browse the woman’s profile description and look for interests that both of you share. This can  help you to catch her attention quickly because you will be able to raise a topic for discussion that she may be passionate about. And when you send her a question that asks about something that she likes doing, she will feel that she is likely to engage in exciting conversations with you since both of you will find it easy to be on the same page: she will feel that you can build rapport quickly, and that may influence her to respond to your message.

So, for example, if after going through her profile you see that she loves soccer, and you also love soccer, you may ask her a question such as, “I have been arguing with guys about this: was Pele a better footballer than Maradona, or is Cristiano Ronaldo a better footballer than Lionel Messi? I want to know your views.” Asking her a question based on your common interests will start an interesting interaction which will help both of you to bond.

5.  Ask Her  A Personal Question

Studies have shown that when one makes people talk about themselves, it makes them like you. Therefore, if you can make the woman share something personal about her life with you, she will feel a connection and that can increase the chances that she may start a relationship with you.

So, you may ask her things such as, “What is the funniest thing you did when you were in junior high school?” or “Tell me about your brothers,” or “What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you since you were born?” or “What do you normally do when you close from work?” or “How do you spend your weekends?”

 

6.     Show That You Have A Sense Of Humor

Research has shown that women like guys who can make them laugh: when you exhibit a sense of humor, it will tell the woman that you can entertain her and make her forget about some of her worries and she will be curious to know more about to you.

So, craft a nice joke and deliver it to her and she will stop for a moment and say to herself, “This guy seems interesting. Let me see where this can lead to.”

 

Conclusion

This is how to start talking to someone on a dating site: keep it simple at first. And then try to come across as a fun-loving guy, praise her, elicit personal information from her, and let her see that you have a good sense of humor.

 

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Incorporate Me Deeper Into Your Heart: Awesome Ways to Create a Great Relationship

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Yaw Manu has been in a relationship with Yaa Amponsah for six months now and Yaa feels that their relationship is not strong enough. “Yaa has been saying to me often, ‘Incorporate me deeper into your life so that we can have a fantastic relationship.’ I love Yaa very much and she loves me too and we want this relationship to continue until we marry.  I know that there are areas we can improve upon and we have begun working on those areas. However, I need more ideas to help us have a strong relationship. I want to know things I can do so that my girlfriend can also incorporate me deeper into her heart. I would be happy if you could help me in this regard,” Yaw requests.

If you also feel that there is a lot of room for improvement in your romantic relationship, then here are some things you can do to create a great relationship.

 

1.     Remind Yourself Of The Early Days Of The Relationship Often

Talk about what you used to do when you first started dating, and how you related to each other then, and some of the things you did that helped to maintain the love in your relationship. Then, start doing some of those things again. It will help to rejuvenate the love you feel for each other and you will bond better and stronger.

 

2.     Show Gratitude To Your Girlfriend Every Day

A study has revealed that when lovers show gratitude, it can make the lovers feel strongly bonded to each other. Additionally, appreciating your partner will make him or her feel satisfied to be in the relationship.

So, when you appreciate the sacrifices that your girlfriend makes to make you happy, it will make her feel happy and she will be willing to do more to enhance the quality of the relationship.

Furthermore, when you let her know that what she is doing for you touches your heart and makes you have stronger feelings for her, she will see that you care about her and she is more likely to also develop deeper affection for you.

So, thank her when sacrifices her credit to call you. Thank her when she spends quality time with you engaging you in exciting conversation. Thank her when she nurses you during sickness, and let her know that you appreciate it when she tells you she loves you.

 

3.     Practice Active Listening

Good communication is essential for the stability of any romantic relationship: when you can express yourself well and get your girlfriend to understand the messages that you want to convey, you will find it easier to address differences and resolve conflicts and that will help both of you to maintain the stability of your relationship.

One aspect of communication you must take seriously is active listening. How do you do that?

  • Do your best to be sensitive to what she says to you, instead of ignoring her concerns and the issues she may have about the way you are treating her, or instead of ignoring the changes she wants you to make in the way you relate to her so that the relationship can become stronger.
  • Additionally, when you have conversations, let your girlfriend know that you are following what she is saying by asking her to clarify certain points, asking her questions based on what she said to you, looking into her face, nodding when she says something you appreciate, and shaking your head when she says something that you disagree with.

Listening to her actively will make her feel that you value her opinions and her concerns and that can help her maintain the love she has for you.

 

4.     Be Kind To Your Partner

When you show kindness to your girlfriend, she will feel wanted and that will make her feel happy, which will increase the likelihood that she will be emotionally stable. When her emotions are in a state of equilibrium, she is more likely to relate to you lovingly and that can help to enhance the connection between the two of you.

So, avoid criticizing her unfairly or condemning her when she makes mistakes. Rather, focus on her positives, remind yourself of the things she does right in the relationship, and let that help you to treat her with respect and honor.

 

5.     Show Humility At All Times

A study has revealed that humility can help to make a relationship last for a long time. When you choose to be humble, you will find it easier to say to your girlfriend, “What you did hurt me, but because I love you so much, and for the sake of our relationship, I forgive you.”

Additionally, when you choose to be humble, you are more likely to sacrifice your comfort to make her feel happy in the relationship. Consequently, she is more likely to be pleased with the way you treat her, she may reciprocate by treating you with respect and honor, and that can help to solidify your relationship.

So, show humility. How can you do that?

  • Remind yourself often that there are things she can do better than you. Moreover, remind yourself often that there are things which you need her to do for you. When you remind yourself of your limitations this way, you will be more willing to learn from her and that will make it easier for you to control your ego.
  • Admit your mistakes when you make them. And learn to apologize to her when you see that you have erred.
  • Learn not to take things she does which you are not comfortable with too seriously all the time. Learn to laugh at yourself and some of her goofs sometimes because it will help you to control your pride, as well as help you to resist the urge to retaliate when she says or does something you dislike.

 

6.     Be Quick To Forgive Your Girlfriend When She Hurts You

When you forgive your girlfriend, when you choose to release bitterness, you will find it easier to relate to her with respect and that can help both of you to resolve conflicts amicably. Resolving differences in a peaceful manner will help to maintain the stability and integrity of the relationship.

Additionally, when you learn to forgive, you will not engage in shouting matches with her when you have disagreements. Consequently,  tempers may not rise to the point where both of you will feel very bitter towards each other, and that will make it easier  for you to discuss your differences and solve them in a spirit of understanding.

 

 

Conclusion

Your partner may say to you sometimes, “Incorporate me deeper into your life so that we can have a great relationship.” To do that, remind each other of the early days of your relationship and try to relive those days, thank your girlfriend for what she does for you, listen to her concerns with an empathetic ear, show kindness to her, do your best to be humble, and forgive her from your heart when she wrongs you.

 

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First Date Tips for Men to Help You Meet A Wonderful Woman

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Kojo Antwi has been able to convince a girl to go out with him and he needs first date tips. “I have been attracted to Ama for several months now. She is smart, beautiful, witty, and she has great character: she is always willing to sacrifice her comfort to make a guy feel cool. It was not easy approaching her because when I observed her from afar, and I considered her great personality, I thought she would play hard to get. It took me days of rehearsing my lines before I finally said those words. And you should have been around when she said yes: I was on cloud nine. However, immediately after, I was filled with fear that I may not be able to make a good impression on her. I want her to have such a great first date that I will find it easy to make her go out with me again and again until we can have a relationship. What do I do during our date? What attitude should I adopt? How should I behave?” Kojo asks in a nervous voice.

In this article, I want to give you first date tips to help you make that night a wonderful one so that the woman will wish to go out with you again.

 

1.     Make Up Your Mind That You Will Enjoy Yourself

Psyche yourself and adopt a mindset that says that you will do your best to enjoy yourself and make your date have a rollicking time. This will help you not to feel so apprehensive about the adventure. Consequently, you will find it easier to be yourself during the date. And that can increase the likelihood that you will engage in stimulating conversation to make the woman happy.

 

2.     What To Wear

What you choose to wear should be informed by your motive for dating the woman. For example, if you want to have a long-term relationship with her, then choose to wear something red because research shows that women find men who wear clothes of that color appealing and irresistible. You may choose to wear a red long-sleeved shirt or red T-shirt, depending on where you will have the date. And you may choose to match that with a black pair of trousers or black pair of jeans.

If you have no intention to date her long-term, then you may wear a blue shirt or suit and match it with a blue pair of trousers or a black pair of trousers. Alternatively, wear a white shirt and match it with a black pair of trousers.

Make sure that the color of your belt matches the color of your shoes. For example, if you wear a brown belt, wear brown shoes. And if you wear a black belt, wear black shoes.

 

3.     Be Intriguing

Do not make it easy for her to figure you out. Do your best to hide some of your strong points and some of your idiosyncrasies so that you can have something with which to surprise her every time you meet, if you continue dating. So, say things that will put her in a suspenseful mood and make her wish to see you again.

 

4.     Make Sure You Communicate Properly

Use simple language and simple sentences to convey your thoughts and feelings and avoid trying to impress you date with flowery language and big vocabulary. This will help your date to understand you well so that you can establish a good and strong rapport.

On the other hand too, make sure you pay complete attention to what your date says and look for nonverbal cues that tell you that she is uncomfortable or feeling bored so that you can liven things up.

  • For example, if you ask her something and she frowns or she tries to dodge the question, it should alert you that she does not want to discuss that subject.
  • Or, if she keeps looking at her watch it means she is bored and she wants you to change the direction of the discussion.
  • If she looks down often, it should tell you that she is unhappy.
  • If she looks around often, it should tell you that you are not exciting enough and you should up your game.
  • If she drums her fingers on the table or on her body, she may be irritated with something you said.

Additionally, use these listening skills to enhance your communication with your date. Furthermore, ask interesting questions such as those here so that your date will enjoy the evening.

 

5.     Does She Like Me?

At the end of the date, you may wonder whether the lady likes you so that you can ask her to go out with you again. How can you know that? Check out if she mimics some of your gestures and if once in a  while she copies the way you speak: research suggests that when someone mimics you, it means there is a likelihood that the person likes you.

So, if you see that she mimics your accent during the conversation, copies the way you throw your hands about, or makes some of the facial expressions that you make, it is likely that she has enjoyed your company and you should feel confident to ask her to go out with you again.

 

6.     Make Sure That She Arrives At Home Safely

Let the woman see that you care about her welfare and about her safety by ensuring that she gets home without any hitches. So, drive her back home if you picked her up. If you don’t have a car, join the bus and go home with her, or join the taxi you hire for her and ensure that she enters her house before you go home.

 

Conclusion

Some first date tips you might like to implement are that make up your mind that “I’ll have fun and make sure she enjoys the time too,” wear something red, blue, or black to make you look attractive, speak in simple, clear language and listen attentively, and take her home after the date.

 

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7 Intelligent Ways to Make a Girl Fall in Love With You

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How can you make a girl fall in love with you? What are some strategies you can use to make a girl fall madly in love with you? What are things you can do to make a girl fall in love with you fast? And what are some foolproof ways to make a girl fall in love with you?

In this article, I want to share with you some simple steps and tricks that will make a girl fall deeply in love with you so that you can have a great relationship.

Now, what should you do?

 

1.     Look Into Her Eyes Often

One of the strategies that you can use to make a girl fall in love with you in school is to look into her eyes often. Whenever you are around her, or when you bump into her in the library or in class, ensure that you make eye contact with her. Then smile sweetly into her face.

When you do that, you will tell her that you like her a lot and that can make her start liking you too because she will feel that you are a friendly guy who will enrich her life when she associates with you. Additionally, research shows that we tend to grow to like people who like us. And when she starts liking you, those feelings can develop into love when you entertain her and make her feel happy.

 

2.     Let Her Know That You Exist

If you want to make her fall in love with you, show her that you care about people. Studies show that women like guys who are compassionate and friendly. So, do something that will make the girl feel that you are a unique, exciting, loving guy with a great personality.

Let her see you doing things that show that you care a lot about people. It will give her the message that you are a tender, loving, caring guy who will treat her like a queen when she becomes your friend or when she gets to know you better, or if she  gives her heart to you and that may make her develop feelings for you.

Therefore, let her see that there is far more to you than what she knows and she will be intrigued and desire to know you more. Moreover, it will impress her and she will want to find out what else is in that good heart of yours, which will make her draw close to you and you will have the opportunity to show love and care to her which can induce affection for you in her.

 

3.     Exhibit A Sense Of Humor

Research shows that women are attracted to guys who can make them laugh. When you are able to make her split her sides with laughter, when you can help her to smile and laugh when she is down, she will reckon that you are great fun and a friend indeed.

Moreover, as you make her laugh, you will strengthen the camaraderie and rapport between the two of you, you will feel a strong connection as time goes on, you will bond better, and she can develop deep love feelings for you as a result.

Additionally, exhibiting a good sense of humor will make her feel that you are a very intelligent guy—girls like to have relationships with guys who they feel are smart.

 

4.     Emphasize Your Similarities

People tend to fall in love with others who have the same characteristics that they have. When you let the girl see that you share similar characteristics, she will feel that she will be compatible with you when she develops a closer relationship with you.

Additionally, she will feel that she is more likely to feel satisfied in the relationship if she gives her heart to you.

Furthermore, she will think that she is likely to be happy with you because you will understand each other which will help both of you to bond well, and that can make her more willing to open up her heart to you without reservation.

So, for example, if she is very God- fearing and you also love God, direct conversations you have with her in the direction of religion and spirituality and that will make her feel that you share something in common which will bind both of you together so that you can have a long, lasting relationship, and it will make her feel comfortable to be with you.

Or, if she loves soccer and you also love watching soccer, invite her to play soccer with you sometimes, take her to see soccer games, or buy the jersey of her favorite soccer team for her and she will feel a connection, which may cause her to develop affectionate feelings for you.

 

5.     Let Her See That You Can Meet Her Needs

When a girl is looking for a partner, she looks for a guy who has the opposite of her weaknesses so that he can complement her and make her feel whole when she is with him.

For example, if a girl is not so smart, she may look for a guy who is smart and who can help her with her studies. Or, if she is a diffident girl, she is likely to fall for a guy who is very confident and who can serve as her “backbone when she starts a relationship with him.

So, if the girl lacks self-esteem, show extreme self- confidence and it can help to induce feelings of love for you in her because she will feel that you will protect her from guys and she will also feel that you will support her emotionally and give her direction to help her succeed in life—it will make her see that you have what she needs to make her a complete person and she will fall for you because of that.

 

6.     Listen To Her

Studies carried out by the University of Nevada and the University of Washington has revealed that listening to someone can make the person fall in love with you.

When you listen with rapt attention whilst she is talking to you, when you listen with a sympathetic ear when she is telling you her problems, it will make her see that you care deeply about her. Additionally, it will make her feel  that you want the best for her and that can induce feelings of gratitude in her, which can grow later and become feelings of love.

 

7.     Pray About It

God is the God of love. It is He who instituted relationships. And He wants you to involve Him in your romantic relationships so that He can teach you to love the way He loves us with steadfast love.

So, pray about it. You may pray a prayer such as this one: “Dear God, please be merciful to me a sinner. I accept my faults and my sins and I ask for forgiveness. LORD, I worship You and praise You that You have given me life to see this day. Glory be to Holy Name for Your mercies and Your grace. LORD, You tell us to love one another because love comes from You. I am attracted to Yaa and I want her to fall in love with me so that we can have  a relationship, so that we can get to know ourselves better. Please touch her heart and let her develop feelings for me just as Michal fell in love with David in the Bible. You turn the king’s heart in Your favor, LORD. Please stir her emotions and her spirit and let her develop feelings for me. Amen.”

 

Conclusion

To make a girl fall in love with you, make sure that you make eye contact with her every time you meet her, let her see that you are a caring guy who will treat her as a special girl when she develops a close relationship with you, make her laugh often, let her see that you share similarities which will help you to bond as a couple, let her see that you have what she lacks, and listen to her when she communicates with you.

 

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