5 Smart Ways to Start a Text Conversation With a Girl

start a text conversation with a girl
start a text conversation with a girl

How do you start a conversation with a girl you don’t know? How do you start a text conversation with a girl you just met? How do you start a conversation with a girl you know but whom you are not close to? How do you start a text conversation with a girl in high school? Or, what are some of the strategies you can use to start a text conversation with a girl you barely know?

In this article, I want to show you how to start a text conversation with a girl, and I am talking about the kind of conversation starters which will guarantee a response from her, so that you can start a friendship.

So, what strategies can you use?

 

1.     Ask Her An Open-Ended Question Instead Of Saying “Hi” Or “Hello”

One strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl you like is to ask her an open-ended question. Many girls have heard “hi” and “hello” so often that they are turned off when they see those two words. Therefore, to appear interesting and to increase the chances that she will respond to your text, ask her a probing question that she will find hard to reply to. That will help to build rapport so that you can kick-start a friendship.

For example, you may ask, “Beautiful, what are you doing at the moment?” or “What kind of sports do you like?” or “What type of music do you love listening to? Why?” or “You are very beautiful, but why do you avoid guys?” or “Who are you? I mean, I think you are a great girl and I want to know more about you…”

When she responds, ask her another open-ended question and continue with this strategy and the conversation will flow.

 

2.     Give Her A Compliment

Another strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl by text is to let her feel that you appreciate who she is.

You need to be creative when you are complimenting a girl through text message because she may have received a lot of compliments from other guys who may be interested in her.

How? A girl a guy approaches to compliment when they are in school or in class will feel special and flattered because it  is possible that no guy may have approached her to tell her that she is beautiful. However, when it comes to text messages, many guys, even shy guys who may be afraid of talking to her face-to-face, can easily gather courage to send text messages to girls. As a result, she may have received lots of compliments.

So, remind yourself of how she looks and any features or characteristics that set her apart from all other girls, such as her hair-color, her smile, the way she walks, the way she relates to others in her class and so on, and give her an original, unique compliment that no other guy can give to her apart from you.

You may say something such as, “Queen, I saw you walking from class to the library yesterday and I must say I loved the way you moved your body. I also think you have the best smile in the whole wide world—only you can produce that wonderful smile.”

 

3.     Let Her Know That You Have Interests In Common

Talk about some of the things which you love doing, and which you know she loves doing too. For example, if you love watching soccer, ask her about her impressions of an exciting match you watched recently. You may ask, “What do you think of Accra Great Olympics’ 2-0 win over Kumasi Asante Kotoko?” Or, if you love music, you may ask, “I listened to Don Moen’s latest album and I must say the songs on it are so soul-inspiring. What do you think about his latest album?”

When you let the girl know that you also love what she likes, she will know that you can have very interesting conversations in the future and that will give her a reason to respond—she may feel motivate to reply to your message.

 

4.     Use These Words In Your Early Texts

Using certain words can increase the chances that the girl will respond to your text. Words such as, “I am outgoing…”, “I am fun to be with…”, “I am an optimistic guy…”, “I am intelligent…”, “I am understanding…”, “I am caring…” will make the girl feel that she can have a loving and interesting relationship with you and that may make her more willing to respond to your text.

 

5.     Share A Joke With Her

One strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl is to send her something funny, share a funny story about yourself, or say something that will make her laugh.

Using this strategy will make her see that she will have a lot of fun with you if she replies to the message, or it may make her like you and that may motivate her to send you a message so that you can start a friendship.

Additionally, sharing a joke will rouse curiosity and make her feel that you are an intriguing guy, which is one of the things most ladies like about guys.

 

Conclusion

To start a text conversation with a girl, ask her an open-ended question which she will find irresistible to answer. Additionally, let her feel special, let her know that both of you share common interests, use certain words which will make her feel that she can have a loving friendship with you, and use humor to make her know that you can help to lighten her day when she is down and she will be more willing to respond to your text.

 

 

 

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