How to Tell if She Loves You: She Will Show You Signs of Affection
How do you tell if a girl loves you? Below, I want to show you how to tell if she loves you so that you can make an informed choice whether to give you heart back to her.
1. She Will Want to Be with You Often
How can you tell if she loves you? One way you can tell if she loves you is the amount of time she spends with you. A girl who loves you will have the desire to see you often. Therefore, any least opportunity she gets, she will come to wherever you are because she wants to be close to you and to feel an emotional connection with you.
When she has not seen you for some hours, it will make her feel uncomfortable, and so she will try her best to see you because she has feelings for you. So for example, even if you are in the same class, after you close from class for the day, she will come to your hostel, or come to your house so that she can spend some more time in your presence, because she will experience happiness when she is near you.
On the other hand, if a girl does not want to spend time with you, always makes excuses because she is busy and does not have time for you, then even if she says she loves you, you should not believe her. This is how to tell if she doesn’t love you.
2. She Shares Her Secrets with You
When someone loves you, they trust you a lot, and are not afraid to share things they would otherwise not tell other people with you.
When a girl loves you, she takes you into her confidence and feels comfortable sharing her innermost worries and fears, her thoughts, and desires with you. She does this because she feels she can trust you, and knows you are a guy who will not spill the beans.
If a girl is able to tell you even embarrassing things that happened to her, or terrible things she has done, it means she feels comfortable being in your presence, has no emotional inhibitions, and it is a sign to tell you she loves you. She will even tell you about guys who are proposing to her because she wants to get a response from you, such as you telling her you love her, so that she can confidently ward off those guys by telling them she has a boyfriend.
How to tell if she loves you is to see whether she feels comfortable enough to share her secrets with you.
3. Looks at You and Smiles
A girl who loves you will take delight in looking at you. Whenever she sees you, or if you are doing something together in the same place, such as if you are both in the library reading, or you are both at a friend’s party, you may notice her looking at you. She will look at you for long periods of time and when you also look in her direction and your eyes meet, she will either smile at you because she is happy you are looking at her, or she will avert her eyes, especially if she is a shy girl.
She will look at you for long periods because she admires you, has feelings for you, and cannot have enough of you and so looks at your to satisfy her desire to see you.
How to tell if she loves you is to look for these body language signs, and to be on the look-out for them.
4. She Shows Interest in Your Life
When a person loves you, they want to know what you are going through, whether all is well with you and your family, whether school is going well, and whether you are having issues with your parents or siblings.
When a girl shows a great interest in your life, and always wants to find out what is going on with you, it should tell you she loves you. This is how to see if she loves you.
She will ask you about how life is treating you when she sees you are not looking cheerful. She may ask something like, “Ike, I have not seen you in a while. I have been so busy catching up with my own homework, but I have not forgotten about you. How are you doing? Is everything fine with you?” She will say it with a look of concern on her face. You will see and feel that she is really concerned about you. This is one way to tell if she loves you truly.
She may also say, “Of late you have been very quiet. This is most unlike you. Is everything alright? Are you having some problems? If you are, let me know. I want to help.”
When you love someone, you care about them and what they are going through, and that is why she will show this concern for you.
5. Shows You Signs of Affection
One way to tell if she loves you is when she expresses her love for you by showing you signs of affection when she is around you. She will want to get close to you and depending on your level of friendship, she may put her arms around your waist, or sometimes, she may put her arms on your shoulders, to make you know she really loves you. This is all because of the feelings she has for you. It gives her the desire to want to touch you physically.
Also, you may find her brush your cheeks with the back of her hands sometimes in a playful manner. She will do this because she wants to get your attention and make you know that she wants you to be more than just a friend.
Sometimes too, she may hug you out of the blue, and hold onto you for a long time. On the other hand, she may ask you to hug her when she is feeling emotional, because she wants to feel close to you, which is a sign she loves you. This is how to know she loves you deeply.
6. She Gets Jealous Constantly
If a girl show signs of jealousy every time she sees you with another girl, it should tell you she loves you. This is how to tell if she actually loves you.
- If every time a girl sees you walking with another girl, she walks up to you and tries to break up your walk with this other girl by taking hold of your hand and trying to take your attention from the girl by turning your face towards her, it means she wants you all to herself, which is a sign she loves you and wants to be the only girl in your life. This should let you know she loves you for real.
- Sometimes too, you may be sitting down in a corner talking to one of your female friends. She will walk up to where you are sitting and join the conversation uninvited because she may feel that this girl is getting too close to you.
- When you tell her you came from seeing this girl, or you are going to see that girl, you will see signs of irritation on her face, such as a frown, or if she is smiling before you give her this news, she will stop smiling and assume a serious face. She may try to prevent you from going by saying something to discourage you, such as, “Why don’t you go to her place another time. I want to spend time with you now.” When you insist on going, she will get angry with you and threaten not to speak to you if you go.
7. She Will Constantly Get Nervous Around You
How to tell if she is falling in love with you is whether or not she acts in a nervous manner when she is around you.
- If a girl loves you, she easily gets nervous whenever she is in your presence. When you speak to her, you will feel the nervousness in her voice, which will show as a shaking, quavering voice.
- When you ask her to take something for you, you will notice her hands shaking visibly.
- For a girl who sweats a lot, she will sweat more than usual and you will notice her mopping up the sweat which collects on her face often with her handkerchief.
When you notice these signs every time a girl is around you, it must tell you she loves you.
8. Introduces You to Her Family
If a girl loves you, she will want you to know her parents and her siblings. This is to show that she accepts you and wants you to become a part of her family. When someone loves you, they care about you getting to know their family because they are anxious to show you off to their family, and to let their family accept you.
How to tell if a girl is in love with you is when she has the desire to make you meet her family.
9. She Will Want to Know Your Family
A girl who loves you will want your family to know her so that they can give her legitimacy which she can get when she is accepted into the family. If she loves you, she wants your family too to love her, and so she will do her best to get you to introduce her to your family.
How to know if she loves you is to notice her pestering you to introduce her to your family.
10. She Will Be Extremely Patient With You
If a girl is extremely patient with you, over and above the ordinary, it should tell you she loves you. When you do something that normally would get any girl annoyed, she will be calm and take it coolly because she loves you and does not want to have a fight with you.
When you hurt her emotionally, she will be patient and give you another chance because her feelings for you are deep. This is how to tell if she loves you or not.
If a girl behaves this way towards you, it must tell you she loves you, and you must not take advantage of her feelings for you, and continue to hurt her.
11. She is Particularly Kind to You
A girl who loves you will go out of her way to show special kindness to you. She will treat you in a special way she may not treat even her family members or close friends and associates. For example, she may buy expensive gifts for you, gifts which will make you wonder how she got the money to buy them for you. That will tell you how highly she esteems you, and how precious she thinks you are to her.
She may cook your favorite meals for you and present them to you as a present, or ask you ways she can be of help to you. If she does these things often, she loves you, cares about you, and wants to help you. This is how to know whether she loves you or not.
12. She Comes to Like What You Like
One sure thing that can give you an indication that a girl loves you is when she aligns her interests with your interests. She does this because she wants both of you to have a common ground of interest, and also because she wants to please you. So, for example, if she hated reading, and you like reading, you will notice that she will develop an interest in reading because she knows when she does so, you will like her more, and also you will have a lot more things to talk about when you meet since you will now have identical interests.
How to know she loves you or not is to see if she tries to like what you like, which she does in an effort to impress you and win your favor.
13. She Will Include You in Her Decisions
When a girl loves you, she will trust you and your judgments, which will make her seek your opinion when she is making critical decisions that have serious implications for her life, such as travelling out of the country because she wants to go to school overseas, or if she wants to change course in school, or she wants to change schools. By valuing your input into her decision making, she is telling you that your opinion matters to her. When your opinion matters to a person, there is a possibility that person loves you.
How to know if she loves you is to checkout whether she seeks your opinions when she is making decisions.
When you can tell if she loves you, then if you want to have a relationship with her, reciprocate that love and make her fall for you. And when you treat her exceptionally, you can be sure that your relationship will last for a long time.
Do you have a girlfriend? How could you tell she loved you? Please let me know by leaving a comment. Thank you.