A relationship can get boring sometimes, right?
You just ran out of ideas about what to keep the relationship exciting…
You rack your brain and rack it but…
It is as though you have come to the end of your creativity.
But…don’t worry! I have lots of ideas and being the selfish (?) guy that I am, I want to share a few cute things to do with your girlfriend with you to help you have a great relationship.
1. Bake Together
You love eating cakes, right? And you also love eating pastries, bread, meat pies, biscuits and the like, right?
Instead of just being a consumer of these goodies, why don’t you become a producer?
That’s right! One of the cute things to do with your girlfriend on a date is to bake!
Produce all these delicious “eatables” with your girlfriend! Dress like clowns, or dress like genies or gnomes or whatever imaginary beings tickle your fancy. And as you beat eggs, mix flour, regulate an oven and so on at her house, converse and listen to your favorite music intermittently.
2. Watch The Sun Set
One of the cute things to do with your girlfriend on valentine’s day is to watch the sun retire for the day.
Settle with your girlfriend under palm trees, or at the park. Snuggle up to your girlfriend with a bottle of lemonade and vegetable pies, or a yogurt and banana cakes.
Put your arm around her and observe as the sun glows, throws an orange ball in the sky, and goes “home” to sleep. Enjoy every moment of the spectacle.
3. Build Castles In The Sand At The Beach
You loved to build castles in the sand when you were a little boy, right? And you miss those days, right?
So, why don’t you relive those exciting times again?
No, no, don’t shake your head. You are not too old to do that again. You can!
This is what you should do:
Keep it a surprise…
- go to your girlfriend’s house one Saturday morning;
- inform her that you have a surprise for her;
- respectfully ask her to put on casual clothes; and then
- drive her to the nearest beach;
- settle in the sand together, brainstorm about the kind of house you would like to live in together when you get married. Then, together, try to create a “sand version” of your dream house.
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4. Tramp Through Woods
Grab Susie, Amy, Ava, Yaa, or Adwoa’s (or whatever your girlfriend’s name is)hand. Leave the house. And take a stroll through serene woods.
Challenge each other to “walking matches”—set a distance you must both walk and try to outdo each other over that distance.
5. Have A Picnic On A Lake
Pack a basket with raspberries, cranberries, bananas, pineapples, or papaya, as well as doughnuts, some fried fish, and whole meal bread. Plus, take along any musical instrument that you can play well.
Hire a canoe or a kayak. When you get to the lake, row off the shore and stop in the middle of the lake. Unpack the food and enjoy it over a conversation about what direction you want your relationship to take.
After the meal, create a love song together and sing it to each another.
6. Learn How To Speak A New Language
Learn French, German, Norwegian, Swedish, Dutch, Twi, Ga, Ewe, Swahili, Hausa, Arabic or any other exotic language that you may have heard of.
And after you master it, use it to confuse your friends and relations. Or, use it to create your own “imaginary world” where only both of you can understand each other.
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7. Show Love To Disadvantaged Children
One of the cute things to do with your girlfriend on her birthday is to be charitable. Buy exercise books, pens, and pencils. Then, visit an orphanage and distribute these items to the children.
Alternatively, identify homeless or street children and give the items to them. Follow this up by inspiring them to aspire to get an education.
8. Teach A Parrot How To Mention Your Names
You get thrilled when you hear a parrot “speaking”, right? And you wonder how those birds manage to imitate humans, right?
So, solve the mystery! Together with your girlfriend, learn how to train a parrot to speak. And then buy a parrot for your girlfriend on her next birthday. Subsequently, teach the bird how to mention your names.
9. Write Love Poems
Recount all the amazing times you have shared together as boyfriend and girlfriend. Let those memories inspire you and guide you to express yourselves to each in poems. Then, grab her hand, look deep into her eyes, and let her know the depth of the love you have for her.
10. Ride A Horse
Borrow the horse of a farmer or horse owner in your town. Settle on the horse together and go on an adventure: ride the animal to outlying parts of the town and hurdle over obstacles.
Alternatively, get a horse each and race each other on a track and field park or on a soccer field.
11. Go To A Ghanaian Festival
Ghanaians in the US and Europe organize festivals from time to time. During these festivals, they showcase Ghana’s rich culture.
Inquire about when the next Ghanaian festival will be held in your area. And then go there with your girlfriend.
Learn what you can about Ghanaian culture. Learn about the Ghanaian way of dressing. Learn how to dance some traditional Ghanaian dances. And learn how to cook some Ghanaian foods.
After the festival, dress like Ghanaians sometimes, cook Ghanaian foods for each other, and entertain yourselves with Ghanaian music and Ghanaian dances.
12. Camp In The Yard Of Your House
When your girlfriend comes over one day, set up a tent on the lawn of your house one warm evening. Decorate the tent with flowers and play love songs to create a romantic ambience. Settle in two chairs facing each other, hold hands, and talk about your hopes and dreams for the future.
13. Role Play
You enjoy watching your favorite movie stars on screen, right? And you enjoy the excitement the movies bring you, right?
Then, why not create your own excitement yourselves! Pretend you are your favorite film stars and enact some of your favorite scenes from their movies which you love the most.
14. Guess The Names Of Flowers
Set the stakes for a “knowing flowers” excursion. For example, you may decide that when your girlfriend hits a certain score, you will give her a special treat: for a whole week, you will take her to her favorite restaurant for lunch.
And you may decide that if she does not make that score, she will buy you a gift of your choice on your next birthday.
Then go to a botanical garden with a botany book. Let your girlfriend try to identify some flowers and give her a score.
15. Listen To Radio For A Whole Day
Settle by your radio and listen to different discussions and different programs. Listen to a range of programs ranging from entertainment to politics, sports, fashion, science, wealth creation, cars, women’s issues, health, and holidays and celebrations. Then, pick 5 of the issues that interested you the most and debate each other on those topics.
Points To Remember
Wrapping it all up, remember that some of the cute things to do with your girlfriend are:
- baking in the house;
- tramping through woods;
- caring for disadvantaged children; and
- attending a Ghanaian festival.
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Now It’s Your Turn!
I am sure that you also have many ideas about some cute things lover can do.
Share some of them with the world! Let the world know by telling me about them in the comments section below.
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