5 Smart Ways to Start a Text Conversation With a Girl

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How do you start a conversation with a girl you don’t know? How do you start a text conversation with a girl you just met? How do you start a conversation with a girl you know but whom you are not close to? How do you start a text conversation with a girl in high school? Or, what are some of the strategies you can use to start a text conversation with a girl you barely know?

In this article, I want to show you how to start a text conversation with a girl, and I am talking about the kind of conversation starters which will guarantee a response from her, so that you can start a friendship.

So, what strategies can you use?

 

1.     Ask Her An Open-Ended Question Instead Of Saying “Hi” Or “Hello”

One strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl you like is to ask her an open-ended question. Many girls have heard “hi” and “hello” so often that they are turned off when they see those two words. Therefore, to appear interesting and to increase the chances that she will respond to your text, ask her a probing question that she will find hard to reply to. That will help to build rapport so that you can kick-start a friendship.

For example, you may ask, “Beautiful, what are you doing at the moment?” or “What kind of sports do you like?” or “What type of music do you love listening to? Why?” or “You are very beautiful, but why do you avoid guys?” or “Who are you? I mean, I think you are a great girl and I want to know more about you…”

When she responds, ask her another open-ended question and continue with this strategy and the conversation will flow.

 

2.     Give Her A Compliment

Another strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl by text is to let her feel that you appreciate who she is.

You need to be creative when you are complimenting a girl through text message because she may have received a lot of compliments from other guys who may be interested in her.

How? A girl a guy approaches to compliment when they are in school or in class will feel special and flattered because it  is possible that no guy may have approached her to tell her that she is beautiful. However, when it comes to text messages, many guys, even shy guys who may be afraid of talking to her face-to-face, can easily gather courage to send text messages to girls. As a result, she may have received lots of compliments.

So, remind yourself of how she looks and any features or characteristics that set her apart from all other girls, such as her hair-color, her smile, the way she walks, the way she relates to others in her class and so on, and give her an original, unique compliment that no other guy can give to her apart from you.

You may say something such as, “Queen, I saw you walking from class to the library yesterday and I must say I loved the way you moved your body. I also think you have the best smile in the whole wide world—only you can produce that wonderful smile.”

 

3.     Let Her Know That You Have Interests In Common

Talk about some of the things which you love doing, and which you know she loves doing too. For example, if you love watching soccer, ask her about her impressions of an exciting match you watched recently. You may ask, “What do you think of Accra Great Olympics’ 2-0 win over Kumasi Asante Kotoko?” Or, if you love music, you may ask, “I listened to Don Moen’s latest album and I must say the songs on it are so soul-inspiring. What do you think about his latest album?”

When you let the girl know that you also love what she likes, she will know that you can have very interesting conversations in the future and that will give her a reason to respond—she may feel motivate to reply to your message.

 

4.     Use These Words In Your Early Texts

Using certain words can increase the chances that the girl will respond to your text. Words such as, “I am outgoing…”, “I am fun to be with…”, “I am an optimistic guy…”, “I am intelligent…”, “I am understanding…”, “I am caring…” will make the girl feel that she can have a loving and interesting relationship with you and that may make her more willing to respond to your text.

 

5.     Share A Joke With Her

One strategy you can use to start a conversation with a girl is to send her something funny, share a funny story about yourself, or say something that will make her laugh.

Using this strategy will make her see that she will have a lot of fun with you if she replies to the message, or it may make her like you and that may motivate her to send you a message so that you can start a friendship.

Additionally, sharing a joke will rouse curiosity and make her feel that you are an intriguing guy, which is one of the things most ladies like about guys.

 

Conclusion

To start a text conversation with a girl, ask her an open-ended question which she will find irresistible to answer. Additionally, let her feel special, let her know that both of you share common interests, use certain words which will make her feel that she can have a loving friendship with you, and use humor to make her know that you can help to lighten her day when she is down and she will be more willing to respond to your text.

 

 

 

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6 Smart Ways to Start a Conversation With a Woman

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How do you start a conversation with a woman at the gym? How do you start a conversation with an attractive or beautiful woman? How do you start a conversation with a woman you don’t know? How do you start a conversation with a woman you like but whom you are not very friendly with? What are some of the things you can do to start a conversation with a woman for the first time? Or, how do you have an emotional or fun conversation with a woman?

In this article, I want to show you how to start a conversation with a woman so that you can build rapport with her and make her your friend.

Now, what strategies can you use?

 

1.    Approach Her With Confidence

Walk towards her with your shoulders straight, with a straight gait, and with a smile on your face. Women generally like confident guys and she is likely to be receptive if you show that you are a bold guy who believes in himself.

Additionally, the smile will make you look friendly and nice and it will make her feel that you will be easy to relate to, which may influence her to listen to whatever you will say to her.

Furthermore, try to compose yourself and be cool, calm, collected. After greeting her, pause for about 10 seconds before you say anything to her. It will make her wonder what you are going to say next, you will create suspense in her mind, which will make you seem intriguing and interesting, and she would want to hear what you want to say to her so you will get her full attention when you start speaking.

 

2.    Let Her Know That There Is A Time Constraint

Many women do not want to feel trapped in an awkward conversation with a guy she may not know too well. However, you can make her put her mind at rest so that she will be willing to open up or you can make her feel comfortable so that she will feel inclined to act in a friendly manner, if you let her know that the conversation will not take too long.

Accordingly, you may say something such as, “I was on my way to see this friend of mine when I saw you. Before I go to see him, I want to find out from you…” She will feel that the conversation will end in no time and that can make her feel relaxed to engage you in a friendly conversation.

 

3.    Compliment Her

Most women love to be appreciated for their beauty, sense of fashion, their attractive body, the way they speak, the way they walk, or for their character.

Therefore, you may start a conversation with a woman by appreciating her for her personality or for how she looks. It will make her spirit swell and, consequently, positive feelings will be generated in her body and she may desire to say or do something good for you in return and that will increase her capacity for relating, which will make her willing to respond when you ask her questions.

Additionally, complimenting her will make her feel connected to you, she may feel that you like her, and she may want to explore the possibility of developing a close relationship with you.

So, you may say something such as this to her, “Hello! Wow! What a great dress you have on! It makes you look exquisitely immaculate. And I saw the way you walked into the room? You’ve got some great moves! But I must say your beauty far surpasses the beauty of your clothes! Trust me you look terrific! By the way, I am Isaac…”

 

4.    Ask Her Open Ended Questions

These kinds of questions require some amount of elaboration and so they will make her talk at length, which will give you an opportunity to get a lot of information from what she says which you can use to ask her follow up questions so that you can prolong the conversation.

Open- ended questions begin with “Why?” “Where?” “How?” “What?” “When ?” or “Who?”

Here are a few questions you may ask to start a conversation with a woman:

  • Where do you come from?
  • What do you do after school (work)?
  • How do you spend your leisure time?
  • What fun thing did you do last weekend?
  • Who is your favorite movie star/soccer star/fashion model/musician?
  • When you are happy/sad, how do you express it?
  • When do you like watching movies/having a conversation, reading books?
  • Why did you choose to wear the dress you are wearing?
  • Why did you do that hairstyle on your head?

Additionally, you may ask her these questions so that she can feel emotionally connected, which will make her feel more friendly and receptive.

 

5.    Encourage Her To Talk About Herself

When you ask her questions about her personal life, aspirations, dreams for the future, what her family is like, what makes her happy or sad and so on, it will make her happy that you are interested in her life and that may make her like you and so she will be willing to open up to talk to you.

 

6.     Be A Good Listener

Do not bombard her with questions, but ask a few questions and allow her to express herself. Whilst she is talking, listen with rapt attention, take note of interesting points she makes and ask her to tell you more about the things that intrigue you—a study has found that when you listen to someone and you try to find out more about what the person says, it can make that person like you.

 

Conclusion

To start a conversation with a woman, show her that you are a confident guy, let her feel that she will not engage in the conversation for a very long time and that there is a way of escape, compliment her for her physical looks or her character, ask her open-ended questions, let her talk about herself, and ask her to tell you more when she says something that you find interesting.

 

 

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8 Great Ways to Make Your Relationship Last Forever

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How can you make your relationship last? What are some things you must do if you want to make a relationship with your girlfriend last a lifetime? What are some strategies you can use to make a relationship last until marriage? And what are some ways to help your relationship to grow so that you can love each other better?

In this article, I will show you how to make your relationship last forever so that you can enjoy your girlfriend until you marry and, subsequently, until death parts you.

Now, make your relationship last with these 8 tips.

1.    Assume You Are Starting Your Relationship Afresh At The Beginning Of Every Month

At the end of every month, see your relationship as one that has expired and which needs renewal. Assume that in the next month you will be starting afresh with your girlfriend. Make plans to relate to her as though you had just met her by coming up with plans to keep the relationship exciting.

When you adopt this attitude, you will endeavor to keep the relationship interesting and intriguing every month. Consequently, your relationship will never become stale—you will be able to keep it exciting and entertaining always and that will make your girlfriend happy and she will be content to stay with you.

 

2.    Think Good Thoughts About Your Girlfriend Often

One of the secrets behind relationships that last is that the partners in those relationships focus on the good points of their partners.

So, do your best to focus on the positive qualities of your girlfriend, and the good things she does for you. When you do this, love feelings will come into your heart, you will always feel tender and affectionate towards her, which will help you to maintain the good will you have for her. As a result, the relationship bond will continue to be strong.

On the other hand, when you focus on the weaknesses and faults of your girlfriend, ill feelings will come into your heart, you may easily get irritated with her when she does something you don’t understand or when you have disagreements, and that can corrode the love between the two of you.

 

3.    Do Challenging Activities With Her Often

One exciting way of making your love last is to do things that will build your capacity to work as a co-operative couple. To do this, at the end of every week or once a month, engage in an activity that will test your endurance as a couple, as well as help you to work as a team.

For example, run together for a distance of 10 miles, go hiking over rough terrain in a forest, climb rocks together, or swim together. As you spend time with each other, you will get to understand your girlfriend better, you will understand how you can make her love you better and how to influence her to please you, and you will also get to know how to show her strong love and that can help you to relate to her in loving ways which will make her happy.

Furthermore, you will learn how to co-operate to solve problems and that will help you to resolve conflicts in your relationship better so that the stability of the relationship can be maintained. Additionally, it will give you time to interact, which will help you to strengthen your emotional bond. Consequently, your love for your girlfriend will grow.

 

4.    Have A Passion For Life

Men who live every day as though it is the last day of their life, who enjoy a day with enthusiasm, passion, and liveliness tend to carry that same passion and zest into their love lives.

When you enjoy each day and show that you are happy to be alive to see that day, it will fill you with positive energy, which will put you in a positive mood that can make you to relate to your girlfriend in loving ways. Consequently, you will be able to create a loving environment in which your girlfriend will feel content and appreciated and she will be happy to remain in the relationship.

 

5.    Maintain Positive Illusions About Your Girlfriend

According to a study conducted by the University of Geneva, when you continue to maintain positive illusions about your partner—when you continue to remind yourself every day that your girlfriend is the most beautiful girl in the world, when you remind yourself often that you think she is intelligent, when you remember that she is loving, caring, understanding and a great companion—you will continue to be happy with her, you will always feel good when you see her, and that can help you to continue feeling connected to her.

 

6.    Do New Things With Her Often

Boredom is one thing that kills relationships—when you don’t entertain your girlfriend well, or when you allow the relationship to get to the point where she will feel bored, she can get apathetic and seek excitement with another guy and that can spell doom for your relationship.

However, when you try new activities with her often, when you take her to places she has never visited before, when you do things with her which will help you to see another perspective of your relationship, when you engage in activities which will make her reveal sides to her personality you never knew, you will appreciate her better and that will make you treat her like a queen always.

Additionally, such activities will help to reignite the passion and love in the relationship again to keep it exciting.

 

7.    Maintain Trust And Honesty

One thing that destroys romantic relationships is the failure of some men to maintain the trust in a relationship—they do not communicate openly with their girlfriends, which leads to mistrust and disharmony.

Additionally, some men undermine a relationship with too many lies and they also fail to fulfill and honor promises they make to their girlfriends.

However, when you ensure that the channels of communication are always open, when you do your best to tell your girlfriend the truth always, when you keep your promises to your girlfriend, when you are worthy of trust, she will give you all the love in her heart, she will be willing to please you all the time and that can make your relationship grow stronger.

 

8.    Maintain Good Communication With Her

Spend at least 10 minutes each day discussing personal and emotional issues so that you can connect on a deeper emotional level, which will make your love for your girlfriend grow.

Furthermore, avoid keeping maltreatments by your girlfriend to yourself because it can breed resentment and discontent, which can weaken the stability of the relationship. Rather, talk to her openly about your concerns, and let her know when you are disappointed with her so that she can work on her weaknesses.

Use these strategies, and these techniques too, to maintain good communication to ensure there are no misunderstandings which can breed mistrust and resentment.

 

Conclusion

To make your relationship last forever, enter each month as though you are starting your relationship afresh, focus on the positive character of your girlfriend, do activities together that will help you to think as a team, be enthusiastic about life every day, do exciting things from time to time, and maintain  good communication always.

 

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Cute Things to Do With Your Girlfriend

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What are some cute things to do with your girlfriend to spice up your relationship? What are some of the things you can do to entertain your girlfriend so that she will feel happy in the relationship?

1.    Cook Together

Cooking together is one of the cute things to do with your girlfriend. Cooking with your girlfriend will help both of you to feel very connected as you talk whilst putting the meal together.

Furthermore, it will give you a chance to interact in a relaxed atmosphere which will go a long way to deepen the camaraderie in the relationship, as well as strengthen the rapport between both of you. Additionally, as you co-operate, as you agree to use this ingredient or that ingredient, as you agree to disagree, as you make compromises, you will both learn how to put your differences aside to focus on doing something together which will help you to communicate better in the relationship.

So, cook an exotic meal together with her. It will give both of you an opportunity to learn something new, which will breathe vitality and freshness into your relationship. Or, let your girlfriend cook a meal she loves but which you do not really enjoy so that you will learn how to compromise for the sake of your girlfriend.

 

2.    Create Your Own Love Song

Use some of the memorable events of your relationship or memorable things you have done for each other to create love songs. For example, you may use how you met each other, wonderful moments you have spent at exciting places or something your lover did to get you from trouble in the past to compose an emotional song that both of you will both love listening to time and time again. Play the musical instrument and let your girlfriend sing the lyrics when you are creating the song.

 

3.    Read Literature Together

Some studies suggest that reading literature can help you to understand other people better. Additionally, reading literature can help you to better empathize with people. Moreover, when you read, you can understand other people’s point of view better.

When you understand your girlfriend better, you will find it easier to compromise when there are disagreements so that you can maintain peace between the two of you.

Additionally, when you find it easier to empathize with her, you are more likely to treat her with love and tenderness, which will help to strengthen the bond of love between the two of you.

Furthermore, when you are able to see things from her point of view sometimes, it will help both of you to resolve conflicts amicably so that you can maintain the harmony and stability of your relationship.

So, make time to read love novels together. Put your smartphones off, cut yourself off from all distractions, and read to each other, analyze what you read together, reflect on what you read and remind yourselves of how you can use that knowledge to improve your relationship so that you can create intimacy between your girlfriend and yourself.

 

4.    Listen To Upbeat Music Together

Listening to cheery music together can help both of you to boost your moods. When you are happy and your lover is also happy, you will relate in loving, tender, caring ways to your partner and that can enhance peace, love, and harmony in your relationship.

Furthermore, it will infuse excitement and happiness into your relationship, which will increase the chances that your relationship may succeed.

 

5.    Exercise Together Frequently

Research suggests that partners feel excited about their relationship, and feel more affectionate towards their partner, when they exercise together.

Exercising together will help both of you to synchronize your feelings. Furthermore, it will encourage a spirit of co-operation in the relationship. Additionally, it will help both of you to aim towards having common goals, which can enhance unity in the relationship.

  • Therefore, join hands and go for a brisk walk for one hour.
  • Or, if your girlfriend is cute and lightweight, carry her on your back and walk around as she whispers sweet nothings into your ears.
  • Or, jog for 30 minutes through serene woods, settle down for a picnic, and talk about the future of your relationship.
  • Alternatively, throw tennis balls at your lover and let her try to catch it.

 

6.    Focus On The Good Qualities Of Your Lover

  • Write down 50 things you like about your partner and let her do likewise.
  • Exchange your lists and memorize the good things your girlfriend wrote about you.
  • Then quiz each other about some of the memorable things you have done to make each other happy in the past.

By doing this, you will focus on the positive sides of each other and that will help you to have positive thoughts about your lover.

Focusing on the positive this way will help you to magnify even the small, adorable traits of your lover which will help to deepen the goodwill you have for your partner and that will help you to maintain a healthy relationship.

 

7.    Watch A Foreign Movie

Rent a movie made on another continent or about another culture, settle in each other’s arms, and enjoy it together. It will afford you an opportunity to learn about other people and other cultures, which will broaden your horizon and help you to look at life and your relationship from a different perspective. Furthermore, you will learn about ways people of other cultures manage to sustain strong relationships, which will empower you with knowledge you can use to improve your relationship.

 

8.    Watch A Soccer Game Together

Dress in the jerseys of your favorite soccer teams and watch them on TV over bottles of smoothies and popcorn or whilst you eat your favorite meal together. On the other hand, buy tickets and go and watch a live game of the teams you love.

 

9.    Watch Humorous YouTube Videos

Go to YouTube and search for the funniest YouTube videos on that site. Compile a list of between 30 and 50 funny videos. Then, regularly, watch these videos together and laugh. It will induce positive feelings in both of you which will help to make you positively predisposed towards your partner—you will find it easier to forgive petty mistakes by your partner and you will relate to your partner with happiness in your heart.

 

10.                      Dance Together

Play a hot tune, grab the hand of your girlfriend, and dance with passion to the exciting rhythms. Tickle her as you dance, tease her, and create excitement to make it fun. You may choose to learn dances from other countries so that you can introduce novelty and fun into your dance sessions.

 

Conclusion

Some cute things you can do  with your girlfriend are to cook together, to create a memorable love song together, to read, listen to upbeat music or exercise together, or to watch funny videos so that you can always feel happy.

 

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Incorporate Me Into Your Relationship: How Involving God in Your Relationship Can Help to Make it Better

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Many young men and women overlook the fact that it is the Lord God Almighty who created romantic relationships, and that His help can make you have a wonderful relationship.
Through His word, the Bible, and in many different ways, He tells us, “Incorporate me in your life and in your romantic relationship, for because I am the originator of love relationships, I am the best Person to help you have a great romantic relationship.”
In this article, I want to share with you the advantages of acknowledging God in your romantic relationship.
Let us now take a look at some ways involving God in your romantic relationship can help you to have an absolutely incredible relationship.

1. God Will Keep Opportunists And Relationship Wreckers Away From Your Relationship
When You commit your relationship to the God of love, He brings His influence to bear in the relationship. God is described in Deuteronomy 32 v 11-12 as a Mother Eagle. A mother eagle spreads abroad her wings in order to protect and hide her young from an attack. With her wings, the mother eagle can drive off assailants and soar away with her young. In other words, she is so tender.
In just that same way, God will be tender towards you and your relationship, when you commit it to Him and invite Him to be a part of it. He will constantly shelter you with His strong presence and keep assailants, such as people who want to steal your partner away from you, away from your partner, if you ask Him to. This will give you peace of mind to enjoy your partner or mate.

2. God’s Influence On Your Relationship Can Help To Prevent Breakups
So many romantic relationship breakup when the relationship goes through strain. Partners start having frequent fights, that creates tension in the relationship, and finally the partners part ways when they can’t reconcile their differences.
However, God pities those who look to Him and involve Him in whatever they do. Father God senses tender love for lovers and couples who commit their lives and their relationship to Him.
He knows you are just clay and that you will sink under a heavy load. He knows that you can easily be broken under the pressure of severe trial. And so when your relationship is going through strain, if your lover or spouse is abusing you or making life hard for you, or if you are facing financial difficulties which is threatening to destroy your relationship, and you call on God, He will intervene to bring peace so that you can resolve differences, or He can make ways to provide for you. He is the God who makes 7,000 ways where there seems to be no way.
As a Father, He will inspire courage and fortitude in you to make you withstand any challenge that will come your way. Consequently, you can withstand hardship better, you can manage challenges better as a couple which will make your relationship resilient and able to stand the test of time.

3. God Is The “Mother” Who Will Comfort You And Give U Peace
God is the mother that comforts her children. One of the names for God is “El Shaddai”—a term which means “the breasted one.”
As a mother, He can bring comfort and peace to your heart when your lover or spouse is mistreating you.
Consequently, you will continue to maintain tranquility in your heart, you will maintain a sense of purpose, and you will continue to maintain order in your life, when your partner hurts you. Additionally, you will find it easier to ignore hurts and slights so that you keep working on your relationship to make it work.
On the other hand, people who do not involve God in their relationships are quick to revenge when their partner hurts them, this lead to fights which weaken those relationships.

4. Prayer Can Make Your Partner More Committed To The Relationship
One way you can involve God in your romantic relationship is to communicate with Him through prayer.
Research has revealed that praying for your partner or spouse can make him or her more committed to the relationship. A lover who is more committed to the relationship or marriage will devote more time to it, will treat you with love and respect, and will do all he or she can do to make the relationship work.
So, regularly, pray for your partner. You may pray a prayer such as, “Dear God, Glory be to Your Holy Name for helping me to meet Isaac. Father, I love Isaac a lot and I want our relationship to last until we marry, or until we die (if you are married). Please work on the heart and mind of Isaac so that he will continue to focus on this relationship. Let him continue to be dedicated to our friendship so that we can bond better as lover. Let him continue to be devoted to me and to this relationship, to sacrifice his time to have conversations with me, let him cheer me up when I am down, let him continue to give me gifts so that we can continue to create a healthy relationship. Lord, let him continue to love me. Help him to resist the advances of other women so that he will remain true to me. Let him continue to have the “we” feeling and not the “me” feeling. Help him to continue to cooperate with me to overcome the challenges that we will face so that we can build a robust love relationship that can withstand all the storms that we will face. Amen.”

5. Involving God In Your Relationship Through Prayer Can Make You Bond Better
Research has shown that when people pray together, they become nicer and also the feelings of camaraderie become stronger.
Consequently, praying can make you relate to your lover or spouse better. Additionally, you are more likely to trust your partner or spouse, and your partner will trust you better. Trust is one of the essential ingredients needed to “cook” a great relationship.
Besides, the rapport between the two of you will be strong, you will bond better and the love connection between the two of you will be very strong and that can lead to a happier, stronger relationship or marriage.
So, regularly, if you are dating, pray a prayer such as this with your partner, “Dear God, I thank you that I met Isaac. I thank You that You have kept us for all these years that we have been going out. Lord, we want our relationship to grow, we want to love each other more and more every day until we marry eventually. Please help us. Help us to remain true and faithful to each other. Help us to be able to resist the temptations to cheat that will come our way so that we can remain loyal o each. Help us to develop our friendship so that from day to day we will grow closer in love. And in this age where promiscuity is so rife, help us to resist the urge to commit fornication so that You will continue to love us and give us Your grace to help our relationship to work. Amen.”

6. Prayer If You Are Married
If you are married, pray a prayer such as this every day so that God will help your marriage to work, “Dear God, Heavenly Father, we thank you for your mercies and grace that are keeping us together every blessed day. Lord, You tell us in Your word that unless You build the house, we labor in vain if we try to build the house. Yes, Lord, we recognize that if You don’t help us to build this marriage, if You don’t protect us from evils influences, if You don’t teach us to forgive one another when we hurt each other, if You don’t teach us to love one another, especially when it is difficult to love our spouse, our marriage cannot stand the test of time. Father, please help us. Help us to continue to understand each other so that we can empathize with each other. Help us to continue to act with humility towards each other so that we can accommodate each other to strengthen the harmony in the marriage. Please help us to control our anger when we have disagreements so that the small quarrels will not escalate into big fights that may destroy the stability of this marriage. Help us to treat each other with respect and consideration. Help us to guard our hearts against destructive influences such as drugs and alcohol, so that we can maintain the peace in this marriage. We need You, Lord. Help us every day so that we can build a beautiful, lovely marriage to Your glory. Amen.”
Furthermore, you can easily infuse prayer into your day so that you can lift your partner before the Heavenly throne of grace for Divine intervention to take place.

7. Go To Church Together Regularly
Another way you can involve the Great Jehovah in your relationship or marriage is to go to church often. Research shows that going to church regularly can give you positive emotions.
Another study conducted by the Institute for Family Studies suggests that couples who attend church together relate to each other better than couples who do not go to church together regularly.
When you feel positive about yourself and about life, you are more likely to be cheerful. This will have a positive effect on your personality, make you more likeable and lovable, you will make the relationship more exciting, you will treat your lover or spouse with dignity and honor, and that can increase the chances that the relationship will be strong and healthy.
So, do not stay at home on Sundays. Resolve to spend that time in church so that you can experience the praise, worship, singing, dancing, and exultations that go on there. As you participate in the activities, as you worship Jehovah and sing to the glory of His name, and as you fellowship and interact with fellow church members, you will get tips which can help you to improve your relationship with your girlfriend, boyfriend, or spouse, your spirits will be lifted and all that will help to make you a better lover. Additionally, God will speak to you through the sermons about themes such as believing in Him so that you can be a secure person, you can be content with your partner, and you can persevere when challenges come, which will all go a long way to make your relationship work.

8. God Can Speak To You Through His Word, The Bible
Another way you can involve God in your romantic relationship or marriage is to make Bible reading together a habit. God speaks to us through the Bible. There are many passages in the Bible which teach about relationships and marriage, and which can help both of you work through problems in your relationship so that your romantic relationship will have a better chance of working.
• For example, 1 Corinthians 7 gives couples sex advice, Ephesians 5 v 21—23 teaches spouse how to relate to each other so that there will be harmony, peace, love, and joy in the marriage, and 1 Corinthians 13 teaches about how to love your partner.
• As you keep reading God’s word, He will mold you, just as a potter molds clay, and work on your hearts and minds so that you will cherish and treasure your partner or spouse a lot more. That will help you to communicate better in your relationship, you will resolve conflicts better, you will learn to live in fear of God, and you will reverence God which make you more willing to honor your marriage vows. Consequently, you will both be happy in the marriage and that will make you have a stronger marriage.
• If you are not married, involving God in your relationship by reading the Bible often as lovers and obeying His commandments, such as the commandment not to have casual sex, will help to make your relationship better—according to a study published in the Journal of Family Psychology published by the American Psychological Association, unmarried couples in relationships who delay having sex

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until they marry have a more stable relationship, are more satisfied in their relationship, and communicate better in their relationships than partners who have casual sex.

9. It Will Help You Resolve Conflicts Peaceably
When you cultivate spirituality as a couple or as lovers, you will surrender your hearts and your wills to God. That will increase your spiritual intimacy.
Consequently, God will rule in your hearts. Therefore, you will be able to act with kindness towards each other. So, you will find it easier to forgive your partner or spouse when there are misunderstandings during relationship conflicts—you will remain calm when your partner or spouse hurts you, you will pray about it so that you can control your temper before you react. This will help to prevent big fights that can tear your relationship apart.

10. God Will Give Both Of You Joy
One superb way God can influence your relationship positively is to put His Spirit in your hearts so that you can live a life of joy.
Joy will help you to have a calm, assured confidence in God, to trust in His love for you as a lovers or as a couple, and to know and feel that God will always be there in your relationship or marriage no matter what challenges you face. This will give you peace of mind so that you can enjoy each other.
Furthermore, this joy will make it easier for you to be selfless, to sacrifice for each other instead of seeking to preserve yourselves. You will desire to seek the comfort of your partner or spouse above your own comforts and that will make your partner feel happy and he or she will relate to you better.
Moreover, this joy will give you a submissive mind. That will make you think “my spouse deserves respect” instead of “I can treat my spouse any way I want.” You will seek the greater good of the relationship and not your own parochial interests and that will help to make your relationship healthy.
Besides, this joy will give you a secure mind. A secure mind will help you to remain calm under pressure when trouble strikes your relationship. So, you will not get easily frustrated and irritable, you will not get dissatisfied with your partner when hardships come, and that will help to maintain the stability in the relationship. Consequently, your love for each other may last a life-time.

11. God Will Help You To Get Your Self-Confidence Back When You Err—He Forgives Imperfect Spouses
One of the simple yet beautiful verses of the whole Bible is the phrase, “God is love.” God showed this love to the woman in John 8 who was caught in adultery— He forgave her for her sin.
Today, many spouses who have cheated on their spouses but have truly repented are crushed because they feel rejected as a result of words of scorn and ridicule poured on them by their spouses. This makes them have low-self esteem
Unlike your spouse who may judge you when you err, God will not judge you. Yes, He will let you know that you have sinned, but He will give you love and a refuge in His bosom, He will not condemn you, and He will give you a second chance, if you truly repent. This will help you to gain your self-esteem back so that you can try to win the trust of your partner back.

Conclusion
These are some of the ways God can help to make your relationship better or make it work. God says to us in many ways every day that, “Incorporate me into your relationship and I will use my Great Power to transform it so that it will be a relationship others will envy.”
Many others have taken up this challenge and are enjoying the positive fruits of working with God in their relationships every day.
If you are struggling to create a sustainable, enjoyable relationship, involve God in your relationship today and it will experience a positive transformation.

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How to Start a Text Conversation With a Girl

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How to Start a Text Conversation With a Girl

Kofi Amponsah has seen this gorgeous girl in school and he is attracted to her. Through one of his friends, he has been able to get the girl’s phone number and he wants to get to know the girl better so that he can date her.
“I feel strongly attracted to her and I want her to be my friend. But I have not been able to muster the courage to talk to her yet. So, I want to start something through the phone. How can a guy start a text conversation with a girl?” he asks.
Let us look at some ways you can start a text conversation with a girl you just met, with a girl you barely know, with a girl you know, or with a girl you like so that you can guarantee a response from her which will enable you to influence her to like you.

1. Begin With Something Interesting
Most guys will just say, “Hi. How are you? I think you are beautiful!” or “Hello dear, you look cute. I like you and I want to be your friend. Can we hook up?” or something like that. Using lines like these will make the girl think you are an unimaginative guy, a lazy guy, or an unromantic guy and that will put her off. Girls have heard these lines for centuries and they are not moved anymore when they hear such lines.
So, you have to be creative, and you have to sound interesting and exciting so that she will see that you will be interesting to converse with, if you want to start an interesting conversation with a girl via text.
For example, you may write something such as, “You know what, I have met a lot of girls in my life and I must say none of those girls compares to you in beauty. I want to get to know you more. Would you like to be my friend?” or “Imagine getting to know a guy who will treat you like the Queen of England, who will help you to deal with emotional challenges you may face, and who will be a friend you can count on. You would love that , wouldn’t you? Well, I am that guy! Want to know more about me?”

2. Ask Her A Question
Questions are great tools you can use to start a text conversation with a girl because they normally require a response. The girl may think that if she does not respond she will be seen as a rude girl and that may make her reply to your text so that you can keep the conversation flowing.
However, do not ask her a lot of close-ended questions. These types of questions require just a “Yes” or “No” answer and so they will not facilitate the conversation. Close- ended questions begin with “Do you…?” “Have you…?” “Is…?” “Am…?” “Are…?” Examples are, “Do you like books?” or “Is spring your favorite season?”
Rather, ask her a lot of open-ended questions. Open-ended questions start with “Who…?” “When…?” “What…?” “Why…?” “Where…?” “How…?” and they make the other person express himself or herself. Examples of these kinds of questions are, “What kinds of books do you like?” or “You said you like the spring season. Why do you like that season?”
Furthermore, here are a few questions you can ask her:
1. What do you do during your leisure time?
2. Who is your favorite movie star? Why?
3. Why do you like wearing yellow clothes?
4. When you grow up, what do you want to do for a living?
5. Where would you like to spend the next summer holidays?

3. Say Something That Is Relevant
Let the girl feel that there is a reason why you are texting her otherwise she may ignore your text. Therefore, talk about something that ties both of you together, such as something that you share in common or an event where both of you were present.
For example, if there is an upcoming speech and prize giving day, you might write, “Will you come to the upcoming Speech and Prize-giving event on Saturday alone? Would you mind going with me?” or “I saw you at the game between Accra Great Olympics and Kumasi Asante Kotoko. I never knew you liked soccer? How did you develop an interest in soccer? Who helped you to develop that interest?” or “It was great running into you at Yaa’s wedding. You looked absolutely incredible in that dress you wore. I would love to get one for my sister? Where did you buy it? Who designed it for you?”

4. Compliment Her
The girl is more likely to respond to your text if you compliment her on something specific which you honestly like about her. So, recall her physical features, her character, her behavior when she is in school, and pick three of her strongest points and use them to compliment her. This is the best way to start a text conversation with a girl you like!
For example, if you adore her for her beauty, her humility, her scintillating voice, honesty, the way she relates to people in your neighborhood, you may say, “Yaa, I think you are an adorable girl. I love the shape of your nose, the way you speak, and also the ways you speak in a humble tone when you are addressing elders. I have a lot to learn from you because I have struggles with trying to humble myself. Could you share with me how you manage to humble yourself?” When she sees that she can impart something into your life, that you are willing to learn something from her, she will feel that you are a humble guy and that may motivate her to reply to your message.

5. Talk About What She Likes
If you know her hobbies and passions, use them to create rapport. By doing this, you will make her more willing to open up to you.
So, for example, if you know she loves a popular Telenovella on TV, ask her what she thought about the way some of the characters in the TV show act, or what lessons she learnt after watching the last episode.
If she likes soccer, ask her about which country she thinks will win the upcoming world cup, which European soccer league she thinks is the best league in the world and so on.
By doing this, you will tell her that you are interested in the things she cares about and that you value her opinions and that can make her feel a bond between the two of you, which will increase the likelihood that she will want to be your friend.

6. Use Smileys
If you send only words, the words may not evoke memories of something funny you did when she was around you in the lab or something interesting you said when you were in class.
However, when the text message comes with a smiley, it may evoke admiration for something you did or said, something nice you may have done for her or her friend, and all these memories can generate pleasant sensations in her, which will make her more willing to respond to your message.
So, use this tool when you send her the text message. Add a smiley that shows a smiling face or a funny face so that the girl will get the signal that you are happy to connect with her because you think she is a great girl.

Things To Avoid
• Don’t harass her sexually. Don’t make sexual advances at her and don’t send nude pictures to her. Don’t forget that sending unsolicited nude pictures can get you into trouble—you can be arrested for distributing sexually explicit material, or for harassing her.
• Do not encourage her to send you nude pictures of herself. It can lead you to become addicted to watching nude pictures of girls and women and that can make you mess your life.
• Do not forward nude pictures that your friends send to you to her.
• Respect her and let her feel that you are an honorable guy who deserves respect.
• Do not gossip about other people to her.
• Do not just use this avenue as a way to get her into bed. Having casual sex can adversely affect your future relationships.

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How to Start a Conversation with a Woman

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How to Start a Conversation with a Woman

It can be hard to start a conversation with a woman, especially when you are a shy guy, when you don’t know the woman, or when you like the women. That is why some guys ask, “How do you start a conversation with a woman?”

In this article, I want to show you how you can start a conversation with an attractive woman for the first time, or how you can start a conversation with any woman, whether it is an unknown woman, a black woman, a woman on the internet, a woman on a dating site, or a woman at the gym.

Let us look at what you should do.

1.    Make Sure You Approach the Woman at the Right Time

If you want to have a fruitful conversation with a woman you are interested in or to whom you are attracted, ensure that you approach her when she is in a relaxed state. Avoid making your move when she is busy doing something important or when she is preoccupied.

Study the situation around her and look at her body language. If you see that she looks relaxed and comfortable and there is no one around her, make your move. Take in a deep breathe, wish yourself luck, and advance towards her.

2.    Introduce Yourself

The most important thing you must do when you want to start a conversation with a woman is to smile as you approach her. Let her see that you are a warm, friendly guy whom she has nothing to fear from. Approaching her with a serious look may make her misjudge you and , consequently, she may not want to talk to you.

Look confident by standing straight. Moreover, look into her eyes as you approach her. You can then say something such as, “Good afternoon. I am Isaac Nunoofio. I have been seeing you around. There is something about you I like. I just don’t know what it is. But, I want to find out. I want to get to know you. May I know your name?” This is how to start a conversation with a woman you just met.

3.    Shake Her Hand

Try to get her to shake hands with you. A study has shown that shaking the hands of people can make you feel happy. When you shake her hand and feel happy, you will approach the conversation in a positive mood. Therefore, you are more likely to sound interesting and that will make the woman enjoy her time with you better.

4.     Talk About What is Happening Around You

Use what is happening where you are to start a conversation with a woman.

  • If you are indoors, you may comment about the way the room has been painted. You may say something such as, “I really like the color that was used to paint this room. You know, I love cream. It’s my favorite color. What is your favorite color?” Ask a question at the end of your comment so that you can draw the woman into the conversation.
  • You may choose to comment about the people you see in the room. You may say something such as, “The guys and gals here are nice people. That is why I always come to this shopping mall. The service here is incredible. I have seen you here a number of times. Tell me, why do you come here?”
  • If you are outdoors, you may choose to comment about the weather and life. You may say something such as, “Today is a beautiful day and I want to meet beautiful people. The sunshine reminds me that I should be grateful I am alive. Don’t you love the weather?”
  • If you are in public transport, a train, or in an aeroplane, you may say something such as, “I get so bored when I have to travel. I am always wrapped up in my thoughts. It can feel really lonely at times. Do you feel the same way when you are travelling?” This is how to have a conversation with a woman you just met.

5.    Compliment Her

One thing you can do to start a conversation with a woman is to compliment her. Many women like to be appreciated  and will respond with delight when you compliment them.

You may say something such as, “I think you are a great team player. Your colleagues in the office talk a  lot about you and I am honored to meet you,” or “That was a great speech. You were concise, articulate, and very professional. I could learn a few things from you. Tell me, how do you do it?”

When you compliment the woman, you may make her more willing to open up and talk to you. Therefore, try to see how much you can notice about a woman , and then use one of those observations to start a conversation with a woman.

6.    Ask Her a Question

Asking a woman a question is a great way to start a conversation with a woman. Start your questions using the words “Who?”, “What?”, “When?”, “Why?”, “Where?” and “How?” Questions which start with these words make the respondent give some detail when he is responding.

Therefore, the woman will carry on with the conversation. Furthermore, you will get information from which you can ask her further questions so that you can prolong the conversation.

Here are some questions to start a conversation with a woman.

  1. What do you think of your supervisor?
  2. Who is your favorite female work colleague? Why do you like her so much?
  3. When do you hope to get married?
  4. I see you wearing blue dresses most of the time. Why do you like the color blue?
  5. Where do you hope to be in 20 years’ time?
  6. How do you think your future will shape up at the office?

 

7.    Talk About Her Interests

One of the ways to start a conversation with a woman is to use her hobbies to your advantage. Therefore, before you approach the woman, find out about her interests, hobbies, and passions. Then, when you start conversing with her, shift the conversation in the direction of her interests. This is how to keep a conversation with a woman.

For example, if you find out that she loves talking about fashion, learn what you can about clothes. After your initial remarks, start talking about clothes. This will make her find the conversation more engaging and she will be more willing to participate in the conversation with more liveliness. This will make it easier for you to invite her to have another conversation with you at another time.

8.    Ask Her About Her Family

Let the woman feel that you care about her by asking her about her brothers, sisters, and parents. Ask her if they are doing well. Then, talk about your family and share something about yourself. This is how to have a conversation with a woman you like. This is how to open up a conversation with a woman.

However, do not give away everything about yourself. Just say enough just to arouse her curiosity so that she will be willing to have another conversation with you at another time to get to know you better.

9.    Ask the Woman About Her Job

Find out about the kind of job she does, her responsibilities at work, her relationship with her work colleagues, and the frustrations she goes through every day at work. Sympathize with her and share similar frustrations you also go through at your workplace. Showing such solidarity will help you to bond with her and it may motivate her to share more about her life with you for she will see you both face similar struggles. This is how to start and hold a conversation with a woman.

10.Tell Her an Interesting Story

Women like to hear stories and that is why they love watching soap operas. Telling the woman a story will help you to grab her attention from the start so that you can engage her and keep the conversation going. This is how to have a fun conversation with a woman.

You may choose to tell her about something that happened to you or a funny story about how a guy and a woman met for the first time or some silly thing a guy did when he met a woman for the first time. Make the story as funny as possible so that you can make her laugh. It will make the woman see that you are an interesting guy and she would love to converse with you. Furthermore, you may choose to tell her about a funny movie you watched with her.

11.    Comment About Current Events

One great way to start a conversation with a woman is to talk about issues that are trending in your town or country. It is likely she may also know about these events and that will make it easier for the two of you to contribute to the conversation.

11. Talk About Things You Love

At certain times in the conversation, shift the discussion to things you are passionate about. For example, if you love soccer, talk about your favorite soccer team or about your favorite soccer star. This will fire you up and make you look lively which will make you look exciting. You may then ask the woman if she likes your passion and tell her about it if she doesn’t.

12. Talk About How That Particular Day Has Gone So Far

You may start a conversation with a woman by making general comments about how your day has treated you so far. For example, you may say, “I woke up today hoping to have a great day. You know, Thursday is the day on which I was born and so I love Thursdays. However, the day has been terrible so far. My cat scratched me when I wanted to give it a hug. I kicked a stone when I came out of the house in the morning. And my boss has been so demanding today. What about you? How has your day gone so far?”

13. Build on What She Says

When the woman answers one question, ask her another question based on the answer she gives you. Keep doing this so that you can prolong the conversation. Concentrate on what she says to you and make comments related to what she shares with you. Sigh when you have to, laugh at the right time, grunt convivially, and give encouraging remark such as, “Really? I never knew that!” or “Amazing! You are really incredible!” This is how to prolong a conversation with a woman.

14. Stay Focused

Keep your mind on the conversation and try to be curious about her life. In subtle ways, try to find out about her personality, the kind of women she moves with, the kind of men she likes going out with, her visions and plans for her life, how she spends her annual leave and so on. This will give you information which you can use to start subsequent conversations with her.

15. Use Pauses

Talk for periods of time, then give her an opportunity to contribute to the conversation too. Then break for a few seconds so that you can think about follow up questions, or so that you can strategize as to the direction in which to take the conversation.

For example, if you have been talking about her hobbies for about 5 minutes, pause, decide to shift the conversation to your hobbies, think about what you want to say about your hobbies, and then re-start the conversation, this time talking about the things you love.

End the Conversation on a Good Note

Inform the woman that you enjoyed the time you spent talking to her and getting to know her. Hint that you would love to have subsequent conversations with her to see if she also feels the way you do. Ask for her number and promise to call. Then wish her a good day, smile at her, and leave.

Conclusion

To start a conversation with a woman, you must try to make the approach great. If you do that and entertain her well, you may have the opportunity to date her. When you see that she loves you, and you show her you love her, you can make her fall in love with you, and keep her forever.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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