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6 Excellent Ways to Start Talking to Someone On a Dating Site

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how to start talking to someone on a dating site

 

Kwabena Sakyi has recently completed his profile on one of the free online dating sites on the internet and he wants to know how he can engage a woman he wants to date. “I want to know how I can start talking to someone on a dating site: I have seen this gorgeous woman  and I don’t want to botch things up by saying  the wrong things or giving her a wrong impression of who I am. What should I say when I send her the first message? What should I write so that I can grab her attention?” Kwabena asks, with a smile on his face.

In this article, I want to show you some of the things you must say when you start talking to someone on a dating site so that he or she will become interested in you.

These are the secrets.

1.     Start With Something Very Simple

Start by sending the woman a very short message. In this message, ask her how she is doing so that she will reckon that you are a caring guy and that can increase the likelihood that she will want to be your friend.

So, you may write something such as, “Hello, sweetheart! How is life treating you?” or “Hi! What are you doing at the moment?” or “What’s up?” or “Want to chat?”: they are all good ways you can start talking to someone on a dating site.

Starting this way will help you to get rid of your nerves, if you feel nervous. Additionally, it will make it easy for her to read the message, as well as captivate her, and she may decide to find out who this guy is who gathered courage to send her a message.

 

2.     Let Her See That You Are An Intriguing Guy

After she responds, show her that you are a creative guy. It will make her feel that you can come up with different ideas to maintain fun and excitement in the friendship and that may motivate her to respond to your message so that she can have an enthralling life.

So, you may write something such as this, “Ever ridden on the back of crocodiles before? I imagine that is beyond your wildest dreams! But I have done it a number of times at the Paga crocodile pond. I sat on a crocodile for 5 minutes. And I can assure you it’s no joke! And that’s not all. I visited the Mole National Park and went hunting in the dead of the night. It was so eerie. And guess where I am off to next week?”

 

3.     Praise Her

Every woman wants to be praised by a man and you will receive a thumbs up from her if you say something nice about her profile photo, or if you say something nice about what she has written in her profile.

So, scrutinize her photo and say something that will make her feel that you like her. For example, if she uploads a picture in which she is sitting in her room, you may write something such as this, “I see your room is very well kept. I believe you are a very neat and organized woman. That is the kind of woman I like to hang out with. Keep it up.”

If you like the dress she is wearing, you may say something such as this, “That dress you were wearing when you took that picture is first class. And I must say it looks great on you. You should consider wearing it often for it really makes you look attractive.”

 

4.     Look  For Common Ground

Carefully browse the woman’s profile description and look for interests that both of you share. This can  help you to catch her attention quickly because you will be able to raise a topic for discussion that she may be passionate about. And when you send her a question that asks about something that she likes doing, she will feel that she is likely to engage in exciting conversations with you since both of you will find it easy to be on the same page: she will feel that you can build rapport quickly, and that may influence her to respond to your message.

So, for example, if after going through her profile you see that she loves soccer, and you also love soccer, you may ask her a question such as, “I have been arguing with guys about this: was Pele a better footballer than Maradona, or is Cristiano Ronaldo a better footballer than Lionel Messi? I want to know your views.” Asking her a question based on your common interests will start an interesting interaction which will help both of you to bond.

5.  Ask Her  A Personal Question

Studies have shown that when one makes people talk about themselves, it makes them like you. Therefore, if you can make the woman share something personal about her life with you, she will feel a connection and that can increase the chances that she may start a relationship with you.

So, you may ask her things such as, “What is the funniest thing you did when you were in junior high school?” or “Tell me about your brothers,” or “What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you since you were born?” or “What do you normally do when you close from work?” or “How do you spend your weekends?”

 

6.     Show That You Have A Sense Of Humor

Research has shown that women like guys who can make them laugh: when you exhibit a sense of humor, it will tell the woman that you can entertain her and make her forget about some of her worries and she will be curious to know more about to you.

So, craft a nice joke and deliver it to her and she will stop for a moment and say to herself, “This guy seems interesting. Let me see where this can lead to.”

 

Conclusion

This is how to start talking to someone on a dating site: keep it simple at first. And then try to come across as a fun-loving guy, praise her, elicit personal information from her, and let her see that you have a good sense of humor.

 

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How To Find Love Online

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Incorporate Me Deeper Into Your Heart: Awesome Ways to Create a Great Relationship

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Yaw Manu has been in a relationship with Yaa Amponsah for six months now and Yaa feels that their relationship is not strong enough. “Yaa has been saying to me often, ‘Incorporate me deeper into your life so that we can have a fantastic relationship.’ I love Yaa very much and she loves me too and we want this relationship to continue until we marry.  I know that there are areas we can improve upon and we have begun working on those areas. However, I need more ideas to help us have a strong relationship. I want to know things I can do so that my girlfriend can also incorporate me deeper into her heart. I would be happy if you could help me in this regard,” Yaw requests.

If you also feel that there is a lot of room for improvement in your romantic relationship, then here are some things you can do to create a great relationship.

 

1.     Remind Yourself Of The Early Days Of The Relationship Often

Talk about what you used to do when you first started dating, and how you related to each other then, and some of the things you did that helped to maintain the love in your relationship. Then, start doing some of those things again. It will help to rejuvenate the love you feel for each other and you will bond better and stronger.

 

2.     Show Gratitude To Your Girlfriend Every Day

A study has revealed that when lovers show gratitude, it can make the lovers feel strongly bonded to each other. Additionally, appreciating your partner will make him or her feel satisfied to be in the relationship.

So, when you appreciate the sacrifices that your girlfriend makes to make you happy, it will make her feel happy and she will be willing to do more to enhance the quality of the relationship.

Furthermore, when you let her know that what she is doing for you touches your heart and makes you have stronger feelings for her, she will see that you care about her and she is more likely to also develop deeper affection for you.

So, thank her when sacrifices her credit to call you. Thank her when she spends quality time with you engaging you in exciting conversation. Thank her when she nurses you during sickness, and let her know that you appreciate it when she tells you she loves you.

 

3.     Practice Active Listening

Good communication is essential for the stability of any romantic relationship: when you can express yourself well and get your girlfriend to understand the messages that you want to convey, you will find it easier to address differences and resolve conflicts and that will help both of you to maintain the stability of your relationship.

One aspect of communication you must take seriously is active listening. How do you do that?

  • Do your best to be sensitive to what she says to you, instead of ignoring her concerns and the issues she may have about the way you are treating her, or instead of ignoring the changes she wants you to make in the way you relate to her so that the relationship can become stronger.
  • Additionally, when you have conversations, let your girlfriend know that you are following what she is saying by asking her to clarify certain points, asking her questions based on what she said to you, looking into her face, nodding when she says something you appreciate, and shaking your head when she says something that you disagree with.

Listening to her actively will make her feel that you value her opinions and her concerns and that can help her maintain the love she has for you.

 

4.     Be Kind To Your Partner

When you show kindness to your girlfriend, she will feel wanted and that will make her feel happy, which will increase the likelihood that she will be emotionally stable. When her emotions are in a state of equilibrium, she is more likely to relate to you lovingly and that can help to enhance the connection between the two of you.

So, avoid criticizing her unfairly or condemning her when she makes mistakes. Rather, focus on her positives, remind yourself of the things she does right in the relationship, and let that help you to treat her with respect and honor.

 

5.     Show Humility At All Times

A study has revealed that humility can help to make a relationship last for a long time. When you choose to be humble, you will find it easier to say to your girlfriend, “What you did hurt me, but because I love you so much, and for the sake of our relationship, I forgive you.”

Additionally, when you choose to be humble, you are more likely to sacrifice your comfort to make her feel happy in the relationship. Consequently, she is more likely to be pleased with the way you treat her, she may reciprocate by treating you with respect and honor, and that can help to solidify your relationship.

So, show humility. How can you do that?

  • Remind yourself often that there are things she can do better than you. Moreover, remind yourself often that there are things which you need her to do for you. When you remind yourself of your limitations this way, you will be more willing to learn from her and that will make it easier for you to control your ego.
  • Admit your mistakes when you make them. And learn to apologize to her when you see that you have erred.
  • Learn not to take things she does which you are not comfortable with too seriously all the time. Learn to laugh at yourself and some of her goofs sometimes because it will help you to control your pride, as well as help you to resist the urge to retaliate when she says or does something you dislike.

 

6.     Be Quick To Forgive Your Girlfriend When She Hurts You

When you forgive your girlfriend, when you choose to release bitterness, you will find it easier to relate to her with respect and that can help both of you to resolve conflicts amicably. Resolving differences in a peaceful manner will help to maintain the stability and integrity of the relationship.

Additionally, when you learn to forgive, you will not engage in shouting matches with her when you have disagreements. Consequently,  tempers may not rise to the point where both of you will feel very bitter towards each other, and that will make it easier  for you to discuss your differences and solve them in a spirit of understanding.

 

 

Conclusion

Your partner may say to you sometimes, “Incorporate me deeper into your life so that we can have a great relationship.” To do that, remind each other of the early days of your relationship and try to relive those days, thank your girlfriend for what she does for you, listen to her concerns with an empathetic ear, show kindness to her, do your best to be humble, and forgive her from your heart when she wrongs you.

 

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How To Cope With Your Girlfriend If She Is An Alcoholic

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9 Intelligent Ways to Get Over Someone

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how to get over someone: tell yourself that it is over

 

Kwasi Tweneboah has broken up with his girlfriend recently and he wants to know how to get over someone so that you can put back some order into your life.

“Akua cheated on me and I could not forgive her. So, I called it quits. However, I think about Akua often and that disturbs me. I can’t focus on work and my supervisor has been complaining of late. Additionally, I don’t enjoy life anymore. Food tastes like sand in my mouth; I don’t enjoy playing soccer like I used to; I don’t spend time with friends because when we go out, I just make up the numbers. How do you get over someone cheating on you? The affair she had still makes me angry and sometimes I feel like revenging. And, yet, I want to stop thinking about her. How do you get over someone and stop thinking about them?” Kwasi asks.

In this article, I want to show you how to get over some and even still be friends, for you never know ,you may need the help of your ex years down the line.

So, what should you do?

 

1.     Tell Yourself That It Is Over

Even if you still have feelings for him or her and you think there is a slim chance that you may get back together again, tell yourself that you will never come back together again. This will help you to focus on your life, to focus on now so that you can reorganize yourself and look at the opportunities that are open before you (guys who are interested in you and who were praying for this breakup), and that can make it easier for you to bring back structure and order into your life.

On the other hand, if you keep hoping that he or she may come back, and they never do, you will suffer more heartache and that may crush your spirit.

 

2.     Look At How You Have Benefited Since You Broke Up With The Person

It is true that you loved the person who broke up with you and you experienced some wonderful moments when you were in a relationship with him or her. However, if you sit down for a moment and reflect, you will see that the relationship also robbed you of something, which you have gained back after you broke up with him or her: it may be that you now have enough time to study your books; it may be that you can focus on building your career now. Or, you may have the freedom and time now to visit exotic locations in your country, or around the world.

So, deliberately focus your attention on how you have benefitted, instead of making yourself miserable by reminiscing about the marvelous times you spent with your ex.

To help you do this, write down about 20 ways your life has improved since the breakup, or 10 things you can do now which you could not do when you were in the relationship with the man or woman. This exercise will make you see that you are not the miserable wretch that you may feel you are and so you should enjoy life as it comes.

 

3.        See The Positives Of The Breakup, And Not Only The Negatives

Remind yourself that nothing in this life happens just by chance and so the dissolution of the relationship will yield good results: it will make you a better person and you will meet a far better lover than the man or woman you broke up with. This will make you look forward to the future with hope in your heart, which will make it easier for you to forget about the pain of the past relationship.

You can feel that something great is going to come out of the breakup by making positive affirmations such as this one to yourself often, “Yes. The past relationship was enjoyable, but it was not the best relationship that I can ever have in this life. I can experience something far more wonderful than that relationship and I will look forward to that relationship.”

 

4.     Unfriend Your Ex From Facebook

A study published in the journal Cyberpsychology some years ago revealed that men or women who keep visiting the profile of their ex’s Facebook profile are likely to feel bitter towards their ex. Additionally, their affection for their ex is likely to be rekindled.

When you have negative feelings towards your ex, you are likely to plot revenge against him or her, or you are more likely to harbor anger in your heart. These things will make you think of him or her often, and you can never move on as a result.

However, if you remove reminders of your ex from your private space, and you avoid trying to know what is going on in his or her life, you will find it easier to think about other things and the memories of that past relationship, as well as the memory of your ex, will fade gradually over time.

 

5.     Eat Fruits And Vegetables

Fruits and vegetables release hormones that can make one feel happy, such as dopamine. These hormones will make you feel calm and relaxed. Consequently, you can focus on your life and your relationship with the people around you better.

 

6.     Exercise Every Day

Research has shown that exercising makes the brain release a group of chemicals known as endorphins which give one a “feel good” feeling. Consequently, you will feel happy every day and it will make you miss the man or woman who broke your heart less.

 

7.     Rebuild Your Self Confidence

Remind yourself that you are a great person and so you can make someone else fall in love with you. This will prevent you from thinking that no one may love you again, which will cause nostalgia and make you miss your ex.

 

8.     Participate In Research On Breakups

A study published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science in 2015 revealed that taking part in research on breakup can help one to get over a breakup.

Taking part in these surveys will help you to reorganize how you view yourself: you will look at all the angles of the breakup and that will make you see perspectives that you may not have considered before. As a result, you will be able to come to terms with the situation and that can make it easier for you to move one.

 

9.     Do Something Helpful For Others

Some studies suggest that when one donates his or her time to help alleviate the suffering of others, it can help the person to get rid of loneliness.

Additionally, connecting with people and helping them will help you to hear stories of survival and resilience, which will make you see that compared to other people, you are fortunate. Consequently, you will feel more grateful about your life and that can make you forget about the whole bad affair.

So, get out of the house and go shopping for a friend or relative. Or, teach adults a foreign language, visit a lonely student in your alma mater, mow the lawn of your neighbor, or take care of the pet of an old school mate and you will feel happy.

 

Conclusion

This is how to get over someone: face the reality and accept that you will not get back together with your ex again, remind yourself of the good things that have happened in your life since the breakup, allow yourself to see that things will work together for good, cut contact with your ex, share your experiences with others, and give your time and energy to the disadvantaged in society.

 

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How To Be Patient With Your Girlfriend

How To Become More Patient Towards Your Girlfriend

How To Humble Yourself In Your Relationship

How To Deal With Anxious Attachment

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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First Date Tips for Men to Help You Meet A Wonderful Woman

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first date tips

 

 

Kojo Antwi has been able to convince a girl to go out with him and he needs first date tips. “I have been attracted to Ama for several months now. She is smart, beautiful, witty, and she has great character: she is always willing to sacrifice her comfort to make a guy feel cool. It was not easy approaching her because when I observed her from afar, and I considered her great personality, I thought she would play hard to get. It took me days of rehearsing my lines before I finally said those words. And you should have been around when she said yes: I was on cloud nine. However, immediately after, I was filled with fear that I may not be able to make a good impression on her. I want her to have such a great first date that I will find it easy to make her go out with me again and again until we can have a relationship. What do I do during our date? What attitude should I adopt? How should I behave?” Kojo asks in a nervous voice.

In this article, I want to give you first date tips to help you make that night a wonderful one so that the woman will wish to go out with you again.

 

1.     Make Up Your Mind That You Will Enjoy Yourself

Psyche yourself and adopt a mindset that says that you will do your best to enjoy yourself and make your date have a rollicking time. This will help you not to feel so apprehensive about the adventure. Consequently, you will find it easier to be yourself during the date. And that can increase the likelihood that you will engage in stimulating conversation to make the woman happy.

 

2.     What To Wear

What you choose to wear should be informed by your motive for dating the woman. For example, if you want to have a long-term relationship with her, then choose to wear something red because research shows that women find men who wear clothes of that color appealing and irresistible. You may choose to wear a red long-sleeved shirt or red T-shirt, depending on where you will have the date. And you may choose to match that with a black pair of trousers or black pair of jeans.

If you have no intention to date her long-term, then you may wear a blue shirt or suit and match it with a blue pair of trousers or a black pair of trousers. Alternatively, wear a white shirt and match it with a black pair of trousers.

Make sure that the color of your belt matches the color of your shoes. For example, if you wear a brown belt, wear brown shoes. And if you wear a black belt, wear black shoes.

 

3.     Be Intriguing

Do not make it easy for her to figure you out. Do your best to hide some of your strong points and some of your idiosyncrasies so that you can have something with which to surprise her every time you meet, if you continue dating. So, say things that will put her in a suspenseful mood and make her wish to see you again.

 

4.     Make Sure You Communicate Properly

Use simple language and simple sentences to convey your thoughts and feelings and avoid trying to impress you date with flowery language and big vocabulary. This will help your date to understand you well so that you can establish a good and strong rapport.

On the other hand too, make sure you pay complete attention to what your date says and look for nonverbal cues that tell you that she is uncomfortable or feeling bored so that you can liven things up.

  • For example, if you ask her something and she frowns or she tries to dodge the question, it should alert you that she does not want to discuss that subject.
  • Or, if she keeps looking at her watch it means she is bored and she wants you to change the direction of the discussion.
  • If she looks down often, it should tell you that she is unhappy.
  • If she looks around often, it should tell you that you are not exciting enough and you should up your game.
  • If she drums her fingers on the table or on her body, she may be irritated with something you said.

Additionally, use these listening skills to enhance your communication with your date. Furthermore, ask interesting questions such as those here so that your date will enjoy the evening.

 

5.     Does She Like Me?

At the end of the date, you may wonder whether the lady likes you so that you can ask her to go out with you again. How can you know that? Check out if she mimics some of your gestures and if once in a  while she copies the way you speak: research suggests that when someone mimics you, it means there is a likelihood that the person likes you.

So, if you see that she mimics your accent during the conversation, copies the way you throw your hands about, or makes some of the facial expressions that you make, it is likely that she has enjoyed your company and you should feel confident to ask her to go out with you again.

 

6.     Make Sure That She Arrives At Home Safely

Let the woman see that you care about her welfare and about her safety by ensuring that she gets home without any hitches. So, drive her back home if you picked her up. If you don’t have a car, join the bus and go home with her, or join the taxi you hire for her and ensure that she enters her house before you go home.

 

Conclusion

Some first date tips you might like to implement are that make up your mind that “I’ll have fun and make sure she enjoys the time too,” wear something red, blue, or black to make you look attractive, speak in simple, clear language and listen attentively, and take her home after the date.

 

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Signs A Woman Is Attracted To You

How To Find Love

Dating 101 Tips To Make A Woman Like You

Dating 101 Tips For Men And Women

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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2 Great Tinder Profile Tips for Men to Help You Find Love

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Tinder profile tips for men: tell interesting stories

 

Online dating is helping people to find love and spouses. And one person who also wants to use this medium to find a mate is Kwame Oduro. Kwame is 30 years old, he has dated a number of women face- to- face, but all those relationships ended on rocks. He is desperate to settle down and start a family, but his busy schedule lately makes it difficult for him to go out nowadays to find women.

“Some friends have suggested that I use online dating to find a woman because it will afford me the opportunity to meet a lot more women than I could if I went around looking for a woman. I believe it will also make it easy for me to interact with women considering my tight schedules. I am a bit skeptical about online dating, but I will take the risk and give it a try. Some friends have indicated that tinder is a good place to start. I want to set up a great tinder profile to help me attract the kind of woman that I can have a good relationship with. I would be happy if you could give me some tinder profile tips to help me enable me to look appealing to women who will visit my profile,” Kwame says.

If you are also interested in dating on tinder, then here are some tips that will help you to get responses from women so that you can start a friendship and build it up until you both fall in love.

 

1.     Upload A Picture In Which You Are Doing Something Exciting Such As Playing A Guitar

Research suggests that when a man uploads a profile picture in which he looks active, instead of showing one in which he is just standing in front of his house, sitting drinking, sleeping in his bed, sitting at his desk in the office, or standing with friends, he is more likely to get responses from women.

When you show a picture in which you are engaging in something interesting, women who visit your profile will reckon that you live an exciting, engaging life and that will make some of them contact you so that they can also experience that fun-filled life.

Additionally, you will make it easier for women who also love music and singing to contact you and start a conversation with you, or to have something to talk about when you send them a first message: it will facilitate communication and that can make both of you connect quickly.

So, if you have photos about when you were learning how to play the guitar, or about when you collected your friend’s guitar, showcase them on your profile. If you don’t have any such photos, get a guitar and take some pictures with it, or borrow a guitar and let your friend take photos of you playing it!

 

2.     Let 70% Of Your Profile Be About Yourself

Some experts suggest that let 70% of the profile be about yourself and use the remaining 30% to tell women about the kind of person you think you will be compatible with, and that can increase your chances of finding love.

Doing this will help you to reveal yourself appropriately so that women who visit your profile will get to know your personality thoroughly and, as a result, you can attract women who will feel comfortable with your kind of personality.

So, for example, you may write something such as this, “Want to know how I am? Well, I stick needles into the butts of people in an effort to cure them of one disease or the other. Additionally, I diagnose what is wrong with people when they come to see me and…you get the picture? So, let’s play a little game. Guess who I am? Do you want to know what I am doing at the moment? I am sitting on a beach, drinking cool coconut water (boy oh boy , this coconut water tastes great!) and admiring beautiful women swimming in the Atlantic Ocean. Want to join me sometime? Well, this is what I normally do on weekends after hours of stress at the hospital. And later this evening, I will be at home cooking my favorite jollof rice, listening to something inspirational from Don Moen, and then I will watch an adventure movie with…Elsie. Oh no! Don’t get jealous! That is my dog, an adorable Alsatian! Okay, so that sums up the kind of guy I am. I want to meet an understanding woman who fears the Lord, but who is great fun to be with and who knows how to make a guy feel good about himself. If you are that kind of woman, send me a message and let’s connect. Who knows, we may end up as…your guess is as good as mine!”

Ensure that you make your personality stand out. Furthermore, make sure you include a number of jokes by sharing funny experiences that you have been involved in, or humorous scenes you have witnessed. Share it in the form of stories instead of just telling the jokes because research suggests that women like guys who tell them interesting stories. You may increase your attractiveness in the eyes of women when you share stories and one or two may contact you.

 

Conclusion

Some tinder profile tips you can use to increase the likelihood that you can attract a woman for a date are:  showcase a picture in which you are holding a guitar. And when you are writing your profile, choose to write 70 % about yourself, or you may use an alternative strategy of writing 80% about yourself.

 

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How To Find Love Online

Finding Love On A Dating Site

How To Find Love Online   

Dating Profile Examples 1

Dating Profile Examples 2

Ways To Start A Conversation On A Dating Site

How To Start An Online Dating Conversation

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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4 Smart Ways to Find True Love Online Free

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Praying to God will help you to find true love online free

 

 

More and more people are using online dating to find lovers and life-long partners. According to Pew Research Center, about 11% of people who have been in relationships for 10 years or less met online.

So, what can you do to find true love online free too? What are the strategies you must adopt if you want to find a woman who you will click with, who you can have fun-filled times with, and who will grow to love and adore you? And how can you set up your online dating profile so that you can increase the likelihood that women will be attracted to your personality?

In this article, I want to show you how to find true love online free using spiritual, as well as natural strategies, which will make the women who visit your profile find you so irresistible that they will have no choice but to fall for you.

1.     Pray To The God Of Love

“God is love,” the Bible says. It is God who created relationships and He wants you to look to Him as the heavenly Father who cares about whom you will date, and who is interested in helping you to meet the right woman.

And God has got the track record of helping people meet their soul mate. For example, when Abraham wanted a wife for his son Isaac, he sent his servant to search for a wife for Isaac. The servant prayed to God to help him find a good woman for Isaac, and God answered that prayer and led the servant to Rebekah, a hard-working, humble, beautiful woman who later became Isaac’s wife.

And God can do the same thing for you if you have faith in Him and if you ask Him to help you find a woman who will be a good partner, who will love and cherish you, and who will bring joy into your life.

So, before you set up your online profile, say a prayer such as this one, “Dear God, have mercy on me a sinner. Please be merciful and gracious to me today and answer me because of Your son Jesus whom You love. LORD, I give You the glory and honor that You created love and relationships. I glorify You for Your kindness and goodness, and for the fact that You want Your children to be happy. LORD, I am about to set up a dating profile. Please grant me the kind of favor You gave to Abraham’s servant which led him straight to Rebekah. Please help me to meet an honest, hardworking, faithful, humble, caring woman who fears You. Please give me the wisdom to know it when I meet the right woman. When I meet her, please help us to love each other just as Jonathan loved David, and just as Jacob loved Rachel. I ask this through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.”

 

2.     Set Up A Great Profile

One thing that can help you to find love online, and which can increase your chances of attracting a woman for a relationship, is to write a great profile. Women will flock to your dating profile if you are humorous.

Additionally, many women will like to establish a friendship with you if you are not negative and judgmental in your dating description.

Furthermore, you can attract a lot of women if you tell stories on your profile instead of presenting yourself by just writing dry statements.

Moreover, you can get the attention of women if you brag and boast on your online dating profile because research shows that these are some of the things that can make a woman like a guy’s profile.

 

3.     Know Exactly What You Want

Research has shown that when a man gives himself too many options it can make it very difficult for him to find a lover. On the other hand, having a clear focus and limiting your options can save you time and money, and it can increase the chances that you will meet someone you can bond well with.

So, how can you get this clear focus?

  • Before you write your profile, write down your 10 strongest character traits. For example, if you are intelligent, write it down. If you are humble, write that one down too.
  • Write down 10 character traits you want in a woman and which you want to see in your ideal woman.
  • Then, write down 10 things you hate about women and which you do not want to see in your partner.
  • As you browse the profiles of women, refer to your list to guide you so that you can avoid sending messages to women who exhibit qualities that you hate.

 

4.     Make Sure You Communicate Properly

A study carried out by Stanford University suggest that when a person communicates properly with a person of the opposite sex, it increases the chances that the other person will connect with you so that you can have a relationship.

The study showed that when men use appreciative language for example, it helps women to feel connected to them quickly.

Therefore, appreciate the woman often. For example, if she says something you like, appreciate her by saying, “That was great!” or “You are a very smart woman!” or “Oh, such wisdom! You could teach me a lot of things about life, you know!” and that will make her feel happy and she will be more willing to relate to you.

 

Conclusion

To find love online, pray for God’s help, write a great profile in which you use stories, humor, bragging about your achievements, and in which you are not negative and judgmental and you will increase your chances of connecting with a woman who will enrich your life.

 

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6 Smart Ways to Get the Girl You Love To Like You

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How do you get the girl you love in middle school to like you so that you can start a friendship? How can  you get the girl you love in high school to love you back? How can you get the girl you are in love with, but who does not love you yet, to develop feelings of love for you? How can you make a girl love you at school?

In this article, I want to show you how to get the girl you love so that you can develop a close friendship with her.

So, what are the strategies you can use?

 

1.     Be Kind And Generous To Her

If you want to get a girl to love you more, or if you want her to love you forever, let her see that you are a kind guy. Research suggests that women like men who show kindness and who are generous to them. When you act kindly towards a woman, it will make her feel that you will treat her with tenderness and love when she agrees to be your girlfriend and that can sway her emotions and make her develop a liking for you.

Additionally, when you are generous to her, it will tell her that you will be a responsible lover who will do his best to provide her material needs.

So, buy gifts for her from time to time. It does not have to be something expensive but just something that will show her that you are a thoughtful guy. Furthermore, sacrifice your time and energy to help her do her homework, do cleaning at her house, and also pay some of her bills for her when she is hard up and she will adore you.

 

2.     Emphasize The Interests And Values That Both Of You Share

To make a girl love you at high school, let her see that you share something in common which can serve as a focal point to help you bond. According to one study, people tend to like others who share the values they share or who have love some of the things they love.

When you highlight your similarities, the girl will feel that both of you can have interesting, engaging conversations which can help both of you to bond better.

Additionally, she will feel that you will understand each other perfectly and so you are less likely to hurt her because you will think as she thinks (which will enhance the quality of your relationship—you will relate to each other better). Therefore, she is more likely to open up her heart to you.

So, for example, if she likes music and you also like music, discuss your favorite musicians whenever you meet. Or, if she likes fashion and you also like fashion, let your conversations center around clothes, shoes, accessories and so on.

 

3.     Let Her Talk About Herself When You Have Conversations

Research shows that when you encourage someone to talk about himself or herself, it gives that person pleasure and it also makes that person develop a liking for you.

When you encourage her to bare her heart out to you, when you encourage her to share her problems, heartaches, emotional pain, fears, worries, anxieties, dreams, and visions with you , she will feel that you care about her welfare and she will draw close to you as a result.

Additionally, she will share secrets and personal, emotional information with you. As she continues doing this, and as you listen and offer suggestions, advice and so on, she will grow to feel emotionally connected to you.

 

4.     Tell Her Interesting Stories Often

Some studies carried out at the University of North Carolina suggest that women find men who can tell them stories very attractive as long-term partners than men who are just decent storytellers.

Girls like having conversations and so when you can tell her exciting, interesting, captivating, compelling stories that can capture her imagination, she will feel that you will be a good conversationalist who will entertain her when she agrees to have a long-term relationship with you.

Additionally, she will die to spend some quality, fun-filled time together with you so that you can charm her with some of those stories.

 

5.     Exhibit A Sense Of Humor

Research shows that women are attracted to guys who can make them laugh. When you can lighten up a woman’s day, when you can help her to de-stress, when you can help her to forget about some of her worries and burdens, she will see that you are a very smart guy who can make her happy, and women like to associate with men who are intelligent.

So, crack jokes when you chat with her. Tell her about some of the funny things that happened when you were a child and when you were in school. Additionally, sometimes, tickle her and tease her and it will make her like your company.

 

6.     Let Her Know That You Like Her

If you want a girl you love to love you back, be bold and let her know how you feel about her. A study conducted by psychologist Dr. Aron has revealed that when you make someone know that you like him or her, that person also develops a liking for you, and he or she starts to develop feelings for you.

So, tell her verbally that you like her and you want to be her friend. It will make her think about you and she will also start liking you.

To avoid looking needy, let the girl see that you are a very valuable guy with a wonderful personality and with a great character, but you like her specifically. It will make her find you irresistible and she will like to have a close romantic relationship with you.

 

      Conclusion

To get the girl you love, be kind and generous to her, highlight the values that both of you share, let her talk about herself and her life often, entertain her with compelling stories whenever you are together, let her see that you have a good sense of humor, and tell her that you like her and it will help you to stir her emotions so that she will also start developing feelings of love for you.

 

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